WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:10.279 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. The story of Maryam, daughter of Imran, peace be upon her. 00:00:10.279 --> 00:00:19.660 And comfort my eyes, O Maryam 00:00:19.660 --> 00:00:24.339 After Mary, peace be upon him, gave birth to Jesus, peace be upon him 00:00:24.339 --> 00:00:27.739 She started to get more worried 00:00:27.739 --> 00:00:30.539 That's why she said at birth 00:00:30.539 --> 00:00:36.740 I wish I had died before this and been forgotten, forgotten! 00:00:36.740 --> 00:00:38.420 These concerns 00:00:38.420 --> 00:00:42.100 Focused on how to confront her people 00:00:42.100 --> 00:00:44.340 What will you tell them? 00:00:44.340 --> 00:00:47.140 What will they think of her? 00:00:47.140 --> 00:00:49.380 This confrontation 00:00:49.380 --> 00:00:51.859 You need peace of mind 00:00:51.859 --> 00:00:55.899 So you know what to say and how to act 00:00:56.340 --> 00:00:59.060 It also needs psychological strength 00:00:59.060 --> 00:01:01.299 It absorbs their suspicions 00:01:01.299 --> 00:01:04.019 Whatever these suspicions are 00:01:04.019 --> 00:01:08.099 Which is not expected to be good thoughts 00:01:08.099 --> 00:01:13.219 She absorbs their hurtful words that may be directed at her 00:01:13.219 --> 00:01:16.659 Therefore, it must be Mary, peace be upon him 00:01:16.659 --> 00:01:20.390 She is reassured when facing her people 00:01:20.390 --> 00:01:22.590 Maryam, peace be upon him 00:01:22.590 --> 00:01:26.189 She needed two things to reassure herself 00:01:26.189 --> 00:01:29.700 She holds herself together in the face of her people 00:01:29.700 --> 00:01:31.019 The first 00:01:31.019 --> 00:01:34.480 Physical comfort after childbirth 00:01:34.480 --> 00:01:37.079 If the body is tired 00:01:37.079 --> 00:01:40.280 It is difficult for him to think and concentrate 00:01:40.280 --> 00:01:45.000 After giving birth, a woman needs something to strengthen her body 00:01:45.000 --> 00:01:47.359 To restore her health 00:01:47.359 --> 00:01:52.439 You are able to think and focus on what you say and do 00:01:52.480 --> 00:01:54.599 So he told her 00:01:54.599 --> 00:02:01.120 And shake the trunk of the palm tree towards you, and it will rain down upon you sweet dates 00:02:01.120 --> 00:02:05.180 Eat, drink, and soothe your eyes 00:02:05.180 --> 00:02:08.340 Ibn Jarir al-Tabari, may God have mercy on him, said 00:02:08.340 --> 00:02:10.659 God Almighty says mention him 00:02:10.659 --> 00:02:14.419 Eat the moisture that falls on you 00:02:14.419 --> 00:02:19.219 And drink from the secret water that your Lord has placed under you 00:02:19.219 --> 00:02:22.419 Do not fear hunger or thirst 00:02:22.419 --> 00:02:24.539 And soothe my eyes 00:02:24.539 --> 00:02:31.340 He says, “Have a good soul and be happy that you gave birth to me, and do not be sad.” 00:02:31.340 --> 00:02:36.020 The eye was set up because it is what is described as the decision 00:02:36.020 --> 00:02:38.219 But the meaning of the words 00:02:38.219 --> 00:02:41.419 And your eye is decided by your son 00:02:41.419 --> 00:02:44.259 Abu Zahra, may God have mercy on him, said 00:02:44.259 --> 00:02:47.539 Eat, drink, and soothe your eyes 00:02:47.539 --> 00:02:49.860 I am all of the fresh genie 00:02:49.860 --> 00:02:52.500 And drink from the secret stream 00:02:52.500 --> 00:02:58.460 And comfort your eyes with the pure boy God Almighty has given you 00:02:58.460 --> 00:03:01.180 And the decision of the eye is its stillness 00:03:01.180 --> 00:03:04.020 Man is in his dust and fear 00:03:04.020 --> 00:03:06.900 His eye rotates but does not stay still 00:03:06.900 --> 00:03:11.020 We were at peace with our eyes and were at peace 00:03:11.020 --> 00:03:14.659 The decision of the eye announces the decision of the soul 00:03:14.659 --> 00:03:16.780 The matter is decided by the eye 00:03:16.780 --> 00:03:19.939 Even if it is not under the power of will 00:03:19.939 --> 00:03:24.379 He ordered peace of mind and the removal of frightening obsessions 00:03:24.379 --> 00:03:26.900 And do not expect bad 00:03:26.900 --> 00:03:29.180 Because God is with her 00:03:29.180 --> 00:03:34.860 Paranormal phenomena occurred indicating that God Almighty was with her 00:03:34.860 --> 00:03:37.060 And whoever God is with 00:03:37.060 --> 00:03:42.659 He must have peace of mind and peace of mind 00:03:42.659 --> 00:03:47.139 He guided her to three things to achieve the first 00:03:47.139 --> 00:03:49.300 It is a comfort for the body 00:03:49.340 --> 00:03:50.580 And it is 00:03:50.580 --> 00:03:51.860 Firstly 00:03:51.860 --> 00:03:57.349 Eating from the date falling from a palm tree after shaking it 00:03:57.349 --> 00:04:00.830 Some scholars have taken from this verse 00:04:00.830 --> 00:04:03.509 That is the best thing to feed the soul 00:04:03.509 --> 00:04:04.990 Wet 00:04:04.990 --> 00:04:06.110 They said 00:04:06.110 --> 00:04:09.909 If only there was anything better for the postpartum period than fresh water 00:04:09.909 --> 00:04:14.710 May God feed him with Jesus during her postpartum period 00:04:14.710 --> 00:04:17.870 Al-Tahir bin Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said 00:04:17.910 --> 00:04:19.189 And wet 00:04:19.189 --> 00:04:21.870 Dates are not dried 00:04:21.870 --> 00:04:23.189 And the genie 00:04:23.189 --> 00:04:25.709 Fa'il means object 00:04:25.709 --> 00:04:27.230 Any reward 00:04:27.230 --> 00:04:30.470 It is a metaphor for the events of his downfall 00:04:30.470 --> 00:04:32.389 That is, its freshness 00:04:32.389 --> 00:04:35.990 It was not one of the hidden dates before 00:04:35.990 --> 00:04:39.790 Because whenever the date tree is closer to its palm tree 00:04:39.790 --> 00:04:42.410 It had the best taste 00:04:42.410 --> 00:04:43.689 Secondly 00:04:43.689 --> 00:04:46.370 Drinking from designated water 00:04:46.370 --> 00:04:47.569 And appointed 00:04:47.569 --> 00:04:50.790 Any pure pure water 00:04:50.790 --> 00:04:52.149 Thathaa 00:04:52.149 --> 00:04:55.389 Joy and happiness with the newborn 00:04:55.389 --> 00:04:57.870 Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said 00:04:57.870 --> 00:05:02.709 This is her reassurance in terms of safety from the pain of childbirth 00:05:02.709 --> 00:05:06.360 And getting good food and drink 00:05:06.360 --> 00:05:11.160 The second thing Mary needs to reassure herself 00:05:11.160 --> 00:05:16.180 It is the speech and argument with which she will confront her people 00:05:16.180 --> 00:05:23.500 The soul of Mary, peace be upon her, may have been busy thinking about what she would say to her people 00:05:23.500 --> 00:05:29.620 Guidance came to her to reverse what was going on in her soul and what was occupying her mind 00:05:29.620 --> 00:05:33.939 She was instructed to remain silent and not speak 00:05:33.939 --> 00:05:38.579 Rather, you worship God by remaining silent and refraining from speaking to humans 00:05:38.579 --> 00:05:40.220 He told her 00:05:40.220 --> 00:05:44.019 Either you see any human being 00:05:44.019 --> 00:05:47.980 So say, “I have vowed a fast to the Most Merciful.” 00:05:47.980 --> 00:05:52.060 I will not speak to anyone today 00:05:52.060 --> 00:05:55.259 Ibn Jarir al-Tabari, may God have mercy on him, said 00:05:55.259 --> 00:05:56.620 He says 00:05:56.620 --> 00:06:03.819 If you see one of the children of Adam speaking to you or asking you about anything related to you or your child 00:06:03.819 --> 00:06:06.100 And the reason you were born 00:06:06.100 --> 00:06:10.379 So say, “I have vowed a fast to the Most Merciful.” 00:06:10.379 --> 00:06:11.779 He says 00:06:11.779 --> 00:06:20.459 So say that I have imposed upon myself a silent obligation to God that I will not speak to any of the sons of Adam today 00:06:20.459 --> 00:06:23.220 Ibn Katheer, may God have mercy on him, said 00:06:23.220 --> 00:06:24.579 And he said 00:06:24.579 --> 00:06:28.339 Either you see any human being 00:06:28.339 --> 00:06:31.100 That is, no matter what you see from anyone 00:06:31.100 --> 00:06:35.220 So say, “I have vowed a fast to the Most Merciful.” 00:06:35.220 --> 00:06:38.779 I will not speak to anyone today 00:06:38.779 --> 00:06:40.899 What is meant by this saying? 00:06:40.899 --> 00:06:43.420 And point it out to him 00:06:43.420 --> 00:06:46.540 Not that what is meant is a verbal statement 00:06:46.540 --> 00:06:48.139 So that it does not contradict 00:06:48.139 --> 00:06:51.579 I will not speak to anyone today 00:06:51.579 --> 00:06:54.420 Anas bin Malik said in his saying: 00:06:54.420 --> 00:06:57.819 I have vowed a fast to the Most Merciful 00:06:57.819 --> 00:06:58.779 He said 00:06:58.779 --> 00:07:00.220 Silence 00:07:00.220 --> 00:07:03.500 And so said Ibn Abbas and Al-Dahhak 00:07:03.500 --> 00:07:05.699 And in a narration on the authority of Anas 00:07:05.699 --> 00:07:07.819 Fast and silence 00:07:07.860 --> 00:07:11.220 This is what Qatada and others said 00:07:11.220 --> 00:07:12.620 And what is meant 00:07:12.620 --> 00:07:15.980 If they fasted according to their law 00:07:15.980 --> 00:07:19.180 They are forbidden from eating and speaking 00:07:19.180 --> 00:07:22.019 This was stated by Al-Suddi and Qatada 00:07:22.019 --> 00:07:24.790 And Abdul Rahman bin Zaid 00:07:24.790 --> 00:07:26.790 Abu Ishaq said 00:07:26.790 --> 00:07:28.870 On the authority of Haritha he said: 00:07:28.870 --> 00:07:31.029 I was with Ibn Masoud 00:07:31.029 --> 00:07:32.829 Two men came 00:07:32.829 --> 00:07:36.709 One of them was greeted but the other was not 00:07:36.709 --> 00:07:37.829 And he said 00:07:37.829 --> 00:07:39.389 What's your business? 00:07:39.389 --> 00:07:41.029 His friends said 00:07:41.029 --> 00:07:44.509 He swore not to speak to people today 00:07:44.509 --> 00:07:47.029 Abdullah bin Masoud said 00:07:47.029 --> 00:07:50.230 Talk to people and greet them 00:07:50.230 --> 00:07:51.709 That is a woman 00:07:51.709 --> 00:07:54.269 She knew no one believed her 00:07:54.269 --> 00:07:57.189 She became pregnant without a husband 00:07:57.189 --> 00:08:00.509 This means Mary, peace be upon her 00:08:00.509 --> 00:08:03.949 To be an excuse for her if she was asked 00:08:03.949 --> 00:08:07.449 Narrated by Ibn Abi Hatim and Ibn Jarir 00:08:07.449 --> 00:08:10.290 Ibn al-Qayyim, may God have mercy on him, said 00:08:10.290 --> 00:08:12.209 But I ordered it 00:08:12.209 --> 00:08:15.149 Not to ask about her son 00:08:15.149 --> 00:08:17.990 Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said 00:08:17.990 --> 00:08:20.990 On the one hand, people said 00:08:20.990 --> 00:08:24.949 He ordered her to do so if she saw any human being 00:08:24.949 --> 00:08:27.709 To say on the face of the sign 00:08:27.709 --> 00:08:31.110 I have vowed a fast to the Most Merciful 00:08:31.110 --> 00:08:32.909 That is, silence 00:08:32.909 --> 00:08:36.269 I will not speak to anyone today 00:08:36.309 --> 00:08:39.350 That is, do not speak to them verbally 00:08:39.350 --> 00:08:43.070 To rest from their words and words 00:08:43.070 --> 00:08:44.870 He was known to them 00:08:44.870 --> 00:08:48.419 Silence is a legitimate act of worship 00:08:48.419 --> 00:08:50.620 But you were not ordered to speak to them 00:08:50.620 --> 00:08:53.100 In denying it to herself 00:08:53.100 --> 00:08:55.899 Because people don't believe her 00:08:55.899 --> 00:08:58.100 It is of no use 00:08:58.100 --> 00:08:59.700 And to be acquitted 00:08:59.700 --> 00:09:01.899 In the words of Jesus in the cradle 00:09:01.899 --> 00:09:05.100 The greatest witness to her innocence 00:09:05.100 --> 00:09:08.700 If a woman gives birth to a child without a husband 00:09:08.700 --> 00:09:11.700 They claimed that he was without anyone 00:09:11.700 --> 00:09:13.820 One of the biggest propaganda 00:09:13.820 --> 00:09:16.820 Which if several witnesses were established 00:09:16.820 --> 00:09:19.019 She couldn't believe it 00:09:19.019 --> 00:09:21.139 So I made evidence of this extraordinary thing 00:09:21.139 --> 00:09:23.860 Usually something of its kind 00:09:23.860 --> 00:09:28.379 These are the words of Jesus when he was very young 00:09:28.379 --> 00:09:32.580 And in this matter that happened to Mary, peace be upon him 00:09:32.580 --> 00:09:34.500 An example to all who seek 00:09:34.500 --> 00:09:38.419 In solving social or family problems 00:09:38.419 --> 00:09:42.500 Take advantage of these practical steps 00:09:42.500 --> 00:09:46.059 The person who has the problem is often his own thinking 00:09:46.059 --> 00:09:49.860 Under the control of those who deal with the bad deeds of the problem 00:09:49.860 --> 00:09:52.620 It may be difficult for him to see the solution 00:09:52.620 --> 00:09:56.889 He needs someone to show him the way 00:09:56.889 --> 00:09:59.330 So, we must seek reform 00:09:59.330 --> 00:10:03.929 To first get him out of the pessimistic view of his problem 00:10:03.929 --> 00:10:08.210 To the extent of God’s mercy and kindness to His servants 00:10:08.210 --> 00:10:12.009 Through his insight into Joan and the kindness of God Almighty towards him 00:10:12.009 --> 00:10:15.690 May God bless him with the same problem 00:10:15.690 --> 00:10:18.490 Then he connects him directly to God 00:10:18.490 --> 00:10:21.169 By teaching him the great supplication 00:10:21.169 --> 00:10:23.730 In the disappearance of worry and sadness 00:10:23.730 --> 00:10:28.210 May God take away the worry and sadness that afflicted him 00:10:28.210 --> 00:10:31.809 It makes it easier for him to see the truth of his problem 00:10:31.850 --> 00:10:35.870 Which filled his chest with worry and sadness 00:10:35.870 --> 00:10:39.190 On the authority of Ibn Masoud, may God be pleased with him, he said: 00:10:39.190 --> 00:10:42.950 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:10:42.950 --> 00:10:44.909 What a slave never said 00:10:44.909 --> 00:10:48.289 If he is afflicted with worry or sadness 00:10:48.289 --> 00:10:52.529 Oh God, I am your servant, the son of your servant, the son of your female servant 00:10:52.529 --> 00:10:54.409 My forelock is in your hand 00:10:54.409 --> 00:10:56.610 You are in control 00:10:56.610 --> 00:10:59.269 Be fair in your judgment 00:10:59.269 --> 00:11:01.429 I ask you with every name that is yours 00:11:01.470 --> 00:11:03.710 You named yourself 00:11:03.710 --> 00:11:06.309 Or remove it in your book 00:11:06.309 --> 00:11:09.590 Or taught it to someone from your creation 00:11:09.590 --> 00:11:13.509 Or have you kept it in your knowledge of the unseen? 00:11:13.509 --> 00:11:16.590 To make the Qur’an the spring of my heart 00:11:16.590 --> 00:11:18.269 And visual light 00:11:18.269 --> 00:11:20.070 My sadness is clear 00:11:20.070 --> 00:11:22.149 And my worry is gone 00:11:22.149 --> 00:11:27.899 Unless God takes away his worry and replaces his sadness with joy 00:11:27.899 --> 00:11:29.940 They said, O Messenger of God 00:11:29.980 --> 00:11:33.700 We should learn these words 00:11:33.700 --> 00:11:35.980 He said yes 00:11:35.980 --> 00:11:40.169 Whoever hears them should learn them 00:11:40.169 --> 00:11:42.659 Narrated by Ibn Hibban 00:11:42.659 --> 00:11:45.139 And the concerned owner of the problem 00:11:45.139 --> 00:11:49.019 He often refuses food and does not desire it 00:11:49.019 --> 00:11:54.340 Because of the intense thinking and sadness that controls himself over the problem 00:11:54.340 --> 00:11:58.580 His body becomes weak and his thinking becomes weak as well 00:11:58.580 --> 00:12:01.220 So, we must seek reform 00:12:01.220 --> 00:12:05.340 To return the person with the problem to his normal condition 00:12:05.340 --> 00:12:08.259 Until he calms himself down and eats 00:12:08.259 --> 00:12:13.970 He can think and react to the solution presented to him 00:12:13.970 --> 00:12:18.690 The Sunnah of the Prophet has guided you to a type of food 00:12:18.690 --> 00:12:22.779 It is greatly beneficial in cases of sadness 00:12:22.779 --> 00:12:25.580 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:12:25.580 --> 00:12:29.379 It was when the deceased of her family died 00:12:29.379 --> 00:12:31.940 So the women gathered for that 00:12:31.940 --> 00:12:36.059 Then we separated except her family and her special ones 00:12:36.059 --> 00:12:40.139 I ordered a bunch of talbinah and it was cooked 00:12:40.139 --> 00:12:42.059 Then he made porridge 00:12:42.059 --> 00:12:44.980 So I poured the talbinah on it 00:12:44.980 --> 00:12:46.539 Then she said 00:12:46.539 --> 00:12:48.259 We are all from her 00:12:48.259 --> 00:12:53.259 For I heard the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, saying 00:12:53.259 --> 00:12:56.899 Talbinah is a gift for the patient's heart 00:12:56.899 --> 00:12:59.340 You go with some sadness 00:12:59.340 --> 00:13:01.740 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 00:13:01.740 --> 00:13:04.500 Ibn al-Mulqin, may God have mercy on him, said 00:13:04.500 --> 00:13:09.330 Talbinah is a soup made from flour and bran 00:13:09.330 --> 00:13:11.210 And the meaning of a group 00:13:11.210 --> 00:13:15.110 Comfortable and effortless 00:13:15.110 --> 00:13:18.710 Abu Abbas Al-Qurtubi, may God have mercy on him, said 00:13:18.710 --> 00:13:22.830 This means that it strengthens and activates him 00:13:22.870 --> 00:13:26.429 This is because it is delicious food 00:13:26.429 --> 00:13:28.950 Easy for the patient to administer 00:13:28.950 --> 00:13:31.070 If the patient uses it 00:13:31.070 --> 00:13:34.149 The hungry heat rushed off him 00:13:34.149 --> 00:13:39.149 He gained the nutritional power without any hardship 00:13:39.149 --> 00:13:43.230 Some of what was in him and was active will go away from him 00:13:43.230 --> 00:13:48.549 The distress and sadness he felt due to illness went away 00:13:48.549 --> 00:13:53.789 Rather, Aisha, may God be pleased with her, used to make it for the family of the deceased 00:13:53.789 --> 00:13:55.549 And she chats about it 00:13:55.549 --> 00:13:59.309 Because the family of the dead person is too preoccupied with grief for food 00:13:59.309 --> 00:14:03.710 Their insides became hot from hunger and sadness 00:14:03.710 --> 00:14:06.549 When Talbinah fed them 00:14:06.549 --> 00:14:09.590 The heat of hunger broke from them 00:14:09.590 --> 00:14:13.340 So some of what they were in was eased for them 00:14:13.340 --> 00:14:17.220 I ask God to remove our worries and sorrows 00:14:17.259 --> 00:14:20.220 He replaces it with joy and happiness 00:14:20.220 --> 00:14:24.139 And wellness in this world and the hereafter 00:14:24.139 --> 00:14:27.740 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 00:14:27.740 --> 00:14:30.580 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds