WEBVTT 00:00:00.850 --> 00:00:04.799 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 00:00:04.799 --> 00:00:12.039 The life of the predecessors between words and deeds 00:00:12.039 --> 00:00:16.379 The ancestor’s care for children 00:00:16.379 --> 00:00:20.600 Motivate them and do not despise them 00:00:20.600 --> 00:00:27.190 Omar, may God be pleased with him, said one day to the companions of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:00:27.190 --> 00:00:30.690 As you see this verse was revealed 00:00:30.690 --> 00:00:34.689 Would any of you want to have Paradise? 00:00:34.689 --> 00:00:37.719 They said God knows best 00:00:37.719 --> 00:00:39.719 Omar got angry 00:00:39.719 --> 00:00:44.759 So he said, “Say we know or we don’t know.” 00:00:44.759 --> 00:00:47.759 Ibn Abbas, may God be pleased with him, said 00:00:47.759 --> 00:00:51.759 There is something in me about it, O Commander of the Faithful 00:00:51.759 --> 00:00:56.820 Omar said, “My brother, speak up and do not despise yourself.” 00:00:56.820 --> 00:01:00.820 Ibn Abbas said: I gave an example of an action 00:01:00.820 --> 00:01:03.820 Omar said any work 00:01:03.820 --> 00:01:06.849 Ibn Abbas said to work 00:01:06.849 --> 00:01:09.849 Omar said to a rich man 00:01:09.849 --> 00:01:12.849 He works in obedience to God Almighty 00:01:12.849 --> 00:01:15.849 Then God sent Satan to him 00:01:15.849 --> 00:01:19.849 He committed sins until his deeds were drowned 00:01:19.849 --> 00:01:24.329 On the authority of Ibn Abbas, may God be pleased with him, what he said 00:01:24.329 --> 00:01:29.329 Omar, may God be pleased with him, used to bring me in with the sheikhs of Badr 00:01:29.329 --> 00:01:31.329 Some of them said 00:01:31.329 --> 00:01:36.329 Why did this boy interfere with us when we have children like him? 00:01:36.329 --> 00:01:40.400 He said: He is one of those you have learned 00:01:40.400 --> 00:01:45.400 He said, “So he called them one day and invited me with them.” 00:01:45.400 --> 00:01:49.400 He said, “And what I saw called me that day.” 00:01:49.400 --> 00:01:52.400 Except to show them from me 00:01:52.400 --> 00:01:55.400 He said, “What do you say about me?” 00:01:55.400 --> 00:01:58.400 If God's victory and conquest come 00:01:58.400 --> 00:02:03.400 I saw people entering the religion of God in droves 00:02:03.400 --> 00:02:05.400 Until the end of the surah 00:02:05.400 --> 00:02:07.459 Some of them said 00:02:07.459 --> 00:02:13.460 We are commanded to thank God and seek His forgiveness if we are granted victory and He grants victory to us 00:02:13.460 --> 00:02:15.460 Some of them said 00:02:15.460 --> 00:02:19.460 We don't know or some of them didn't say anything 00:02:19.460 --> 00:02:21.490 He said to me 00:02:21.490 --> 00:02:24.490 O Ibn Abbas, is that what you say? 00:02:24.490 --> 00:02:26.490 I said no 00:02:26.490 --> 00:02:29.490 He said: What do you say? 00:02:29.490 --> 00:02:34.490 I said it is the term of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:02:34.490 --> 00:02:36.490 God taught him 00:02:36.490 --> 00:02:41.620 If Nasrallah and conquest come, Mecca will be conquered 00:02:41.620 --> 00:02:43.620 That is a sign of your death 00:02:43.620 --> 00:02:46.620 So praise your Lord and ask His forgiveness 00:02:46.620 --> 00:02:49.620 He was repentant 00:02:49.620 --> 00:02:51.680 Omar said 00:02:51.680 --> 00:02:56.259 I only know what she knows 00:02:56.259 --> 00:02:59.259 On the authority of Yusuf bin Al-Majshun, he said: 00:02:59.259 --> 00:03:02.259 Ibn Shihab, may God have mercy on him, told us 00:03:02.259 --> 00:03:05.259 Me, my nephew and my cousin 00:03:05.259 --> 00:03:07.259 We are young boys 00:03:07.259 --> 00:03:10.259 We ask him about the hadith 00:03:10.259 --> 00:03:14.259 Don't belittle yourself because of your new teeth 00:03:14.259 --> 00:03:18.259 Omar bin Al-Khattab, may God Almighty be pleased with him 00:03:18.259 --> 00:03:21.259 If a difficult matter befalls him 00:03:21.259 --> 00:03:24.259 Leave the young men and consult them 00:03:25.259 --> 00:03:30.210 Justice between them 00:03:30.210 --> 00:03:34.430 On the authority of Ibrahim, may God have mercy on him, he said: 00:03:34.430 --> 00:03:38.430 They preferred to treat their children equally 00:03:38.430 --> 00:03:41.879 Even in the kiss 00:03:41.879 --> 00:03:44.879 On the authority of Omar bin Abdul Aziz, may God have mercy on him 00:03:44.879 --> 00:03:47.879 He hugged Ben to him and loved him 00:03:47.879 --> 00:03:50.879 He said: O so-and-so 00:03:50.879 --> 00:03:53.879 I swear I wish I loved you 00:03:53.879 --> 00:03:59.319 I cannot give you any preference over your brother 00:03:59.319 --> 00:04:02.319 On the authority of Al-Hasan, may God have mercy on him, he said: 00:04:02.319 --> 00:04:05.360 If the teacher does not treat the boys equally 00:04:05.360 --> 00:04:10.400 Books from the dark 00:04:10.400 --> 00:04:14.840 Marriage of sons and daughters 00:04:14.840 --> 00:04:18.839 Asmaa bint Abi Bakr, may God be pleased with her, said 00:04:18.839 --> 00:04:21.839 Marriage is slavery 00:04:21.839 --> 00:04:24.839 Let one of you look at where his old woman lives 00:04:24.839 --> 00:04:28.319 Saeed bin Al-Aas, may God be pleased with him, said 00:04:28.319 --> 00:04:31.360 If I teach my son the Qur’an 00:04:31.360 --> 00:04:34.360 And his argument and his wife 00:04:34.360 --> 00:04:37.360 You have fulfilled his rights 00:04:37.360 --> 00:04:40.740 My right remains on him 00:04:40.740 --> 00:04:43.839 A man said to Al-Hasan, may God have mercy on him 00:04:43.839 --> 00:04:46.839 I have a daughter and she is getting engaged 00:04:46.839 --> 00:04:49.839 Who will I marry her to? 00:04:49.839 --> 00:04:52.839 Her husband said: He is one of those who fear God 00:04:52.839 --> 00:04:55.839 If he loves her, he honors her 00:04:55.839 --> 00:04:58.839 And if he hates her, he does not wrong her 00:04:58.839 --> 00:05:04.110 Have compassion and love for them 00:05:04.110 --> 00:05:07.589 And caress them 00:05:07.589 --> 00:05:10.589 Al-Baraa bin Azib, may God be pleased with him, said 00:05:10.589 --> 00:05:13.589 I entered with Abu Bakr, may God be pleased with him 00:05:13.589 --> 00:05:16.649 The first thing that came to the city 00:05:16.649 --> 00:05:19.649 So, Aisha, his daughter, may God be pleased with her 00:05:19.649 --> 00:05:22.649 She was hurting and had a fever 00:05:22.649 --> 00:05:25.750 Abu Bakr came to her and said to her 00:05:25.750 --> 00:05:28.750 How are you, son? 00:05:28.750 --> 00:05:31.750 And he kissed her cheek 00:05:31.750 --> 00:05:35.319 On the authority of Uqba bin Al-Harith, he said: 00:05:35.319 --> 00:05:38.319 I went out with Abu Bakr, may God be pleased with him 00:05:38.319 --> 00:05:41.319 From the afternoon prayer 00:05:41.319 --> 00:05:44.319 After the death of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:05:44.319 --> 00:05:47.319 Belial and Ali, may God be pleased with him 00:05:47.319 --> 00:05:50.449 He walks beside him 00:05:51.449 --> 00:05:54.449 He plays with boys 00:05:54.449 --> 00:05:57.449 So he carried him on his neck while saying 