In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
The story of Joseph, peace be upon him, with the wife of Al-Aziz
Did the dear cause his wife to sin?
A woman is a human being who is afflicted with the sins that afflict humans
This is not the problem, but the real problem
It is neglecting a woman until she falls into sin and then blaming her
God Almighty made the man responsible for the woman’s affairs
And He said, Glory be to Him
Men are guardians of women because God has favored some of them over others
God Almighty explains to us the man’s duty in the family system in Islam
That is, standing up for the woman
That is, he is primarily responsible for his wives and daughters
He is concerned with raising them in what God loves and is pleased with
And he will be responsible for this mission on the Day of Resurrection
Ibn Jarir, may God have mercy on him, said
He means by His saying, may He be glorified and praised
Men are guardians of women
Men are responsible for their women in performing their duties and taking their hands
What they must do for God and for themselves
If a man neglects a woman, a wife, a daughter, or someone else under his affliction, it is a sin for him
He is her partner in sin because he neglected her upbringing and took her hand
It is one of the main reasons why a married woman falls into the mire of sin and lust
Which may lead to adultery
The husband's neglect of her legal rights
Satisfying the innate needs that people are born with
A woman needs a man just as a man needs her
She needs physical and psychological satisfaction
She needs to be satisfied with beautiful, emotional words
She also needs to satisfy her desires with what God has made permissible for her with her husband
The husband's neglect of these needs may cause the woman to fall into sin
If you do not fear God and fear His punishment
The normal nature of a woman does not accept that she be with two men at the same time
Neither physically nor psychologically
If the nature is distorted, the woman becomes like an animal
It descends on it from all shapes and sizes
Without considering the consequences of this in this world or in the afterlife
She is blinded by her lust from seeing these consequences
Life was taken from her neck
And I did everything to get what I wanted
This is what the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said about life
It is from what people realized from the words of the first prophecy
If you are not ashamed, do whatever you want
Narrated by Al-Bukhari
And when we return to the story of Joseph with the wife of Al-Aziz
We wonder if Al-Aziz caused his wife to deviate and fall into this sin
There are some references in the story
Through it, one can know the extent of the mistake of the dear
And it caused his wife to woo Joseph, peace be upon him
The first one
Bringing a beautiful young man with a bully vibe into the house
He left him with the woman
Big mistake
He may make a woman fall in love with him and invite him to herself
As happened in this story
A story happened in the time of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
Similar to the mistake of the dear with his wife
Bringing a young man into the house to serve the wife
From Abu Hurairah and Zaid bin Khaled Al-Juhani, may God be pleased with them
They said
A Bedouin man came to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, and said:
O Messenger of God
I ask you, God
Unless you decide for me according to the Book of God
The other opponent said, and he is more knowledgeable than him
Yes, it was decided between us according to the Book of God
And humiliate me
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Say
He said
My son was stubborn about this, so we won over his wife
And I was told that Ibn should be stoned
So I ransomed him with a hundred female sheep and female slaves
So I asked the scholars
They told me that my son is not liable for a hundred lashes and a year’s exile
And my wife must be stoned
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
By the One in whose hand is my soul
I will judge between you according to the Book of God
The newborn and the sheep replied
Your son will be subjected to one hundred lashes and exile for a year
Go tomorrow, Anis, to this woman
If she confesses, stone her
He said
So he went to her and she confessed
So the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, ordered her to be stoned
Narrated by Al-Bukhari
In a narration by Al-Bukhari, Al-Asif’s relationship with women was explained
He was stubborn among the people of this
And by Al-Nasa'i and Al-Tabarani
My son was a servant to his wife
This man hired this young man
To work for him at home
He was entrusted with carrying out whatever matters his wife needed
This was a reason to get close to her, talk to her, and be familiar with her
The matter led to adultery between them
Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said
In it, the questioner mentions everything that happened in the story
Because it is possible that the mufti or ruler will understand this
What is inferred regarding the specificity of the ruling on the issue
To say the questioner
My son was stubborn about this
He only came to ask about the ruling on adultery
And the secret is in that
He wanted to make some excuse for his son
And he was not famous for promiscuity
He did not attack the woman, for example, or coerce her
But this happened to him because of the constant saying
Requires more humanization and pampering
It can be used to encourage the deportation of foreigners
From foreign countries as much as possible
Because ten may lead to corruption
And Satan uses it to cause corruption
The second one
Failure to maintain the wife’s chastity
Not satisfying her physical and psychological needs
This matter, although it cannot be confirmed
Because it is not stipulated
But it can be deduced from the perspective that a woman is satisfied with her husband
Don't look to anyone else
Unless the soul was malicious to begin with
Usually holders of high political positions
Being very busy outside the home
Negligence towards the family
The dear may have fallen into something like that
This is a warning to all men
In their various worldly and hereafter works
Do not be distracted from the rights of wives by these actions
They must balance work outside the home
Whether for financial gain
Or to call to God
Between the rights of the wife and sitting with her
And a nice talk with her
Satisfying their innate needs
The Commander of the Faithful Omar realized this fact
It is a woman's need for her husband
Because of an accident that happened to him
He established a system for those who go out to fight for the sake of God
The Mujahid is helped to maintain his wife’s honor
It protects a woman from falling into vice
On the authority of Zaid bin Aslam
Omar bin Al-Khattab, may God be pleased with him
He went out one night to guard people
So he passed a woman while she was in her house and she was saying:
This night grew long and darkened
It took a long time for me not to play with Khalil
By God, if it were not for the fear of God alone
I would move the sides of this bed
When Omar became
Send to the woman and ask about her
It was said: This is so-and-so, the daughter of so-and-so
Her husband is a fighter for the sake of God
So he sent a woman to her
He said, "Stay with her until her husband comes."
He wrote to her husband and closed it
Then he went to his daughter Hafsa and said to her
My daughter, how patient can a woman be with her husband?
She said to him
Father, may God forgive you
Like you, I'm asking about this
He told her that if it were not for something
I want to look into it for the parish
I didn't ask you about this
She said four or five months
Or six months
Omar said: He invades people
They walk for a month
They will spend four months in their campaign
They close for a month
This was timed for the people because of their Sunnah in their invasion
Narrated by Saeed bin Mansour
The third one
The dear’s reaction after he became certain
That his wife was the one who sinned
Do not suggest addressing the previous error
In a correct way
Rather, it indicates the continuity of error
Who caused his wife to woo Joseph
Al-Aziz has had enough of his wife
Some of them ask for forgiveness
Of the sin I fell into
But he did not keep Joseph away from her
Rather, he kept him in the palace
This is what made her bold after that
To conspire against him with the women
Trying to convince him
By falling into adultery
But God protected him
Al-Aziz had enough of Yusuf
To ask him to cover up the matter
And do not disclose it to anyone
But he also did not protect Joseph
From the dominance of a dear woman over him
Rather, he kept it at her disposal
And in her service
This means the continuation of the meeting
And the view from Al-Aziz’s wife to Joseph
That is, a continuing infatuation
The wife of Al-Aziz Yusuf
Fourth
He was negligent in checking
As they encouraged her to this corruption
Rather, the verses indicate their resurrection
Also by his whims
A man must check out
Who enters his house?
He sits with his wife
The friend will love it
This is a lesson for every man
He discovers deceptions from their women
On Al-Afaf Avenue
To any of its three degrees
Negligence in concealment and apparent adornment
Relax in modesty in her dealings
With men in word or deed
Falling into adultery
Or in its introduction to privacy and the Qiblah
Touching and obscene and obscene speech
To address the issue
Correct legal treatment
Women are prohibited from continuing on this path
Or fall into the wrong
It is adultery
A woman is a man's offering
Either he preserves and protects him
Or ignore it
If the man does what he owes
Of advice, guidance and protection to offer
He excused himself before God
Even if he neglects it
He will be punished for causing it
The presence of women in an environment is escapable
Lots of finery
The man must warn her against these deviations
By raising her in the right way
Explaining this with legal evidence
And her commitment to it
It is for God's sake
Not for the sake of having a man with her in life
If he dies, she leaves what she was in during his life
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, told us
quality of women
They have these qualities
Namely, going out in front of the husband and in his life
Then if he dies or travels
Or missed for any reason
She showed what she was hiding in herself
Or it relapsed from what it was
He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Three don't ask about them
A man left the group
He disobeyed his imam and died a disobedient
And a female slave or slave was left behind and died
A woman whose husband was absent
The worldly provisions are sufficient for her
So I dressed up after him
Don't ask about them
Narrated by Ahmed
Is a woman to blame if a man fails to keep her chaste?
Because of this, she fell into adultery
Or in some of its introductions
Yes, women are to blame for that
She is guilty and sinful
She deserves divine punishment
To do it in this world or in the afterlife
Because she is commanded to obey God
And to keep herself chaste and protect her from adultery and its precursors
The man is also commanded to do so
The man’s negligence in her legal rights
This is no justification for her committing adultery
Likewise, the woman’s failure to give the man his legal rights
This is not a justification for him committing adultery
But the man is blamed for his failure to keep his wife chaste
He is accountable for that before God
He is blamed for allowing his wife to work with men
And expose her to temptation
He is blamed for leaving his daughters with foreign men
In various fields whatever
And he was satisfied with that
He is blamed for the way he handles the mistakes of his household
If it violates the law
Every man's reaction after finding out that his wife is cheating on him is his reaction
It indicates his level of faith
And his level of morals
And his level of mind
And his level of jealousy over his offer
For the rest of the talk
We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
The story of Joseph and the wife of Al-Aziz