WEBVTT 00:00:00.780 --> 00:00:09.779 Riyadh al-Salehin from the words of the Master of Messengers, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:00:09.779 --> 00:00:18.260 Chapter on honoring one’s parents and maintaining family ties 00:00:18.260 --> 00:00:20.260 God Almighty said 00:00:20.260 --> 00:00:24.260 And worship God and do not associate anything with Him 00:00:24.260 --> 00:00:30.260 And be kind to parents, and to relatives, orphans, and the needy 00:00:30.260 --> 00:00:39.390 And the neighbor who is near, and the neighbor who is on the side, and the companion by side, and the wayfarer, and what your right hands possess 00:00:39.390 --> 00:00:41.390 And the Almighty said 00:00:41.390 --> 00:00:46.390 And fear God, by whom you ask, and the wombs 00:00:46.390 --> 00:00:48.390 And the Almighty said 00:00:48.390 --> 00:00:54.390 Those who pray what God has commanded to convey the sign 00:00:54.390 --> 00:00:56.460 And the Almighty said 00:00:56.460 --> 00:01:00.460 And We have enjoined upon man to be good to his parents 00:01:00.460 --> 00:01:02.460 And the Almighty said 00:01:02.460 --> 00:01:09.459 Your Lord has decreed that you should not worship anyone but Him and that you be kind to your parents 00:01:09.459 --> 00:01:15.459 Either one or both of them will reach adulthood by you 00:01:15.459 --> 00:01:20.459 Do not say sorry to them or rebuke them 00:01:20.459 --> 00:01:23.459 And speak to them kindly 00:01:23.459 --> 00:01:27.459 And lower to them the wing of humility out of mercy 00:01:27.459 --> 00:01:32.459 And say, “My Lord, have mercy on them as they raised me when I was little.” 00:01:32.459 --> 00:01:34.579 And the Almighty said 00:01:34.579 --> 00:01:41.579 And We have enjoined upon man to be responsible for his parents. His mother bore him in weakness upon weakness 00:01:41.579 --> 00:01:44.579 And weaned him off in two years 00:01:44.579 --> 00:01:47.579 To thank me and your parents 00:01:47.579 --> 00:01:55.120 On the authority of Abu Abdul Rahman Abdullah bin Masoud, may God be pleased with him, he said 00:01:55.120 --> 00:01:59.120 I asked the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:01:59.120 --> 00:02:03.120 That is, the work most beloved to God Almighty 00:02:03.120 --> 00:02:07.120 He said praying on time 00:02:07.120 --> 00:02:09.120 I said then any 00:02:09.120 --> 00:02:12.120 He said honoring parents 00:02:12.120 --> 00:02:14.120 I said then any 00:02:14.120 --> 00:02:18.120 He said: Jihad for the sake of God 00:02:18.120 --> 00:02:20.120 Agreed 00:02:20.120 --> 00:02:24.780 One of the benefits of talking 00:02:24.780 --> 00:02:28.780 The best rights of God Almighty that are obligatory after monotheism 00:02:28.780 --> 00:02:31.460 Prayer 00:02:31.460 --> 00:02:36.460 Hastening to pray at the beginning of its time is better than being lazy 00:02:36.460 --> 00:02:41.460 Because it is a condition for it to be the most beloved deeds to God 00:02:41.460 --> 00:02:43.460 To be of its time 00:02:43.460 --> 00:02:45.460 That's the first 00:02:45.460 --> 00:02:48.030 The best rights of servants 00:02:48.030 --> 00:02:50.030 Parental right 00:02:50.030 --> 00:02:55.030 It follows the truth of God, as mentioned in the verses now, so remember 00:02:55.030 --> 00:03:00.610 Jihad for the sake of God is the best kind of sacrifice 00:03:00.610 --> 00:03:05.280 Acts of righteousness prefer one another 00:03:05.280 --> 00:03:09.050 And it's just not ranked 00:03:09.050 --> 00:03:13.050 It is permissible to ask about various issues at the same time 00:03:14.620 --> 00:03:16.620 Kindness to the world 00:03:16.620 --> 00:03:18.620 And stop overdoing it 00:03:18.620 --> 00:03:22.419 Fear of boredom 00:03:22.419 --> 00:03:26.419 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said 00:03:26.419 --> 00:03:30.419 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:03:30.419 --> 00:03:32.419 A child is not sufficient for his father 00:03:32.419 --> 00:03:35.419 However, he finds him possessed 00:03:35.419 --> 00:03:38.539 So he buys him and frees him 00:03:38.539 --> 00:03:41.819 Narrated by Muslim 00:03:41.819 --> 00:03:45.879 Any reward is rewarded 00:03:45.879 --> 00:03:47.879 One of the benefits of talking 00:03:47.879 --> 00:03:50.939 The right of parents is great in Islam 00:03:50.939 --> 00:03:56.490 It is not permissible for a child to enslave one or both of his parents 00:03:56.490 --> 00:03:58.490 If that happens 00:03:58.490 --> 00:04:03.490 It is one of the signs of the Hour and signs of changing times 00:04:03.490 --> 00:04:06.490 As mentioned in the hadith of Gabriel 00:04:06.490 --> 00:04:11.159 The father is emancipated once the child buys him 00:04:11.159 --> 00:04:14.159 Purchase is a reason for emancipation 00:04:14.159 --> 00:04:19.110 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him 00:04:19.110 --> 00:04:23.110 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:04:23.110 --> 00:04:27.209 Whoever believes in God and the Last Day 00:04:27.209 --> 00:04:29.209 Let him honor his guest 00:04:29.209 --> 00:04:33.240 And whoever believes in God and the Last Day 00:04:33.240 --> 00:04:35.269 May he have mercy 00:04:35.269 --> 00:04:39.269 And whoever believes in God and the Last Day 00:04:39.269 --> 00:04:42.269 Let him say good things or keep silent 00:04:42.269 --> 00:04:44.269 Agreed 00:04:44.269 --> 00:04:48.290 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said 00:04:48.290 --> 00:04:52.129 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:04:52.129 --> 00:04:55.569 God Almighty created creation 00:04:55.569 --> 00:05:00.449 Until he finished with them, the womb stood up and said 00:05:00.449 --> 00:05:04.750 This is the place of one who seeks refuge in You from the flock 00:05:04.750 --> 00:05:07.149 He said yes 00:05:07.149 --> 00:05:10.350 Would you not like me to follow the one you received? 00:05:10.350 --> 00:05:12.819 And I will cut off your pieces 00:05:12.980 --> 00:05:14.819 She said yes 00:05:14.819 --> 00:05:17.810 He said that's yours 00:05:17.810 --> 00:05:22.050 Then the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:05:22.050 --> 00:05:24.290 Read if you want 00:05:24.290 --> 00:05:32.290 Would it be possible for you, if you were to take charge, to spread corruption on earth and sever your ties of kinship? 00:05:32.290 --> 00:05:39.699 Those whom God has cursed, deafened them and blinded their sight 00:05:39.699 --> 00:05:41.870 Agreed 00:05:42.029 --> 00:05:44.670 And in a narration by Al-Bukhari 00:05:44.670 --> 00:05:47.149 And God Almighty said 00:05:47.149 --> 00:05:53.790 Whoever connects with you, you will connect with him, and whoever separates you, you will cut him off 00:05:53.790 --> 00:05:57.839 He finished them, meaning He completed their creation 00:05:57.839 --> 00:06:04.350 The one who seeks refuge in you and seeks help from you 00:06:04.350 --> 00:06:06.750 One of the benefits of talking 00:06:06.750 --> 00:06:10.990 Everything other than God Almighty is created 00:06:10.990 --> 00:06:14.689 An object having not been 00:06:14.769 --> 00:06:20.500 Emphasizing the prohibition of severing family ties and turning away from them 00:06:20.500 --> 00:06:25.709 We seek refuge in God alone, without any partner 00:06:25.709 --> 00:06:29.870 Family ties are a reason for God’s mercy to His servants 00:06:29.870 --> 00:06:34.620 It is a reason for the emergence of goodness among people 00:06:34.620 --> 00:06:39.259 The severing of the uterus is a reason for abandoning the male 00:06:39.259 --> 00:06:43.379 It causes corruption and corruption 00:06:43.379 --> 00:06:46.019 The best way to explain the Qur’an 00:06:46.100 --> 00:06:50.180 The words of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:06:50.180 --> 00:06:54.259 The best thing to cite to explain the meaning of the hadith 00:06:54.259 --> 00:06:58.750 The word of God Almighty 00:06:58.750 --> 00:07:02.540 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said 00:07:02.540 --> 00:07:07.980 A man came to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, and said 00:07:07.980 --> 00:07:13.500 O Messenger of God, who is the most deserving of my good companions? 00:07:13.500 --> 00:07:15.899 Your mother said 00:07:15.899 --> 00:07:18.300 Then who said? 00:07:18.300 --> 00:07:20.139 Your mother said 00:07:20.139 --> 00:07:22.060 Then who said? 00:07:22.060 --> 00:07:23.740 Your mother said 00:07:23.740 --> 00:07:25.740 Then who said? 00:07:25.740 --> 00:07:27.660 Your father said 00:07:27.660 --> 00:07:29.779 Agreed 00:07:29.779 --> 00:07:31.459 And in a novel 00:07:31.459 --> 00:07:36.129 O Messenger of God, who is more deserving of good company? 00:07:36.129 --> 00:07:37.569 Your mother said 00:07:37.569 --> 00:07:39.089 Then your mother 00:07:39.089 --> 00:07:40.610 Then your mother 00:07:40.610 --> 00:07:42.209 Then your father 00:07:42.209 --> 00:07:45.100 Then below you below you 00:07:45.180 --> 00:07:48.100 Companions mean companionship 00:07:48.100 --> 00:07:50.579 And he said, “Then your father.” 00:07:50.579 --> 00:07:53.779 Thus, it is in the accusative case 00:07:53.779 --> 00:07:56.259 That is, then honor your father 00:07:56.259 --> 00:07:57.779 And in a novel 00:07:57.779 --> 00:07:59.220 Then your father 00:07:59.220 --> 00:08:02.639 This is clear 00:08:02.639 --> 00:08:04.399 Below you below 00:08:04.399 --> 00:08:08.029 That is, the closest, the closest 00:08:08.029 --> 00:08:10.560 One of the benefits of talking 00:08:10.560 --> 00:08:15.490 A will given to the mother due to her weakness and need 00:08:15.490 --> 00:08:20.430 Remembering those who are close to each other is not of the same degree 00:08:20.430 --> 00:08:23.709 Arranging rights and putting them in their proper places 00:08:23.709 --> 00:08:26.560 It is origin and justice 00:08:26.560 --> 00:08:30.480 If the man is obligated to support the mother and father 00:08:30.480 --> 00:08:33.679 He only found money for one of them 00:08:33.679 --> 00:08:37.730 Mother provided 00:08:37.730 --> 00:08:41.809 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, on the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:08:41.809 --> 00:08:43.009 He said 00:08:43.009 --> 00:08:44.529 Despite the nose 00:08:44.529 --> 00:08:46.529 Then despite the nose 00:08:46.529 --> 00:08:47.889 Then despite the nose 00:08:47.889 --> 00:08:50.850 Who realizes his parents when he grows up 00:08:50.850 --> 00:08:53.409 Either or both 00:08:53.409 --> 00:08:56.100 He did not enter heaven 00:08:56.100 --> 00:08:59.379 Narrated by Muslim 00:08:59.379 --> 00:09:00.580 Despite 00:09:00.580 --> 00:09:05.100 That is, sticking to the dirt is our humiliation 00:09:05.100 --> 00:09:07.460 One of the benefits of talking 00:09:07.460 --> 00:09:10.340 Honoring parents and being kind to them 00:09:10.340 --> 00:09:12.820 Obligatory in all cases 00:09:12.820 --> 00:09:16.830 In their youth and adults 00:09:16.830 --> 00:09:18.990 Parents when they grow old 00:09:18.990 --> 00:09:22.669 They need more righteousness 00:09:22.669 --> 00:09:26.850 Because of their weakness and physical deficiency 00:09:26.850 --> 00:09:31.250 A Muslim should be considerate of the weak and the elderly 00:09:31.250 --> 00:09:34.860 He is kind to them and has mercy on them 00:09:34.860 --> 00:09:39.899 Disobedience to parents leads to hellfire and expulsion from God’s mercy 00:09:39.899 --> 00:09:45.899 And their righteousness is a paved path to heaven 00:09:45.899 --> 00:09:48.700 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him 00:09:48.779 --> 00:09:51.899 A man said, O Messenger of God 00:09:51.899 --> 00:09:55.820 I have a relative, and they cut me off 00:09:55.820 --> 00:09:59.259 I do good to them and they do evil to me 00:09:59.259 --> 00:10:02.980 I dream about them and they ignore me 00:10:02.980 --> 00:10:04.500 And he said 00:10:04.500 --> 00:10:06.899 Because you are as you said 00:10:06.899 --> 00:10:10.019 It is as if boredom has made them miserable 00:10:10.019 --> 00:10:16.220 And you will still have a supporter from God over them as long as you continue to do so 00:10:16.220 --> 00:10:18.429 Narrated by Muslim 00:10:18.509 --> 00:10:20.590 And you will understand the boredom 00:10:20.590 --> 00:10:24.269 That is, as if you were feeding them hot ashes 00:10:24.269 --> 00:10:27.870 It is an analogy to the sin that befalls them 00:10:27.870 --> 00:10:32.110 The pain that inflicts on the eater of hot ashes 00:10:32.110 --> 00:10:35.389 There is nothing wrong with this benefactor 00:10:35.389 --> 00:10:40.029 But a great sin befalls them by their negligence in his duty 00:10:40.029 --> 00:10:42.509 And they caused harm to him 00:10:42.509 --> 00:10:45.659 And God knows best 00:10:45.659 --> 00:10:48.059 One of the benefits of talking 00:10:48.139 --> 00:10:51.340 The origin of dealings between relatives 00:10:51.340 --> 00:10:53.659 Charity and communication 00:10:53.659 --> 00:10:56.460 Be patient and ask for excuses 00:10:56.460 --> 00:10:59.419 It is not an interview 00:10:59.419 --> 00:11:04.720 But the harm must be endured in order to reach it 00:11:04.720 --> 00:11:07.519 Matching abuse with kindness 00:11:07.519 --> 00:11:10.799 The expectation that the offender will return to the truth 00:11:10.799 --> 00:11:13.039 As God Almighty said 00:11:13.039 --> 00:11:16.000 Pay with what is best 00:11:16.000 --> 00:11:23.470 So, the one between you and whom there is enmity is as if he were a close friend 00:11:23.470 --> 00:11:26.269 What you punished those who disobeyed God regarding you 00:11:26.269 --> 00:11:29.870 Such as obeying God in it 00:11:29.870 --> 00:11:35.519 Complying with God’s command is the reason for God’s help to the believing servant 00:11:35.519 --> 00:11:39.600 Breaking ties of kinship is pain and torment in this world 00:11:39.600 --> 00:11:44.110 And sin and severity of reckoning in the afterlife 00:11:44.110 --> 00:11:48.509 A Muslim should be rewarded for his good deeds 00:11:48.509 --> 00:11:53.500 People's harm does not stop him from his good habits 00:11:53.500 --> 00:11:56.059 We remember in this regard 00:11:56.059 --> 00:12:00.379 The Lord of the Worlds reproaches Abu Bakr, may God be pleased with him 00:12:00.379 --> 00:12:04.299 When he decided to cut off Mustaq Ibn Uthatha 00:12:04.299 --> 00:12:08.620 Who harmed him in his honor in the Al-Ifk incident 00:12:08.620 --> 00:12:11.019 And God Almighty said 00:12:11.019 --> 00:12:14.299 And let not the first of your bounty and abundance be neglected 00:12:14.379 --> 00:12:20.860 To give to relatives, the needy, and those who migrate for the sake of God 00:12:20.860 --> 00:12:23.419 Let them pardon and pardon 00:12:23.419 --> 00:12:27.419 Wouldn't you like God to forgive you? 00:12:27.419 --> 00:12:32.320 God is Forgiving and Merciful 00:12:32.320 --> 00:12:34.879 On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him 00:12:34.879 --> 00:12:39.440 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:12:39.440 --> 00:12:42.879 Whoever loves to have his livelihood simplified 00:12:42.960 --> 00:12:45.519 And he will follow him in his tracks 00:12:45.519 --> 00:12:47.789 May his soul rest in peace 00:12:47.789 --> 00:12:50.000 Agreed 00:12:50.000 --> 00:12:53.200 And a meaning that comes into its own 00:12:53.200 --> 00:12:57.950 To delay his term and his life 00:12:57.950 --> 00:13:00.500 One of the benefits of talking 00:13:00.500 --> 00:13:04.500 Connecting relatives is a reason for the expansion and breadth of livelihood 00:13:04.500 --> 00:13:07.360 And blessings in life 00:13:07.360 --> 00:13:10.559 What is meant by extending sustenance in the hadith 00:13:10.559 --> 00:13:14.320 It is an increase in the amount of his written livelihood 00:13:14.320 --> 00:13:17.279 Or to increase the blessing in it 00:13:17.279 --> 00:13:20.639 The same applies to increasing lifespan 00:13:20.639 --> 00:13:23.200 Either the real increase 00:13:23.200 --> 00:13:28.639 Or attaining blessing at this age 00:13:28.639 --> 00:13:32.110 On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him, he said: 00:13:32.110 --> 00:13:37.789 Abu Talha was the most wealthy of the Ansar in Medina in terms of palm trees 00:13:37.789 --> 00:13:41.789 The most beloved of his wealth