1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:04,620 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 2 00:00:04,620 --> 00:00:07,960 The story of Maryam bint Imran 3 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:10,419 Peace be upon her 4 00:00:10,419 --> 00:00:15,519 Don't be sad, Mary 5 00:00:15,519 --> 00:00:21,929 God's care for Mary 6 00:00:21,929 --> 00:00:25,429 She did not stop at choosing the place of birth 7 00:00:25,429 --> 00:00:28,929 Rather, it surrounded her on all sides 8 00:00:28,929 --> 00:00:31,230 When Mary said: 9 00:00:31,550 --> 00:00:33,750 I wish I had extended before this 10 00:00:33,750 --> 00:00:37,350 And I was forgotten 11 00:00:37,350 --> 00:00:40,380 May God speak from her consolation 12 00:00:40,380 --> 00:00:42,619 He called her from below 13 00:00:42,619 --> 00:00:44,380 Don't be sad 14 00:00:44,380 --> 00:00:48,079 Your Lord has placed a secret under you 15 00:00:48,079 --> 00:00:51,320 Ibn Jarir Natabari, may God have mercy on him, said 16 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:53,840 We have the first of two opinions regarding this 17 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:55,619 Who said it? 18 00:00:55,619 --> 00:00:59,179 Who called her son Jesus 19 00:00:59,179 --> 00:01:01,840 This is because it is a metaphor for mentioning it 20 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:04,840 Closer to him than the mention of Gabriel 21 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:07,599 Return it to the one who is closest to him 22 00:01:07,599 --> 00:01:11,670 It is better than his response to the one who is farthest from him 23 00:01:11,670 --> 00:01:14,629 Al-Shanqiqi, may God have mercy on him, said 24 00:01:14,629 --> 00:01:16,790 Show my two opinions 25 00:01:16,790 --> 00:01:20,370 The one who called her was her son, Jesus 26 00:01:20,370 --> 00:01:23,590 Two pieces of evidence indicate this 27 00:01:23,590 --> 00:01:24,989 The first 28 00:01:24,989 --> 00:01:28,329 The pronoun refers to the nearest male 29 00:01:28,329 --> 00:01:30,989 Except for clear evidence of that 30 00:01:30,989 --> 00:01:33,189 You must refer to it 31 00:01:33,189 --> 00:01:35,129 The closest thing is mentioned in the verse 32 00:01:35,129 --> 00:01:37,489 He is Jesus, not Gabriel 33 00:01:37,489 --> 00:01:39,489 Because God said 34 00:01:39,489 --> 00:01:40,829 So I got pregnant 35 00:01:40,829 --> 00:01:42,590 I mean Jesus 36 00:01:42,590 --> 00:01:44,390 So I renounced him 37 00:01:44,390 --> 00:01:46,129 That is, through Jesus 38 00:01:46,129 --> 00:01:48,090 Then he said after him 39 00:01:48,090 --> 00:01:49,790 So he called her 40 00:01:49,790 --> 00:01:52,730 What appears and comes from the context 41 00:01:52,730 --> 00:01:54,859 It's Jesus 42 00:01:54,859 --> 00:01:56,959 And the second presumption 43 00:01:56,959 --> 00:02:00,620 When she brought it to her people, she carried it 44 00:02:00,620 --> 00:02:02,879 And they told her what they said 45 00:02:02,879 --> 00:02:05,819 She motioned to Issa to talk to him 46 00:02:05,819 --> 00:02:08,319 As God Almighty said about it 47 00:02:08,319 --> 00:02:10,319 She pointed to him 48 00:02:10,319 --> 00:02:15,159 They said: How can we talk to someone who was a boy in the cradle? 49 00:02:15,159 --> 00:02:18,060 And she pointed to him so that they could talk to him 50 00:02:18,060 --> 00:02:21,180 Evidence that it was known before that 51 00:02:21,180 --> 00:02:22,919 He speaks 52 00:02:22,919 --> 00:02:24,879 As a violation of custom 53 00:02:24,879 --> 00:02:28,240 For calling out to her when she gave birth 54 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:30,800 Other scholars went 55 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:35,139 Until the one who called her was Gabriel, peace be upon him 56 00:02:35,139 --> 00:02:38,039 Whichever of the two statements is correct 57 00:02:38,039 --> 00:02:42,180 The lesson of the event is what we want from the story 58 00:02:42,180 --> 00:02:46,479 The one who called her from below forbade her from being sad 59 00:02:46,479 --> 00:02:47,639 And sadness 60 00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:51,139 It is an expression of what happens when something bad happens 61 00:02:51,139 --> 00:02:54,270 Or the loss of a loved one in the past 62 00:02:54,270 --> 00:02:57,189 Mary's grief is of the first type 63 00:02:57,189 --> 00:02:59,870 It is her fear of what will be said about her 64 00:02:59,870 --> 00:03:01,629 When her people met her 65 00:03:01,629 --> 00:03:04,259 She is carrying her newborn 66 00:03:04,259 --> 00:03:05,539 But 67 00:03:05,539 --> 00:03:08,099 Why did he forbid her from being sad? 68 00:03:08,099 --> 00:03:11,250 Can you not be sad? 69 00:03:11,250 --> 00:03:15,949 The psychological situation that Mary, peace be upon her, was going through 70 00:03:15,949 --> 00:03:18,389 It wasn't easy 71 00:03:18,389 --> 00:03:21,389 However, he forbade her from being sad 72 00:03:21,389 --> 00:03:27,550 Which means that a woman can overcome the sorrows that befall her 73 00:03:27,550 --> 00:03:31,490 Because of the pain you go through in life 74 00:03:31,490 --> 00:03:36,710 Because if she did not have the ability to overcome the stage of grief 75 00:03:36,710 --> 00:03:38,919 What he ordered her to do 76 00:03:38,919 --> 00:03:42,860 Although sadness is a natural thing that occurs in the soul 77 00:03:42,860 --> 00:03:45,580 But it can be treated 78 00:03:45,580 --> 00:03:48,840 Muhammad Rashid Reda, may God have mercy on him, said 79 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:50,219 If it is said 80 00:03:50,219 --> 00:03:55,819 Sadness is a natural pain that a person experiences when he loses what he loves 81 00:03:55,819 --> 00:03:58,219 It is not optional 82 00:03:58,219 --> 00:04:01,219 How did God Almighty forbid it? 83 00:04:01,219 --> 00:04:02,520 We said 84 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:04,520 It is forbidden to be sad 85 00:04:04,520 --> 00:04:10,919 What is meant by it is to prohibit the necessary things that many people do voluntarily 86 00:04:10,919 --> 00:04:14,120 It is the driver of that pain 87 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:18,620 And renewed for him and far away the period of consolation 88 00:04:18,620 --> 00:04:23,220 Its opposite is the burden of tasks that occupy the soul 89 00:04:23,220 --> 00:04:27,819 It distracts her from remembering and thinking about what she was sad about 90 00:04:27,819 --> 00:04:31,620 With the hope and satisfaction of God Almighty 91 00:04:31,620 --> 00:04:35,420 These actions are physical and psychological 92 00:04:35,420 --> 00:04:37,920 And it's just psychological 93 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:40,670 Or just physical 94 00:04:40,670 --> 00:04:42,569 Relying on sadness 95 00:04:42,569 --> 00:04:48,370 It may lead to other matters that exceed the limits of God Almighty 96 00:04:48,370 --> 00:04:51,069 And abstention from good deeds 97 00:04:51,069 --> 00:04:56,170 The mind is preoccupied with bad expectations that dominate the heart 98 00:04:56,170 --> 00:04:58,170 And it increases in sadness 99 00:04:58,170 --> 00:05:05,870 This leads to stopping thinking about a way out of the pain that the grieving woman is experiencing 100 00:05:05,870 --> 00:05:09,470 Therefore, the Sharia did not praise sadness 101 00:05:09,470 --> 00:05:11,670 Rather, it came to prohibit it 102 00:05:11,670 --> 00:05:18,970 Sharia takes into account human nature in its sensitivity to pain and sorrow 103 00:05:18,970 --> 00:05:25,370 A woman was permitted to mourn a dead relative for only three days 104 00:05:25,370 --> 00:05:28,970 Then she returns to her normal life 105 00:05:28,970 --> 00:05:32,569 It does what is legally required of it 106 00:05:32,569 --> 00:05:37,819 Emptying the heart of sadness that paralyzes good deeds 107 00:05:37,819 --> 00:05:41,620 There are many sorrows that afflict women 108 00:05:41,620 --> 00:05:46,720 She can overcome it by looking at the bright sides around her 109 00:05:46,720 --> 00:05:49,680 What God gave her 110 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:51,579 God Almighty said 111 00:05:51,579 --> 00:05:55,680 He called her from underneath her, “Don’t be sad.” 112 00:05:55,680 --> 00:05:59,439 Your Lord has placed a secret under you 113 00:05:59,439 --> 00:06:03,839 He is the one who called her from below and forbade her from being sad 114 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:07,639 Draw her attention to God's blessings upon her 115 00:06:07,639 --> 00:06:09,240 He said to her 116 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:12,639 Your Lord has placed a secret under you 117 00:06:12,639 --> 00:06:15,839 Taher bin Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said 118 00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:21,139 That is, your condition is a state worthy of joy without sadness 119 00:06:21,139 --> 00:06:24,899 Because of its divine dignity 120 00:06:24,899 --> 00:06:28,399 Among this is the divine dignity of Mary 121 00:06:28,399 --> 00:06:32,199 This river that flows between her hands 122 00:06:32,199 --> 00:06:35,170 Al-Shanqiqi, may God have mercy on him, said 123 00:06:35,170 --> 00:06:37,569 Show my two opinions 124 00:06:37,569 --> 00:06:41,370 That secret in the verse is the small river 125 00:06:41,370 --> 00:06:44,170 The evidence for this is two things 126 00:06:44,170 --> 00:06:48,170 One of them is the Qur’an from the Qur’an 127 00:06:48,170 --> 00:06:50,170 So God Almighty said: 128 00:06:50,170 --> 00:06:51,970 Eat and drink 129 00:06:51,970 --> 00:06:55,769 Evidence that this is food and drink 130 00:06:55,769 --> 00:06:59,370 This is what gratitude was mentioned in his saying 131 00:06:59,370 --> 00:07:02,670 Your Lord has placed a secret under you 132 00:07:02,670 --> 00:07:07,569 And he said, “Paps of fresh dates will fall on you.” 133 00:07:07,569 --> 00:07:10,269 And so is what God Almighty says 134 00:07:10,269 --> 00:07:15,970 And We sheltered them in a hill with a place of stability and a certain place 135 00:07:15,970 --> 00:07:18,769 Because the source is running water 136 00:07:18,769 --> 00:07:22,470 It appears that it is the secret table 137 00:07:22,470 --> 00:07:24,269 In this verse 138 00:07:24,269 --> 00:07:27,290 God Almighty knows best 139 00:07:27,290 --> 00:07:29,189 And in this gesture 140 00:07:29,189 --> 00:07:33,189 A nod to every woman who experiences grief 141 00:07:33,189 --> 00:07:36,790 To pay attention to the blessings of God that surround you 142 00:07:36,790 --> 00:07:40,189 In the same calamity that saddened her 143 00:07:40,189 --> 00:07:43,189 Many of us do not pay attention to whiteness 144 00:07:43,189 --> 00:07:46,180 In the blackness that surrounds him 145 00:07:46,180 --> 00:07:49,379 The reference begins with the presence of water 146 00:07:49,379 --> 00:07:51,779 About Mary, peace be upon him 147 00:07:51,779 --> 00:07:53,879 But in her hands 148 00:07:53,879 --> 00:07:57,379 An indication of the importance of water to her 149 00:07:57,379 --> 00:08:02,209 This importance is not limited to drinking from it 150 00:08:02,209 --> 00:08:04,410 People need water 151 00:08:04,410 --> 00:08:08,410 Much greater than their need for food 152 00:08:08,410 --> 00:08:12,310 Especially in the situation of Mary, peace be upon him 153 00:08:12,310 --> 00:08:15,509 She is in postpartum state after giving birth 154 00:08:15,509 --> 00:08:19,610 It needs to clean itself with water constantly 155 00:08:19,610 --> 00:08:24,310 She also needs to clean her newborn with water 156 00:08:24,310 --> 00:08:28,610 She also needs it to drink and quench her thirst 157 00:08:28,610 --> 00:08:33,509 And to cool herself and her newborn from the heat of the sun 158 00:08:33,509 --> 00:08:37,110 And other people's needs for water 159 00:08:37,110 --> 00:08:41,509 This is not the only blessing he referred to 160 00:08:41,509 --> 00:08:44,009 Who called her from below? 161 00:08:44,009 --> 00:08:46,710 But he started with the most important ones 162 00:08:46,710 --> 00:08:50,169 Then he followed it with another blessing 163 00:08:50,169 --> 00:08:53,970 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 164 00:08:53,970 --> 00:08:56,970 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds