In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
Men's items
In the hadith of Umm Zara’
Mother of crops and bliss of life
It was Umm Zara's turn
She was the last one to speak
She is the most separated in her life with her husband
Her words are not devoid of indication of the nature of women
Hiding some facts
And show some issues
This is advice for every man seeking to solve marital problems
Most women should pay attention to this fact
Except for the mercy of my Lord
Do not rely on her words
She rules without thinking, looking, or listening to her husband
Or who do you complain about?
I will leave you to contemplate, dear husband, on Umm Zara’s words
To extract yourself
What did Umm Zara hide from women?
In her long talk about herself and her husband
Umm Zara said
My husband is a father of sow
And he is not the father of Zaraa
People of my ear jewelry
And it was filled with fat from my genitals
And he made me smile
So I shouted to myself
He found me among the people of Ghanimah Bashaq
So he made me among the people of Sahil and Hoot
Trampled and refined
Then I say, “Don’t be ugly.”
And I lie down and it becomes morning
And I drink and soothe myself
My father's mother planted
My father's mother did not plant anything
Akumha Raddah
And her house is spacious
Ibn Abi Zar'a
Ibn Abi did not plant anything
His bed is like a bevel
And the arm of unbelief satisfies him
Daughter of Abu Zara
My father’s daughter did not plant anything
Her father willingly and her mother willingly
And fill her clothes and please her neighbour
My father's slave girl
What is my father’s slave girl?
Don't broadcast our conversation
And do not let our mirror be cleansed
Do not fill our house with nests
She said
Abu Zar' came out
And the stakes are churning
He found a woman with two sons who looked like two leopards
They are playing with two pomegranates under her waist
So he divorced me and married her
Then she married a secret man
Shreya rode
And he took it in writing
He bestowed upon me abundant blessings
And he gave me a pair of every scent
And he said
Eat or plant and see your family
She said
If I collect everything, he will give me
He did not reach the pressure of my father’s vessels
This is the hadith of Umm Zur’ on the authority of her husband, Abu Zur’
And from her speech
We realize the great praise for Abu Zara
We can deduce clearly
Her great love for him
And the intensity of her attachment to him
And she loved everything related to him
From a mother, a son and a daughter
Even the maid
But have you noticed, my dear brother-in-law?
She is talking about her absolute
Not about her husband
The women who sat on this council
We pledged and contracted
Do they not conceal anything from their husbands?
Did Umm Zara speak about her husband?
Yes, I talked about it
However, she did not find a second husband
Who showered her with various blessings
What are you proud of in front of the women in the council?
Rather, she took all the goodness he gave her
She went to the one who divorced her
To be proud of him among women
So what did Abu Zara do to her?
Until you become attached to him
How did she meet Ehsan Abi Zar’a for her?
Why did she lose him when he saw others?
What did he see in others that would replace them with her?
Perhaps we are the husband's brother and the wife's sister
We live in the details of the life of a sow mother
With dad planted in these rings
Perhaps we will find the satisfactory answer
For these questions
Firstly
The bliss that Umm Zara experienced
Umm Zar’ said in describing bliss
Where Abu Zara lived
People of my ear jewelry
And filled with humeral fat
And he made me proud, so I made myself proud
He found me among the people of Ghanimah Bashaq
So place me among the people of Sahil and neigh
Trampled and refined
Then I say, “Don’t be ugly.”
And I lie down and it becomes morning
And I drink and soothe myself
The bliss that Umm Zara experienced
With my father planted it includes several beautiful masts
One of them first
Dress her up with jewelry
She said people of my ear ornaments
Abu Ubaid Al-Harawi, may God have mercy on him, said
Halani wants earrings and scarves
Tanous in my ear
And the nous
Movement of everything dangling
I mean, wear gold
This is one of the most important types of adornment for women
It is what makes her happy the most
Every woman loves gold
She is proud to wear it in front of women
Secondly, its ghee
She said and filled with fat on my upper arm
Abu Ubaid Al-Harawi, may God have mercy on him, said
She didn't want the upper arm especially
She wanted the whole body
She says that he made me fat with his kindness to me
If the humerus becomes fat, the rest of the body becomes fat
It means that he made her fat by being kind to her
This obesity does not come with worries and problems
Rather, it comes with happiness and prosperity
Third
He filled her life with joy and happiness
She said, "And he made me angry, so I made myself angry."
Abu Ubaid Al-Harawi, may God have mercy on him, said
That is, he made me happy and I was happy
Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said
She described him as being good to her
Her sweetness and luxury is her livelihood
He made her fat and showed her happiness in her circumstances
Fourthly, moving it from modest living to luxury
She said: “He found me among the people of Bashq’s spoils.”
So he made me among the people of neighing, humming, trampling, and purring
Abu Ubaid Al-Harawi, may God have mercy on him, said
She said, “So he made me among the people of Saheel and howling.”
It means that he took me to his family
They are people of horses and camels
Because neighing is the sound of horses and goats are the sound of camels
Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said
She described it as being transported from the shores of her family’s livelihood
And inform them of their spoils
To people of wealth and vast funds
Of horses, camels, camels, crops, and cows
And trodden animals, slaves, and horses
Food purifying machines
Interest and many livestock
And the birds enjoy eating it
This is because the owners of the sheep are poor or subsistence people
And no wealth
This woman was informed of her transition from that state to this
She made a prosperous living with the milk and meat of these livestock
And other foods
Especially with its reference to bread that is trampled and purified
It was the Arab's highest and most cherished food
Only those with great wealth will find it
And from the countryside and the cities
Otherwise, I feed them more
It was meat, milk, and dates
This is what their poetry indicates
Secondly, Dalal Abi planted her
She was spoiled by him
Don't do anything that tires her out
Until Umm Zara described this pampering by saying:
Then I say, “Don’t be ugly.”
And I lie down and it becomes morning
And I drink and soothe myself
Abu Abbas Al-Qurtubi, may God have mercy on him, said
Say it and lie down in the morning
That is, I sleep until the morning
No one wakes her up because she is honorable
Enough service and work
Abdul Aziz Al-Rajhi said
She says that she has absolute sovereignty with him
She speaks and no one responds to her words
And she lies down in the morning
It means that the yellow one sleeps
Because she has servants who provide her with supplies
Unlike those who do not have servants to serve them
She gets up in the morning to work at home
She drinks and narrates
Irrigation can reach whatever you want
She praises her husband
That he comforted her and gave her what she wanted
And give it absolute sovereignty
So you speak whatever you want
And you eat whatever you want
And drink whatever you want
And sleep how you want
It is well supplied with supplies
The bliss and pampering that Abu Zar’a provided to Zar’a’s mother
It is an indication of his great love for her
And its good mineral
How did you meet Umm Zara?
This bliss and this pampering
We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds