1 00:00:00,850 --> 00:00:04,799 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 2 00:00:04,799 --> 00:00:12,039 The life of the predecessors between words and deeds 3 00:00:12,039 --> 00:00:16,379 The ancestor’s care for children 4 00:00:16,379 --> 00:00:20,600 Motivate them and do not despise them 5 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:27,190 Omar, may God be pleased with him, said one day to the companions of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 6 00:00:27,190 --> 00:00:30,690 As you see this verse was revealed 7 00:00:30,690 --> 00:00:34,689 Would any of you want to have Paradise? 8 00:00:34,689 --> 00:00:37,719 They said God knows best 9 00:00:37,719 --> 00:00:39,719 Omar got angry 10 00:00:39,719 --> 00:00:44,759 So he said, “Say we know or we don’t know.” 11 00:00:44,759 --> 00:00:47,759 Ibn Abbas, may God be pleased with him, said 12 00:00:47,759 --> 00:00:51,759 There is something in me about it, O Commander of the Faithful 13 00:00:51,759 --> 00:00:56,820 Omar said, “My brother, speak up and do not despise yourself.” 14 00:00:56,820 --> 00:01:00,820 Ibn Abbas said: I gave an example of an action 15 00:01:00,820 --> 00:01:03,820 Omar said any work 16 00:01:03,820 --> 00:01:06,849 Ibn Abbas said to work 17 00:01:06,849 --> 00:01:09,849 Omar said to a rich man 18 00:01:09,849 --> 00:01:12,849 He works in obedience to God Almighty 19 00:01:12,849 --> 00:01:15,849 Then God sent Satan to him 20 00:01:15,849 --> 00:01:19,849 He committed sins until his deeds were drowned 21 00:01:19,849 --> 00:01:24,329 On the authority of Ibn Abbas, may God be pleased with him, what he said 22 00:01:24,329 --> 00:01:29,329 Omar, may God be pleased with him, used to bring me in with the sheikhs of Badr 23 00:01:29,329 --> 00:01:31,329 Some of them said 24 00:01:31,329 --> 00:01:36,329 Why did this boy interfere with us when we have children like him? 25 00:01:36,329 --> 00:01:40,400 He said: He is one of those you have learned 26 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:45,400 He said, “So he called them one day and invited me with them.” 27 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:49,400 He said, “And what I saw called me that day.” 28 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:52,400 Except to show them from me 29 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:55,400 He said, “What do you say about me?” 30 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:58,400 If God's victory and conquest come 31 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:03,400 I saw people entering the religion of God in droves 32 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:05,400 Until the end of the surah 33 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:07,459 Some of them said 34 00:02:07,459 --> 00:02:13,460 We are commanded to thank God and seek His forgiveness if we are granted victory and He grants victory to us 35 00:02:13,460 --> 00:02:15,460 Some of them said 36 00:02:15,460 --> 00:02:19,460 We don't know or some of them didn't say anything 37 00:02:19,460 --> 00:02:21,490 He said to me 38 00:02:21,490 --> 00:02:24,490 O Ibn Abbas, is that what you say? 39 00:02:24,490 --> 00:02:26,490 I said no 40 00:02:26,490 --> 00:02:29,490 He said: What do you say? 41 00:02:29,490 --> 00:02:34,490 I said it is the term of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 42 00:02:34,490 --> 00:02:36,490 God taught him 43 00:02:36,490 --> 00:02:41,620 If Nasrallah and conquest come, Mecca will be conquered 44 00:02:41,620 --> 00:02:43,620 That is a sign of your death 45 00:02:43,620 --> 00:02:46,620 So praise your Lord and ask His forgiveness 46 00:02:46,620 --> 00:02:49,620 He was repentant 47 00:02:49,620 --> 00:02:51,680 Omar said 48 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:56,259 I only know what she knows 49 00:02:56,259 --> 00:02:59,259 On the authority of Yusuf bin Al-Majshun, he said: 50 00:02:59,259 --> 00:03:02,259 Ibn Shihab, may God have mercy on him, told us 51 00:03:02,259 --> 00:03:05,259 Me, my nephew and my cousin 52 00:03:05,259 --> 00:03:07,259 We are young boys 53 00:03:07,259 --> 00:03:10,259 We ask him about the hadith 54 00:03:10,259 --> 00:03:14,259 Don't belittle yourself because of your new teeth 55 00:03:14,259 --> 00:03:18,259 Omar bin Al-Khattab, may God Almighty be pleased with him 56 00:03:18,259 --> 00:03:21,259 If a difficult matter befalls him 57 00:03:21,259 --> 00:03:24,259 Leave the young men and consult them 58 00:03:25,259 --> 00:03:30,210 Justice between them 59 00:03:30,210 --> 00:03:34,430 On the authority of Ibrahim, may God have mercy on him, he said: 60 00:03:34,430 --> 00:03:38,430 They preferred to treat their children equally 61 00:03:38,430 --> 00:03:41,879 Even in the kiss 62 00:03:41,879 --> 00:03:44,879 On the authority of Omar bin Abdul Aziz, may God have mercy on him 63 00:03:44,879 --> 00:03:47,879 He hugged Ben to him and loved him 64 00:03:47,879 --> 00:03:50,879 He said: O so-and-so 65 00:03:50,879 --> 00:03:53,879 I swear I wish I loved you 66 00:03:53,879 --> 00:03:59,319 I cannot give you any preference over your brother 67 00:03:59,319 --> 00:04:02,319 On the authority of Al-Hasan, may God have mercy on him, he said: 68 00:04:02,319 --> 00:04:05,360 If the teacher does not treat the boys equally 69 00:04:05,360 --> 00:04:10,400 Books from the dark 70 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:14,840 Marriage of sons and daughters 71 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:18,839 Asmaa bint Abi Bakr, may God be pleased with her, said 72 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:21,839 Marriage is slavery 73 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:24,839 Let one of you look at where his old woman lives 74 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:28,319 Saeed bin Al-Aas, may God be pleased with him, said 75 00:04:28,319 --> 00:04:31,360 If I teach my son the Qur’an 76 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:34,360 And his argument and his wife 77 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:37,360 You have fulfilled his rights 78 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:40,740 My right remains on him 79 00:04:40,740 --> 00:04:43,839 A man said to Al-Hasan, may God have mercy on him 80 00:04:43,839 --> 00:04:46,839 I have a daughter and she is getting engaged 81 00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:49,839 Who will I marry her to? 82 00:04:49,839 --> 00:04:52,839 Her husband said: He is one of those who fear God 83 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:55,839 If he loves her, he honors her 84 00:04:55,839 --> 00:04:58,839 And if he hates her, he does not wrong her 85 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:04,110 Have compassion and love for them 86 00:05:04,110 --> 00:05:07,589 And caress them 87 00:05:07,589 --> 00:05:10,589 Al-Baraa bin Azib, may God be pleased with him, said 88 00:05:10,589 --> 00:05:13,589 I entered with Abu Bakr, may God be pleased with him 89 00:05:13,589 --> 00:05:16,649 The first thing that came to the city 90 00:05:16,649 --> 00:05:19,649 So, Aisha, his daughter, may God be pleased with her 91 00:05:19,649 --> 00:05:22,649 She was hurting and had a fever 92 00:05:22,649 --> 00:05:25,750 Abu Bakr came to her and said to her 93 00:05:25,750 --> 00:05:28,750 How are you, son? 94 00:05:28,750 --> 00:05:31,750 And he kissed her cheek 95 00:05:31,750 --> 00:05:35,319 On the authority of Uqba bin Al-Harith, he said: 96 00:05:35,319 --> 00:05:38,319 I went out with Abu Bakr, may God be pleased with him 97 00:05:38,319 --> 00:05:41,319 From the afternoon prayer 98 00:05:41,319 --> 00:05:44,319 After the death of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 99 00:05:44,319 --> 00:05:47,319 Belial and Ali, may God be pleased with him 100 00:05:47,319 --> 00:05:50,449 He walks beside him 101 00:05:51,449 --> 00:05:54,449 He plays with boys 102 00:05:54,449 --> 00:05:57,449 So he carried him on his neck while saying 103 00:05:57,449 --> 00:06:00,449 My father resembled the Prophet 104 00:06:00,449 --> 00:06:03,449 Not like Ali 105 00:06:03,449 --> 00:06:06,709 He said and Ali laughed 106 00:06:06,709 --> 00:06:09,709 He was Ibn Omar, may God be pleased with him 107 00:06:09,709 --> 00:06:12,709 If he finds his son safe, he kisses him and says 108 00:06:12,709 --> 00:06:16,120 An old man kisses an old man 109 00:06:16,120 --> 00:06:19,120 On the authority of Abu Wathilah 110 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:22,120 She entered it finding his son Yazid 111 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:25,120 So he slept all night 112 00:06:25,120 --> 00:06:28,120 When it became 113 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:31,120 He was sent to Al-Ahn about Ibn Qays, may God have mercy on him 114 00:06:31,120 --> 00:06:34,120 So he came to him and when he entered upon him 115 00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:37,120 He said to him, O Abu Bahr 116 00:06:37,120 --> 00:06:40,120 How satisfied are you with your child? 117 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:43,220 And what do you say about the boy? 118 00:06:43,220 --> 00:06:46,220 He said so I said to myself 119 00:06:46,220 --> 00:06:49,220 Commander of the Faithful about this 120 00:06:49,220 --> 00:06:52,220 Except for Mujda, she entered upon Yazid 121 00:06:52,220 --> 00:06:55,220 Then some words came to me 122 00:06:55,220 --> 00:06:58,220 If I had been there for a year 123 00:06:58,220 --> 00:07:01,220 I would have come 124 00:07:01,220 --> 00:07:04,220 So I said, O Commander of the Faithful! 125 00:07:04,220 --> 00:07:07,220 They are the fruits of our hearts 126 00:07:07,220 --> 00:07:10,220 And the pillar of our appearance 127 00:07:10,220 --> 00:07:13,279 We are a humiliated land for them 128 00:07:13,279 --> 00:07:16,279 O Commander of the Faithful, land them 129 00:07:16,279 --> 00:07:19,279 And if they ask you, give them 130 00:07:19,279 --> 00:07:22,279 They love you and love you 131 00:07:22,279 --> 00:07:25,279 And they work hard 132 00:07:25,279 --> 00:07:28,279 And do not be a burden on them 133 00:07:28,279 --> 00:07:31,279 Give them only a little 134 00:07:31,279 --> 00:07:34,279 They get bored with your life and hate being close to you 135 00:07:34,279 --> 00:07:37,279 He said: God bless you, Ahnaf 136 00:07:37,279 --> 00:07:40,279 By God, I have sent to you 137 00:07:41,279 --> 00:07:44,279 My heart was filled with malice 138 00:07:44,279 --> 00:07:47,540 Some of the predecessors, may God have mercy on him, said 139 00:07:47,540 --> 00:07:50,540 Honor your son 140 00:07:50,540 --> 00:07:53,540 It is more worthy of blessing 141 00:07:53,540 --> 00:07:56,540 And whoever wishes, he can disobey his child 142 00:07:56,540 --> 00:08:01,459 Delivery to the boys 143 00:08:01,459 --> 00:08:05,740 On the authority of Othman, on the authority of Ibrahim, he said: 144 00:08:05,740 --> 00:08:08,740 I saw Ibn Omar, may God be pleased with him 145 00:08:08,740 --> 00:08:11,740 He passes by us when we are boys 146 00:08:12,740 --> 00:08:16,120 Thabet Al-Banani passed 147 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:19,120 May God have mercy on him with two boys 148 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:22,120 He greeted them 149 00:08:22,120 --> 00:08:25,120 And it happened fixed that it was 150 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:28,120 He walks with Anas, may God be pleased with him 151 00:08:28,120 --> 00:08:31,120 He passed by two boys and greeted them 152 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:34,120 It happened to Anas that it was 153 00:08:34,120 --> 00:08:37,120 He walks with the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 154 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:42,460 He passed by two boys and greeted them 155 00:08:42,460 --> 00:08:45,460 Flirting with boys and allowing them to play freely 156 00:08:45,460 --> 00:08:49,519 On the authority of Al-Hasan, may God have mercy on him 157 00:08:49,519 --> 00:08:52,519 He entered his house 158 00:08:52,519 --> 00:08:55,519 Two boys playing on top of the house 159 00:08:55,519 --> 00:08:58,519 A man with him forbade them 160 00:08:58,519 --> 00:09:01,519 Al-Hassan said, Leave them 161 00:09:01,519 --> 00:09:05,000 Playing is their spring 162 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:08,000 On the authority of Ibrahim Al-Nakha’i, may God have mercy on him, he said: 163 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:11,000 They gave the boys permission to play all the time 164 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:15,789 Except with dogs 165 00:09:15,789 --> 00:09:18,789 Caring for orphans and disciplining them 166 00:09:18,789 --> 00:09:23,000 On the authority of Abu Darda, may God be pleased with him, he said 167 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:26,000 Beware of the orphan's tears 168 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:29,000 And the call of the oppressed 169 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:32,000 They walk at night while the people are asleep 170 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:35,519 It was said to Ibn Sirin, may God have mercy on him 171 00:09:35,519 --> 00:09:38,519 I have an orphan 172 00:09:38,519 --> 00:09:41,519 He said, “Do to him what you would do to your son.” 173 00:09:41,519 --> 00:09:44,519 Hit him as you would hit your son 174 00:09:44,519 --> 00:09:48,029 On the authority of Farqad Al-Subkhi, may God have mercy on him, he said: 175 00:09:48,029 --> 00:09:51,029 He created a table 176 00:09:51,029 --> 00:09:54,029 The greatest honor of a table 177 00:09:54,029 --> 00:09:59,039 An orphan is fed on it 178 00:09:59,039 --> 00:10:03,360 Other benefits, Ibn Abbas said 179 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:06,360 May God be pleased with them in the Almighty’s saying 180 00:10:06,360 --> 00:10:09,389 And those who believe 181 00:10:09,389 --> 00:10:12,389 Their descendants followed them with faith 182 00:10:13,389 --> 00:10:16,419 He said 183 00:10:16,419 --> 00:10:19,419 The believer's offspring will be raised for him 184 00:10:19,419 --> 00:10:22,419 Even if it is less than him at work 185 00:10:22,419 --> 00:10:25,419 So God Almighty recognizes him 186 00:10:25,419 --> 00:10:28,679 He also said, may God be pleased with him 187 00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:31,769 In the Almighty's saying 188 00:10:31,769 --> 00:10:34,769 And those who say, “Our Lord, we have made fools.” 189 00:10:34,769 --> 00:10:37,769 From our wives and offspring is Qurrah 190 00:10:37,769 --> 00:10:40,769 Eyes, but it wasn't 191 00:10:40,769 --> 00:10:43,769 The joy of their eyes when they see it as true 192 00:10:43,769 --> 00:10:46,769 But nice to see 193 00:10:46,769 --> 00:10:49,769 Obedient to God Almighty 194 00:10:49,769 --> 00:10:53,159 Al-Hasan Al-Basri, may God have mercy on him, said 195 00:10:53,159 --> 00:10:56,159 In the Almighty’s saying, “We are fooled.” 196 00:10:56,159 --> 00:10:59,159 From our wives and offspring is Qurrah 197 00:10:59,159 --> 00:11:02,159 Eyes in obedience to God 198 00:11:02,159 --> 00:11:05,159 Nothing is more pleasing to the eyes of the believer 199 00:11:05,159 --> 00:11:08,159 Than to see his beloved in obedience 200 00:11:09,570 --> 00:11:12,570 Malik bin Dinar, may God have mercy on him, saw this 201 00:11:12,570 --> 00:11:15,570 A man who prays badly 202 00:11:15,570 --> 00:11:18,570 He said, “How merciful I am to his family.” 203 00:11:18,570 --> 00:11:21,600 He was told that this was bad 204 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:24,600 May his prayers and mercy be upon his family 205 00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:27,600 He said he was their eldest 206 00:11:27,600 --> 00:11:31,019 And from it they learn 207 00:11:31,019 --> 00:11:34,019 Ayoub Al-Sakhtiani, may God have mercy on him 208 00:11:34,019 --> 00:11:37,019 If he was congratulated on a baby, he said: 209 00:11:37,019 --> 00:11:40,019 May God bless you 210 00:11:40,019 --> 00:11:44,110 And upon the nation of Muhammad