1 00:00:00,780 --> 00:00:09,779 Riyadh al-Salehin from the words of the Master of Messengers, may God bless him and grant him peace 2 00:00:09,779 --> 00:00:18,260 Chapter on honoring one’s parents and maintaining family ties 3 00:00:18,260 --> 00:00:20,260 God Almighty said 4 00:00:20,260 --> 00:00:24,260 And worship God and do not associate anything with Him 5 00:00:24,260 --> 00:00:30,260 And be kind to parents, and to relatives, orphans, and the needy 6 00:00:30,260 --> 00:00:39,390 And the neighbor who is near, and the neighbor who is on the side, and the companion by side, and the wayfarer, and what your right hands possess 7 00:00:39,390 --> 00:00:41,390 And the Almighty said 8 00:00:41,390 --> 00:00:46,390 And fear God, by whom you ask, and the wombs 9 00:00:46,390 --> 00:00:48,390 And the Almighty said 10 00:00:48,390 --> 00:00:54,390 Those who pray what God has commanded to convey the sign 11 00:00:54,390 --> 00:00:56,460 And the Almighty said 12 00:00:56,460 --> 00:01:00,460 And We have enjoined upon man to be good to his parents 13 00:01:00,460 --> 00:01:02,460 And the Almighty said 14 00:01:02,460 --> 00:01:09,459 Your Lord has decreed that you should not worship anyone but Him and that you be kind to your parents 15 00:01:09,459 --> 00:01:15,459 Either one or both of them will reach adulthood by you 16 00:01:15,459 --> 00:01:20,459 Do not say sorry to them or rebuke them 17 00:01:20,459 --> 00:01:23,459 And speak to them kindly 18 00:01:23,459 --> 00:01:27,459 And lower to them the wing of humility out of mercy 19 00:01:27,459 --> 00:01:32,459 And say, “My Lord, have mercy on them as they raised me when I was little.” 20 00:01:32,459 --> 00:01:34,579 And the Almighty said 21 00:01:34,579 --> 00:01:41,579 And We have enjoined upon man to be responsible for his parents. His mother bore him in weakness upon weakness 22 00:01:41,579 --> 00:01:44,579 And weaned him off in two years 23 00:01:44,579 --> 00:01:47,579 To thank me and your parents 24 00:01:47,579 --> 00:01:55,120 On the authority of Abu Abdul Rahman Abdullah bin Masoud, may God be pleased with him, he said 25 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:59,120 I asked the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 26 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:03,120 That is, the work most beloved to God Almighty 27 00:02:03,120 --> 00:02:07,120 He said praying on time 28 00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:09,120 I said then any 29 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:12,120 He said honoring parents 30 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:14,120 I said then any 31 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:18,120 He said: Jihad for the sake of God 32 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:20,120 Agreed 33 00:02:20,120 --> 00:02:24,780 One of the benefits of talking 34 00:02:24,780 --> 00:02:28,780 The best rights of God Almighty that are obligatory after monotheism 35 00:02:28,780 --> 00:02:31,460 Prayer 36 00:02:31,460 --> 00:02:36,460 Hastening to pray at the beginning of its time is better than being lazy 37 00:02:36,460 --> 00:02:41,460 Because it is a condition for it to be the most beloved deeds to God 38 00:02:41,460 --> 00:02:43,460 To be of its time 39 00:02:43,460 --> 00:02:45,460 That's the first 40 00:02:45,460 --> 00:02:48,030 The best rights of servants 41 00:02:48,030 --> 00:02:50,030 Parental right 42 00:02:50,030 --> 00:02:55,030 It follows the truth of God, as mentioned in the verses now, so remember 43 00:02:55,030 --> 00:03:00,610 Jihad for the sake of God is the best kind of sacrifice 44 00:03:00,610 --> 00:03:05,280 Acts of righteousness prefer one another 45 00:03:05,280 --> 00:03:09,050 And it's just not ranked 46 00:03:09,050 --> 00:03:13,050 It is permissible to ask about various issues at the same time 47 00:03:14,620 --> 00:03:16,620 Kindness to the world 48 00:03:16,620 --> 00:03:18,620 And stop overdoing it 49 00:03:18,620 --> 00:03:22,419 Fear of boredom 50 00:03:22,419 --> 00:03:26,419 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said 51 00:03:26,419 --> 00:03:30,419 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 52 00:03:30,419 --> 00:03:32,419 A child is not sufficient for his father 53 00:03:32,419 --> 00:03:35,419 However, he finds him possessed 54 00:03:35,419 --> 00:03:38,539 So he buys him and frees him 55 00:03:38,539 --> 00:03:41,819 Narrated by Muslim 56 00:03:41,819 --> 00:03:45,879 Any reward is rewarded 57 00:03:45,879 --> 00:03:47,879 One of the benefits of talking 58 00:03:47,879 --> 00:03:50,939 The right of parents is great in Islam 59 00:03:50,939 --> 00:03:56,490 It is not permissible for a child to enslave one or both of his parents 60 00:03:56,490 --> 00:03:58,490 If that happens 61 00:03:58,490 --> 00:04:03,490 It is one of the signs of the Hour and signs of changing times 62 00:04:03,490 --> 00:04:06,490 As mentioned in the hadith of Gabriel 63 00:04:06,490 --> 00:04:11,159 The father is emancipated once the child buys him 64 00:04:11,159 --> 00:04:14,159 Purchase is a reason for emancipation 65 00:04:14,159 --> 00:04:19,110 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him 66 00:04:19,110 --> 00:04:23,110 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 67 00:04:23,110 --> 00:04:27,209 Whoever believes in God and the Last Day 68 00:04:27,209 --> 00:04:29,209 Let him honor his guest 69 00:04:29,209 --> 00:04:33,240 And whoever believes in God and the Last Day 70 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:35,269 May he have mercy 71 00:04:35,269 --> 00:04:39,269 And whoever believes in God and the Last Day 72 00:04:39,269 --> 00:04:42,269 Let him say good things or keep silent 73 00:04:42,269 --> 00:04:44,269 Agreed 74 00:04:44,269 --> 00:04:48,290 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said 75 00:04:48,290 --> 00:04:52,129 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 76 00:04:52,129 --> 00:04:55,569 God Almighty created creation 77 00:04:55,569 --> 00:05:00,449 Until he finished with them, the womb stood up and said 78 00:05:00,449 --> 00:05:04,750 This is the place of one who seeks refuge in You from the flock 79 00:05:04,750 --> 00:05:07,149 He said yes 80 00:05:07,149 --> 00:05:10,350 Would you not like me to follow the one you received? 81 00:05:10,350 --> 00:05:12,819 And I will cut off your pieces 82 00:05:12,980 --> 00:05:14,819 She said yes 83 00:05:14,819 --> 00:05:17,810 He said that's yours 84 00:05:17,810 --> 00:05:22,050 Then the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 85 00:05:22,050 --> 00:05:24,290 Read if you want 86 00:05:24,290 --> 00:05:32,290 Would it be possible for you, if you were to take charge, to spread corruption on earth and sever your ties of kinship? 87 00:05:32,290 --> 00:05:39,699 Those whom God has cursed, deafened them and blinded their sight 88 00:05:39,699 --> 00:05:41,870 Agreed 89 00:05:42,029 --> 00:05:44,670 And in a narration by Al-Bukhari 90 00:05:44,670 --> 00:05:47,149 And God Almighty said 91 00:05:47,149 --> 00:05:53,790 Whoever connects with you, you will connect with him, and whoever separates you, you will cut him off 92 00:05:53,790 --> 00:05:57,839 He finished them, meaning He completed their creation 93 00:05:57,839 --> 00:06:04,350 The one who seeks refuge in you and seeks help from you 94 00:06:04,350 --> 00:06:06,750 One of the benefits of talking 95 00:06:06,750 --> 00:06:10,990 Everything other than God Almighty is created 96 00:06:10,990 --> 00:06:14,689 An object having not been 97 00:06:14,769 --> 00:06:20,500 Emphasizing the prohibition of severing family ties and turning away from them 98 00:06:20,500 --> 00:06:25,709 We seek refuge in God alone, without any partner 99 00:06:25,709 --> 00:06:29,870 Family ties are a reason for God’s mercy to His servants 100 00:06:29,870 --> 00:06:34,620 It is a reason for the emergence of goodness among people 101 00:06:34,620 --> 00:06:39,259 The severing of the uterus is a reason for abandoning the male 102 00:06:39,259 --> 00:06:43,379 It causes corruption and corruption 103 00:06:43,379 --> 00:06:46,019 The best way to explain the Qur’an 104 00:06:46,100 --> 00:06:50,180 The words of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 105 00:06:50,180 --> 00:06:54,259 The best thing to cite to explain the meaning of the hadith 106 00:06:54,259 --> 00:06:58,750 The word of God Almighty 107 00:06:58,750 --> 00:07:02,540 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said 108 00:07:02,540 --> 00:07:07,980 A man came to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, and said 109 00:07:07,980 --> 00:07:13,500 O Messenger of God, who is the most deserving of my good companions? 110 00:07:13,500 --> 00:07:15,899 Your mother said 111 00:07:15,899 --> 00:07:18,300 Then who said? 112 00:07:18,300 --> 00:07:20,139 Your mother said 113 00:07:20,139 --> 00:07:22,060 Then who said? 114 00:07:22,060 --> 00:07:23,740 Your mother said 115 00:07:23,740 --> 00:07:25,740 Then who said? 116 00:07:25,740 --> 00:07:27,660 Your father said 117 00:07:27,660 --> 00:07:29,779 Agreed 118 00:07:29,779 --> 00:07:31,459 And in a novel 119 00:07:31,459 --> 00:07:36,129 O Messenger of God, who is more deserving of good company? 120 00:07:36,129 --> 00:07:37,569 Your mother said 121 00:07:37,569 --> 00:07:39,089 Then your mother 122 00:07:39,089 --> 00:07:40,610 Then your mother 123 00:07:40,610 --> 00:07:42,209 Then your father 124 00:07:42,209 --> 00:07:45,100 Then below you below you 125 00:07:45,180 --> 00:07:48,100 Companions mean companionship 126 00:07:48,100 --> 00:07:50,579 And he said, “Then your father.” 127 00:07:50,579 --> 00:07:53,779 Thus, it is in the accusative case 128 00:07:53,779 --> 00:07:56,259 That is, then honor your father 129 00:07:56,259 --> 00:07:57,779 And in a novel 130 00:07:57,779 --> 00:07:59,220 Then your father 131 00:07:59,220 --> 00:08:02,639 This is clear 132 00:08:02,639 --> 00:08:04,399 Below you below 133 00:08:04,399 --> 00:08:08,029 That is, the closest, the closest 134 00:08:08,029 --> 00:08:10,560 One of the benefits of talking 135 00:08:10,560 --> 00:08:15,490 A will given to the mother due to her weakness and need 136 00:08:15,490 --> 00:08:20,430 Remembering those who are close to each other is not of the same degree 137 00:08:20,430 --> 00:08:23,709 Arranging rights and putting them in their proper places 138 00:08:23,709 --> 00:08:26,560 It is origin and justice 139 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:30,480 If the man is obligated to support the mother and father 140 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:33,679 He only found money for one of them 141 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:37,730 Mother provided 142 00:08:37,730 --> 00:08:41,809 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, on the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 143 00:08:41,809 --> 00:08:43,009 He said 144 00:08:43,009 --> 00:08:44,529 Despite the nose 145 00:08:44,529 --> 00:08:46,529 Then despite the nose 146 00:08:46,529 --> 00:08:47,889 Then despite the nose 147 00:08:47,889 --> 00:08:50,850 Who realizes his parents when he grows up 148 00:08:50,850 --> 00:08:53,409 Either or both 149 00:08:53,409 --> 00:08:56,100 He did not enter heaven 150 00:08:56,100 --> 00:08:59,379 Narrated by Muslim 151 00:08:59,379 --> 00:09:00,580 Despite 152 00:09:00,580 --> 00:09:05,100 That is, sticking to the dirt is our humiliation 153 00:09:05,100 --> 00:09:07,460 One of the benefits of talking 154 00:09:07,460 --> 00:09:10,340 Honoring parents and being kind to them 155 00:09:10,340 --> 00:09:12,820 Obligatory in all cases 156 00:09:12,820 --> 00:09:16,830 In their youth and adults 157 00:09:16,830 --> 00:09:18,990 Parents when they grow old 158 00:09:18,990 --> 00:09:22,669 They need more righteousness 159 00:09:22,669 --> 00:09:26,850 Because of their weakness and physical deficiency 160 00:09:26,850 --> 00:09:31,250 A Muslim should be considerate of the weak and the elderly 161 00:09:31,250 --> 00:09:34,860 He is kind to them and has mercy on them 162 00:09:34,860 --> 00:09:39,899 Disobedience to parents leads to hellfire and expulsion from God’s mercy 163 00:09:39,899 --> 00:09:45,899 And their righteousness is a paved path to heaven 164 00:09:45,899 --> 00:09:48,700 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him 165 00:09:48,779 --> 00:09:51,899 A man said, O Messenger of God 166 00:09:51,899 --> 00:09:55,820 I have a relative, and they cut me off 167 00:09:55,820 --> 00:09:59,259 I do good to them and they do evil to me 168 00:09:59,259 --> 00:10:02,980 I dream about them and they ignore me 169 00:10:02,980 --> 00:10:04,500 And he said 170 00:10:04,500 --> 00:10:06,899 Because you are as you said 171 00:10:06,899 --> 00:10:10,019 It is as if boredom has made them miserable 172 00:10:10,019 --> 00:10:16,220 And you will still have a supporter from God over them as long as you continue to do so 173 00:10:16,220 --> 00:10:18,429 Narrated by Muslim 174 00:10:18,509 --> 00:10:20,590 And you will understand the boredom 175 00:10:20,590 --> 00:10:24,269 That is, as if you were feeding them hot ashes 176 00:10:24,269 --> 00:10:27,870 It is an analogy to the sin that befalls them 177 00:10:27,870 --> 00:10:32,110 The pain that inflicts on the eater of hot ashes 178 00:10:32,110 --> 00:10:35,389 There is nothing wrong with this benefactor 179 00:10:35,389 --> 00:10:40,029 But a great sin befalls them by their negligence in his duty 180 00:10:40,029 --> 00:10:42,509 And they caused harm to him 181 00:10:42,509 --> 00:10:45,659 And God knows best 182 00:10:45,659 --> 00:10:48,059 One of the benefits of talking 183 00:10:48,139 --> 00:10:51,340 The origin of dealings between relatives 184 00:10:51,340 --> 00:10:53,659 Charity and communication 185 00:10:53,659 --> 00:10:56,460 Be patient and ask for excuses 186 00:10:56,460 --> 00:10:59,419 It is not an interview 187 00:10:59,419 --> 00:11:04,720 But the harm must be endured in order to reach it 188 00:11:04,720 --> 00:11:07,519 Matching abuse with kindness 189 00:11:07,519 --> 00:11:10,799 The expectation that the offender will return to the truth 190 00:11:10,799 --> 00:11:13,039 As God Almighty said 191 00:11:13,039 --> 00:11:16,000 Pay with what is best 192 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:23,470 So, the one between you and whom there is enmity is as if he were a close friend 193 00:11:23,470 --> 00:11:26,269 What you punished those who disobeyed God regarding you 194 00:11:26,269 --> 00:11:29,870 Such as obeying