In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
The story of our mother Eve
Oh Eve, who is your role model?
Oh Eve, who is your role model in life?
A question that I don't think you can answer wrongly
I expect you to say so
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, is my role model
This is the answer that comes to the soul quickly
It has great significance in the soul
It also indicates the great position of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, in your heart
But God tested us, Eve, by saying:
Say, “If you love God, then follow me. God will love you and forgive you your sins.”
God is Forgiving and Merciful
Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.”
If they turn away, then God does not love the disbelievers
Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said
This noble verse applies to everyone who claims to love God
It is not in the Muhammadan way
He is false in his claim regarding the same matter
So that he follows the Muhammadan law
And the Prophetic religion in all its words, deeds and conditions
It was also proven in the Sahih on the authority of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, that he said
Whoever does something that is not according to our command, it will be rejected
That's why he said
Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you.”
That is, he will get you more than what you asked for from your love
And it is His love for you
It is greater than the first
As some wise scholars said
It's not about loving
It's about loving
Al-Hasan Al-Basri and other predecessors said
Some people claimed that they love God
So God tested them with this verse and said:
Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you.”
Then God Almighty said
And He forgives you your sins
God is Forgiving and Merciful
Yes
By following the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace
You get all this from the blessing of his embassy
Then God Almighty said a command for everyone, both private and public
Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.”
If they turn away
That is, they disobeyed his command
God does not love unbelievers
This indicates that opposing him in the method is blasphemy
God does not like those who are characterized by that
Where did he claim and claim in himself that he is a lover of God?
And approach him
Until the Messenger follows the illiterate Prophet
Seal of the Apostles
And the Messenger of God to all the heavyweights
Jinn and humans
Which if the prophets
Rather, the messengers
Rather, those of determination are among them
In his time
They could only follow him and enter into obedience to him
And follow his law
Oh Hawa
I need you a few minutes
Think about Ibn Kathir’s previous words
In his interpretation of the verse
Then you look at your circumstances
Then you apply the words of God Almighty
And those who avoid the taghut should worship it
They turned to God for good news
So give good news to servants
Who listen to say
They follow the best of it
Those whom God has guided
And those are people of understanding
Oh Hawa
God Almighty said in the story of our father Adam
And our security is Hawa
So we said, “O Adam.”
This is an enemy of you and your husband
They will not expel you from Paradise and you will be miserable
You may neither starve nor be naked there
And you will not feel thirsty therein nor will you sacrifice
Satan whispered to him
He said, Adam
May I direct you to the mole tree?
And a kingdom that never fades
So he ate from it, and their private parts became apparent to them
And they began to swear at them
From the paper of paradise
Adam disobeyed his Lord and went astray
Then his Lord chose him and turned to him and guided him
He said, "Get down, everyone."
Some of you are enemies to each other
Either they come to you from this
Whoever follows gifts
He will not go astray or be miserable
Oh Hawa
These verses indicate
A woman follows the example of her husband
And she followed him
In three places
The first
Satan whispered to him
So God Almighty mentioned Satan’s whispering to Adam without Eve
Because a woman often imitates her husband in his actions
Al-Tahir bin Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said
Satan limited himself to begging Adam
He wants to eat Adam and Eve
Because he knows that a woman’s imitation of her husband is centered in Al-Jabalah
The second
Adam disobeyed his Lord and went astray
He mentioned Adam's disobedience
He did not mention Hawa
Although both of them disobeyed their Lord
Al-Tahir bin Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said
Proof of disobedience to Adam without his wife
It indicates that Adam was a role model for his husband
When he ate from the tree, his wife followed him
Third
He said, "Get down from all of them."
That is, Satan and Adam
He did not mention Hawa
Because she follows her husband
Al-Tahir bin Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said
He is commanded to descend from heaven
Adam and Satan
As for Hawa
So he followed her husband
Oh Hawa
It is natural for a woman to follow her husband
The more a woman loves her husband, the more she follows him
She made him her role model in life
This is beautiful
When the husband is guided by God Almighty
But the problem, Hawa
It manifests itself in two things
The first
If the husband’s actions are contrary to God’s command
And the command of His Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace
This is where the trial and test occur
Do you advance the command of God and the command of His Messenger?
Or do you offer your love to your husband and your concern for his pleasure?
This is the problem, Hawa
It has several reasons
Among them is your belief that obeying God will cause you to lose your husband
And end your married life
Or there are many problems
Putting the husband’s wishes before God’s wishes
Muawiyah wrote to Aisha, the Mother of the Believers, may God be pleased with her
Write me a letter recommending it
And don't be too much for me
So Aisha wrote to Muawiyah
Peace be upon you
As for after
For I heard the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, saying
Whoever seeks God’s satisfaction through people’s discontent
May God protect people’s livelihood
Whoever seeks people's satisfaction by angering God
God entrusted it to the people
Peace be upon you
Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi
And to you, Hawa
An example of bad scholars in this time
Who sought to please the sultans
Even at the expense of religion
The consequence was that God gave them power over those who pleased Him and sought the world
Some of them were imprisoned
Some of them were killed
Do not be tempted by your husband’s approval of you for a period of time
God grants respite and does not neglect
The second problem, Hawa
It appears when you disagree with your good husband
Your example should begin with him because he is your husband
When you disagree with him
You mean to contradict him in his religiosity
And you do what makes him angry
From what you know, it is objectionable to him
This is what women do most in such situations
It is grooming
And changing the azimuth in the way of dressing
Teasing the husband
This may apply to the hadith of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
Which he said
Three don't ask about them
A man left the group
He disobeyed his imam
He died disobedient
And a female slave or slave was left behind and died
A woman whose husband was absent
The worldly provisions are sufficient for her
So I dressed up after him
Don't ask about them
Narrated by Ahmed
It does not save you from these problems, Hawwa
Unless you follow the example of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, sincerely
Your desire is to truly please God
We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds
The story of our mother Hawwa