1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,680 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 2 00:00:03,620 --> 00:00:05,900 The story of our mother Eve 3 00:00:08,449 --> 00:00:12,009 Oh Eve, who is your role model? 4 00:00:14,570 --> 00:00:18,530 Oh Eve, who is your role model in life? 5 00:00:19,010 --> 00:00:23,050 A question that I don't think you can answer wrongly 6 00:00:23,399 --> 00:00:25,640 I expect you to say so 7 00:00:25,719 --> 00:00:30,120 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, is my role model 8 00:00:30,929 --> 00:00:35,490 This is the answer that comes to the soul quickly 9 00:00:35,890 --> 00:00:38,649 It has great significance in the soul 10 00:00:39,049 --> 00:00:45,289 It also indicates the great position of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, in your heart 11 00:00:45,990 --> 00:00:49,590 But God tested us, Eve, by saying: 12 00:00:50,460 --> 00:01:01,259 Say, “If you love God, then follow me. God will love you and forgive you your sins.” 13 00:01:01,420 --> 00:01:04,859 God is Forgiving and Merciful 14 00:01:05,099 --> 00:01:09,260 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” 15 00:01:09,420 --> 00:01:16,299 If they turn away, then God does not love the disbelievers 16 00:01:17,599 --> 00:01:19,640 Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said 17 00:01:20,390 --> 00:01:25,310 This noble verse applies to everyone who claims to love God 18 00:01:25,870 --> 00:01:28,590 It is not in the Muhammadan way 19 00:01:29,269 --> 00:01:32,590 He is false in his claim regarding the same matter 20 00:01:32,989 --> 00:01:35,390 So that he follows the Muhammadan law 21 00:01:35,790 --> 00:01:41,030 And the Prophetic religion in all its words, deeds and conditions 22 00:01:41,930 --> 00:01:47,409 It was also proven in the Sahih on the authority of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, that he said 23 00:01:48,129 --> 00:01:51,969 Whoever does something that is not according to our command, it will be rejected 24 00:01:52,769 --> 00:01:54,049 That's why he said 25 00:01:54,769 --> 00:02:00,409 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you.” 26 00:02:01,010 --> 00:02:06,010 That is, he will get you more than what you asked for from your love 27 00:02:06,489 --> 00:02:08,729 And it is His love for you 28 00:02:09,289 --> 00:02:11,050 It is greater than the first 29 00:02:11,770 --> 00:02:14,289 As some wise scholars said 30 00:02:14,889 --> 00:02:16,650 It's not about loving 31 00:02:17,250 --> 00:02:19,409 It's about loving 32 00:02:20,300 --> 00:02:23,340 Al-Hasan Al-Basri and other predecessors said 33 00:02:24,099 --> 00:02:26,819 Some people claimed that they love God 34 00:02:27,379 --> 00:02:30,740 So God tested them with this verse and said: 35 00:02:31,500 --> 00:02:37,099 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you.” 36 00:02:37,849 --> 00:02:39,289 Then God Almighty said 37 00:02:39,969 --> 00:02:41,930 And He forgives you your sins 38 00:02:42,330 --> 00:02:44,530 God is Forgiving and Merciful 39 00:02:45,210 --> 00:02:45,610 Yes 40 00:02:46,090 --> 00:02:49,449 By following the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace 41 00:02:49,930 --> 00:02:53,569 You get all this from the blessing of his embassy 42 00:02:54,490 --> 00:02:59,090 Then God Almighty said a command for everyone, both private and public 43 00:02:59,810 --> 00:03:02,050 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” 44 00:03:02,770 --> 00:03:03,930 If they turn away 45 00:03:04,409 --> 00:03:06,009 That is, they disobeyed his command 46 00:03:06,610 --> 00:03:09,810 God does not love unbelievers 47 00:03:10,449 --> 00:03:14,210 This indicates that opposing him in the method is blasphemy 48 00:03:14,810 --> 00:03:17,689 God does not like those who are characterized by that 49 00:03:18,289 --> 00:03:22,449 Where did he claim and claim in himself that he is a lover of God? 50 00:03:22,849 --> 00:03:24,210 And approach him 51 00:03:24,889 --> 00:03:27,930 Until the Messenger follows the illiterate Prophet 52 00:03:28,409 --> 00:03:29,569 Seal of the Apostles 53 00:03:30,090 --> 00:03:32,969 And the Messenger of God to all the heavyweights 54 00:03:33,370 --> 00:03:34,770 Jinn and humans 55 00:03:35,449 --> 00:03:37,250 Which if the prophets 56 00:03:37,689 --> 00:03:38,889 Rather, the messengers 57 00:03:39,330 --> 00:03:41,050 Rather, those of determination are among them 58 00:03:41,449 --> 00:03:42,370 In his time 59 00:03:42,810 --> 00:03:46,650 They could only follow him and enter into obedience to him 60 00:03:47,090 --> 00:03:48,770 And follow his law 61 00:03:50,659 --> 00:03:51,620 Oh Hawa 62 00:03:52,219 --> 00:03:54,620 I need you a few minutes 63 00:03:55,099 --> 00:03:58,180 Think about Ibn Kathir’s previous words 64 00:03:58,659 --> 00:04:00,460 In his interpretation of the verse 65 00:04:01,099 --> 00:04:03,139 Then you look at your circumstances 66 00:04:03,620 --> 00:04:06,780 Then you apply the words of God Almighty 67 00:04:07,830 --> 00:04:12,909 And those who avoid the taghut should worship it 68 00:04:12,909 --> 00:04:17,829 They turned to God for good news 69 00:04:18,269 --> 00:04:20,389 So give good news to servants 70 00:04:20,790 --> 00:04:23,750 Who listen to say 71 00:04:23,750 --> 00:04:26,110 They follow the best of it 72 00:04:26,389 --> 00:04:32,310 Those whom God has guided 73 00:04:32,709 --> 00:04:38,230 And those are people of understanding 74 00:04:39,819 --> 00:04:40,819 Oh Hawa 75 00:04:41,579 --> 00:04:44,860 God Almighty said in the story of our father Adam 76 00:04:44,860 --> 00:04:46,300 And our security is Hawa 77 00:04:47,439 --> 00:04:50,439 So we said, “O Adam.” 78 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:55,040 This is an enemy of you and your husband 79 00:04:55,040 --> 00:05:00,800 They will not expel you from Paradise and you will be miserable 80 00:05:01,079 --> 00:05:06,839 You may neither starve nor be naked there 81 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:11,600 And you will not feel thirsty therein nor will you sacrifice 82 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:14,639 Satan whispered to him 83 00:05:14,639 --> 00:05:16,399 He said, Adam 84 00:05:16,399 --> 00:05:19,959 May I direct you to the mole tree? 85 00:05:19,959 --> 00:05:22,399 And a kingdom that never fades 86 00:05:22,399 --> 00:05:27,360 So he ate from it, and their private parts became apparent to them 87 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:34,360 And they began to swear at them 88 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:37,439 From the paper of paradise 89 00:05:37,439 --> 00:05:42,959 Adam disobeyed his Lord and went astray 90 00:05:42,959 --> 00:05:49,160 Then his Lord chose him and turned to him and guided him 91 00:05:49,199 --> 00:05:52,879 He said, "Get down, everyone." 92 00:05:52,879 --> 00:05:55,839 Some of you are enemies to each other 93 00:05:55,839 --> 00:06:02,829 Either they come to you from this 94 00:06:02,829 --> 00:06:07,949 Whoever follows gifts 95 00:06:07,949 --> 00:06:10,910 He will not go astray or be miserable 96 00:06:12,110 --> 00:06:13,110 Oh Hawa 97 00:06:13,750 --> 00:06:15,389 These verses indicate 98 00:06:15,389 --> 00:06:18,069 A woman follows the example of her husband 99 00:06:18,069 --> 00:06:19,910 And she followed him 100 00:06:19,949 --> 00:06:21,750 In three places 101 00:06:22,449 --> 00:06:23,449 The first 102 00:06:23,810 --> 00:06:26,009 Satan whispered to him 103 00:06:26,610 --> 00:06:30,970 So God Almighty mentioned Satan’s whispering to Adam without Eve 104 00:06:31,490 --> 00:06:35,970 Because a woman often imitates her husband in his actions 105 00:06:36,790 --> 00:06:39,509 Al-Tahir bin Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said 106 00:06:40,029 --> 00:06:43,110 Satan limited himself to begging Adam 107 00:06:43,509 --> 00:06:46,509 He wants to eat Adam and Eve 108 00:06:47,029 --> 00:06:52,189 Because he knows that a woman’s imitation of her husband is centered in Al-Jabalah 109 00:06:52,899 --> 00:06:53,899 The second 110 00:06:54,339 --> 00:06:57,100 Adam disobeyed his Lord and went astray 111 00:06:57,779 --> 00:06:59,500 He mentioned Adam's disobedience 112 00:06:59,660 --> 00:07:01,139 He did not mention Hawa 113 00:07:01,620 --> 00:07:04,019 Although both of them disobeyed their Lord 114 00:07:04,889 --> 00:07:07,449 Al-Tahir bin Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said 115 00:07:08,170 --> 00:07:11,089 Proof of disobedience to Adam without his wife 116 00:07:11,649 --> 00:07:15,170 It indicates that Adam was a role model for his husband 117 00:07:15,730 --> 00:07:19,170 When he ate from the tree, his wife followed him 118 00:07:20,220 --> 00:07:21,220 Third 119 00:07:21,660 --> 00:07:23,899 He said, "Get down from all of them." 120 00:07:24,459 --> 00:07:26,060 That is, Satan and Adam 121 00:07:26,540 --> 00:07:27,980 He did not mention Hawa 122 00:07:28,420 --> 00:07:30,459 Because she follows her husband 123 00:07:31,310 --> 00:07:33,870 Al-Tahir bin Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said 124 00:07:34,589 --> 00:07:36,949 He is commanded to descend from heaven 125 00:07:37,310 --> 00:07:38,629 Adam and Satan 126 00:07:39,189 --> 00:07:40,310 As for Hawa 127 00:07:40,670 --> 00:07:42,269 So he followed her husband 128 00:07:44,029 --> 00:07:45,029 Oh Hawa 129 00:07:45,699 --> 00:07:49,339 It is natural for a woman to follow her husband 130 00:07:50,100 --> 00:07:53,459 The more a woman loves her husband, the more she follows him 131 00:07:54,019 --> 00:07:56,339 She made him her role model in life 132 00:07:56,980 --> 00:07:58,579 This is beautiful 133 00:07:58,980 --> 00:08:03,459 When the husband is guided by God Almighty 134 00:08:04,370 --> 00:08:06,370 But the problem, Hawa 135 00:08:06,730 --> 00:08:09,089 It manifests itself in two things 136 00:08:09,810 --> 00:08:10,810 The first 137 00:08:11,250 --> 00:08:14,730 If the husband’s actions are contrary to God’s command 138 00:08:15,170 --> 00:08:18,290 And the command of His Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace 139 00:08:18,930 --> 00:08:21,569 This is where the trial and test occur 140 00:08:22,329 --> 00:08:25,370 Do you advance the command of God and the command of His Messenger? 141 00:08:25,930 --> 00:08:30,250 Or do you offer your love to your husband and your concern for his pleasure? 142 00:08:31,220 --> 00:08:33,139 This is the problem, Hawa 143 00:08:33,580 --> 00:08:35,100 It has several reasons 144 00:08:35,779 --> 00:08:39,820 Among them is your belief that obeying God will cause you to lose your husband 145 00:08:40,259 --> 00:08:42,340 And end your married life 146 00:08:42,899 --> 00:08:44,899 Or there are many problems 147 00:08:45,620 --> 00:08:49,059 Putting the husband’s wishes before God’s wishes 148 00:08:50,139 --> 00:08:55,019 Muawiyah wrote to Aisha, the Mother of the Believers, may God be pleased with her 149 00:08:55,659 --> 00:08:58,820 Write me a letter recommending it 150 00:08:59,179 --> 00:09:00,700 And don't be too much for me 151 00:09:01,669 --> 00:09:03,950 So Aisha wrote to Muawiyah 152 00:09:04,509 --> 00:09:05,750 Peace be upon you 153 00:09:06,149 --> 00:09:07,110 As for after 154 00:09:08,009 --> 00:09:12,330 For I heard the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, saying 155 00:09:12,929 --> 00:09:16,090 Whoever seeks God’s satisfaction through people’s discontent 156 00:09:16,570 --> 00:09:19,009 May God protect people’s livelihood 157 00:09:19,649 --> 00:09:22,809 Whoever seeks people's satisfaction by angering God 158 00:09:23,330 --> 00:09:25,570 God entrusted it to the people 159 00:09:26,009 --> 00:09:27,490 Peace be upon you 160 00:09:28,259 --> 00:09:29,620 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 161 00:09:30,750 --> 00:09:32,070 And to you, Hawa 162 00:09:32,590 --> 00:09:35,830 An example of bad scholars in this time 163 00:09:36,389 --> 00:09:39,190 Who sought to please the sultans 164 00:09:39,509 --> 00:09:41,389 Even at the expense of religion 165 00:09:42,149 --> 00:09:47,909 The consequence was that God gave them power over those who pleased Him and sought the world 166 00:09:48,669 --> 00:09:49,990 Some of them were imprisoned 167 00:09:50,389 --> 00:09:51,950 Some of them were killed 168 00:09:52,750 --> 00:09:57,029 Do not be tempted by your husband’s approval of you for a period of time 169 00:09:57,629 --> 00:09:59,990 God grants respite and does not neglect 170 00:10:01,019 --> 00:10:03,259 The second problem, Hawa 171 00:10:03,899 --> 00:10:07,259 It appears when you disagree with your good husband 172 00:10:07,899 --> 00:10:11,820 Your example should begin with him because he is your husband 173 00:10:12,580 --> 00:10:14,460 When you disagree with him 174 00:10:15,059 --> 00:10:17,940 You mean to contradict him in his religiosity 175 00:10:18,460 --> 00:10:20,179 And you do what makes him angry 176 00:10:20,620 --> 00:10:23,659 From what you know, it is objectionable to him 177 00:10:24,700 --> 00:10:28,259 This is what women do most in such situations 178 00:10:28,700 --> 00:10:29,740 It is grooming 179 00:10:30,299 --> 00:10:33,220 And changing the azimuth in the way of dressing 180 00:10:33,460 --> 00:10:35,059 Teasing the husband 181 00:10:35,929 --> 00:10:40,730 This may apply to the hadith of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 182 00:10:41,169 --> 00:10:42,570 Which he said 183 00:10:43,330 --> 00:10:45,690 Three don't ask about them 184 00:10:46,330 --> 00:10:48,250 A man left the group 185 00:10:48,730 --> 00:10:50,049 He disobeyed his imam 186 00:10:50,409 --> 00:10:51,769 He died disobedient 187 00:10:52,529 --> 00:10:55,490 And a female slave or slave was left behind and died 188 00:10:56,370 --> 00:10:58,769 A woman whose husband was absent 189 00:10:59,330 --> 00:11:01,529 The worldly provisions are sufficient for her 190 00:11:02,090 --> 00:11:03,649 So I dressed up after him 191 00:11:04,370 --> 00:11:06,049 Don't ask about them 192 00:11:06,610 --> 00:11:07,769 Narrated by Ahmed 193 00:11:08,700 --> 00:11:12,019 It does not save you from these problems, Hawwa 194 00:11:12,580 --> 00:11:17,539 Unless you follow the example of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, sincerely 195 00:11:18,100 --> 00:11:21,460 Your desire is to truly please God 196 00:11:22,500 --> 00:11:25,539 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 197 00:11:26,139 --> 00:11:28,740 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds 198 00:11:31,149 --> 00:11:33,190 The story of our mother Hawwa