WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.000 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 00:00:03.000 --> 00:00:09.060 The story of Joseph, peace be upon him, with the wife of Al-Aziz 00:00:09.060 --> 00:00:13.919 Did the dear cause his wife to sin? 00:00:13.919 --> 00:00:20.719 A woman is a human being who is afflicted with the sins that afflict humans 00:00:20.719 --> 00:00:25.719 This is not the problem, but the real problem 00:00:25.719 --> 00:00:30.719 It is neglecting a woman until she falls into sin and then blaming her 00:00:30.719 --> 00:00:36.140 God Almighty made the man responsible for the woman’s affairs 00:00:36.140 --> 00:00:38.140 And He said, Glory be to Him 00:00:38.140 --> 00:00:45.140 Men are guardians of women because God has favored some of them over others 00:00:45.140 --> 00:00:51.460 God Almighty explains to us the man’s duty in the family system in Islam 00:00:51.460 --> 00:00:54.460 That is, standing up for the woman 00:00:54.460 --> 00:00:59.460 That is, he is primarily responsible for his wives and daughters 00:00:59.460 --> 00:01:04.459 He is concerned with raising them in what God loves and is pleased with 00:01:04.459 --> 00:01:08.459 And he will be responsible for this mission on the Day of Resurrection 00:01:08.459 --> 00:01:10.489 Ibn Jarir, may God have mercy on him, said 00:01:10.489 --> 00:01:13.489 He means by His saying, may He be glorified and praised 00:01:13.489 --> 00:01:17.489 Men are guardians of women 00:01:17.489 --> 00:01:23.489 Men are responsible for their women in performing their duties and taking their hands 00:01:23.489 --> 00:01:27.489 What they must do for God and for themselves 00:01:27.489 --> 00:01:35.709 If a man neglects a woman, a wife, a daughter, or someone else under his affliction, it is a sin for him 00:01:35.709 --> 00:01:41.709 He is her partner in sin because he neglected her upbringing and took her hand 00:01:41.709 --> 00:01:48.709 It is one of the main reasons why a married woman falls into the mire of sin and lust 00:01:48.709 --> 00:01:51.709 Which may lead to adultery 00:01:51.709 --> 00:01:54.709 The husband's neglect of her legal rights 00:01:54.709 --> 00:01:59.709 Satisfying the innate needs that people are born with 00:01:59.709 --> 00:02:04.840 A woman needs a man just as a man needs her 00:02:04.840 --> 00:02:09.840 She needs physical and psychological satisfaction 00:02:09.840 --> 00:02:14.900 She needs to be satisfied with beautiful, emotional words 00:02:14.900 --> 00:02:20.900 She also needs to satisfy her desires with what God has made permissible for her with her husband 00:02:20.900 --> 00:02:27.060 The husband's neglect of these needs may cause the woman to fall into sin 00:02:27.060 --> 00:02:31.419 If you do not fear God and fear His punishment 00:02:31.419 --> 00:02:37.419 The normal nature of a woman does not accept that she be with two men at the same time 00:02:37.419 --> 00:02:40.419 Neither physically nor psychologically 00:02:40.419 --> 00:02:45.419 If the nature is distorted, the woman becomes like an animal 00:02:45.419 --> 00:02:48.419 It descends on it from all shapes and sizes 00:02:48.419 --> 00:02:53.419 Without considering the consequences of this in this world or in the afterlife 00:02:53.419 --> 00:02:57.509 She is blinded by her lust from seeing these consequences 00:02:57.509 --> 00:03:00.509 Life was taken from her neck 00:03:00.509 --> 00:03:04.509 And I did everything to get what I wanted 00:03:04.509 --> 00:03:10.509 This is what the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said about life 00:03:10.509 --> 00:03:15.509 It is from what people realized from the words of the first prophecy 00:03:15.509 --> 00:03:19.509 If you are not ashamed, do whatever you want 00:03:19.509 --> 00:03:21.900 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 00:03:21.900 --> 00:03:25.900 And when we return to the story of Joseph with the wife of Al-Aziz 00:03:25.900 --> 00:03:32.900 We wonder if Al-Aziz caused his wife to deviate and fall into this sin 00:03:32.900 --> 00:03:35.900 There are some references in the story 00:03:35.900 --> 00:03:39.900 Through it, one can know the extent of the mistake of the dear 00:03:39.900 --> 00:03:44.960 And it caused his wife to woo Joseph, peace be upon him 00:03:44.960 --> 00:03:46.960 The first one 00:03:46.960 --> 00:03:50.960 Bringing a beautiful young man with a bully vibe into the house 00:03:50.960 --> 00:03:52.960 He left him with the woman 00:03:52.960 --> 00:03:54.960 Big mistake 00:03:54.960 --> 00:03:58.960 He may make a woman fall in love with him and invite him to herself 00:03:58.960 --> 00:04:02.090 As happened in this story 00:04:02.090 --> 00:04:07.090 A story happened in the time of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:04:07.090 --> 00:04:10.090 Similar to the mistake of the dear with his wife 00:04:10.090 --> 00:04:14.340 Bringing a young man into the house to serve the wife 00:04:14.340 --> 00:04:19.339 From Abu Hurairah and Zaid bin Khaled Al-Juhani, may God be pleased with them 00:04:19.339 --> 00:04:21.339 They said 00:04:21.339 --> 00:04:27.339 A Bedouin man came to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, and said: 00:04:27.339 --> 00:04:29.339 O Messenger of God 00:04:29.339 --> 00:04:30.339 I ask you, God 00:04:30.339 --> 00:04:33.339 Unless you decide for me according to the Book of God 00:04:33.339 --> 00:04:37.410 The other opponent said, and he is more knowledgeable than him 00:04:37.410 --> 00:04:40.410 Yes, it was decided between us according to the Book of God 00:04:40.410 --> 00:04:42.410 And humiliate me 00:04:42.410 --> 00:04:45.410 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:04:45.410 --> 00:04:47.439 Say 00:04:47.439 --> 00:04:48.439 He said 00:04:48.439 --> 00:04:53.439 My son was stubborn about this, so we won over his wife 00:04:53.439 --> 00:04:56.439 And I was told that Ibn should be stoned 00:04:56.439 --> 00:05:00.439 So I ransomed him with a hundred female sheep and female slaves 00:05:00.439 --> 00:05:02.439 So I asked the scholars 00:05:02.439 --> 00:05:07.439 They told me that my son is not liable for a hundred lashes and a year’s exile 00:05:07.439 --> 00:05:10.439 And my wife must be stoned 00:05:10.439 --> 00:05:13.439 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:05:13.439 --> 00:05:15.439 By the One in whose hand is my soul 00:05:15.439 --> 00:05:19.439 I will judge between you according to the Book of God 00:05:19.439 --> 00:05:22.470 The newborn and the sheep replied 00:05:22.470 --> 00:05:25.470 Your son will be subjected to one hundred lashes and exile for a year 00:05:25.470 --> 00:05:28.569 Go tomorrow, Anis, to this woman 00:05:28.569 --> 00:05:31.569 If she confesses, stone her 00:05:31.569 --> 00:05:32.569 He said 00:05:32.569 --> 00:05:35.569 So he went to her and she confessed 00:05:35.569 --> 00:05:40.569 So the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, ordered her to be stoned 00:05:40.569 --> 00:05:42.569 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 00:05:42.569 --> 00:05:48.600 In a narration by Al-Bukhari, Al-Asif’s relationship with women was explained 00:05:48.600 --> 00:05:51.629 He was stubborn among the people of this 00:05:51.629 --> 00:05:54.629 And by Al-Nasa'i and Al-Tabarani 00:05:54.629 --> 00:05:57.629 My son was a servant to his wife 00:05:57.629 --> 00:06:00.889 This man hired this young man 00:06:00.889 --> 00:06:02.889 To work for him at home 00:06:02.889 --> 00:06:07.889 He was entrusted with carrying out whatever matters his wife needed 00:06:07.889 --> 00:06:13.889 This was a reason to get close to her, talk to her, and be familiar with her 00:06:13.889 --> 00:06:18.050 The matter led to adultery between them 00:06:18.050 --> 00:06:20.050 Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said 00:06:20.050 --> 00:06:25.050 In it, the questioner mentions everything that happened in the story 00:06:25.050 --> 00:06:29.050 Because it is possible that the mufti or ruler will understand this 00:06:29.050 --> 00:06:32.050 What is inferred regarding the specificity of the ruling on the issue 00:06:32.050 --> 00:06:34.050 To say the questioner 00:06:34.050 --> 00:06:37.050 My son was stubborn about this 00:06:37.050 --> 00:06:41.050 He only came to ask about the ruling on adultery 00:06:41.050 --> 00:06:43.050 And the secret is in that 00:06:43.050 --> 00:06:47.050 He wanted to make some excuse for his son 00:06:47.050 --> 00:06:50.050 And he was not famous for promiscuity 00:06:50.050 --> 00:06:54.050 He did not attack the woman, for example, or coerce her 00:06:54.050 --> 00:06:58.050 But this happened to him because of the constant saying 00:06:59.050 --> 00:07:03.050 Requires more humanization and pampering 00:07:03.050 --> 00:07:06.050 It can be used to encourage the deportation of foreigners 00:07:06.050 --> 00:07:09.050 From foreign countries as much as possible 00:07:09.050 --> 00:07:12.050 Because ten may lead to corruption 00:07:12.050 --> 00:07:16.240 And Satan uses it to cause corruption 00:07:16.240 --> 00:07:17.240 The second one 00:07:17.240 --> 00:07:20.240 Failure to maintain the wife’s chastity 00:07:20.240 --> 00:07:24.240 Not satisfying her physical and psychological needs 00:07:24.240 --> 00:07:28.240 This matter, although it cannot be confirmed 00:07:28.240 --> 00:07:30.240 Because it is not stipulated 00:07:30.240 --> 00:07:35.240 But it can be deduced from the perspective that a woman is satisfied with her husband 00:07:35.240 --> 00:07:38.240 Don't look to anyone else 00:07:38.240 --> 00:07:41.240 Unless the soul was malicious to begin with 00:07:41.240 --> 00:07:45.240 Usually holders of high political positions 00:07:45.240 --> 00:07:48.240 Being very busy outside the home 00:07:48.240 --> 00:07:51.240 Negligence towards the family 00:07:51.240 --> 00:07:55.240 The dear may have fallen into something like that 00:07:55.240 --> 00:07:58.339 This is a warning to all men 00:07:58.339 --> 00:08:02.339 In their various worldly and hereafter works 00:08:02.339 --> 00:08:06.339 Do not be distracted from the rights of wives by these actions 00:08:06.339 --> 00:08:09.339 They must balance work outside the home 00:08:09.339 --> 00:08:12.339 Whether for financial gain 00:08:12.339 --> 00:08:14.339 Or to call to God 00:08:14.339 --> 00:08:17.339 Between the rights of the wife and sitting