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In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful

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The story of Maryam bint Imran

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Peace be upon her

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Don't be sad, Mary

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God's care for Mary

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She did not stop at choosing the place of birth

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Rather, it surrounded her on all sides

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When Mary said:

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I wish I had extended before this

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And I was forgotten

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May God speak from her consolation

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He called her from below

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Don't be sad

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Your Lord has placed a secret under you

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Ibn Jarir Natabari, may God have mercy on him, said

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We have the first of two opinions regarding this

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Who said it?

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Who called her son Jesus

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This is because it is a metaphor for mentioning it

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Closer to him than the mention of Gabriel

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Return it to the one who is closest to him

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It is better than his response to the one who is farthest from him

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Al-Shanqiqi, may God have mercy on him, said

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Show my two opinions

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The one who called her was her son, Jesus

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Two pieces of evidence indicate this

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The first

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The pronoun refers to the nearest male

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Except for clear evidence of that

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You must refer to it

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The closest thing is mentioned in the verse

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He is Jesus, not Gabriel

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Because God said

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So I got pregnant

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I mean Jesus

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So I renounced him

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That is, through Jesus

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Then he said after him

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So he called her

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What appears and comes from the context

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It's Jesus

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And the second presumption

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When she brought it to her people, she carried it

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And they told her what they said

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She motioned to Issa to talk to him

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As God Almighty said about it

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She pointed to him

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They said: How can we talk to someone who was a boy in the cradle?

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And she pointed to him so that they could talk to him

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Evidence that it was known before that

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He speaks

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As a violation of custom

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For calling out to her when she gave birth

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Other scholars went

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Until the one who called her was Gabriel, peace be upon him

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Whichever of the two statements is correct

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The lesson of the event is what we want from the story

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The one who called her from below forbade her from being sad

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And sadness

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It is an expression of what happens when something bad happens

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Or the loss of a loved one in the past

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Mary's grief is of the first type

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It is her fear of what will be said about her

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When her people met her

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She is carrying her newborn

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But

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Why did he forbid her from being sad?

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Can you not be sad?

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The psychological situation that Mary, peace be upon her, was going through

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It wasn't easy

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However, he forbade her from being sad

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Which means that a woman can overcome the sorrows that befall her

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Because of the pain you go through in life

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Because if she did not have the ability to overcome the stage of grief

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What he ordered her to do

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Although sadness is a natural thing that occurs in the soul

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But it can be treated

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Muhammad Rashid Reda, may God have mercy on him, said

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If it is said

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Sadness is a natural pain that a person experiences when he loses what he loves

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It is not optional

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How did God Almighty forbid it?

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We said

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It is forbidden to be sad

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What is meant by it is to prohibit the necessary things that many people do voluntarily

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It is the driver of that pain

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And renewed for him and far away the period of consolation

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Its opposite is the burden of tasks that occupy the soul

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It distracts her from remembering and thinking about what she was sad about

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With the hope and satisfaction of God Almighty

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These actions are physical and psychological

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And it's just psychological

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Or just physical

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Relying on sadness

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It may lead to other matters that exceed the limits of God Almighty

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And abstention from good deeds

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The mind is preoccupied with bad expectations that dominate the heart

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And it increases in sadness

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This leads to stopping thinking about a way out of the pain that the grieving woman is experiencing

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Therefore, the Sharia did not praise sadness

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Rather, it came to prohibit it

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Sharia takes into account human nature in its sensitivity to pain and sorrow

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A woman was permitted to mourn a dead relative for only three days

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Then she returns to her normal life

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It does what is legally required of it

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Emptying the heart of sadness that paralyzes good deeds

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There are many sorrows that afflict women

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She can overcome it by looking at the bright sides around her

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What God gave her

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God Almighty said

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He called her from underneath her, “Don’t be sad.”

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Your Lord has placed a secret under you

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He is the one who called her from below and forbade her from being sad

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Draw her attention to God's blessings upon her

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He said to her

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Your Lord has placed a secret under you

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Taher bin Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said

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That is, your condition is a state worthy of joy without sadness

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Because of its divine dignity

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Among this is the divine dignity of Mary

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This river that flows between her hands

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Al-Shanqiqi, may God have mercy on him, said

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Show my two opinions

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That secret in the verse is the small river

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The evidence for this is two things

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One of them is the Qur’an from the Qur’an

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So God Almighty said:

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Eat and drink

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Evidence that this is food and drink

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This is what gratitude was mentioned in his saying

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Your Lord has placed a secret under you

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And he said, “Paps of fresh dates will fall on you.”

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And so is what God Almighty says

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And We sheltered them in a hill with a place of stability and a certain place

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Because the source is running water

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It appears that it is the secret table

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In this verse

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God Almighty knows best

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And in this gesture

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A nod to every woman who experiences grief

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To pay attention to the blessings of God that surround you

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In the same calamity that saddened her

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Many of us do not pay attention to whiteness

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In the blackness that surrounds him

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The reference begins with the presence of water

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About Mary, peace be upon him

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But in her hands

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An indication of the importance of water to her

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This importance is not limited to drinking from it

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People need water

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Much greater than their need for food

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Especially in the situation of Mary, peace be upon him

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She is in postpartum state after giving birth

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It needs to clean itself with water constantly

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She also needs to clean her newborn with water

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She also needs it to drink and quench her thirst

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And to cool herself and her newborn from the heat of the sun

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And other people's needs for water

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This is not the only blessing he referred to

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Who called her from below?

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But he started with the most important ones

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Then he followed it with another blessing

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We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing

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Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds