The story of our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her
Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, crying before the Day of Arafah
When it was the Day of Tarwiyah, people began Hajj
And they went to us
Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, waited throughout her menstruation
Perhaps she will purify herself before the Day of Arafah
But she was not cleansed, so she cried again
Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, entered upon her while she was crying
She complained to him about her situation
Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says
The day of Arafah caught me while I was menstruating and had not completed my Umrah
Then the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, came to me while I was crying
He said, “What makes you cry?” I said, “I wish I had not gone out this year.”
So I complained about this to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
He said, “Leave your Umrah, complete your head, and comb your hair, and allow me to perform Hajj.”
And do what Muslims do during their Hajj
So I did. Jaber bin Abdullah, may God be pleased with them, said
Then we performed the Ihram on the Day of Tarwiyah
Then the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, entered upon Aisha, may God be pleased with her
He found her crying
He said: What is your business?
She said that I had menstruation
The people were permitted to enter, but I was not permitted and did not circumambulate the Kaaba
People go to Hajj now
He said that this is something that God has decreed for the daughters of Adam
So wash yourself and then make me eligible for Hajj
So I did and the positions stopped
Even when she is pure, she circumambulates the Kaaba, Safa, and Marwa
This second crying is different from the first crying
The first crying was because she had her period before performing the age
The second crying was because she had entered Hajj and had not purified herself
This is a warning to husbands and women’s guardians
That they take into consideration the woman’s psychology if she menstruates during Hajj or elsewhere
And they should strive to solve the problem that she faces due to menstruation
How should you behave if you have not purified yourself before Arafat?
The waiting for our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, continued until the night of Arafat
She was not in a hurry, so she abandoned her Umrah from the beginning of the day on the day of Tarwiyah
Rather, I waited until time ran out
Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, said
When the night of Arafat entered
I said, O Messenger of God
I was worthy of Umrah
So how do I make my argument?
He said
Get your head down and cry
I will refrain from Umrah and my family will perform Hajj
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, ordered her to wash herself for ihram
It is performed for Hajj and is called Umrah
That is, you should abandon the rituals of Umrah, such as Tawaf and Sa’i, and perform Ihram for Hajj
What is beautiful is the biography of our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her
As soon as she heard the order from our Prophet Muhammad, may God bless him and grant him peace
However, it was quickly implemented without controversy
Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says
I was still menstruating until the day of Arafah
I only entered Ihram for Umrah
So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, ordered me to comb my head and comb it
I will perform Hajj and abandon Umrah
So I did that
This is the biography of the mothers of all believers
And the biography of the Companions, male and female companions
They respond to the command of God and the command of His Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace
They do not avoid performing the rituals and look for concessions
Rather, their eyes were on the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
Look what he does
And they do the same
This is a warning to you, my dear sister
To be your motto during Hajj
The saying of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
Take your rituals from me
Perhaps you will not argue with us after this argument
So this argument is your only argument
It is a justified argument
Do as the Hajj does
However, do not circumambulate the House until you are pure
This is the guidance of our Prophet Muhammad, may God bless him and grant him peace
To our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her
When she had her period during Hajj
A menstruating woman was prohibited from circumambulating the House while in ihram
She was not prevented from witnessing the rest of the feelings
Rather, she was ordered to do as the Hajj does
And Hajj works
Combined with remembrance, fulfillment, and supplication
Menstruating women were not prevented from doing any of that
Dhikr includes reading the Qur’an
It is for the work of the pilgrim
A menstruating woman in ihram was not prevented from reading the Qur’an
Neither the Talbiyah nor the Tahlil
Neither from prayer nor from anything else
Except for circumambulating the Kaaba
So, my dear sister, do not deprive yourself of reading the Qur’an
Under the pretext that you are menstruating
Not during Hajj, not during Ramadan, or at any other time
Rather, it is more than reading the Qur’an and dhikr
Take advantage of the good times and days
And obey the command of your Lord
By abandoning prayer, fasting, and circumambulating the House during menstruation
A wise move by our mother Maimuna, may God be pleased with her
On the day he knew him
After the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, prayed
Noon and afternoon
Head to the rocks
And put it between him and the kiss
He stood on his camel praying for a long time
This is a long stand
Make people complain
Was the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace?
Fasting first
Maymunah, may God be pleased with her, was not safe from us
However, I sent him a milkmaid
He is standing in the position
So he drank from it while the people watched
And you mean milkmaid
It is dairy milk
Or the vessel in which milk is placed
And this behavior
It occurred from her and her sister, Umm al-Fadl bint al-Harith
As she told it herself
That people disagreed on the Day of Arafat
In the fasting of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
Some of them said
He is fasting
Some of them said
Not fasting
So I sent him a cup of milk
He was standing on his camel
So he drank
Perhaps it was a single incident
I fell in the presence of them all
And in this behavior
Evidence of their acumen
In exploring the legal ruling
In this gentle way
Appropriate condition
Because it was a free day
In the afternoon
The reason why people disagree about the fast of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
Or his breakfast on the day of Arafah
What knowledge they had before
They learned it from the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
On the virtue of fasting on the day of Arafat
And it expiates two years
So they complained
Is this for Hajj?
Also or not
The reason for this doubt
They did not see the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
He eats or drinks after the noon prayer
And until the middle of the afternoon prayer
Our mother, Maymouna, cut off any doubt
And I reached the verdict
In a nice way
So I sent him the milk in a mug
When he drank it
People knew that
He was not fasting
And so is my sister Hajja
You can bring the legitimate ruling
The controversy surrounding Hajj was interrupted
Or change it in a beautiful way
Communicate the legal ruling to those around you
It brings reassurance to their hearts
Don't make them angry
An honest woman is not executed
A way to convey the truth to people
It may be a question addressed to the world
Or a book distributed
Or other means