WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.000 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 00:00:15.609 --> 00:00:17.609 Mawaddah Association is pleased 00:00:17.609 --> 00:00:19.609 To be presented to you 00:00:19.609 --> 00:00:22.609 Pictures from the lives of female companions 00:00:22.609 --> 00:00:26.739 By Dr. Abdul Rahman Raafat Al-Basha 00:00:26.739 --> 00:00:28.739 May God have mercy on him 00:00:28.739 --> 00:00:31.820 Umm Salamah 00:00:31.820 --> 00:00:33.820 May God be pleased with her 00:00:46.960 --> 00:00:47.960 Umm Salamah 00:00:47.960 --> 00:00:50.960 How do you know what Umm Salamah is? 00:00:50.960 --> 00:00:55.439 As for her father, he was one of the distinguished masters of Makhzum 00:00:55.439 --> 00:00:59.439 And Jawad is one of the few Jawad Arabs 00:00:59.439 --> 00:01:01.439 He was even told 00:01:01.439 --> 00:01:03.439 The passenger increased 00:01:03.439 --> 00:01:05.439 Because the stirrups were not equipped 00:01:05.439 --> 00:01:07.439 If you go to his homes 00:01:07.439 --> 00:01:09.439 Or walked in his company 00:01:09.439 --> 00:01:12.439 As for her husband, Abdullah bin Abdul Assad 00:01:12.439 --> 00:01:15.439 One of the ten who converted to Islam 00:01:15.439 --> 00:01:19.439 No one converted to Islam before him except Abu Bakr Al-Siddiq 00:01:19.439 --> 00:01:23.439 A small group, not as many as the fingers of one hand 00:01:23.439 --> 00:01:26.439 Her name is Hind 00:01:26.439 --> 00:01:28.439 But she was called Umm Salamah 00:01:28.439 --> 00:01:30.439 Then the nickname took over 00:01:30.439 --> 00:01:33.439 Umm Salamah converted to Islam with her husband 00:01:33.439 --> 00:01:37.439 She was also one of the first to convert to Islam 00:01:37.439 --> 00:01:41.439 As soon as the news spread that Umm Salamah and her husband had converted to Islam 00:01:41.439 --> 00:01:44.439 Until the Quraysh attacked and did not attack 00:01:44.439 --> 00:01:47.439 And he made pouring on them one of her punishments 00:01:47.439 --> 00:01:49.439 What shakes the deaf and solid 00:01:49.439 --> 00:01:53.439 He did not weaken, did not become weak, or hesitated 00:01:53.439 --> 00:01:55.439 The harm did not intensify against them 00:01:55.439 --> 00:01:59.439 The Messenger, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, gave permission 00:01:59.439 --> 00:02:01.439 His companions migrated to Abyssinia 00:02:01.439 --> 00:02:04.439 He was at the forefront of immigrants 00:02:04.439 --> 00:02:08.439 Umm Salamah and her husband went to exile 00:02:08.439 --> 00:02:12.439 She left behind her lavish home in Mecca 00:02:12.439 --> 00:02:15.439 Its lofty pride and ancient lineage 00:02:15.439 --> 00:02:18.439 Deserving all of that from God 00:02:18.439 --> 00:02:21.439 Independent, beside his illnesses 00:02:21.439 --> 00:02:27.439 Despite the protection that Umm Salamah and her companions received from the Negus 00:02:27.439 --> 00:02:29.439 May God see his face in heaven 00:02:29.439 --> 00:02:33.439 The longing for Mecca was the landing site of revelation 00:02:33.439 --> 00:02:36.439 Longing for the Messenger of God is the source of guidance 00:02:36.439 --> 00:02:40.439 He cuts her liver and the liver of her husband, Freya 00:02:40.439 --> 00:02:44.629 Then the news continued about the immigrants to the land of Abyssinia 00:02:44.629 --> 00:02:48.629 That the number of Muslims in Mecca has increased 00:02:48.629 --> 00:02:51.629 And that Hamza bin Abdul Muttalib converted to Islam 00:02:51.629 --> 00:02:54.629 Omar bin Al-Khattab strengthened their support 00:02:54.629 --> 00:02:57.629 He refrained from harming the Quraysh from their side 00:02:57.629 --> 00:03:00.629 A group of them decided to return to Mecca 00:03:00.629 --> 00:03:04.629 They are filled with longing and called by nostalgia 00:03:04.629 --> 00:03:08.629 Umm Salamah and her husband were at the forefront of those returning 00:03:08.629 --> 00:03:11.629 But the returnees soon discovered 00:03:11.629 --> 00:03:15.629 The news they received was exaggerated 00:03:15.629 --> 00:03:20.629 And the leap that Muslims took after Hamzah and Omar converted to Islam 00:03:20.629 --> 00:03:23.629 It was met with a greater attack from the Quraish 00:03:23.629 --> 00:03:27.629 The polytheists tried to torture and terrorize Muslims 00:03:27.629 --> 00:03:32.629 And they made them taste of their punishment that they had never experienced before 00:03:32.629 --> 00:03:37.699 Then the Messenger, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, gave permission 00:03:37.699 --> 00:03:40.699 His companions migrated to Medina 00:03:40.699 --> 00:03:44.699 Umm Salamah and her husband decided that he would be the first to migrate 00:03:44.699 --> 00:03:48.699 Fleeing their religion and getting rid of the taste of Quraysh 00:03:49.699 --> 00:03:55.699 But the migration of Umm Salamah and her husband was not as easy as they imagined 00:03:55.699 --> 00:03:58.699 But it was difficult at times 00:03:58.699 --> 00:04:03.699 She left behind a tragedy without which every tragedy would be diminished 00:04:03.699 --> 00:04:08.699 Let us leave the words to Umm Salamah to tell us the story of her tragedy 00:04:08.699 --> 00:04:11.699 Her feeling for it is stronger and deeper 00:04:11.699 --> 00:04:14.699 Her portrayal of her is more accurate and eloquent 00:04:14.699 --> 00:04:19.889 Umm Salamah said when Abu Salamah decided to go out to Medina 00:04:19.889 --> 00:04:23.889 Prepare a camel for me and then load me onto it 00:04:23.889 --> 00:04:25.889 He placed our child Salamah in my lap 00:04:25.889 --> 00:04:30.889 He went on to drive the camel without hesitating about anything 00:04:30.889 --> 00:04:35.889 Before we separated from Mecca, men from my people, Banu Makhzum, saw us 00:04:35.889 --> 00:04:38.889 They confronted us and told Abu Salamah 00:04:38.889 --> 00:04:43.889 If you have defeated us, then what about this wife of yours? 00:04:43.889 --> 00:04:49.889 She is our daughter, so why should we let you take her from us and take her around the country? 00:04:49.889 --> 00:04:53.889 Then they jumped on him and snatched me away from him 00:04:53.889 --> 00:04:56.889 As soon as the people of my husband bin Abdul-Assad saw them 00:04:56.889 --> 00:05:00.889 They took me and my child until they became very angry 00:05:00.889 --> 00:05:05.889 They said, “No, by God, we will not leave the child with your friend.” 00:05:05.889 --> 00:05:08.889 After you snatched it from our friend 00:05:08.889 --> 00:05:11.889 He is our son and we are more worthy of him 00:05:11.889 --> 00:05:16.889 Then they started pulling Salama's two children between them in front of me 00:05:16.889 --> 00:05:19.889 Until they took off his hand and took him away 00:05:19.889 --> 00:05:25.889 In moments, I found myself torn apart and alone 00:05:25.889 --> 00:05:29.889 So the husband headed to Medina to escape for his religion and his soul 00:05:29.889 --> 00:05:35.889 A son was kidnapped by Ibn Abd al-Assad from my hands, broken and miserable 00:05:35.889 --> 00:05:40.949 As for me, Qawmi bin Makhzum took control of me 00:05:40.949 --> 00:05:42.949 And they made me there 00:05:42.949 --> 00:05:46.949 He separated me from my husband and my son in an hour 00:05:46.949 --> 00:05:53.110 From that day on, I went out every morning to Al-Abtah 00:05:53.110 --> 00:05:56.110 So I sit in the place that witnessed my tragedy 00:05:56.110 --> 00:06:03.110 I remember the moments when there was a barrier between me, my son, and my husband 00:06:03.110 --> 00:06:07.240 I keep crying until night falls 00:06:07.240 --> 00:06:11.240 I stayed like that for a year or close to a year 00:06:11.240 --> 00:06:17.240 Until a man from my cousins passed by me, comforted me and had mercy on me 00:06:17.240 --> 00:06:21.240 He said to my people, “Don’t you release this poor woman.” 00:06:21.240 --> 00:06:25.240 You separated her from her husband and her child 00:06:25.240 --> 00:06:32.240 And he continued to soften their hearts and turn away their kindness until they told me 00:06:32.240 --> 00:06:35.370 Join your husband if you want 00:06:35.370 --> 00:06:39.370 But how can I join my husband in the city? 00:06:39.370 --> 00:06:44.370 I leave my son and my dear child in Mecca with Bani Abd al-Assad 00:06:44.370 --> 00:06:49.430 How can my distress be calmed or my eyes can live through it? 00:06:49.430 --> 00:06:51.430 I am in the immigration office 00:06:51.430 --> 00:06:55.430 The little boy was born in Mecca, but I know nothing about him 00:06:55.430 --> 00:07:00.459 Some people saw how I treated my sorrows and sorrows 00:07:00.459 --> 00:07:02.459 Their hearts broke for me 00:07:02.459 --> 00:07:05.459 Speak to Bani Abd al-Assad about my matter 00:07:05.459 --> 00:07:09.459 They sought sympathy from me and they returned my son Salamah to me 00:07:09.459 --> 00:07:14.660 I did not want to wait in Mecca until I found someone to travel with 00:07:14.660 --> 00:07:18.660 I was afraid that something unexpected would happen 00:07:18.660 --> 00:07:21.660 An obstacle prevents me from following my husband 00:07:21.660 --> 00:07:24.660 So I took the initiative and prepared my camels 00:07:24.660 --> 00:07:26.660 And I put my son on my lap 00:07:26.660 --> 00:07:29.660 She left and headed toward the city 00:07:29.660 --> 00:07:31.660 I want my husband 00:07:31.660 --> 00:07:34.660 And no one of God’s creation is with me 00:07:34.660 --> 00:07:38.660 As soon as I reached Tan'im, I met Uthman bin Talha 00:07:38.660 --> 00:07:42.660 He said, “Where are you going, daughter of Zad the passenger?” 00:07:42.660 --> 00:07:45.660 So I said I want my husband in the city 00:07:45.660 --> 00:07:48.660 He said, "No one is with you." 00:07:48.660 --> 00:07:51.660 I said no, by God 00:07:51.660 --> 00:07:54.660 Except God, then build this 00:07:54.660 --> 00:07:57.660 He said, “By God, I will never leave you.” 00:07:58.660 --> 00:08:01.660 Then he took the reins of my camel 00:08:01.660 --> 00:08:03.660 Yehobi set off 00:08:03.660 --> 00:08:06.660 By God, I have never been with an Arab man 00:08:06.660 --> 00:08:09.660 No more honorable than him 00:08:09.660 --> 00:08:12.660 When he reached one of the houses, he would bury my camel 00:08:12.660 --> 00:08:14.660 Then he will be late for me 00:08:14.660 --> 00:08:16.660 Even if you get off his back 00:08:16.660 --> 00:08:18.660 And I settled on the ground 00:08:18.660 --> 00:08:20.660 He approached him and made a trip for him 00:08:20.660 --> 00:08:24.660 He took him to a tree and tied him there 00:08:24.660 --> 00:08:27.660 Then he steps away from me to another tree 00:08:27.660 --> 00:08:29.660 He lies down in its shade 00:08:29.660 --> 00:08:31.660 When the spirits come 00:08:31.660 --> 00:08:33.659 He came to me 00:08:33.659 --> 00:08:35.659 So I brought it back and presented it to me 00:08:35.659 --> 00:08:37.659 Then he leaves behind me and says 00:08:37.659 --> 00:08:39.659 Get on 00:08:39.659 --> 00:08:42.659 If you ride and sit on the camel 00:08:42.659 --> 00:08:45.659 He came, took his reins and led him 00:08:45.659 --> 00:08:48.659 And he still does this every day 00:08:48.659 --> 00:08:50.659 Until we reached the city 00:08:50.659 --> 00:08:52.659 When he looked at the village of Buqba 00:08:52.659 --> 00:08:54.659 Lubna Omar bin Awf 00:08:54.659 --> 00:08:57.659 Your husband said in this village 00:08:57.659 --> 00:09:00.659 Enter it with God's blessing 00:09:00.659 --> 00:09:03.750 Then he left and returned to Mecca 00:09:03.750 --> 00:09:05.750 The diaspora reunited 00:09:05.750 --> 00:09:07.750 After a long separation 00:09:07.750 --> 00:09:10.750 Umm Salama's eyes were pleased with her husband 00:09:10.750 --> 00:09:13.750 Abu Salamah was happy with his companion and son 00:09:13.750 --> 00:09:15.750 Then the events unfolded 00:09:15.750 --> 00:09:18.779 It goes by quickly in the blink of an eye 00:09:18.779 --> 00:09:20.779 This is Badr 00:09:20.779 --> 00:09:24.779 Abu Salamah witnesses it and returns from it with the Muslims 00:09:24.779 --> 00:09:27.779 They won a decisive victory 00:09:27.779 --> 00:09:29.779 And this is one 00:09:29.779 --> 00:09:31.779 It will be immersed in it after Badr 00:09:31.779 --> 00:09:34.779 He performs the best and most generous trials therein 00:09:34.779 --> 00:09:37.779 But he gets out of it 00:09:37.779 --> 00:09:39.779 He was seriously injured 00:09:39.779 --> 00:09:41.779 He is still treating him 00:09:41.779 --> 00:09:44.779 Until it seemed to him that he had healed 00:09:44.779 --> 00:09:47.779 But the wound was caused by corruption 00:09:47.779 --> 00:09:49.779 He soon reclined 00:09:49.779 --> 00:09:52.779 Abu Salamah was confined to bed 00:09:52.779 --> 00:09:55.779 While Abu Salamah was being treated for his wound 00:09:55.779 --> 00:09:57.779 He said to his wife 00:09:57.779 --> 00:09:59.779 Oh Umm Salamah 00:09:59.779 --> 00:10:02.779 I heard the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:10:02.779 --> 00:10:05.779 He says no misfortune befalls anyone 00:10:05.779 --> 00:10:08.779 Then he comes back and says 00:10:08.779 --> 00:10:11.779 Oh God, I counted this calamity with You 00:10:11.779 --> 00:10:14.779 Oh God, give me something better than her 00:10:14.779 --> 00:10:17.779 Unless God Almighty gave him 00:10:17.779 --> 00:10:21.850 Abu Salamah remained on his sick bed for days 00:10:21.850 --> 00:10:23.850 And one morning 00:10:23.850 --> 00:10:26.850 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, came to him 00:10:26.850 --> 00:10:27.850 To return him 00:10:27.850 --> 00:10:30.850 He had hardly finished his visit 00:10:30.850 --> 00:10:32.850 It goes beyond the door of his house 00:10:32.850 --> 00:10:35.980 Until Abu Salamah passed away 00:10:35.980 --> 00:10:38.980 So the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, closed his eyes 00:10:38.980 --> 00:10:41.980 In his honorable hand are the eyes of his owner 00:10:41.980 --> 00:10:45.039 He raised his eyes to the sky and said 00:10:45.039 --> 00:10:48.039 Oh God, forgive Abu Salamah 00:10:48.039 --> 00:10:51.039 And raise his rank among those close to him 00:10:51.039 --> 00:10:54.039 And He left behind those who left behind 00:10:54.039 --> 00:10:58.039 And forgive us and him, O Lord of the worlds 00:10:58.039 --> 00:11:00.039 And make room for him in his grave 00:11:00.039 --> 00:11:02.039 And light for him in it 00:11:02.039 --> 00:11:04.230 As for Umm Salamah 00:11:04.230 --> 00:11:07.230 So she remembered what Abu Salamah had told her 00:11:07.230 --> 00:11:10.230 On the authority of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:11:10.230 --> 00:11:11.230 And she said 00:11:11.230 --> 00:11:14.230 Oh God, I seek refuge in You for this calamity 00:11:14.230 --> 00:11:17.230 But she didn't want to say it 00:11:17.230 --> 00:11:20.230 Oh God, give me a better place in it 00:11:20.230 --> 00:11:23.230 Because she was wondering 00:11:23.230 --> 00:11:27.230 It is impossible for him to be better than Abu Salamah 00:11:27.230 --> 00:11:30.230 But she soon completed the prayer 00:11:30.230 --> 00:11:33.259 Muslims were saddened by the loss of Umm Salamah 00:11:33.259 --> 00:11:36.259 They had never been saddened by anyone's injury before 00:11:36.259 --> 00:11:39.259 They called it after any of the Arabs 00:11:39.259 --> 00:11:43.259 Because she had no family members in the city 00:11:43.259 --> 00:11:46.259 Other than little boys like train fluff 00:11:46.259 --> 00:11:49.259 Poetry of immigrants and Ansar 00:11:49.259 --> 00:11:52.259 Together for the sake of Umm Salama upon them 00:11:52.259 --> 00:11:55.259 She had hardly finished mourning Abu Salamah 00:11:55.259 --> 00:11:58.259 Until Abu Bakr Al-Siddiq came forward 00:11:58.259 --> 00:12:01.259 He proposes to her to himself 00:12:01.259 --> 00:12:04.259 She refused to respond to his request 00:12:04.259 --> 00:12:07.259 Then Omar bin Al-Khattab came forward 00:12:07.259 --> 00:12:10.259 She returned it as she responded to its owner 00:12:10.259 --> 00:12:14.259 Then the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, came forward 00:12:14.259 --> 00:12:17.259 She said to him 00:12:17.259 --> 00:12:20.259 O Messenger of God, there are three defects in me 00:12:20.259 --> 00:12:23.259 I am a very jealous woman 00:12:23.259 --> 00:12:26.259 I am afraid that you will see something from me that will make you angry 00:12:26.259 --> 00:12:29.259 So God will punish me with it 00:12:29.259 --> 00:12:32.259 I am an old woman 00:12:32.259 --> 00:12:35.360 I am a woman with children 00:12:35.360 --> 00:12:38.360 He said, peace and blessings be upon him 00:12:39.360 --> 00:12:42.360 I pray to God Almighty to take it away from you 00:12:42.360 --> 00:12:45.360 As for what you mentioned about age 00:12:45.360 --> 00:12:48.360 It happened to me like what happened to you 00:12:48.360 --> 00:12:51.360 As for what you mentioned about the children 00:12:51.360 --> 00:12:54.360 Your children are my children 00:12:54.360 --> 00:12:57.360 Then the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, got married 00:12:57.360 --> 00:13:00.360 From Umm Salamah 00:13:00.360 --> 00:13:03.360 So God answered her prayer 00:13:03.360 --> 00:13:06.360 And her successor is better than Abu Salamah 00:13:07.360 --> 00:13:10.360 Hind Al-Makhzoumia did not remain a mother to Salama alone 00:13:10.360 --> 00:13:13.360 Rather, she became a mother to all believers 00:13:13.360 --> 00:13:16.360 May God bless Umm Salamah’s face in Paradise 00:13:16.360 --> 00:13:19.360 He was satisfied with her and satisfied her 00:13:19.360 --> 00:13:22.740 Umm Salamah 00:13:22.740 --> 00:13:26.159 May God be pleased with her