God in it 195 00:11:29,870 --> 00:11:35,519 Complying with God’s command is the reason for God’s help to the believing servant 196 00:11:35,519 --> 00:11:39,600 Breaking ties of kinship is pain and torment in this world 197 00:11:39,600 --> 00:11:44,110 And sin and severity of reckoning in the afterlife 198 00:11:44,110 --> 00:11:48,509 A Muslim should be rewarded for his good deeds 199 00:11:48,509 --> 00:11:53,500 People's harm does not stop him from his good habits 200 00:11:53,500 --> 00:11:56,059 We remember in this regard 201 00:11:56,059 --> 00:12:00,379 The Lord of the Worlds reproaches Abu Bakr, may God be pleased with him 202 00:12:00,379 --> 00:12:04,299 When he decided to cut off Mustaq Ibn Uthatha 203 00:12:04,299 --> 00:12:08,620 Who harmed him in his honor in the Al-Ifk incident 204 00:12:08,620 --> 00:12:11,019 And God Almighty said 205 00:12:11,019 --> 00:12:14,299 And let not the first of your bounty and abundance be neglected 206 00:12:14,379 --> 00:12:20,860 To give to relatives, the needy, and those who migrate for the sake of God 207 00:12:20,860 --> 00:12:23,419 Let them pardon and pardon 208 00:12:23,419 --> 00:12:27,419 Wouldn't you like God to forgive you? 209 00:12:27,419 --> 00:12:32,320 God is Forgiving and Merciful 210 00:12:32,320 --> 00:12:34,879 On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him 211 00:12:34,879 --> 00:12:39,440 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 212 00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:42,879 Whoever loves to have his livelihood simplified 213 00:12:42,960 --> 00:12:45,519 And he will follow him in his tracks 214 00:12:45,519 --> 00:12:47,789 May his soul rest in peace 215 00:12:47,789 --> 00:12:50,000 Agreed 216 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:53,200 And a meaning that comes into its own 217 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:57,950 To delay his term and his life 218 00:12:57,950 --> 00:13:00,500 One of the benefits of talking 219 00:13:00,500 --> 00:13:04,500 Connecting relatives is a reason for the expansion and breadth of livelihood 220 00:13:04,500 --> 00:13:07,360 And blessings in life 221 00:13:07,360 --> 00:13:10,559 What is meant by extending sustenance in the hadith 222 00:13:10,559 --> 00:13:14,320 It is an increase in the amount of his written livelihood 223 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:17,279 Or to increase the blessing in it 224 00:13:17,279 --> 00:13:20,639 The same applies to increasing lifespan 225 00:13:20,639 --> 00:13:23,200 Either the real increase 226 00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:28,639 Or attaining blessing at this age 227 00:13:28,639 --> 00:13:32,110 On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him, he said: 228 00:13:32,110 --> 00:13:37,789 Abu Talha was the most wealthy of the Ansar in Medina in terms of palm trees 229 00:13:37,789 --> 00:13:41,789 The most beloved of his wealth was Barah 230 00:13:41,789 --> 00:13:44,669 She was the recipient of the mosque 231 00:13:44,750 --> 00:13:49,389 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to enter it 232 00:13:49,389 --> 00:13:52,990 He drinks water that contains good things 233 00:13:52,990 --> 00:13:55,710 When this verse was revealed 234 00:13:55,710 --> 00:14:01,629 You will not attain righteousness until you spend from what you love 235 00:14:01,629 --> 00:14:06,110 Abu Talha went to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 236 00:14:06,110 --> 00:14:07,549 And he said 237 00:14:07,549 --> 00:14:09,389 O Messenger of God 238 00:14:09,389 --> 00:14:13,070 God Almighty says: 239 00:14:13,149 --> 00:14:18,990 You will not attain righteousness until you spend from what you love 240 00:14:18,990 --> 00:14:22,669 And if he loves my money, he will go 241 00:14:22,669 --> 00:14:26,429 It is a charity for God Almighty 242 00:14:26,429 --> 00:14:30,990 I hope that she will be righteous and treasured by God Almighty 243 00:14:30,990 --> 00:14:35,519 So, O Messenger of God, place it where God shows you 244 00:14:35,519 --> 00:14:39,600 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 245 00:14:39,600 --> 00:14:43,039 That's profitable money 246 00:14:43,279 --> 00:14:45,600 And I heard what you said 247 00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:49,440 I think you should make it among the closest ones 248 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:51,440 Abu Talha said 249 00:14:51,539 --> 00:14:54,019 I will do so, O Messenger of God 250 00:14:54,019 --> 00:14:59,090 So Abu Talha divided it among his relatives and cousins 251 00:14:59,090 --> 00:15:01,090 Agreed 252 00:15:01,090 --> 00:15:06,559 On the authority of Abdullah bin Omar bin Al-Aas, may God be pleased with them both, he said 253 00:15:06,559 --> 00:15:11,679 A man came to the Prophet of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 254 00:15:11,840 --> 00:15:16,399 He said, “I pledge allegiance to you on immigration and jihad.” 255 00:15:16,399 --> 00:15:19,759 I seek reward from God Almighty 256 00:15:19,759 --> 00:15:24,830 He said: Do you have any of your parents alive? 257 00:15:24,830 --> 00:15:28,830 He said yes, but both 258 00:15:28,830 --> 00:15:33,230 He said, "So you seek reward from God Almighty." 259 00:15:33,230 --> 00:15:35,230 He said yes 260 00:15:35,230 --> 00:15:39,710 He said, “Go back to your parents and keep them company.” 261 00:15:39,710 --> 00:15:41,710 Agreed 262 00:15:41,710 --> 00:15:43,710 This is a Muslim word 263 00:15:43,710 --> 00:15:45,710 And in their narration 264 00:15:45,710 --> 00:15:49,899 A man came and asked him for permission to engage in jihad 265 00:15:49,899 --> 00:15:53,899 He said: May your parents live 266 00:15:53,899 --> 00:15:55,899 He said yes 267 00:15:55,899 --> 00:15:59,899 He said: In both of them, he struggled 268 00:15:59,899 --> 00:16:01,899 One of the benefits of talking 269 00:16:01,899 --> 00:16:07,470 A Muslim seeks what comes and leaves 270 00:16:07,470 --> 00:16:09,470 The reward is from God 271 00:16:09,470 --> 00:16:13,950 Honoring parents is one of the most obligatory duties 272 00:16:13,950 --> 00:16:20,210 If a Muslim can maintain his religion and piety while honoring his parents 273 00:16:20,210 --> 00:16:22,210 This is good 274 00:16:22,210 --> 00:16:26,210 And whoever cannot do anything except by fleeing with his religion 275 00:16:26,210 --> 00:16:28,210 He presented his religion 276 00:16:28,210 --> 00:16:32,210 As the first predecessors were made of immigrants 277 00:16:32,210 --> 00:16:38,779 Providing honor to one’s parents over the obligations of sufficiency and volunteering 278 00:16:38,779 --> 00:16:42,259 He said: In both of them, he struggled 279 00:16:42,259 --> 00:16:47,259 What is intended is to convey the shared amount of the cost of jihad 280 00:16:47,259 --> 00:16:51,259 It is exhausting the body and spending money on them 281 00:16:51,259 --> 00:16:55,970 Everything that is difficult for the soul is called jihad 282 00:16:55,970 --> 00:16:57,970 The advisor is appointed 283 00:16:57,970 --> 00:17:02,610 He should give careful advice 284 00:17:02,610 --> 00:17:09,089 The taxpayer may choose the best energy work 285 00:17:09,089 --> 00:17:11,089 To work with it 286 00:17:11,089 --> 00:17:15,630 Riyadh Al-Salehin