1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:10,279 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. The story of Maryam, daughter of Imran, peace be upon her. 2 00:00:10,279 --> 00:00:19,660 And comfort my eyes, O Maryam 3 00:00:19,660 --> 00:00:24,339 After Mary, peace be upon him, gave birth to Jesus, peace be upon him 4 00:00:24,339 --> 00:00:27,739 She started to get more worried 5 00:00:27,739 --> 00:00:30,539 That's why she said at birth 6 00:00:30,539 --> 00:00:36,740 I wish I had died before this and been forgotten, forgotten! 7 00:00:36,740 --> 00:00:38,420 These concerns 8 00:00:38,420 --> 00:00:42,100 Focused on how to confront her people 9 00:00:42,100 --> 00:00:44,340 What will you tell them? 10 00:00:44,340 --> 00:00:47,140 What will they think of her? 11 00:00:47,140 --> 00:00:49,380 This confrontation 12 00:00:49,380 --> 00:00:51,859 You need peace of mind 13 00:00:51,859 --> 00:00:55,899 So you know what to say and how to act 14 00:00:56,340 --> 00:00:59,060 It also needs psychological strength 15 00:00:59,060 --> 00:01:01,299 It absorbs their suspicions 16 00:01:01,299 --> 00:01:04,019 Whatever these suspicions are 17 00:01:04,019 --> 00:01:08,099 Which is not expected to be good thoughts 18 00:01:08,099 --> 00:01:13,219 She absorbs their hurtful words that may be directed at her 19 00:01:13,219 --> 00:01:16,659 Therefore, it must be Mary, peace be upon him 20 00:01:16,659 --> 00:01:20,390 She is reassured when facing her people 21 00:01:20,390 --> 00:01:22,590 Maryam, peace be upon him 22 00:01:22,590 --> 00:01:26,189 She needed two things to reassure herself 23 00:01:26,189 --> 00:01:29,700 She holds herself together in the face of her people 24 00:01:29,700 --> 00:01:31,019 The first 25 00:01:31,019 --> 00:01:34,480 Physical comfort after childbirth 26 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:37,079 If the body is tired 27 00:01:37,079 --> 00:01:40,280 It is difficult for him to think and concentrate 28 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:45,000 After giving birth, a woman needs something to strengthen her body 29 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:47,359 To restore her health 30 00:01:47,359 --> 00:01:52,439 You are able to think and focus on what you say and do 31 00:01:52,480 --> 00:01:54,599 So he told her 32 00:01:54,599 --> 00:02:01,120 And shake the trunk of the palm tree towards you, and it will rain down upon you sweet dates 33 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:05,180 Eat, drink, and soothe your eyes 34 00:02:05,180 --> 00:02:08,340 Ibn Jarir al-Tabari, may God have mercy on him, said 35 00:02:08,340 --> 00:02:10,659 God Almighty says mention him 36 00:02:10,659 --> 00:02:14,419 Eat the moisture that falls on you 37 00:02:14,419 --> 00:02:19,219 And drink from the secret water that your Lord has placed under you 38 00:02:19,219 --> 00:02:22,419 Do not fear hunger or thirst 39 00:02:22,419 --> 00:02:24,539 And soothe my eyes 40 00:02:24,539 --> 00:02:31,340 He says, “Have a good soul and be happy that you gave birth to me, and do not be sad.” 41 00:02:31,340 --> 00:02:36,020 The eye was set up because it is what is described as the decision 42 00:02:36,020 --> 00:02:38,219 But the meaning of the words 43 00:02:38,219 --> 00:02:41,419 And your eye is decided by your son 44 00:02:41,419 --> 00:02:44,259 Abu Zahra, may God have mercy on him, said 45 00:02:44,259 --> 00:02:47,539 Eat, drink, and soothe your eyes 46 00:02:47,539 --> 00:02:49,860 I am all of the fresh genie 47 00:02:49,860 --> 00:02:52,500 And drink from the secret stream 48 00:02:52,500 --> 00:02:58,460 And comfort your eyes with the pure boy God Almighty has given you 49 00:02:58,460 --> 00:03:01,180 And the decision of the eye is its stillness 50 00:03:01,180 --> 00:03:04,020 Man is in his dust and fear 51 00:03:04,020 --> 00:03:06,900 His eye rotates but does not stay still 52 00:03:06,900 --> 00:03:11,020 We were at