00:05:57.449 --> 00:06:00.449 My father resembled the Prophet 00:06:00.449 --> 00:06:03.449 Not like Ali 00:06:03.449 --> 00:06:06.709 He said and Ali laughed 00:06:06.709 --> 00:06:09.709 He was Ibn Omar, may God be pleased with him 00:06:09.709 --> 00:06:12.709 If he finds his son safe, he kisses him and says 00:06:12.709 --> 00:06:16.120 An old man kisses an old man 00:06:16.120 --> 00:06:19.120 On the authority of Abu Wathilah 00:06:19.120 --> 00:06:22.120 She entered it finding his son Yazid 00:06:22.120 --> 00:06:25.120 So he slept all night 00:06:25.120 --> 00:06:28.120 When it became 00:06:28.120 --> 00:06:31.120 He was sent to Al-Ahn about Ibn Qays, may God have mercy on him 00:06:31.120 --> 00:06:34.120 So he came to him and when he entered upon him 00:06:34.120 --> 00:06:37.120 He said to him, O Abu Bahr 00:06:37.120 --> 00:06:40.120 How satisfied are you with your child? 00:06:40.120 --> 00:06:43.220 And what do you say about the boy? 00:06:43.220 --> 00:06:46.220 He said so I said to myself 00:06:46.220 --> 00:06:49.220 Commander of the Faithful about this 00:06:49.220 --> 00:06:52.220 Except for Mujda, she entered upon Yazid 00:06:52.220 --> 00:06:55.220 Then some words came to me 00:06:55.220 --> 00:06:58.220 If I had been there for a year 00:06:58.220 --> 00:07:01.220 I would have come 00:07:01.220 --> 00:07:04.220 So I said, O Commander of the Faithful! 00:07:04.220 --> 00:07:07.220 They are the fruits of our hearts 00:07:07.220 --> 00:07:10.220 And the pillar of our appearance 00:07:10.220 --> 00:07:13.279 We are a humiliated land for them 00:07:13.279 --> 00:07:16.279 O Commander of the Faithful, land them 00:07:16.279 --> 00:07:19.279 And if they ask you, give them 00:07:19.279 --> 00:07:22.279 They love you and love you 00:07:22.279 --> 00:07:25.279 And they work hard 00:07:25.279 --> 00:07:28.279 And do not be a burden on them 00:07:28.279 --> 00:07:31.279 Give them only a little 00:07:31.279 --> 00:07:34.279 They get bored with your life and hate being close to you 00:07:34.279 --> 00:07:37.279 He said: God bless you, Ahnaf 00:07:37.279 --> 00:07:40.279 By God, I have sent to you 00:07:41.279 --> 00:07:44.279 My heart was filled with malice 00:07:44.279 --> 00:07:47.540 Some of the predecessors, may God have mercy on him, said 00:07:47.540 --> 00:07:50.540 Honor your son 00:07:50.540 --> 00:07:53.540 It is more worthy of blessing 00:07:53.540 --> 00:07:56.540 And whoever wishes, he can disobey his child 00:07:56.540 --> 00:08:01.459 Delivery to the boys 00:08:01.459 --> 00:08:05.740 On the authority of Othman, on the authority of Ibrahim, he said: 00:08:05.740 --> 00:08:08.740 I saw Ibn Omar, may God be pleased with him 00:08:08.740 --> 00:08:11.740 He passes by us when we are boys 00:08:12.740 --> 00:08:16.120 Thabet Al-Banani passed 00:08:16.120 --> 00:08:19.120 May God have mercy on him with two boys 00:08:19.120 --> 00:08:22.120 He greeted them 00:08:22.120 --> 00:08:25.120 And it happened fixed that it was 00:08:25.120 --> 00:08:28.120 He walks with Anas, may God be pleased with him 00:08:28.120 --> 00:08:31.120 He passed by two boys and greeted them 00:08:31.120 --> 00:08:34.120 It happened to Anas that it was 00:08:34.120 --> 00:08:37.120 He walks with the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:08:37.120 --> 00:08:42.460 He passed by two boys and greeted them 00:08:42.460 --> 00:08:45.460 Flirting with boys and allowing them to play freely 00:08:45.460 --> 00:08:49.519 On the authority of Al-Hasan, may God have mercy on him 00:08:49.519 --> 00:08:52.519 He entered his house 00:08:52.519 --> 00:08:55.519 Two boys playing on top of the house 00:08:55.519 --> 00:08:58.519 A man with him forbade them 00:08:58.519 --> 00:09:01.519 Al-Hassan said, Leave them 00:09:01.519 --> 00:09:05.000 Playing is their spring 00:09:05.000 --> 00:09:08.000 On the authority of Ibrahim Al-Nakha’i, may God have mercy on him, he said: 00:09:08.000 --> 00:09:11.000 They gave the boys permission to play all the time 00:09:11.000 --> 00:09:15.789 Except with dogs 00:09:15.789 --> 00:09:18.789 Caring for orphans and disciplining them 00:09:18.789 --> 00:09:23.000 On the authority of Abu Darda, may God be pleased with him, he said 00:09:23.000 --> 00:09:26.000 Beware of the orphan's tears 00:09:26.000 --> 00:09:29.000 And the call of the oppressed 00:09:29.000 --> 00:09:32.000 They walk at night while the people are asleep 00:09:32.000 --> 00:09:35.519 It was said to Ibn Sirin, may God have mercy on him 00:09:35.519 --> 00:09:38.519 I have an orphan 00:09:38.519 --> 00:09:41.519 He said, “Do to him what you would do to your son.” 00:09:41.519 --> 00:09:44.519 Hit him as you would hit your son 00:09:44.519 --> 00:09:48.029 On the authority of Farqad Al-Subkhi, may God have mercy on him, he said: 00:09:48.029 --> 00:09:51.029 He created a table 00:09:51.029 --> 00:09:54.029 The greatest honor of a table 00:09:54.029 --> 00:09:59.039 An orphan is fed on it 00:09:59.039 --> 00:10:03.360 Other benefits, Ibn Abbas said 00:10:03.360 --> 00:10:06.360 May God be pleased with them in the Almighty’s saying 00:10:06.360 --> 00:10:09.389 And those who believe 00:10:09.389 --> 00:10:12.389 Their descendants followed them with faith 00:10:13.389 --> 00:10:16.419 He said 00:10:16.419 --> 00:10:19.419 The believer's offspring will be raised for him 00:10:19.419 --> 00:10:22.419 Even if it is less than him at work 00:10:22.419 --> 00:10:25.419 So God Almighty recognizes him 00:10:25.419 --> 00:10:28.679 He also said, may God be pleased with him 00:10:28.679 --> 00:10:31.769 In the Almighty's saying 00:10:31.769 --> 00:10:34.769 And those who say, “Our Lord, we have made fools.” 00:10:34.769 --> 00:10:37.769 From our wives and offspring is Qurrah 00:10:37.769 --> 00:10:40.769 Eyes, but it wasn't 00:10:40.769 --> 00:10:43.769 The joy of their eyes when they see it as true 00:10:43.769 --> 00:10:46.769 But nice to see 00:10:46.769 --> 00:10:49.769 Obedient to God Almighty 00:10:49.769 --> 00:10:53.159 Al-Hasan Al-Basri, may God have mercy on him, said 00:10:53.159 --> 00:10:56.159 In the Almighty’s saying, “We are fooled.” 00:10:56.159 --> 00:10:59.159 From our wives and offspring is Qurrah 00:10:59.159 --> 00:11:02.159 Eyes in obedience to God 00:11:02.159 --> 00:11:05.159 Nothing is more pleasing to the eyes of the believer 00:11:05.159 --> 00:11:08.159 Than to see his beloved in obedience 00:11:09.570 --> 00:11:12.570 Malik bin Dinar, may God have mercy on him, saw this 00:11:12.570 --> 00:11:15.570 A man who prays badly 00:11:15.570 --> 00:11:18.570 He said, “How merciful I am to his family.” 00:11:18.570 --> 00:11:21.600 He was told that this was bad 00:11:21.600 --> 00:11:24.600 May his prayers and mercy be upon his family 00:11:24.600 --> 00:11:27.600 He said he was their eldest 00:11:27.600 --> 00:11:31.019 And from it they learn 00:11:31.019 --> 00:11:34.019 Ayoub Al-Sakhtiani, may God have mercy on him 00:11:34.019 --> 00:11:37.019 If he was congratulated on a baby, he said: 00:11:37.019 --> 00:11:40.019 May God bless you 00:11:40.019 --> 00:11:44.110 And upon the nation of Muhammad