was Barah 00:13:41.789 --> 00:13:44.669 She was the recipient of the mosque 00:13:44.750 --> 00:13:49.389 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to enter it 00:13:49.389 --> 00:13:52.990 He drinks water that contains good things 00:13:52.990 --> 00:13:55.710 When this verse was revealed 00:13:55.710 --> 00:14:01.629 You will not attain righteousness until you spend from what you love 00:14:01.629 --> 00:14:06.110 Abu Talha went to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:14:06.110 --> 00:14:07.549 And he said 00:14:07.549 --> 00:14:09.389 O Messenger of God 00:14:09.389 --> 00:14:13.070 God Almighty says: 00:14:13.149 --> 00:14:18.990 You will not attain righteousness until you spend from what you love 00:14:18.990 --> 00:14:22.669 And if he loves my money, he will go 00:14:22.669 --> 00:14:26.429 It is a charity for God Almighty 00:14:26.429 --> 00:14:30.990 I hope that she will be righteous and treasured by God Almighty 00:14:30.990 --> 00:14:35.519 So, O Messenger of God, place it where God shows you 00:14:35.519 --> 00:14:39.600 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:14:39.600 --> 00:14:43.039 That's profitable money 00:14:43.279 --> 00:14:45.600 And I heard what you said 00:14:45.600 --> 00:14:49.440 I think you should make it among the closest ones 00:14:49.440 --> 00:14:51.440 Abu Talha said 00:14:51.539 --> 00:14:54.019 I will do so, O Messenger of God 00:14:54.019 --> 00:14:59.090 So Abu Talha divided it among his relatives and cousins 00:14:59.090 --> 00:15:01.090 Agreed 00:15:01.090 --> 00:15:06.559 On the authority of Abdullah bin Omar bin Al-Aas, may God be pleased with them both, he said 00:15:06.559 --> 00:15:11.679 A man came to the Prophet of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:15:11.840 --> 00:15:16.399 He said, “I pledge allegiance to you on immigration and jihad.” 00:15:16.399 --> 00:15:19.759 I seek reward from God Almighty 00:15:19.759 --> 00:15:24.830 He said: Do you have any of your parents alive? 00:15:24.830 --> 00:15:28.830 He said yes, but both 00:15:28.830 --> 00:15:33.230 He said, "So you seek reward from God Almighty." 00:15:33.230 --> 00:15:35.230 He said yes 00:15:35.230 --> 00:15:39.710 He said, “Go back to your parents and keep them company.” 00:15:39.710 --> 00:15:41.710 Agreed 00:15:41.710 --> 00:15:43.710 This is a Muslim word 00:15:43.710 --> 00:15:45.710 And in their narration 00:15:45.710 --> 00:15:49.899 A man came and asked him for permission to engage in jihad 00:15:49.899 --> 00:15:53.899 He said: May your parents live 00:15:53.899 --> 00:15:55.899 He said yes 00:15:55.899 --> 00:15:59.899 He said: In both of them, he struggled 00:15:59.899 --> 00:16:01.899 One of the benefits of talking 00:16:01.899 --> 00:16:07.470 A Muslim seeks what comes and leaves 00:16:07.470 --> 00:16:09.470 The reward is from God 00:16:09.470 --> 00:16:13.950 Honoring parents is one of the most obligatory duties 00:16:13.950 --> 00:16:20.210 If a Muslim can maintain his religion and piety while honoring his parents 00:16:20.210 --> 00:16:22.210 This is good 00:16:22.210 --> 00:16:26.210 And whoever cannot do anything except by fleeing with his religion 00:16:26.210 --> 00:16:28.210 He presented his religion 00:16:28.210 --> 00:16:32.210 As the first predecessors were made of immigrants 00:16:32.210 --> 00:16:38.779 Providing honor to one’s parents over the obligations of sufficiency and volunteering 00:16:38.779 --> 00:16:42.259 He said: In both of them, he struggled 00:16:42.259 --> 00:16:47.259 What is intended is to convey the shared amount of the cost of jihad 00:16:47.259 --> 00:16:51.259 It is exhausting the body and spending money on them 00:16:51.259 --> 00:16:55.970 Everything that is difficult for the soul is called jihad 00:16:55.970 --> 00:16:57.970 The advisor is appointed 00:16:57.970 --> 00:17:02.610 He should give careful advice 00:17:02.610 --> 00:17:09.089 The taxpayer may choose the best energy work 00:17:09.089 --> 00:17:11.089 To work with it 00:17:11.089 --> 00:17:15.630 Riyadh Al-Salehin