1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,000 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 2 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:09,060 The story of Joseph, peace be upon him, with the wife of Al-Aziz 3 00:00:09,060 --> 00:00:13,919 Did the dear cause his wife to sin? 4 00:00:13,919 --> 00:00:20,719 A woman is a human being who is afflicted with the sins that afflict humans 5 00:00:20,719 --> 00:00:25,719 This is not the problem, but the real problem 6 00:00:25,719 --> 00:00:30,719 It is neglecting a woman until she falls into sin and then blaming her 7 00:00:30,719 --> 00:00:36,140 God Almighty made the man responsible for the woman’s affairs 8 00:00:36,140 --> 00:00:38,140 And He said, Glory be to Him 9 00:00:38,140 --> 00:00:45,140 Men are guardians of women because God has favored some of them over others 10 00:00:45,140 --> 00:00:51,460 God Almighty explains to us the man’s duty in the family system in Islam 11 00:00:51,460 --> 00:00:54,460 That is, standing up for the woman 12 00:00:54,460 --> 00:00:59,460 That is, he is primarily responsible for his wives and daughters 13 00:00:59,460 --> 00:01:04,459 He is concerned with raising them in what God loves and is pleased with 14 00:01:04,459 --> 00:01:08,459 And he will be responsible for this mission on the Day of Resurrection 15 00:01:08,459 --> 00:01:10,489 Ibn Jarir, may God have mercy on him, said 16 00:01:10,489 --> 00:01:13,489 He means by His saying, may He be glorified and praised 17 00:01:13,489 --> 00:01:17,489 Men are guardians of women 18 00:01:17,489 --> 00:01:23,489 Men are responsible for their women in performing their duties and taking their hands 19 00:01:23,489 --> 00:01:27,489 What they must do for God and for themselves 20 00:01:27,489 --> 00:01:35,709 If a man neglects a woman, a wife, a daughter, or someone else under his affliction, it is a sin for him 21 00:01:35,709 --> 00:01:41,709 He is her partner in sin because he neglected her upbringing and took her hand 22 00:01:41,709 --> 00:01:48,709 It is one of the main reasons why a married woman falls into the mire of sin and lust 23 00:01:48,709 --> 00:01:51,709 Which may lead to adultery 24 00:01:51,709 --> 00:01:54,709 The husband's neglect of her legal rights 25 00:01:54,709 --> 00:01:59,709 Satisfying the innate needs that people are born with 26 00:01:59,709 --> 00:02:04,840 A woman needs a man just as a man needs her 27 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:09,840 She needs physical and psychological satisfaction 28 00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:14,900 She needs to be satisfied with beautiful, emotional words 29 00:02:14,900 --> 00:02:20,900 She also needs to satisfy her desires with what God has made permissible for her with her husband 30 00:02:20,900 --> 00:02:27,060 The husband's neglect of these needs may cause the woman to fall into sin 31 00:02:27,060 --> 00:02:31,419 If you do not fear God and fear His punishment 32 00:02:31,419 --> 00:02:37,419 The normal nature of a woman does not accept that she be with two men at the same time 33 00:02:37,419 --> 00:02:40,419 Neither physically nor psychologically 34 00:02:40,419 --> 00:02:45,419 If the nature is distorted, the woman becomes like an animal 35 00:02:45,419 --> 00:02:48,419 It descends on it from all shapes and sizes 36 00:02:48,419 --> 00:02:53,419 Without considering the consequences of this in this world or in the afterlife 37 00:02:53,419 --> 00:02:57,509 She is blinded by her lust from seeing these consequences 38 00:02:57,509 --> 00:03:00,509 Life was taken from her neck 39 00:03:00,509 --> 00:03:04,509 And I did everything to get what I wanted 40 00:03:04,509 --> 00:03:10,509 This is what the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said about life 41 00:03:10,509 --> 00:03:15,509 It is from what people realized from the words of the first prophecy 42 00:03:15,509 --> 00:03:19,509 If you are not ashamed, do whatever you want 43 00:03:19,509 --> 00:03:21,900 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 44 00:03:21,900 --> 00:03:25,900 And when we return to the story of Joseph with the wife of Al-Aziz 45 00:03:25,900 --> 00:03:32,900 We wonder if Al-Aziz caused his wife to deviate and fall into this sin 46 00:03:32,900 --> 00:03:35,900 There are some references in the story 47 00:03:35,900 --> 00:03:39,900 Through it, one can know the extent of the mistake of the dear 48 00:03:39,900 --> 00:03:44,960 And it caused his wife to woo Joseph, peace be upon him 49 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:46,960 The first one 50 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:50,960 Bringing a beautiful young man with a bully vibe into the house 51 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:52,960 He left him with the woman 52 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:54,960 Big mistake 53 00:03:54,960 --> 00:03:58,960 He may make a woman fall in love with him and invite him to herself 54 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:02,090 As happened in this story 55 00:04:02,090 --> 00:04:07,090 A story happened in the time of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 56 00:04:07,090 --> 00:04:10,090 Similar to the mistake of the dear with his wife 57 00:04:10,090 --> 00:04:14,340 Bringing a young man into the house to serve the wife 58 00:04:14,340 --> 00:04:19,339 From Abu Hurairah and Zaid bin Khaled Al-Juhani, may God be pleased with them 59 00:04:19,339 --> 00:04:21,339 They said 60 00:04:21,339 --> 00:04:27,339 A Bedouin man came to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, and said: 61 00:04:27,339 --> 00:04:29,339 O Messenger of God 62 00:04:29,339 --> 00:04:30,339 I ask you, God 63 00:04:30,339 --> 00:04:33,339 Unless you decide for me according to the Book of God 64 00:04:33,339 --> 00:04:37,410 The other opponent said, and he is more knowledgeable than him 65 00:04:37,410 --> 00:04:40,410 Yes, it was decided between us according to the Book of God 66 00:04:40,410 --> 00:04:42,410 And humiliate me 67 00:04:42,410 --> 00:04:45,410 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 68 00:04:45,410 --> 00:04:47,439 Say 69 00:04:47,439 --> 00:04:48,439 He said 70 00:04:48,439 --> 00:04:53,439 My son was stubborn about this, so we won over his wife 71 00:04:53,439 --> 00:04:56,439 And I was told that Ibn should be stoned 72 00:04:56,439 --> 00:05:00,439 So I ransomed him with a hundred female sheep and female slaves 73 00:05:00,439 --> 00:05:02,439 So I asked the scholars 74 00:05:02,439 --> 00:05:07,439 They told me that my son is not liable for a hundred lashes and a year’s exile 75 00:05:07,439 --> 00:05:10,439 And my wife must be stoned 76 00:05:10,439 --> 00:05:13,439 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 77 00:05:13,439 --> 00:05:15,439 By the One in whose hand is my soul 78 00:05:15,439 --> 00:05:19,439 I will judge between you according to the Book of God 79 00:05:19,439 --> 00:05:22,470 The newborn and the sheep replied 80 00:05:22,470 --> 00:05:25,470 Your son will be subjected to one hundred lashes and exile for a year 81 00:05:25,470 --> 00:05:28,569 Go tomorrow, Anis, to this woman 82 00:05:28,569 --> 00:05:31,569 If she confesses, stone her 83 00:05:31,569 --> 00:05:32,569 He said 84 00:05:32,569 --> 00:05:35,569 So he went to her and she confessed 85 00:05:35,569 --> 00:05:40,569 So the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, ordered her to be stoned 86 00:05:40,569 --> 00:05:42,569 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 87 00:05:42,569 --> 00:05:48,600 In a narration