peace with our eyes and were at peace 53 00:03:11,020 --> 00:03:14,659 The decision of the eye announces the decision of the soul 54 00:03:14,659 --> 00:03:16,780 The matter is decided by the eye 55 00:03:16,780 --> 00:03:19,939 Even if it is not under the power of will 56 00:03:19,939 --> 00:03:24,379 He ordered peace of mind and the removal of frightening obsessions 57 00:03:24,379 --> 00:03:26,900 And do not expect bad 58 00:03:26,900 --> 00:03:29,180 Because God is with her 59 00:03:29,180 --> 00:03:34,860 Paranormal phenomena occurred indicating that God Almighty was with her 60 00:03:34,860 --> 00:03:37,060 And whoever God is with 61 00:03:37,060 --> 00:03:42,659 He must have peace of mind and peace of mind 62 00:03:42,659 --> 00:03:47,139 He guided her to three things to achieve the first 63 00:03:47,139 --> 00:03:49,300 It is a comfort for the body 64 00:03:49,340 --> 00:03:50,580 And it is 65 00:03:50,580 --> 00:03:51,860 Firstly 66 00:03:51,860 --> 00:03:57,349 Eating from the date falling from a palm tree after shaking it 67 00:03:57,349 --> 00:04:00,830 Some scholars have taken from this verse 68 00:04:00,830 --> 00:04:03,509 That is the best thing to feed the soul 69 00:04:03,509 --> 00:04:04,990 Wet 70 00:04:04,990 --> 00:04:06,110 They said 71 00:04:06,110 --> 00:04:09,909 If only there was anything better for the postpartum period than fresh water 72 00:04:09,909 --> 00:04:14,710 May God feed him with Jesus during her postpartum period 73 00:04:14,710 --> 00:04:17,870 Al-Tahir bin Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said 74 00:04:17,910 --> 00:04:19,189 And wet 75 00:04:19,189 --> 00:04:21,870 Dates are not dried 76 00:04:21,870 --> 00:04:23,189 And the genie 77 00:04:23,189 --> 00:04:25,709 Fa'il means object 78 00:04:25,709 --> 00:04:27,230 Any reward 79 00:04:27,230 --> 00:04:30,470 It is a metaphor for the events of his downfall 80 00:04:30,470 --> 00:04:32,389 That is, its freshness 81 00:04:32,389 --> 00:04:35,990 It was not one of the hidden dates before 82 00:04:35,990 --> 00:04:39,790 Because whenever the date tree is closer to its palm tree 83 00:04:39,790 --> 00:04:42,410 It had the best taste 84 00:04:42,410 --> 00:04:43,689 Secondly 85 00:04:43,689 --> 00:04:46,370 Drinking from designated water 86 00:04:46,370 --> 00:04:47,569 And appointed 87 00:04:47,569 --> 00:04:50,790 Any pure pure water 88 00:04:50,790 --> 00:04:52,149 Thathaa 89 00:04:52,149 --> 00:04:55,389 Joy and happiness with the newborn 90 00:04:55,389 --> 00:04:57,870 Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said 91 00:04:57,870 --> 00:05:02,709 This is her reassurance in terms of safety from the pain of childbirth 92 00:05:02,709 --> 00:05:06,360 And getting good food and drink 93 00:05:06,360 --> 00:05:11,160 The second thing Mary needs to reassure herself 94 00:05:11,160 --> 00:05:16,180 It is the speech and argument with which she will confront her people 95 00:05:16,180 --> 00:05:23,500 The soul of Mary, peace be upon her, may have been busy thinking about what she would say to her people 96 00:05:23,500 --> 00:05:29,620 Guidance came to her to reverse what was going on in her soul and what was occupying her mind 97 00:05:29,620 --> 00:05:33,939 She was instructed to remain silent and not speak 98 00:05:33,939 --> 00:05:38,579 Rather, you worship God by remaining silent and refraining from speaking to humans 99 00:05:38,579 --> 00:05:40,220 He told her 100 00:05:40,220 --> 00:05:44,019 Either you see any human being 101 00:05:44,019 --> 00:05:47,980 So say, “I have vowed a fast to the Most Merciful.” 102 00:05:47,980 --> 00:05:52,060 I will not speak to anyone today 103 00:05:52,060 --> 00:05:55,259 Ibn Jarir al-Tabari, may God have mercy on him, said 104 00:05:55,259 --> 00:05:56,620 He says 105 00:05:56,620 --> 00:06:03,819 If you see one of the children of Adam speaking to you or asking you about anything related to you or your child 106 00:06:03,819 --> 00:06:06,100 And the reason you were born 107 00:06:06,100 --> 00:06:10,379 So say, “I have vowed a fast to the Most Merciful.” 108 00:06:10,379 --> 00:06:11,779 He says 109 00:06:11,779 --> 00:06:20,459 So say that I have imposed upon myself a silent obligation to God that I will not speak to any of the sons of Adam today 110 00:06:20,459 --> 00:06:23,220 Ibn Katheer, may God have mercy on him, said 111 00:06:23,220 --> 00:06:24,579 And he said 112 00:06:24,579 --> 00:06:28,339 Either you see any human being 113 00:06:28,339 --> 00:06:31,100 That is, no matter what you see from anyone 114 00:06:31,100 --> 00:06:35,220 So say, “I have vowed a fast to the Most Merciful.” 115 00:06:35,220 --> 00:06:38,779 I will not speak to anyone today 116 00:06:38,779 --> 00:06:40,899 What is meant by this saying? 117 00:06:40,899 --> 00:06:43,420 And point it out to him 118 00:06:43,420 --> 00:06:46,540 Not that what is meant is a verbal statement 119 00:06:46,540 --> 00:06:48,139 So that it does not contradict 120 00:06:48,139 --> 00:06:51,579 I will not speak to anyone today 121 00:06:51,579 --> 00:06:54,420 Anas bin Malik said in his saying: 122 00:06:54,420 --> 00:06:57,819 I have vowed a fast to the Most Merciful 123 00:06:57,819 --> 00:06:58,779 He said 124 00:06:58,779 --> 00:07:00,220 Silence 125 00:07:00,220 --> 00:07:03,500 And so said Ibn Abbas and Al-Dahhak 126 00:07:03,500 --> 00:07:05,699 And in a narration on the authority of Anas 127 00:07:05,699 --> 00:07:07,819 Fast and silence 128 00:07:07,860 --> 00:07:11,220 This is what Qatada and others said 129 00:07:11,220 --> 00:07:12,620 And what is meant 130 00:07:12,620 --> 00:07:15,980 If they fasted according to their law 131 00:07:15,980 --> 00:07:19,180 They are forbidden from eating and speaking 132 00:07:19,180 --> 00:07:22,019 This was stated by Al-Suddi and Qatada 133 00:07:22,019 --> 00:07:24,790 And Abdul Rahman bin Zaid 134 00:07:24,790 --> 00:07:26,790 Abu Ishaq said 135 00:07:26,790 --> 00:07:28,870 On the authority of Haritha he said: 136 00:07:28,870 --> 00:07:31,029 I was with Ibn Masoud 137 00:07:31,029 --> 00:07:32,829 Two men came 138 00:07:32,829 --> 00:07:36,709 One of them was greeted but the other was not 139 00:07:36,709 --> 00:07:37,829 And he said 140 00:07:37,829 --> 00:07:39,389 What's your business? 141 00:07:39,389 --> 00:07:41,029 His friends said 142 00:07:41,029 --> 00:07:44,509 He swore not to speak to people today 143 00:07:44,509 --> 00:07:47,029 Abdullah bin Masoud said 144 00:07:47,029 --> 00:07:50,230 Talk to people and greet them 145 00:07:50,230 --> 00:07:51,709 That is a woman 146 00:07:51,709 --> 00:07:54,269 She knew no one believed her 147 00:07:54,269 --> 00:07:57,189 She became pregnant without a husband 148 00:07:57,189 --> 00:08:00,509 This means Mary, peace be upon her 149 00:08:00,509 --> 00:08:03,949 To be an excuse for her if she was asked 150 00:08:03,949 --> 00:08:07,449 Narrated by Ibn Abi Hatim and Ibn Jarir 151 00:08:07,449 --> 00:08:10,290 Ibn al-Qayyim, may God have mercy on him, said 152 00:08:10,290 --> 00:08:12,209 But I ordered it 153 00:08:12,209 --> 00:08:15,149 Not to ask about her son 154 00:08:15,149 --> 00:08:17,990 Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said 155 00:08:17,990 --> 00:08:20,990 On the one hand, people said 156 00:08:20,990 --> 00:08:24,949 He ordered her to do so if she saw any human being 157 00:08:24,949 --> 00:08:27,709 To say on the face of the sign 158 00:08:27,709 --> 00:08:31,110 I have vowed a fast to the Most Merciful 159 00:08:31,110 --> 00:08:32,909 That is, silence 160 00:08:32,909 --> 00:08:36,269 I will not speak to anyone today 161 00:08:36,309 --> 00:08:39,350 That is, do not speak to them verbally 162 00:08:39,350 --> 00:08:43,070 To rest from their words and words 163 00:08:43,070 --> 00:08:44,870 He was known to them 164 00:08:44,870 --> 00:08:48,419 Silence is a legitimate act of worship 165 00:08:48,419 --> 00:08:50,620 But you were not ordered to speak to them 166 00:08:50,620 --> 00:08:53,100 In denying it to herself 167 00:08:53,100 --> 00:08:55,899 Because people don't believe her 168 00:08:55,899 --> 00:08:58,100 It is of no use 169 00:08:58,100 --> 00:08:59,700 And to be acquitted 170 00:08:59,700 --> 00:09:01,899 In the words of Jesus in the cradle 171 00:09:01,899 --> 00:09:05,100 The greatest witness to her innocence 172 00:09:05,100 --> 00:09:08,700 If a woman gives birth to a child without a husband 173 00:09:08,700 --> 00:09:11,700 They claimed that he was without anyone 174 00:09:11,700 --> 00:09:13,820 One of the biggest propaganda 175 00:09:13,820 --> 00:09:16,820 Which if several witnesses were established 176 00:09:16,820 --> 00:09:19,019 She couldn't believe it 177 00:09:19,019 --> 00:09:21,139 So I made evidence of this extraordinary thing 178 00:09:21,139 --> 00:09:23,860 Usually something of its kind 179 00:09:23,860 --> 00:09:28,379 These are the words of Jesus when he was very young 180 00:09:28,379 --> 00:09:32,580 And in this matter that happened to Mary, peace be upon him 181 00:09:32,580 --> 00:09:34,500 An example to all who seek 182 00:09:34,500 --> 00:09:38,419 In solving social or family problems 183 00:09:38,419 --> 00:09:42,500 Take advantage of these practical steps 184 00:09:42,500 --> 00:09:46,059 The person who has the problem is often his own thinking 185 00:09:46,059 --> 00:09:49,860 Under the control of those who deal with the bad deeds of the problem 186 00:09:49,860 --> 00:09:52,620 It may be difficult for him to see the solution 187 00:09:52,620 --> 00:09:56,889 He needs someone to show him the way 188 00:09:56,889 --> 00:09:59,330 So, we must seek reform 189 00:09:59,330 --> 00:10:03,929 To first get him out of the pessimistic view of his problem 190 00:10:03,929 --> 00:10:08,210 To the extent of God’s mercy and kindness to His servants 191 00:10:08,210 --> 00:10:12,009 Through his insight into Joan and the kindness of God Almighty towards him 192 00:10:12,009 --> 00:10:15,690 May God bless him with the same problem 193 00:10:15,690 --> 00:10:18,490 Then he connects him directly to God 194 00:10:18,490 --> 00:10:21,169 By teaching him the great supplication 195 00:10:21,169 --> 00:10:23,730 In the disappearance of worry and sadness 196 00:10:23,730 --> 00:10:28,210 May God take away the worry and sadness that afflicted him 197 00:10:28,210 --> 00:10:31,809 It makes it easier for him to see the truth of his problem 198 00:10:31,850 --> 00:10:35,870 Which filled his chest with worry and sadness 199 00:10:35,870 --> 00:10:39,190 On the authority of Ibn Masoud, may God be pleased with him, he said: 200 00:10:39,190 --> 00:10:42,950 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 201 00:10:42,950 --> 00:10:44,909 What a slave never said 202 00:10:44,909 --> 00:10:48,289 If he is afflicted with worry or sadness 203 00:10:48,289 --> 00:10:52,529 Oh God, I am your servant, the son of your servant, the son of your female servant 204 00:10:52,529 --> 00:10:54,409 My forelock is in your hand 205 00:10:54,409 --> 00:10:56,610 You are in control 206 00:10:56,610 --> 00:10:59,269 Be fair in your judgment 207 00:10:59,269 --> 00:11:01,429 I ask you with every name that is yours 208 00:11:01,470 --> 00:11:03,710 You named yourself 209 00:11:03,710 --> 00:11:06,309 Or remove it in your book 210 00:11:06,309 --> 00:11:09,590 Or taught it to someone from your creation 211 00:11:09,590 --> 00:11:13,509 Or have you kept it in your knowledge of the unseen? 212 00:11:13,509 --> 00:11:16,590 To make the Qur’an the spring of my heart 213 00:11:16,590 --> 00:11:18,269 And visual light 214 00:11:18,269 --> 00:11:20,070 My sadness is clear 215 00:11:20,070 --> 00:11:22,149 And my worry is gone 216 00:11:22,149 --> 00:11:27,899 Unless God takes away his worry and replaces his sadness with joy 217 00:11:27,899 --> 00:11:29,940 They said, O Messenger of God 218 00:11:29,980 --> 00:11:33,700 We should learn these words 219 00:11:33,700 --> 00:11:35,980 He said yes 220 00:11:35,980 --> 00:11:40,169 Whoever hears them should learn them 221 00:11:40,169 --> 00:11:42,659 Narrated by Ibn Hibban 222 00:11:42,659 --> 00:11:45,139 And the concerned owner of the problem 223 00:11:45,139 --> 00:11:49,019 He often refuses food and does not desire it 224 00:11:49,019 --> 00:11:54,340 Because of the intense thinking and sadness that controls himself over the problem 225 00:11:54,340 --> 00:11:58,580 His body becomes weak and his thinking becomes weak as well 226 00:11:58,580 --> 00:12:01,220 So, we must seek reform 227 00:12:01,220 --> 00:12:05,340 To return the person with the problem to his normal condition 228 00:12:05,340 --> 00:12:08,259 Until he calms himself down and eats 229 00:12:08,259 --> 00:12:13,970 He can think and react to the solution presented to him 230 00:12:13,970 --> 00:12:18,690 The Sunnah of the Prophet has guided you to a type of food 231 00:12:18,690 --> 00:12:22,779 It is greatly beneficial in cases of sadness 232 00:12:22,779 --> 00:12:25,580 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her 233 00:12:25,580 --> 00:12:29,379 It was when the deceased of her family died 234 00:12:29,379 --> 00:12:31,940 So the women gathered for that 235 00:12:31,940 --> 00:12:36,059 Then we separated except her family and her special ones 236 00:12:36,059 --> 00:12:40,139 I ordered a bunch of talbinah and it was cooked 237 00:12:40,139 --> 00:12:42,059 Then he made porridge 238 00:12:42,059 --> 00:12:44,980 So I poured the talbinah on it 239 00:12:44,980 --> 00:12:46,539 Then she said 240 00:12:46,539 --> 00:12:48,259 We are all from her 241 00:12:48,259 --> 00:12:53,259 For I heard the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, saying 242 00:12:53,259 --> 00:12:56,899 Talbinah is a gift for the patient's heart 243 00:12:56,899 --> 00:12:59,340 You go with some sadness 244 00:12:59,340 --> 00:13:01,740 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 245 00:13:01,740 --> 00:13:04,500 Ibn al-Mulqin, may God have mercy on him, said 246 00:13:04,500 --> 00:13:09,330 Talbinah is a soup made from flour and bran 247 00:13:09,330 --> 00:13:11,210 And the meaning of a group 248 00:13:11,210 --> 00:13:15,110 Comfortable and effortless 249 00:13:15,110 --> 00:13:18,710 Abu Abbas Al-Qurtubi, may God have mercy on him, said 250 00:13:18,710 --> 00:13:22,830 This means that it strengthens and activates him 251 00:13:22,870 --> 00:13:26,429 This is because it is delicious food 252 00:13:26,429 --> 00:13:28,950 Easy for the patient to administer 253 00:13:28,950 --> 00:13:31,070 If the patient uses it 254 00:13:31,070 --> 00:13:34,149 The hungry heat rushed off him 255 00:13:34,149 --> 00:13:39,149 He gained the nutritional power without any hardship 256 00:13:39,149 --> 00:13:43,230 Some of what was in him and was active will go away from him 257 00:13:43,230 --> 00:13:48,549 The distress and sadness he felt due to illness went away 258 00:13:48,549 --> 00:13:53,789 Rather, Aisha, may God be pleased with her, used to make it for the family of the deceased 259 00:13:53,789 --> 00:13:55,549 And she chats about it 260 00:13:55,549 --> 00:13:59,309 Because the family of the dead person is too preoccupied with grief for food 261 00:13:59,309 --> 00:14:03,710 Their insides became hot from hunger and sadness 262 00:14:03,710 --> 00:14:06,549 When Talbinah fed them 263 00:14:06,549 --> 00:14:09,590 The heat of hunger broke from them 264 00:14:09,590 --> 00:14:13,340 So some of what they were in was eased for them 265 00:14:13,340 --> 00:14:17,220 I ask God to remove our worries and sorrows 266 00:14:17,259 --> 00:14:20,220 He replaces it with joy and happiness 267 00:14:20,220 --> 00:14:24,139 And wellness in this world and the hereafter 268 00:14:24,139 --> 00:14:27,740 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 269 00:14:27,740 --> 00:14:30,580 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds