Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her. Aisha, please allow me to worship my Lord
Education by example is one of the most important methods of education
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was the greatest role model for his family and for Muslims in general
Therefore, God Almighty commanded us to punish him, saying:
You have in the Messenger of God a good example for those who hope in God and the Last Day and remember God often
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, is the most God-fearing of this nation and the one who fears Him most, Glory be to Him
His worship showed this fear and piety
Whoever wants to worship God Almighty will not find a better way than the way of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, in worshiping his Lord.
The worship of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was not limited to one of the seasons of worship, such as Ramadan, for example
Rather, his worship of God is permanent and in all his circumstances
If a man wants to raise his family to obey God, he will find no better way than to be obedient to God in secret and knowledge.
He is a good role model, so his actions precede his words
A man should not think that the eyes of his family, including his wife and children, have overlooked him
She sees him and watches him while he does not feel it, and the effect of this on them appears, even after a while
The story of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, with his wife Aisha is an example of these beautiful examples
In which it appears that the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, turned to worship and left a warm bed
It also shows that his wife Aisha, may God be pleased with her, monitored him in his worship of his Lord
Which influenced her later life
Ata bin Abi Rabah says
I entered with Abdullah bin Omar and Ubaid bin Omair to see Aisha, may God be pleased with her, while she was in her room
She said: Who are these people?
We said Abdullah bin Omar and Ubaid bin Omair
She said, O Ubaid bin Umair, you are, as the first one said, Zaragba, and you are increasing in love
Ibn Omar said, “Let us stop this falsehood of yours.”
Tell us the most amazing thing you saw from the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
She cried intensely
Then she said everything about him was a wonder
He came to me one night as I entered my bed
He entered with me until his skin stuck to my skin
Then he said, O Aisha, permit me to worship my Lord Almighty
She said: I said, O Messenger of God
I love your closeness and your love
She said, so he got up and went to his house
He performed ablution and then read the Qur’an
Then he cried until I thought his tears had reached his limit
Then he sat down and prayed and cried until I thought his tears had reached his throat
Then he lay on his right and placed his right hand under his right cheek
Then he cried until I thought his tears had reached the ground
Then Bilal came to him after giving the call to prayer and greeted him
When he saw him crying, he said, O Messenger of God
You cry, and God has forgiven you for your previous and future sins
He said: Why should I not cry when it was revealed to me tonight?
In the creation of the heavens and the earth and the difference between night and day
The verse: Woe to whoever reads it and then does not think about it
Woe to you, Bilal, for not being a grateful servant
Narrated by Al-Tahawi in Mushkil Al-Athar
We notice the great literature of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
In seeking permission from his wife Aisha, may God be pleased with her
To pray and worship God
This request for permission comes because it is Aisha's time
He is designated for her from his day and night, may God bless him and grant him peace
With the rest of his wives
If she misses that night
She will wait until her night comes in ten days
One of his manners was to be strict, may God bless him and grant him peace
To ask her permission to leave her bed
Devote yourself to worshiping your Lord
This is a lesson for the man
In the etiquette of dealing with the wife and the times he allocates to her
These are not times for emergency appointments with people
Or his phone calls
Which does not find a place in his schedule
Unless he asks her permission, and she permits him with love
As Aisha, may God be pleased with her, did
She will not allow him love
Unless this action on his part is rare
And his respect for her times is often
Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
It gives us another lesson in the type of work
The one who wastes his family's time for his sake
It is worship to God
Worshiping God is constant and at all times
But the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
We learned that our Lord has a right over us
And our husband is truly upon us
And our guest is truly upon us
We are commanded to give everyone his right
This is all worship to God
We also notice Aisha's selflessness
Because the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, loves him
From standing up to worship
Because she loves being close to him
And enjoy it
This is the altruism of Aisha
It stems from what she saw as a balance
In the life of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
With her and near her
When he asked her permission for some of her time
I gave him permission
This happens to every couple
He achieved balance with his wife
As we see from the story
The accuracy of Aisha’s monitoring, may God be pleased with her
To worship the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
She did not sleep and leave him
He worships God
Rather, I observed him in how he was worshiped
This observation affected her life
Later in her increased worship
After the death of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
That's an eloquent lesson
Which we all need
From this prophetic story
With our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her
It is that etiquette that is derived
From the biography of our Prophet Muhammad, may God bless him and grant him peace
And follow him in it
By worshiping in rituals
Without the social interaction aspect
With wife and children
Asking such a story
As it is in the statement of crying
Of fear of God and worship of God
At night, thank you for the blessings
This also applies to the statement of marital rights
And etiquette of dealing with the wife
How Aisha described her condition
With the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, saying it
He stuck his skin to my skin
She did not mention it in vain
But it is an important part of the story
It has its meaning
It is also part of the biography of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
With his wives
We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds
Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her