by Al-Bukhari, Al-Asif’s relationship with women was explained 88 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:51,629 He was stubborn among the people of this 89 00:05:51,629 --> 00:05:54,629 And by Al-Nasa'i and Al-Tabarani 90 00:05:54,629 --> 00:05:57,629 My son was a servant to his wife 91 00:05:57,629 --> 00:06:00,889 This man hired this young man 92 00:06:00,889 --> 00:06:02,889 To work for him at home 93 00:06:02,889 --> 00:06:07,889 He was entrusted with carrying out whatever matters his wife needed 94 00:06:07,889 --> 00:06:13,889 This was a reason to get close to her, talk to her, and be familiar with her 95 00:06:13,889 --> 00:06:18,050 The matter led to adultery between them 96 00:06:18,050 --> 00:06:20,050 Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said 97 00:06:20,050 --> 00:06:25,050 In it, the questioner mentions everything that happened in the story 98 00:06:25,050 --> 00:06:29,050 Because it is possible that the mufti or ruler will understand this 99 00:06:29,050 --> 00:06:32,050 What is inferred regarding the specificity of the ruling on the issue 100 00:06:32,050 --> 00:06:34,050 To say the questioner 101 00:06:34,050 --> 00:06:37,050 My son was stubborn about this 102 00:06:37,050 --> 00:06:41,050 He only came to ask about the ruling on adultery 103 00:06:41,050 --> 00:06:43,050 And the secret is in that 104 00:06:43,050 --> 00:06:47,050 He wanted to make some excuse for his son 105 00:06:47,050 --> 00:06:50,050 And he was not famous for promiscuity 106 00:06:50,050 --> 00:06:54,050 He did not attack the woman, for example, or coerce her 107 00:06:54,050 --> 00:06:58,050 But this happened to him because of the constant saying 108 00:06:59,050 --> 00:07:03,050 Requires more humanization and pampering 109 00:07:03,050 --> 00:07:06,050 It can be used to encourage the deportation of foreigners 110 00:07:06,050 --> 00:07:09,050 From foreign countries as much as possible 111 00:07:09,050 --> 00:07:12,050 Because ten may lead to corruption 112 00:07:12,050 --> 00:07:16,240 And Satan uses it to cause corruption 113 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:17,240 The second one 114 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:20,240 Failure to maintain the wife’s chastity 115 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:24,240 Not satisfying her physical and psychological needs 116 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:28,240 This matter, although it cannot be confirmed 117 00:07:28,240 --> 00:07:30,240 Because it is not stipulated 118 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:35,240 But it can be deduced from the perspective that a woman is satisfied with her husband 119 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:38,240 Don't look to anyone else 120 00:07:38,240 --> 00:07:41,240 Unless the soul was malicious to begin with 121 00:07:41,240 --> 00:07:45,240 Usually holders of high political positions 122 00:07:45,240 --> 00:07:48,240 Being very busy outside the home 123 00:07:48,240 --> 00:07:51,240 Negligence towards the family 124 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:55,240 The dear may have fallen into something like that 125 00:07:55,240 --> 00:07:58,339 This is a warning to all men 126 00:07:58,339 --> 00:08:02,339 In their various worldly and hereafter works 127 00:08:02,339 --> 00:08:06,339 Do not be distracted from the rights of wives by these actions 128 00:08:06,339 --> 00:08:09,339 They must balance work outside the home 129 00:08:09,339 --> 00:08:12,339 Whether for financial gain 130 00:08:12,339 --> 00:08:14,339 Or to call to God 131 00:08:14,339 --> 00:08:17,339 Between the rights of the wife and sitting with her 132 00:08:17,339 --> 00:08:19,339 And a nice talk with her 133 00:08:19,339 --> 00:08:22,339 Satisfying their innate needs 134 00:08:22,339 --> 00:08:26,660 The Commander of the Faithful Omar realized this fact 135 00:08:26,660 --> 00:08:29,660 It is a woman's need for her husband 136 00:08:29,660 --> 00:08:32,659 Because of an accident that happened to him 137 00:08:32,659 --> 00:08:36,659 He established a system for those who go out to fight for the sake of God 138 00:08:36,659 --> 00:08:40,659 The Mujahid is helped to maintain his wife’s honor 139 00:08:40,659 --> 00:08:43,659 It protects a woman from falling into vice 140 00:08:43,659 --> 00:08:45,690 On the authority of Zaid bin Aslam 141 00:08:45,690 --> 00:08:48,690 Omar bin Al-Khattab, may God be pleased with him 142 00:08:48,690 --> 00:08:51,690 He went out one night to guard people 143 00:08:51,690 --> 00:08:55,690 So he passed a woman while she was in her house and she was saying: 144 00:08:55,690 --> 00:08:59,690 This night grew long and darkened 145 00:08:59,690 --> 00:09:03,690 It took a long time for me not to play with Khalil 146 00:09:03,690 --> 00:09:07,690 By God, if it were not for the fear of God alone 147 00:09:07,690 --> 00:09:10,690 I would move the sides of this bed 148 00:09:10,690 --> 00:09:12,820 When Omar became 149 00:09:12,820 --> 00:09:15,820 Send to the woman and ask about her 150 00:09:16,820 --> 00:09:20,820 It was said: This is so-and-so, the daughter of so-and-so 151 00:09:20,820 --> 00:09:23,820 Her husband is a fighter for the sake of God 152 00:09:23,820 --> 00:09:25,820 So he sent a woman to her 153 00:09:25,820 --> 00:09:30,820 He said, "Stay with her until her husband comes." 154 00:09:30,820 --> 00:09:33,820 He wrote to her husband and closed it 155 00:09:33,820 --> 00:09:37,820 Then he went to his daughter Hafsa and said to her 156 00:09:37,820 --> 00:09:41,820 My daughter, how patient can a woman be with her husband? 157 00:09:41,820 --> 00:09:43,820 She said to him 158 00:09:43,820 --> 00:09:46,820 Father, may God forgive you 159 00:09:46,820 --> 00:09:49,820 Like you, I'm asking about this 160 00:09:49,820 --> 00:09:53,820 He told her that if it were not for something 161 00:09:53,820 --> 00:09:56,820 I want to look into it for the parish 162 00:09:56,820 --> 00:09:59,820 I didn't ask you about this 163 00:09:59,820 --> 00:10:03,820 She said four or five months 164 00:10:03,820 --> 00:10:05,820 Or six months 165 00:10:05,820 --> 00:10:08,879 Omar said: He invades people 166 00:10:08,879 --> 00:10:11,879 They walk for a month 167 00:10:11,879 --> 00:10:14,879 They will spend four months in their campaign 168 00:10:14,879 --> 00:10:16,879 They close for a month 169 00:10:16,879 --> 00:10:21,879 This was timed for the people because of their Sunnah in their invasion 170 00:10:21,879 --> 00:10:23,879 Narrated by Saeed bin Mansour 171 00:10:23,879 --> 00:10:26,200 The third one 172 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:29,200 The dear’s reaction after he became certain 173 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:32,200 That his wife was the one who sinned 174 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:35,200 Do not suggest addressing the previous error 175 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:37,200 In a correct way 176 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:39,200 Rather, it indicates the continuity of error 177 00:10:39,200 --> 00:10:43,200 Who caused his wife to woo Joseph 178 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:45,200 Al-Aziz has had enough of his wife 179 00:10:45,200 --> 00:10:47,200 Some of them ask for forgiveness 180 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:49,200 Of the sin I fell into 181 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:52,200 But he did not keep Joseph away from her 182 00:10:52,200 --> 00:10:54,200 Rather, he kept him in the palace 183 