WEBVTT 00:00:00.400 --> 00:00:03.399 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 00:00:15.619 --> 00:00:18.620 Muhammad bin Abdulaziz Al-Mousa Mosque 00:00:18.620 --> 00:00:19.620 In the wonderful 00:00:19.620 --> 00:00:21.620 Submit 00:00:21.620 --> 00:00:24.620 Hold the letter 00:00:24.620 --> 00:00:26.620 By Sheikh Osama Bahr 00:00:26.620 --> 00:00:28.620 May God protect him 00:00:31.620 --> 00:00:34.619 Melts into the sweetest feeling 00:00:34.619 --> 00:00:38.619 Greetings to you, wife 00:00:38.619 --> 00:00:45.799 Marital relations are at the forefront of the organizational structure in society 00:00:45.799 --> 00:00:49.899 The family is nothing but the nucleus of society 00:00:49.899 --> 00:00:54.899 In order for marital relations to be based on affection, accommodation and mercy 00:00:54.899 --> 00:00:57.899 Two things must be noted 00:00:57.899 --> 00:00:59.899 They are like two wings 00:00:59.899 --> 00:01:03.899 With them, the couple flies to the sky of happiness and serenity 00:01:03.899 --> 00:01:06.900 They are obedience and keeping marital secrets 00:01:06.900 --> 00:01:10.900 God Almighty said describing a good wife 00:01:10.900 --> 00:01:16.930 The righteous women are obedient and protect the unseen with what God has preserved 00:01:16.930 --> 00:01:18.930 And the righteous one is the obedient one 00:01:18.930 --> 00:01:20.930 That is, obedient to her husband 00:01:20.930 --> 00:01:25.930 This word contains a strange Quranic creativity 00:01:25.930 --> 00:01:28.930 God Almighty did not say good deeds 00:01:28.930 --> 00:01:30.930 But he said obedient 00:01:30.930 --> 00:01:33.930 Although obedience may give meaning 00:01:33.930 --> 00:01:35.930 But it is an incomplete word 00:01:35.930 --> 00:01:41.930 Because it is possible for a woman to obey her husband even though she is forced to obey him 00:01:41.930 --> 00:01:43.930 While the word Qanat 00:01:43.930 --> 00:01:46.930 She has a strange psychological makeup 00:01:46.930 --> 00:01:50.930 It indicates obedience with desire and will 00:01:50.930 --> 00:01:52.930 And love and affection 00:01:52.930 --> 00:01:55.930 With the sensations and feelings that drive the wife 00:01:55.930 --> 00:01:57.930 To devotion to obedience to the husband 00:01:57.930 --> 00:02:02.930 This is a Qur’anic gesture that is refined in meaning and style 00:02:02.930 --> 00:02:06.930 This is an attribute that can only be described as a good wife 00:02:06.930 --> 00:02:09.060 As for the second characteristic 00:02:09.060 --> 00:02:11.060 It is what God Almighty says 00:02:11.060 --> 00:02:13.060 Keepers of the unseen 00:02:13.060 --> 00:02:15.060 That is, she keeps her husband's secret 00:02:15.060 --> 00:02:17.060 Don't show it to anyone 00:02:17.060 --> 00:02:19.060 The secrets of the house are a trust 00:02:19.060 --> 00:02:22.060 Disclosing a secret is a betrayal of trust 00:02:22.060 --> 00:02:25.060 If we look a little at what God Almighty says 00:02:25.060 --> 00:02:27.060 Keepers of the unseen 00:02:27.060 --> 00:02:31.060 We would also find a unique Qur’anic creativity 00:02:31.060 --> 00:02:35.060 God Almighty called privacy between spouses 00:02:35.060 --> 00:02:38.060 The dispute between them is unseen 00:02:38.060 --> 00:02:41.060 This word is very strong 00:02:41.060 --> 00:02:44.060 Why didn't God Almighty say? 00:02:44.060 --> 00:02:46.060 Secret keepers 00:02:46.060 --> 00:02:49.060 Rather, he said, “Guardians of the unseen.” 00:02:49.060 --> 00:02:52.060 Because the unseen is stronger than the password 00:02:53.060 --> 00:02:57.060 The secret may be revealed between two or three people 00:02:57.060 --> 00:03:01.060 As for the unseen, it is not permissible to reveal it to anyone 00:03:01.060 --> 00:03:05.060 The unseen is what must be hidden from all people 00:03:05.060 --> 00:03:07.060 Except from God Almighty 00:03:07.060 --> 00:03:10.060 Because no one knows the unseen except God 00:03:10.060 --> 00:03:14.060 It is as if God Almighty says to the righteous wife 00:03:14.060 --> 00:03:17.060 It's what's going on between you and your husband 00:03:17.060 --> 00:03:21.060 Rather, it is an unseen that must be hidden from all creation 00:03:21.060 --> 00:03:23.060 Except from God Almighty 00:03:23.060 --> 00:03:25.150 These are two characteristics 00:03:25.150 --> 00:03:28.150 They are Qunoot and memorizing the unseen 00:03:28.150 --> 00:03:30.150 They are simple qualities 00:03:30.150 --> 00:03:34.150 Which any wife can describe 00:03:34.150 --> 00:03:37.150 But the impact of these two qualities is profound 00:03:37.150 --> 00:03:40.150 In strengthening the relationship between spouses 00:03:40.150 --> 00:03:43.150 And achieving housing, affection and mercy 00:03:43.150 --> 00:03:46.150 It is one of the signs of God Almighty 00:03:46.150 --> 00:03:49.150 Which scatters roses and scents 00:03:49.150 --> 00:03:52.150 Between the covers of the book Marital Happiness 00:04:20.209 --> 00:04:25.209 God melts into the sweetest feeling 00:04:25.209 --> 00:04:29.459 Darkness then light 00:04:29.459 --> 00:04:33.529 And he lived after him 00:04:33.529 --> 00:04:37.529 If God wants something 00:04:37.529 --> 00:04:41.529 He told you, and it will be