with her 00:08:17.339 --> 00:08:19.339 And a nice talk with her 00:08:19.339 --> 00:08:22.339 Satisfying their innate needs 00:08:22.339 --> 00:08:26.660 The Commander of the Faithful Omar realized this fact 00:08:26.660 --> 00:08:29.660 It is a woman's need for her husband 00:08:29.660 --> 00:08:32.659 Because of an accident that happened to him 00:08:32.659 --> 00:08:36.659 He established a system for those who go out to fight for the sake of God 00:08:36.659 --> 00:08:40.659 The Mujahid is helped to maintain his wife’s honor 00:08:40.659 --> 00:08:43.659 It protects a woman from falling into vice 00:08:43.659 --> 00:08:45.690 On the authority of Zaid bin Aslam 00:08:45.690 --> 00:08:48.690 Omar bin Al-Khattab, may God be pleased with him 00:08:48.690 --> 00:08:51.690 He went out one night to guard people 00:08:51.690 --> 00:08:55.690 So he passed a woman while she was in her house and she was saying: 00:08:55.690 --> 00:08:59.690 This night grew long and darkened 00:08:59.690 --> 00:09:03.690 It took a long time for me not to play with Khalil 00:09:03.690 --> 00:09:07.690 By God, if it were not for the fear of God alone 00:09:07.690 --> 00:09:10.690 I would move the sides of this bed 00:09:10.690 --> 00:09:12.820 When Omar became 00:09:12.820 --> 00:09:15.820 Send to the woman and ask about her 00:09:16.820 --> 00:09:20.820 It was said: This is so-and-so, the daughter of so-and-so 00:09:20.820 --> 00:09:23.820 Her husband is a fighter for the sake of God 00:09:23.820 --> 00:09:25.820 So he sent a woman to her 00:09:25.820 --> 00:09:30.820 He said, "Stay with her until her husband comes." 00:09:30.820 --> 00:09:33.820 He wrote to her husband and closed it 00:09:33.820 --> 00:09:37.820 Then he went to his daughter Hafsa and said to her 00:09:37.820 --> 00:09:41.820 My daughter, how patient can a woman be with her husband? 00:09:41.820 --> 00:09:43.820 She said to him 00:09:43.820 --> 00:09:46.820 Father, may God forgive you 00:09:46.820 --> 00:09:49.820 Like you, I'm asking about this 00:09:49.820 --> 00:09:53.820 He told her that if it were not for something 00:09:53.820 --> 00:09:56.820 I want to look into it for the parish 00:09:56.820 --> 00:09:59.820 I didn't ask you about this 00:09:59.820 --> 00:10:03.820 She said four or five months 00:10:03.820 --> 00:10:05.820 Or six months 00:10:05.820 --> 00:10:08.879 Omar said: He invades people 00:10:08.879 --> 00:10:11.879 They walk for a month 00:10:11.879 --> 00:10:14.879 They will spend four months in their campaign 00:10:14.879 --> 00:10:16.879 They close for a month 00:10:16.879 --> 00:10:21.879 This was timed for the people because of their Sunnah in their invasion 00:10:21.879 --> 00:10:23.879 Narrated by Saeed bin Mansour 00:10:23.879 --> 00:10:26.200 The third one 00:10:26.200 --> 00:10:29.200 The dear’s reaction after he became certain 00:10:29.200 --> 00:10:32.200 That his wife was the one who sinned 00:10:32.200 --> 00:10:35.200 Do not suggest addressing the previous error 00:10:35.200 --> 00:10:37.200 In a correct way 00:10:37.200 --> 00:10:39.200 Rather, it indicates the continuity of error 00:10:39.200 --> 00:10:43.200 Who caused his wife to woo Joseph 00:10:43.200 --> 00:10:45.200 Al-Aziz has had enough of his wife 00:10:45.200 --> 00:10:47.200 Some of them ask for forgiveness 00:10:47.200 --> 00:10:49.200 Of the sin I fell into 00:10:49.200 --> 00:10:52.200 But he did not keep Joseph away from her 00:10:52.200 --> 00:10:54.200 Rather, he kept him in the palace 00:10:54.200 --> 00:10:57.200 This is what made her bold after that 00:10:57.200 --> 00:10:59.200 To conspire against him with the women 00:10:59.200 --> 00:11:01.200 Trying to convince him 00:11:01.200 --> 00:11:03.200 By falling into adultery 00:11:03.200 --> 00:11:05.200 But God protected him 00:11:05.200 --> 00:11:08.419 Al-Aziz had enough of Yusuf 00:11:08.419 --> 00:11:11.419 To ask him to cover up the matter 00:11:11.419 --> 00:11:13.419 And do not disclose it to anyone 00:11:13.419 --> 00:11:16.419 But he also did not protect Joseph 00:11:16.419 --> 00:11:18.419 From the dominance of a dear woman over him 00:11:18.419 --> 00:11:21.419 Rather, he kept it at her disposal 00:11:21.419 --> 00:11:23.419 And in her service 00:11:23.419 --> 00:11:25.419 This means the continuation of the meeting 00:11:25.419 --> 00:11:28.419 And the view from Al-Aziz’s wife to Joseph 00:11:28.419 --> 00:11:30.419 That is, a continuing infatuation 00:11:30.419 --> 00:11:32.679 The wife of Al-Aziz Yusuf 00:11:32.679 --> 00:11:34.679 Fourth 00:11:34.679 --> 00:11:36.679 He was negligent in checking 00:11:37.679 --> 00:11:41.679 As they encouraged her to this corruption 00:11:41.679 --> 00:11:44.679 Rather, the verses indicate their resurrection 00:11:44.679 --> 00:11:46.679 Also by his whims 00:11:46.679 --> 00:11:48.679 A man must check out 00:11:48.679 --> 00:11:50.679 Who enters his house? 00:11:50.679 --> 00:11:53.679 He sits with his wife 00:11:53.679 --> 00:11:55.679 The friend will love it 00:11:55.679 --> 00:11:58.679 This is a lesson for every man 00:11:58.679 --> 00:12:00.679 He discovers deceptions from their women 00:12:00.679 --> 00:12:02.679 On Al-Afaf Avenue 00:12:02.679 --> 00:12:05.679 To any of its three degrees 00:12:05.679 --> 00:12:08.710 Negligence in concealment and apparent adornment 00:12:08.710 --> 00:12:11.710 Relax in modesty in her dealings 00:12:11.710 --> 00:12:14.710 With men in word or deed 00:12:14.710 --> 00:12:16.710 Falling into adultery 00:12:16.710 --> 00:12:20.710 Or in its introduction to privacy and the Qiblah 00:12:20.710 --> 00:12:23.710 Touching and obscene and obscene speech 00:12:23.710 --> 00:12:25.710 To address the issue 00:12:25.710 --> 00:12:27.710 Correct legal treatment 00:12:27.710 --> 00:12:31.710 Women are prohibited from continuing on this path 00:12:31.710 --> 00:12:33.710 Or fall into the wrong 00:12:33.710 --> 00:12:35.710 It is adultery 00:12:35.710 --> 00:12:37.899 A woman is a man's offering 00:12:37.899 --> 00:12:40.899 Either he preserves and protects him 00:12:40.899 --> 00:12:42.899 Or ignore it 00:12:42.899 --> 00:12:44.970 If the man does what he owes 00:12:44.970 --> 00:12:48.970 Of advice, guidance and protection to offer 00:12:48.970 --> 00:12:51.970 He excused himself before God 00:12:51.970 --> 00:12:52.970 Even if he neglects it 00:12:52.970 --> 00:12:56.970 He will be punished for causing it 00:12:56.970 --> 00:13:01.190 The presence of women in an environment is escapable 00:13:01.190 --> 00:13:03.190 Lots of finery 00:13:03.190 --> 00:13:07.190 The man must warn her against these deviations 00:13:07.190 --> 00:13:10.190 By raising her in the right way 00:13:10.190 --> 00:13:13.259 Explaining this with legal evidence 00:13:13.259 --> 00:13:15.259 And her commitment to it 00:13:15.259 --> 00:13:17.259 It is for God's sake 00:13:17.259 --> 00:13:21.259 Not for the sake of having a man with her in life 00:13:21.259 --> 00:13:25.259 If he dies, she leaves what she was in during his life 00:13:25.259 --> 00:13:29.320 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, told us 00:13:29.320 --> 00:13:31.320 quality of women 00:13:31.320 --> 00:13:33.320 They have these qualities 00:13:33.320 --> 00:13:38.320 Namely, going out in front of the husband and in his life 00:13:38.320 --> 00:13:40.320 Then if he dies or travels 00:13:40.320 --> 00:13:44.320 Or missed for any reason 00:13:44.320 --> 00:13:47.320 She showed what she was hiding in herself 00:13:47.320 --> 00:13:50.320 Or it relapsed from what it was 00:13:50.320 --> 00:13:53.320 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:13:53.320 --> 00:13:56.320 Three don't ask about them 00:13:56.320 --> 00:13:59.320 A man left the group 00:13:59.320 --> 00:14:02.320 He disobeyed his imam and died a disobedient 00:14:02.320 --> 00:14:06.320 And a female slave or slave was left behind and died 00:14:06.320 --> 00:14:09.320 A woman whose husband was absent 00:14:09.320 --> 00:14:12.320 The worldly provisions are sufficient for her 00:14:12.320 --> 00:14:14.320 So I dressed up after him 00:14:14.320 --> 00:14:16.320 Don't ask about them 00:14:16.320 --> 00:14:18.320 Narrated by Ahmed 00:14:18.539 --> 00:14:22.539 Is a woman to blame if a man fails to keep her chaste? 00:14:22.539 --> 00:14:25.539 Because of this, she fell into adultery 00:14:25.539 --> 00:14:27.539 Or in some of its introductions 00:14:27.539 --> 00:14:30.539 Yes, women are to blame for that 00:14:30.539 --> 00:14:33.539 She is guilty and sinful 00:14:33.539 --> 00:14:36.539 She deserves divine punishment 00:14:36.539 --> 00:14:39.539 To do it in this world or in the afterlife 00:14:39.539 --> 00:14:42.539 Because she is commanded to obey God 00:14:42.539 --> 00:14:46.539 And to keep herself chaste and protect her from adultery and its precursors 00:14:46.539 --> 00:14:49.539 The man is also commanded to do so 00:14:49.539 --> 00:14:52.539 The man’s negligence in her legal rights 00:14:52.539 --> 00:14:55.539 This is no justification for her committing adultery 00:14:55.539 --> 00:14:59.539 Likewise, the woman’s failure to give the man his legal rights 00:14:59.539 --> 00:15:03.539 This is not a justification for him committing adultery 00:15:03.539 --> 00:15:08.700 But the man is blamed for his failure to keep his wife chaste 00:15:08.700 --> 00:15:12.700 He is accountable for that before God 00:15:12.700 --> 00:15:16.740 He is blamed for allowing his wife to work with men 00:15:16.740 --> 00:15:18.740 And expose her to temptation 00:15:18.740 --> 00:15:22.740 He is blamed for leaving his daughters with foreign men 00:15:23.740 --> 00:15:26.740 In various fields whatever 00:15:26.740 --> 00:15:28.740 And he was satisfied with that 00:15:28.740 --> 00:15:32.740 He is blamed for the way he handles the mistakes of his household 00:15:32.740 --> 00:15:35.740 If it violates the law 00:15:35.740 --> 00:15:41.769 Every man's reaction after finding out that his wife is cheating on him is his reaction 00:15:41.769 --> 00:15:44.769 It indicates his level of faith 00:15:44.769 --> 00:15:46.769 And his level of morals 00:15:46.769 --> 00:15:48.769 And his level of mind 00:15:48.769 --> 00:15:51.960 And his level of jealousy over his offer 00:15:51.960 --> 00:15:53.960 For the rest of the talk 00:15:53.960 --> 00:15:57.960 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 00:15:57.960 --> 00:16:03.889 The story of Joseph and the wife of Al-Aziz