In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. The story of Maryam, daughter of Imran, peace be upon her.
And comfort my eyes, O Maryam
After Mary, peace be upon him, gave birth to Jesus, peace be upon him
She started to get more worried
That's why she said at birth
I wish I had died before this and been forgotten, forgotten!
These concerns
Focused on how to confront her people
What will you tell them?
What will they think of her?
This confrontation
You need peace of mind
So you know what to say and how to act
It also needs psychological strength
It absorbs their suspicions
Whatever these suspicions are
Which is not expected to be good thoughts
She absorbs their hurtful words that may be directed at her
Therefore, it must be Mary, peace be upon him
She is reassured when facing her people
Maryam, peace be upon him
She needed two things to reassure herself
She holds herself together in the face of her people
The first
Physical comfort after childbirth
If the body is tired
It is difficult for him to think and concentrate
After giving birth, a woman needs something to strengthen her body
To restore her health
You are able to think and focus on what you say and do
So he told her
And shake the trunk of the palm tree towards you, and it will rain down upon you sweet dates
Eat, drink, and soothe your eyes
Ibn Jarir al-Tabari, may God have mercy on him, said
God Almighty says mention him
Eat the moisture that falls on you
And drink from the secret water that your Lord has placed under you
Do not fear hunger or thirst
And soothe my eyes
He says, “Have a good soul and be happy that you gave birth to me, and do not be sad.”
The eye was set up because it is what is described as the decision
But the meaning of the words
And your eye is decided by your son
Abu Zahra, may God have mercy on him, said
Eat, drink, and soothe your eyes
I am all of the fresh genie
And drink from the secret stream
And comfort your eyes with the pure boy God Almighty has given you
And the decision of the eye is its stillness
Man is in his dust and fear
His eye rotates but does not stay still
We were at peace with our eyes and were at peace
The decision of the eye announces the decision of the soul
The matter is decided by the eye
Even if it is not under the power of will
He ordered peace of mind and the removal of frightening obsessions
And do not expect bad
Because God is with her
Paranormal phenomena occurred indicating that God Almighty was with her
And whoever God is with
He must have peace of mind and peace of mind
He guided her to three things to achieve the first
It is a comfort for the body
And it is
Firstly
Eating from the date falling from a palm tree after shaking it
Some scholars have taken from this verse
That is the best thing to feed the soul
Wet
They said
If only there was anything better for the postpartum period than fresh water
May God feed him with Jesus during her postpartum period
Al-Tahir bin Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said
And wet
Dates are not dried
And the genie
Fa'il means object
Any reward
It is a metaphor for the events of his downfall
That is, its freshness
It was not one of the hidden dates before
Because whenever the date tree is closer to its palm tree
It had the best taste
Secondly
Drinking from designated water
And appointed
Any pure pure water
Thathaa
Joy and happiness with the newborn
Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said
This is her reassurance in terms of safety from the pain of childbirth
And getting good food and drink
The second thing Mary needs to reassure herself
It is the speech and argument with which she will confront her people
The soul of Mary, peace be upon her, may have been busy thinking about what she would say to her people
Guidance came to her to reverse what was going on in her soul and what was occupying her mind
She was instructed to remain silent and not speak
Rather, you worship God by remaining silent and refraining from speaking to humans
He told her
Either you see any human being
So say, “I have vowed a fast to the Most Merciful.”
I will not speak to anyone today
Ibn Jarir al-Tabari, may God have mercy on him, said
He says
If you see one of the children of Adam speaking to you or asking you about anything related to you or your child
And the reason you were born
So say, “I have vowed a fast to the Most Merciful.”
He says
So say that I have imposed upon myself a silent obligation to God that I will not speak to any of the sons of Adam today
Ibn Katheer, may God have mercy on him, said
And he said
Either you see any human being
That is, no matter what you see from anyone
So say, “I have vowed a fast to the Most Merciful.”
I will not speak to anyone today
What is meant by this saying?
And point it out to him
Not that what is meant is a verbal statement
So that it does not contradict
I will not speak to anyone today
Anas bin Malik said in his saying:
I have vowed a fast to the Most Merciful
He said
Silence
And so said Ibn Abbas and Al-Dahhak
And in a narration on the authority of Anas
Fast and silence
This is what Qatada and others said
And what is meant
If they fasted according to their law
They are forbidden from eating and speaking
This was stated by Al-Suddi and Qatada
And Abdul Rahman bin Zaid
Abu Ishaq said
On the authority of Haritha he said:
I was with Ibn Masoud
Two men came
One of them was greeted but the other was not
And he said
What's your business?
His friends said
He swore not to speak to people today
Abdullah bin Masoud said
Talk to people and greet them
That is a woman
She knew no one believed her
She became pregnant without a husband
This means Mary, peace be upon her
To be an excuse for her if she was asked
Narrated by Ibn Abi Hatim and Ibn Jarir
Ibn al-Qayyim, may God have mercy on him, said
But I ordered it
Not to ask about her son
Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said
On the one hand, people said
He ordered her to do so if she saw any human being
To say on the face of the sign
I have vowed a fast to the Most Merciful
That is, silence
I will not speak to anyone today
That is, do not speak to them verbally
To rest from their words and words
He was known to them
Silence is a legitimate act of worship
But you were not ordered to speak to them
In denying it to herself
Because people don't believe her
It is of no use
And to be acquitted
In the words of Jesus in the cradle
The greatest witness to her innocence
If a woman gives birth to a child without a husband
They claimed that he was without anyone
One of the biggest propaganda
Which if several witnesses were established
She couldn't believe it
So I made evidence of this extraordinary thing
Usually something of its kind
These are the words of Jesus when he was very young
And in this matter that happened to Mary, peace be upon him
An example to all who seek
In solving social or family problems
Take advantage of these practical steps
The person who has the problem is often his own thinking
Under the control of those who deal with the bad deeds of the problem
It may be difficult for him to see the solution
He needs someone to show him the way
So, we must seek reform
To first get him out of the pessimistic view of his problem
To the extent of God’s mercy and kindness to His servants
Through his insight into Joan and the kindness of God Almighty towards him
May God bless him with the same problem
Then he connects him directly to God
By teaching him the great supplication
In the disappearance of worry and sadness
May God take away the worry and sadness that afflicted him
It makes it easier for him to see the truth of his problem
Which filled his chest with worry and sadness
On the authority of Ibn Masoud, may God be pleased with him, he said:
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
What a slave never said
If he is afflicted with worry or sadness
Oh God, I am your servant, the son of your servant, the son of your female servant
My forelock is in your hand
You are in control
Be fair in your judgment
I ask you with every name that is yours
You named yourself
Or remove it in your book
Or taught it to someone from your creation
Or have you kept it in your knowledge of the unseen?
To make the Qur’an the spring of my heart
And visual light
My sadness is clear
And my worry is gone
Unless God takes away his worry and replaces his sadness with joy
They said, O Messenger of God
We should learn these words
He said yes
Whoever hears them should learn them
Narrated by Ibn Hibban
And the concerned owner of the problem
He often refuses food and does not desire it
Because of the intense thinking and sadness that controls himself over the problem
His body becomes weak and his thinking becomes weak as well
So, we must seek reform
To return the person with the problem to his normal condition
Until he calms himself down and eats
He can think and react to the solution presented to him
The Sunnah of the Prophet has guided you to a type of food
It is greatly beneficial in cases of sadness
On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her
It was when the deceased of her family died
So the women gathered for that
Then we separated except her family and her special ones
I ordered a bunch of talbinah and it was cooked
Then he made porridge
So I poured the talbinah on it
Then she said
We are all from her
For I heard the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, saying
Talbinah is a gift for the patient's heart
You go with some sadness
Narrated by Al-Bukhari
Ibn al-Mulqin, may God have mercy on him, said
Talbinah is a soup made from flour and bran
And the meaning of a group
Comfortable and effortless
Abu Abbas Al-Qurtubi, may God have mercy on him, said
This means that it strengthens and activates him
This is because it is delicious food
Easy for the patient to administer
If the patient uses it
The hungry heat rushed off him
He gained the nutritional power without any hardship
Some of what was in him and was active will go away from him
The distress and sadness he felt due to illness went away
Rather, Aisha, may God be pleased with her, used to make it for the family of the deceased
And she chats about it
Because the family of the dead person is too preoccupied with grief for food
Their insides became hot from hunger and sadness
When Talbinah fed them
The heat of hunger broke from them
So some of what they were in was eased for them
I ask God to remove our worries and sorrows
He replaces it with joy and happiness
And wellness in this world and the hereafter
We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds