WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:02.680 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 00:00:03.620 --> 00:00:05.900 The story of our mother Eve 00:00:08.449 --> 00:00:12.009 Oh Eve, who is your role model? 00:00:14.570 --> 00:00:18.530 Oh Eve, who is your role model in life? 00:00:19.010 --> 00:00:23.050 A question that I don't think you can answer wrongly 00:00:23.399 --> 00:00:25.640 I expect you to say so 00:00:25.719 --> 00:00:30.120 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, is my role model 00:00:30.929 --> 00:00:35.490 This is the answer that comes to the soul quickly 00:00:35.890 --> 00:00:38.649 It has great significance in the soul 00:00:39.049 --> 00:00:45.289 It also indicates the great position of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, in your heart 00:00:45.990 --> 00:00:49.590 But God tested us, Eve, by saying: 00:00:50.460 --> 00:01:01.259 Say, “If you love God, then follow me. God will love you and forgive you your sins.” 00:01:01.420 --> 00:01:04.859 God is Forgiving and Merciful 00:01:05.099 --> 00:01:09.260 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” 00:01:09.420 --> 00:01:16.299 If they turn away, then God does not love the disbelievers 00:01:17.599 --> 00:01:19.640 Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said 00:01:20.390 --> 00:01:25.310 This noble verse applies to everyone who claims to love God 00:01:25.870 --> 00:01:28.590 It is not in the Muhammadan way 00:01:29.269 --> 00:01:32.590 He is false in his claim regarding the same matter 00:01:32.989 --> 00:01:35.390 So that he follows the Muhammadan law 00:01:35.790 --> 00:01:41.030 And the Prophetic religion in all its words, deeds and conditions 00:01:41.930 --> 00:01:47.409 It was also proven in the Sahih on the authority of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, that he said 00:01:48.129 --> 00:01:51.969 Whoever does something that is not according to our command, it will be rejected 00:01:52.769 --> 00:01:54.049 That's why he said 00:01:54.769 --> 00:02:00.409 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you.” 00:02:01.010 --> 00:02:06.010 That is, he will get you more than what you asked for from your love 00:02:06.489 --> 00:02:08.729 And it is His love for you 00:02:09.289 --> 00:02:11.050 It is greater than the first 00:02:11.770 --> 00:02:14.289 As some wise scholars said 00:02:14.889 --> 00:02:16.650 It's not about loving 00:02:17.250 --> 00:02:19.409 It's about loving 00:02:20.300 --> 00:02:23.340 Al-Hasan Al-Basri and other predecessors said 00:02:24.099 --> 00:02:26.819 Some people claimed that they love God 00:02:27.379 --> 00:02:30.740 So God tested them with this verse and said: 00:02:31.500 --> 00:02:37.099 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you.” 00:02:37.849 --> 00:02:39.289 Then God Almighty said 00:02:39.969 --> 00:02:41.930 And He forgives you your sins 00:02:42.330 --> 00:02:44.530 God is Forgiving and Merciful 00:02:45.210 --> 00:02:45.610 Yes 00:02:46.090 --> 00:02:49.449 By following the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:02:49.930 --> 00:02:53.569 You get all this from the blessing of his embassy 00:02:54.490 --> 00:02:59.090 Then God Almighty said a command for everyone, both private and public 00:02:59.810 --> 00:03:02.050 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” 00:03:02.770 --> 00:03:03.930 If they turn away 00:03:04.409 --> 00:03:06.009 That is, they disobeyed his command 00:03:06.610 --> 00:03:09.810 God does not love unbelievers 00:03:10.449 --> 00:03:14.210 This indicates that opposing him in the method is blasphemy 00:03:14.810 --> 00:03:17.689 God does not like those who are characterized by that 00:03:18.289 --> 00:03:22.449 Where did he claim and claim in himself that he is a lover of God? 00:03:22.849 --> 00:03:24.210 And approach him 00:03:24.889 --> 00:03:27.930 Until the Messenger follows the illiterate Prophet 00:03:28.409 --> 00:03:29.569 Seal of the Apostles 00:03:30.090 --> 00:03:32.969 And the Messenger of God to all the heavyweights 00:03:33.370 --> 00:03:34.770 Jinn and humans 00:03:35.449 --> 00:03:37.250 Which if the prophets 00:03:37.689 --> 00:03:38.889 Rather, the messengers 00:03:39.330 --> 00:03:41.050 Rather, those of determination are among them 00:03:41.449 --> 00:03:42.370 In his time 00:03:42.810 --> 00:03:46.650 They could only follow him and enter into obedience to him 00:03:47.090 --> 00:03:48.770 And follow his law 00:03:50.659 --> 00:03:51.620 Oh Hawa 00:03:52.219 --> 00:03:54.620 I need you a few minutes 00:03:55.099 --> 00:03:58.180 Think about Ibn Kathir’s previous words 00:03:58.659 --> 00:04:00.460 In his interpretation of the verse 00:04:01.099 --> 00:04:03.139 Then you look at your circumstances 00:04:03.620 --> 00:04:06.780 Then you apply the words of God Almighty 00:04:07.830 --> 00:04:12.909 And those who avoid the taghut should worship it 00:04:12.909 --> 00:04:17.829 They turned to God for good news 00:04:18.269 --> 00:04:20.389 So give good news to servants 00:04:20.790 --> 00:04:23.750 Who listen to say 00:04:23.750 --> 00:04:26.110 They follow the best of it 00:04:26.389 --> 00:04:32.310 Those whom God has guided 00:04:32.709 --> 00:04:38.230 And those are people of understanding 00:04:39.819 --> 00:04:40.819 Oh Hawa 00:04:41.579 --> 00:04:44.860 God Almighty said in the story of our father Adam 00:04:44.860 --> 00:04:46.300 And our security is Hawa 00:04:47.439 --> 00:04:50.439 So we said, “O Adam.” 00:04:50.480 --> 00:04:55.040 This is an enemy of you and your husband 00:04:55.040 --> 00:05:00.800 They will not expel you from Paradise and you will be miserable 00:05:01.079 --> 00:05:06.839 You may neither starve nor be naked there 00:05:07.000 --> 00:05:11.600 And you will not feel thirsty therein nor will you sacrifice 00:05:11.800 --> 00:05:14.639 Satan whispered to him 00:05:14.639 --> 00:05:16.399 He said, Adam 00:05:16.399 --> 00:05:19.959 May I direct you to the mole tree? 00:05:19.959 --> 00:05:22.399 And a kingdom that never fades 00:05:22.399 --> 00:05:27.360 So he ate from it, and their private parts became apparent to them 00:05:27.360 --> 00:05:34.360 And they began to swear at them 00:05:34.360 --> 00:05:37.439 From the paper of paradise 00:05:37.439 --> 00:05:42.959 Adam disobeyed his Lord and went astray 00:05:42.959 --> 00:05:49.160 Then his Lord chose him and turned to him and guided him 00:05:49.199 --> 00:05:52.879 He said, "Get down, everyone." 00:05:52.879 --> 00:05:55.839 Some of you are enemies to each other 00:05:55.839 --> 00:06:02.829 Either they come to you from this 00:06:02.829 --> 00:06:07.949 Whoever follows gifts 00:06:07.949 --> 00:06:10.910 He will not go astray or be miserable 00:06:12.110 --> 00:06:13.110 Oh Hawa 00:06:13.750 --> 00:06:15.389 These verses indicate 00:06:15.389 --> 00:06:18.069 A woman follows the example of her husband 00:06:18.069 --> 00:06:19.910 And she followed him 00:06:19.949 --> 00:06:21.750 In three places 00:06:22.449 --> 00:06:23.449 The first 00:06:23.810 --> 00:06:26.009 Satan whispered to him 00:06:26.610 --> 00:06:30.970 So God Almighty mentioned Satan’s whispering to Adam without Eve 00:06:31.490 --> 00:06:35.970 Because a woman often imitates her husband in his actions 00:06:36.790 --> 00:06:39.509 Al-Tahir bin Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said 00:06:40.029 --> 00:06:43.110 Satan limited himself to begging Adam 00:06:43.509 --> 00:06:46.509 He wants to eat Adam and Eve 00:06:47.029 --> 00:06:52.189 Because he knows that a woman’s imitation of her husband is centered in Al-Jabalah 00:06:52.899 --> 00:06:53.899 The second 00:06:54.339 --> 00:06:57.100 Adam disobeyed his Lord and went astray 00:06:57.779 --> 00:06:59.500 He mentioned Adam's disobedience 00:06:59.660 --> 00:07:01.139 He did not mention Hawa 00:07:01.620 --> 00:07:04.019 Although both of them disobeyed their Lord 00:07:04.889 --> 00:07:07.449 Al-Tahir bin Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said 00:07:08.170 --> 00:07:11.089 Proof of disobedience to Adam without his wife 00:07:11.649 --> 00:07:15.170 It indicates that Adam was a role model for his husband 00:07:15.730 --> 00:07:19.170 When he ate from the tree, his wife followed him 00:07:20.220 --> 00:07:21.220 Third 00:07:21.660 --> 00:07:23.899 He said, "Get down from all of them." 00:07:24.459 --> 00:07:26.060 That is, Satan and Adam 00:07:26.540 --> 00:07:27.980 He did not mention Hawa 00:07:28.420 --> 00:07:30.459 Because she follows her husband 00:07:31.310 --> 00:07:33.870 Al-Tahir bin Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said 00:07:34.589 --> 00:07:36.949 He is commanded to descend from heaven 00:07:37.310 --> 00:07:38.629 Adam and Satan 00:07:39.189 --> 00:07:40.310 As for Hawa 00:07:40.670 --> 00:07:42.269 So he followed her husband 00:07:44.029 --> 00:07:45.029 Oh Hawa 00:07:45.699 --> 00:07:49.339 It is natural for a woman to follow her husband 00:07:50.100 --> 00:07:53.459 The more a woman loves her husband, the more she follows him 00:07:54.019 --> 00:07:56.339 She made him her role model in life 00:07:56.980 --> 00:07:58.579 This is beautiful 00:07:58.980 --> 00:08:03.459 When the husband is guided by God Almighty 00:08:04.370 --> 00:08:06.370 But the problem, Hawa 00:08:06.730 --> 00:08:09.089 It manifests itself in two things 00:08:09.810 --> 00:08:10.810 The first 00:08:11.250 --> 00:08:14.730 If the husband’s actions are contrary to God’s command 00:08:15.170 --> 00:08:18.290 And the command of His Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:08:18.930 --> 00:08:21.569 This is where the trial and test occur 00:08:22.329 --> 00:08:25.370 Do you advance the command of God and the command of His Messenger? 00:08:25.930 --> 00:08:30.250 Or do you offer your love to your husband and your concern for his pleasure? 00:08:31.220 --> 00:08:33.139 This is the problem, Hawa 00:08:33.580 --> 00:08:35.100 It has several reasons 00:08:35.779 --> 00:08:39.820 Among them is your belief that obeying God will cause you to lose your husband 00:08:40.259 --> 00:08:42.340 And end your married life 00:08:42.899 --> 00:08:44.899 Or there are many problems 00:08:45.620 --> 00:08:49.059 Putting the husband’s wishes before God’s wishes 00:08:50.139 --> 00:08:55.019 Muawiyah wrote to Aisha, the Mother of the Believers, may God be pleased with her 00:08:55.659 --> 00:08:58.820 Write me a letter recommending it 00:08:59.179 --> 00:09:00.700 And don't be too much for me 00:09:01.669 --> 00:09:03.950 So Aisha wrote to Muawiyah 00:09:04.509 --> 00:09:05.750 Peace be upon you 00:09:06.149 --> 00:09:07.110 As for after 00:09:08.009 --> 00:09:12.330 For I heard the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, saying 00:09:12.929 --> 00:09:16.090 Whoever seeks God’s satisfaction through people’s discontent 00:09:16.570 --> 00:09:19.009 May God protect people’s livelihood 00:09:19.649 --> 00:09:22.809 Whoever seeks people's satisfaction by angering God 00:09:23.330 --> 00:09:25.570 God entrusted it to the people 00:09:26.009 --> 00:09:27.490 Peace be upon you 00:09:28.259 --> 00:09:29.620 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 00:09:30.750 --> 00:09:32.070 And to you, Hawa 00:09:32.590 --> 00:09:35.830 An example of bad scholars in this time 00:09:36.389 --> 00:09:39.190 Who sought to please the sultans 00:09:39.509 --> 00:09:41.389 Even at the expense of religion 00:09:42.149 --> 00:09:47.909 The consequence was that God gave them power over those who pleased Him and sought the world 00:09:48.669 --> 00:09:49.990 Some of them were imprisoned 00:09:50.389 --> 00:09:51.950 Some of them were killed 00:09:52.750 --> 00:09:57.029 Do not be tempted by your husband’s approval of you for a period of time 00:09:57.629 --> 00:09:59.990 God grants respite and does not neglect 00:10:01.019 --> 00:10:03.259 The second problem, Hawa 00:10:03.899 --> 00:10:07.259 It appears when you disagree with your good husband 00:10:07.899 --> 00:10:11.820 Your example should begin with him because he is your husband 00:10:12.580 --> 00:10:14.460 When you disagree with him 00:10:15.059 --> 00:10:17.940 You mean to contradict him in his religiosity 00:10:18.460 --> 00:10:20.179 And you do what makes him angry 00:10:20.620 --> 00:10:23.659 From what you know, it is objectionable to him 00:10:24.700 --> 00:10:28.259 This is what women do most in such situations 00:10:28.700 --> 00:10:29.740 It is grooming 00:10:30.299 --> 00:10:33.220 And changing the azimuth in the way of dressing 00:10:33.460 --> 00:10:35.059 Teasing the husband 00:10:35.929 --> 00:10:40.730 This may apply to the hadith of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:10:41.169 --> 00:10:42.570 Which he said 00:10:43.330 --> 00:10:45.690 Three don't ask about them 00:10:46.330 --> 00:10:48.250 A man left the group 00:10:48.730 --> 00:10:50.049 He disobeyed his imam 00:10:50.409 --> 00:10:51.769 He died disobedient 00:10:52.529 --> 00:10:55.490 And a female slave or slave was left behind and died 00:10:56.370 --> 00:10:58.769 A woman whose husband was absent 00:10:59.330 --> 00:11:01.529 The worldly provisions are sufficient for her 00:11:02.090 --> 00:11:03.649 So I dressed up after him 00:11:04.370 --> 00:11:06.049 Don't ask about them 00:11:06.610 --> 00:11:07.769 Narrated by Ahmed 00:11:08.700 --> 00:11:12.019 It does not save you from these problems, Hawwa 00:11:12.580 --> 00:11:17.539 Unless you follow the example of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, sincerely 00:11:18.100 --> 00:11:21.460 Your desire is to truly please God 00:11:22.500 --> 00:11:25.539 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 00:11:26.139 --> 00:11:28.740 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds 00:11:31.149 --> 00:11:33.190 The story of our mother Hawwa