00:10:54,200 --> 00:10:57,200 This is what made her bold after that 184 00:10:57,200 --> 00:10:59,200 To conspire against him with the women 185 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:01,200 Trying to convince him 186 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:03,200 By falling into adultery 187 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:05,200 But God protected him 188 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:08,419 Al-Aziz had enough of Yusuf 189 00:11:08,419 --> 00:11:11,419 To ask him to cover up the matter 190 00:11:11,419 --> 00:11:13,419 And do not disclose it to anyone 191 00:11:13,419 --> 00:11:16,419 But he also did not protect Joseph 192 00:11:16,419 --> 00:11:18,419 From the dominance of a dear woman over him 193 00:11:18,419 --> 00:11:21,419 Rather, he kept it at her disposal 194 00:11:21,419 --> 00:11:23,419 And in her service 195 00:11:23,419 --> 00:11:25,419 This means the continuation of the meeting 196 00:11:25,419 --> 00:11:28,419 And the view from Al-Aziz’s wife to Joseph 197 00:11:28,419 --> 00:11:30,419 That is, a continuing infatuation 198 00:11:30,419 --> 00:11:32,679 The wife of Al-Aziz Yusuf 199 00:11:32,679 --> 00:11:34,679 Fourth 200 00:11:34,679 --> 00:11:36,679 He was negligent in checking 201 00:11:37,679 --> 00:11:41,679 As they encouraged her to this corruption 202 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:44,679 Rather, the verses indicate their resurrection 203 00:11:44,679 --> 00:11:46,679 Also by his whims 204 00:11:46,679 --> 00:11:48,679 A man must check out 205 00:11:48,679 --> 00:11:50,679 Who enters his house? 206 00:11:50,679 --> 00:11:53,679 He sits with his wife 207 00:11:53,679 --> 00:11:55,679 The friend will love it 208 00:11:55,679 --> 00:11:58,679 This is a lesson for every man 209 00:11:58,679 --> 00:12:00,679 He discovers deceptions from their women 210 00:12:00,679 --> 00:12:02,679 On Al-Afaf Avenue 211 00:12:02,679 --> 00:12:05,679 To any of its three degrees 212 00:12:05,679 --> 00:12:08,710 Negligence in concealment and apparent adornment 213 00:12:08,710 --> 00:12:11,710 Relax in modesty in her dealings 214 00:12:11,710 --> 00:12:14,710 With men in word or deed 215 00:12:14,710 --> 00:12:16,710 Falling into adultery 216 00:12:16,710 --> 00:12:20,710 Or in its introduction to privacy and the Qiblah 217 00:12:20,710 --> 00:12:23,710 Touching and obscene and obscene speech 218 00:12:23,710 --> 00:12:25,710 To address the issue 219 00:12:25,710 --> 00:12:27,710 Correct legal treatment 220 00:12:27,710 --> 00:12:31,710 Women are prohibited from continuing on this path 221 00:12:31,710 --> 00:12:33,710 Or fall into the wrong 222 00:12:33,710 --> 00:12:35,710 It is adultery 223 00:12:35,710 --> 00:12:37,899 A woman is a man's offering 224 00:12:37,899 --> 00:12:40,899 Either he preserves and protects him 225 00:12:40,899 --> 00:12:42,899 Or ignore it 226 00:12:42,899 --> 00:12:44,970 If the man does what he owes 227 00:12:44,970 --> 00:12:48,970 Of advice, guidance and protection to offer 228 00:12:48,970 --> 00:12:51,970 He excused himself before God 229 00:12:51,970 --> 00:12:52,970 Even if he neglects it 230 00:12:52,970 --> 00:12:56,970 He will be punished for causing it 231 00:12:56,970 --> 00:13:01,190 The presence of women in an environment is escapable 232 00:13:01,190 --> 00:13:03,190 Lots of finery 233 00:13:03,190 --> 00:13:07,190 The man must warn her against these deviations 234 00:13:07,190 --> 00:13:10,190 By raising her in the right way 235 00:13:10,190 --> 00:13:13,259 Explaining this with legal evidence 236 00:13:13,259 --> 00:13:15,259 And her commitment to it 237 00:13:15,259 --> 00:13:17,259 It is for God's sake 238 00:13:17,259 --> 00:13:21,259 Not for the sake of having a man with her in life 239 00:13:21,259 --> 00:13:25,259 If he dies, she leaves what she was in during his life 240 00:13:25,259 --> 00:13:29,320 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, told us 241 00:13:29,320 --> 00:13:31,320 quality of women 242 00:13:31,320 --> 00:13:33,320 They have these qualities 243 00:13:33,320 --> 00:13:38,320 Namely, going out in front of the husband and in his life 244 00:13:38,320 --> 00:13:40,320 Then if he dies or travels 245 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:44,320 Or missed for any reason 246 00:13:44,320 --> 00:13:47,320 She showed what she was hiding in herself 247 00:13:47,320 --> 00:13:50,320 Or it relapsed from what it was 248 00:13:50,320 --> 00:13:53,320 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 249 00:13:53,320 --> 00:13:56,320 Three don't ask about them 250 00:13:56,320 --> 00:13:59,320 A man left the group 251 00:13:59,320 --> 00:14:02,320 He disobeyed his imam and died a disobedient 252 00:14:02,320 --> 00:14:06,320 And a female slave or slave was left behind and died 253 00:14:06,320 --> 00:14:09,320 A woman whose husband was absent 254 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:12,320 The worldly provisions are sufficient for her 255 00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:14,320 So I dressed up after him 256 00:14:14,320 --> 00:14:16,320 Don't ask about them 257 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:18,320 Narrated by Ahmed 258 00:14:18,539 --> 00:14:22,539 Is a woman to blame if a man fails to keep her chaste? 259 00:14:22,539 --> 00:14:25,539 Because of this, she fell into adultery 260 00:14:25,539 --> 00:14:27,539 Or in some of its introductions 261 00:14:27,539 --> 00:14:30,539 Yes, women are to blame for that 262 00:14:30,539 --> 00:14:33,539 She is guilty and sinful 263 00:14:33,539 --> 00:14:36,539 She deserves divine punishment 264 00:14:36,539 --> 00:14:39,539 To do it in this world or in the afterlife 265 00:14:39,539 --> 00:14:42,539 Because she is commanded to obey God 266 00:14:42,539 --> 00:14:46,539 And to keep herself chaste and protect her from adultery and its precursors 267 00:14:46,539 --> 00:14:49,539 The man is also commanded to do so 268 00:14:49,539 --> 00:14:52,539 The man’s negligence in her legal rights 269 00:14:52,539 --> 00:14:55,539 This is no justification for her committing adultery 270 00:14:55,539 --> 00:14:59,539 Likewise, the woman’s failure to give the man his legal rights 271 00:14:59,539 --> 00:15:03,539 This is not a justification for him committing adultery 272 00:15:03,539 --> 00:15:08,700 But the man is blamed for his failure to keep his wife chaste 273 00:15:08,700 --> 00:15:12,700 He is accountable for that before God 274 00:15:12,700 --> 00:15:16,740 He is blamed for allowing his wife to work with men 275 00:15:16,740 --> 00:15:18,740 And expose her to temptation 276 00:15:18,740 --> 00:15:22,740 He is blamed for leaving his daughters with foreign men 277 00:15:23,740 --> 00:15:26,740 In various fields whatever 278 00:15:26,740 --> 00:15:28,740 And he was satisfied with that 279 00:15:28,740 --> 00:15:32,740 He is blamed for the way he handles the mistakes of his household 280 00:15:32,740 --> 00:15:35,740 If it violates the law 281 00:15:35,740 --> 00:15:41,769 Every man's reaction after finding out that his wife is cheating on him is his reaction 282 00:15:41,769 --> 00:15:44,769 It indicates his level of faith 283 00:15:44,769 --> 00:15:46,769 And his level of morals 284 00:15:46,769 --> 00:15:48,769 And his level of mind 285 00:15:48,769 --> 00:15:51,960 And his level of jealousy over his offer 286 00:15:51,960 --> 00:15:53,960 For the rest of the talk 287 00:15:53,960 --> 00:15:57,960 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 288 00:15:57,960 --> 00:16:03,889 The story of Joseph and the wife of Al-Aziz