WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.200 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 00:00:05.169 --> 00:00:08.050 Conclusion from Al-Tabari’s interpretation 00:00:08.589 --> 00:00:12.750 It was summarized by Dr. Aqeel bin Salem Al-Shammari 00:00:13.919 --> 00:00:16.000 Surah Al-Baqarah 00:00:17.839 --> 00:00:22.800 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 00:00:23.390 --> 00:00:29.870 Mothers breastfeed their children for two full years 00:00:29.870 --> 00:00:34.429 For those who want to breastfeed 00:00:34.750 --> 00:00:42.750 It is the duty of his child to provide for them and clothe them in a reasonable manner 00:00:43.070 --> 00:00:47.469 No soul is burdened with more than it can bear 00:00:47.789 --> 00:00:54.140 A mother does not harm her child 00:00:54.140 --> 00:00:57.340 He has no son born to him 00:00:57.579 --> 00:01:00.539 And the heir does the same 00:01:00.859 --> 00:01:11.180 If he wants a separation based on mutual consent and consultation, then there is no blame on them 00:01:11.500 --> 00:01:19.900 If you want to breastfeed your children, there is no blame on you if you greet them 00:01:20.219 --> 00:01:27.019 If you deliver what you were given with kindness 00:01:27.340 --> 00:01:35.980 And fear God and know that God sees what you do 00:01:37.010 --> 00:01:41.329 Women who have left their husbands and have children 00:01:41.650 --> 00:01:45.650 They are more entitled to breastfeeding than others for two years 00:01:45.969 --> 00:01:49.090 She was not obligated to breastfeed her child 00:01:49.489 --> 00:01:55.090 It is the duty of the fathers of the boys to be nursed to provide them with what they need 00:01:55.329 --> 00:01:57.730 From food, restaurant and clothing 00:01:57.890 --> 00:02:00.609 What is necessary for a woman like her 00:02:00.930 --> 00:02:05.250 No soul can bear anything except that which does not restrict it 00:02:05.569 --> 00:02:09.169 It is not impossible for her to have him if she wanted to 00:02:09.569 --> 00:02:15.650 Men are not obligated to spend anything except what they can afford and find a way to do 00:02:15.969 --> 00:02:18.770 A mother does not harm her child 00:02:19.090 --> 00:02:22.849 She refused to breastfeed him because it would be difficult for his father 00:02:23.330 --> 00:02:29.250 The father should not harm his son by preventing his mother from breastfeeding him to make her sad 00:02:29.569 --> 00:02:36.449 The newborn has the same duty as his father, who provided for his mother and clothed her with kindness 00:02:36.770 --> 00:02:38.770 If she is one of those in need 00:02:39.250 --> 00:02:41.889 Even if she is a wealthy and healthy person 00:02:42.289 --> 00:02:46.449 It is similar to what his father was entitled to in terms of the reward for breastfeeding him 00:02:47.009 --> 00:02:53.090 If the father and mother of the newborn want to wean their child from milk within two years 00:02:53.409 --> 00:02:57.490 With the consent of his birth father and consultation between them 00:02:57.810 --> 00:02:59.569 There is nothing wrong with them 00:03:00.129 --> 00:03:06.849 And if you want to breastfeed your children from wet nurses other than their mothers, if their mothers refuse 00:03:07.330 --> 00:03:13.250 There is no blame on you for breastfeeding them if you deliver what you have been given in a reasonable manner 00:03:13.889 --> 00:03:18.370 And if you want to breastfeed your children until they are fully breastfed 00:03:18.849 --> 00:03:22.530 You and their mother did not agree on their separation 00:03:23.009 --> 00:03:25.330 And you did not see that as part of their goodness 00:03:25.810 --> 00:03:32.449 There is no blame on you for breastfeeding them regularly if their mothers refuse to breastfeed them 00:03:32.849 --> 00:03:35.330 May or may not be due to them 00:03:35.810 --> 00:03:44.610 If you hand over to their mothers and to the breastfeeding women in the afterlife their rights which you gave them with generosity and kindness 00:03:44.930 --> 00:03:48.449 And abandoning stinginess and injustice in what is necessary for the wet nurse 00:03:49.009 --> 00:03:53.409 And fear God regarding the rights imposed on some of you over others 00:03:53.889 --> 00:03:59.810 And they knew that God sees and knows the deeds you do 00:04:00.050 --> 00:04:02.050 Nothing is hidden from him 00:04:06.740 --> 00:04:21.139 They leave wives to wait by themselves for four months and ten days 00:04:21.540 --> 00:04:36.740 If we have reached their term, there is no blame on you for what they do to themselves in a reasonable manner 00:04:37.220 --> 00:04:41.220 God is Aware of what you do 00:04:42.540 --> 00:04:47.180 And those of you who die and leave behind wives 00:04:47.660 --> 00:04:52.620 They keep to themselves, neglecting their husbands, perfume, and adornments 00:04:53.100 --> 00:05:00.139 The move away from the dwelling in which we lived during the lives of our husbands was four months and ten days 00:05:00.779 --> 00:05:05.819 Unless they are pregnant, they should wait until they give birth 00:05:06.540 --> 00:05:12.939 When we reach the deadline for fulfilling their number and the four months and ten days have passed 00:05:13.339 --> 00:05:18.939 There is no blame on you, O saints, for what they did to themselves at that time 00:05:19.500 --> 00:05:25.019 Who put on perfume and clothing and move from the dwelling in which we used to frequent 00:05:25.579 --> 00:05:29.980 And they marry according to what God has permitted them to do and made permissible for them 00:05:30.540 --> 00:05:36.620 I swear by God, what do you do, O saints, in the matter of whomever of your women is your guardian? 00:05:37.100 --> 00:05:41.019 He is experienced and knowledgeable and nothing is hidden from him 00:05:43.279 --> 00:05:50.560 There is no blame on you for what he proposed to you in terms of proposing to women 00:05:51.040 --> 00:05:57.439 Or were you within yourselves? 00:05:58.240 --> 00:06:02.720 God knew you would remember them 00:06:03.199 --> 00:06:07.040 But don't date them secretly 00:06:07.279 --> 00:06:16.079 But do not date them secretly unless you say something kindly 00:06:16.560 --> 00:06:22.959 And do not decide on the marriage contract until the prescribed period has been fulfilled 00:06:23.519 --> 00:06:31.360 And know that God knows what is in your souls, so beware of Him 00:06:31.360 --> 00:06:38.480 And they knew that God is Forgiving, Forbearing 00:07:02.459 --> 00:07:07.339 If you do not resolve to tie the knot until the prescribed time has been reached 00:07:07.819 --> 00:07:15.339 God knew that you would mention the transgressors in their number by engaging in yourselves and on your tongues 00:07:15.819 --> 00:07:20.540 But it is forbidden for you to date them together in number 00:07:20.939 --> 00:07:24.459 That one of you says to one of them during her waiting period 00:07:24.939 --> 00:07:27.019 I have married you to myself 00:07:27.339 --> 00:07:30.060 But wait for your waiting period to expire 00:07:30.639 --> 00:07:36.319 So he asks her, with that statement, to enable her to join and engage in sexual intercourse on her own 00:07:36.720 --> 00:07:38.399 So God forbade that 00:07:38.959 --> 00:07:41.600 But say something kindly 00:07:42.000 --> 00:07:45.199 This is what allowed him to expose himself to the engagement 00:07:45.680 --> 00:07:50.160 And do not correct the marriage knot in the waiting period of a woman who is observing the waiting period 00:07:50.560 --> 00:07:55.439 So make her obligatory between you and them until her waiting period has expired 00:07:55.920 --> 00:08:01.040 Then the term that God has postponed in His Book for its expiration will be reached 00:08:01.519 --> 00:08:03.199 And know, people 00:08:03.519 --> 00:08:08.160 God knows what is in your souls of their desires and their marriage 00:08:08.560 --> 00:08:11.600 So beware of God and fear Him in yourselves 00:08:11.920 --> 00:08:14.560 That you do something that he has forbidden you to do 00:08:14.879 --> 00:08:17.040 From the determination of their marriage knot 00:08:17.360 --> 00:08:20.399 Or dating them, the secret is their number 00:08:20.879 --> 00:08:25.839 They knew that God has a cover for the sins of His servants 00:08:26.240 --> 00:08:32.559 What men’s souls are experiencing, such as engaging in transgression and other sins 00:08:33.120 --> 00:08:39.039 Merciful and patient, He does not hasten His servants to punish them for their sins 00:08:50.850 --> 00:09:03.809 They provide for the generous person what he deserves and for the one who borrows according to what he deserves 00:09:04.289 --> 00:09:07.730 Truly for the benefactors 00:09:08.129 --> 00:09:13.279 There is no blame on you if you divorce your wives unless you have intercourse with them 00:09:13.679 --> 00:09:16.480 Or they owed them an obligatory dowry 00:09:16.480 --> 00:09:24.559 And give them what they enjoy from your money over your destinies and your homes of singing and frugality 00:09:25.120 --> 00:09:30.879 Provide them with what God has commanded you to give them 00:09:31.360 --> 00:09:35.120 Without injustice or defending them from you 00:09:35.519 --> 00:09:41.120 So provide them with provision with a kindness that is due upon everyone among you who is benefactor 00:09:46.820 --> 00:10:04.179 Enjoy them before you touch them, and you have given them an obligation, and half of what you have given them 00:10:04.659 --> 00:10:12.340 Unless they pardon or the one in whose hand the marriage contract pardons 00:10:12.659 --> 00:10:29.299 To forgive is closer to piety, and do not forget the kindness between you. Indeed, God sees what you do 00:10:30.340 --> 00:10:32.740 There is no blame on you, people 00:10:33.139 --> 00:10:42.419 If you divorce women unless you have intercourse with them, and you have returned to them an obligation, then they are entitled to half of what you returned to them. 00:10:42.899 --> 00:10:48.179 Unless he pardons the women, they are required to pay half the obligatory duty, and they leave it to you 00:10:48.580 --> 00:10:52.019 And they forgive you for his kindness in doing so 00:10:52.580 --> 00:10:59.620 Or the husband who has the marriage contract in his hand pardons himself in every case before and after the divorce 00:11:00.100 --> 00:11:02.100 He befriends them 00:11:02.659 --> 00:11:09.379 Forgiving one another after separating from one another will bring you closer to fearing God 00:11:09.940 --> 00:11:15.220 And do not neglect, O people, to take advantage of one another 00:11:15.700 --> 00:11:20.580 But a divorced man should respect his wife before policing her 00:11:20.899 --> 00:11:25.460 Then he will complete her dowry for her, if he did not give her all of it 00:11:25.940 --> 00:11:29.620 Even if he had given her everything that was imposed on her 00:11:29.940 --> 00:11:34.019 Let him kindly pardon what is due to him, which is half of it 00:11:34.659 --> 00:11:39.620 If the man is stingy with it and refuses to return half of it to her 00:11:40.100 --> 00:11:47.299 The divorced woman should kindly return all of it to him if she had received it from him 00:11:47.779 --> 00:11:51.220 If you did not receive it, then you will be forgiven for all of it 00:11:51.860 --> 00:11:59.299 Indeed, God, in what you do, which He has enjoined upon you to pardon and favor some of you over others, is a possessor of insight 00:11:59.779 --> 00:12:02.500 None of this is hidden from him 00:12:02.980 --> 00:12:05.539 Rather, He counts it for you and preserves it 00:12:05.860 --> 00:12:09.539 So that he may reward the benevolent person among you for his benevolence 00:12:09.860 --> 00:12:13.059 And this is your insult for his insult 00:12:13.870 --> 00:12:22.110 Maintain the prayers and the middle prayer and stand obedient to God 00:12:23.019 --> 00:12:28.059 Perform the prescribed prayers at their appointed times and adhere to them 00:12:28.460 --> 00:12:30.139 And the afternoon prayer 00:12:30.539 --> 00:12:33.019 And stand up to God therein, obediently 00:12:33.419 --> 00:12:35.899 By leaving each other's words in it 00:12:36.299 --> 00:12:39.659 Except reading the Qur’an or mentioning God 00:12:40.139 --> 00:12:43.820 Not disobeying God in it by neglecting its limits 00:12:44.799 --> 00:12:48.720 If you fear, then on foot or mounted 00:12:49.200 --> 00:12:57.679 When you are secure, remember God as He taught you what you did not know 00:12:58.860 --> 00:13:04.700 If you fear an enemy, you will fear him when you meet them, and pray standing 00:13:05.259 --> 00:13:09.740 They sent men on foot while you were in your war 00:13:10.379 --> 00:13:13.100 Or we rode on the backs of your animals 00:13:13.659 --> 00:13:16.940 If you are secure from your enemy, you will be at peace 00:13:17.340 --> 00:13:20.299 So remember God in your prayers and in other matters 00:13:20.779 --> 00:13:22.299 With thanks and praise to Him 00:13:22.779 --> 00:13:27.820 Praise him for the success he has been blessed with in achieving the truth 00:13:28.220 --> 00:13:30.539 From which your enemies have gone astray 00:13:31.019 --> 00:13:35.419 And he will teach you its rulings, what is permissible and what is forbidden 00:13:36.059 --> 00:13:42.139 And those of you who die and leave behind wives 00:13:42.620 --> 00:13:52.299 They leave behind wives as a bequest to their wives for a year without taking them out 00:13:52.779 --> 00:14:01.980 If we leave, there is no blame on you for what we do to ourselves 00:14:02.539 --> 00:14:05.899 God is Mighty, Wise 00:14:06.960 --> 00:14:11.360 And those of you, O men, who die and leave behind wives 00:14:11.919 --> 00:14:17.440 God has decreed for their wives that you have a duty as a provision for them, O believers 00:14:17.919 --> 00:14:21.840 Don't you take them out of their husbands' homes for a while? 00:14:22.639 --> 00:14:27.679 If we leave their husbands’ homes before the year has passed, on their own behalf 00:14:28.240 --> 00:14:34.480 There is no blame on the guardians of the dead if they leave and abandon mourning for their husbands 00:14:35.039 --> 00:14:38.480 Then God abolished maintenance with the verse of inheritance 00:14:39.039 --> 00:14:42.559 He allowed them to live for four months and ten days 00:14:43.039 --> 00:14:46.559 On the tongue of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:14:47.389 --> 00:14:51.710 God is mighty in His vengeance on those who disobey His commands and prohibitions 00:14:52.110 --> 00:14:55.230 It exceeds its limits for men and women 00:14:55.789 --> 00:15:00.509 Wise in what He has judged among His servants of His rulings and decrees 00:15:01.789 --> 00:15:10.509 Divorced women have the right to enjoy what is right upon the righteous 00:15:11.700 --> 00:15:13.700 And for those women who have been divorced 00:15:14.340 --> 00:15:17.220 Absolutely, enjoyment that you enjoy 00:15:17.700 --> 00:15:19.860 Of clothes, clothing, and expenses 00:15:20.340 --> 00:15:23.700 Or a servant and anything else he enjoys 00:15:24.340 --> 00:15:28.259 Enjoy a favor that is right for everyone among you 00:15:28.740 --> 00:15:33.620 From the pious who fear God in His commands, prohibitions, and limits 00:15:42.429 --> 00:15:45.629 I also explained to you what you need for your husbands 00:15:46.190 --> 00:15:49.149 And your wives are bound to you, O believers 00:15:49.629 --> 00:15:53.870 And I made known to you My rulings and the rights owed to one another 00:15:54.429 --> 00:15:59.710 Likewise, I will explain to you all the rulings in the verses that I revealed 00:16:00.190 --> 00:16:03.870 That you may understand and understand what is necessary for you among my statutes 00:16:04.350 --> 00:16:08.590 And through this you will know what is good for your religion and your world 00:16:08.990 --> 00:16:14.269 So learn by it and receive my great reward in your time