Riyadh al-Salehin from the words of the Master of Messengers, may God bless him and grant him peace
Chapter on honoring one’s parents and maintaining family ties
God Almighty said
And worship God and do not associate anything with Him
And be kind to parents, and to relatives, orphans, and the needy
And the neighbor who is near, and the neighbor who is on the side, and the companion by side, and the wayfarer, and what your right hands possess
And the Almighty said
And fear God, by whom you ask, and the wombs
And the Almighty said
Those who pray what God has commanded to convey the sign
And the Almighty said
And We have enjoined upon man to be good to his parents
And the Almighty said
Your Lord has decreed that you should not worship anyone but Him and that you be kind to your parents
Either one or both of them will reach adulthood by you
Do not say sorry to them or rebuke them
And speak to them kindly
And lower to them the wing of humility out of mercy
And say, “My Lord, have mercy on them as they raised me when I was little.”
And the Almighty said
And We have enjoined upon man to be responsible for his parents. His mother bore him in weakness upon weakness
And weaned him off in two years
To thank me and your parents
On the authority of Abu Abdul Rahman Abdullah bin Masoud, may God be pleased with him, he said
I asked the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
That is, the work most beloved to God Almighty
He said praying on time
I said then any
He said honoring parents
I said then any
He said: Jihad for the sake of God
Agreed
One of the benefits of talking
The best rights of God Almighty that are obligatory after monotheism
Prayer
Hastening to pray at the beginning of its time is better than being lazy
Because it is a condition for it to be the most beloved deeds to God
To be of its time
That's the first
The best rights of servants
Parental right
It follows the truth of God, as mentioned in the verses now, so remember
Jihad for the sake of God is the best kind of sacrifice
Acts of righteousness prefer one another
And it's just not ranked
It is permissible to ask about various issues at the same time
Kindness to the world
And stop overdoing it
Fear of boredom
On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
A child is not sufficient for his father
However, he finds him possessed
So he buys him and frees him
Narrated by Muslim
Any reward is rewarded
One of the benefits of talking
The right of parents is great in Islam
It is not permissible for a child to enslave one or both of his parents
If that happens
It is one of the signs of the Hour and signs of changing times
As mentioned in the hadith of Gabriel
The father is emancipated once the child buys him
Purchase is a reason for emancipation
On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Whoever believes in God and the Last Day
Let him honor his guest
And whoever believes in God and the Last Day
May he have mercy
And whoever believes in God and the Last Day
Let him say good things or keep silent
Agreed
On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
God Almighty created creation
Until he finished with them, the womb stood up and said
This is the place of one who seeks refuge in You from the flock
He said yes
Would you not like me to follow the one you received?
And I will cut off your pieces
She said yes
He said that's yours
Then the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
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Would it be possible for you, if you were to take charge, to spread corruption on earth and sever your ties of kinship?
Those whom God has cursed, deafened them and blinded their sight
Agreed
And in a narration by Al-Bukhari
And God Almighty said
Whoever connects with you, you will connect with him, and whoever separates you, you will cut him off
He finished them, meaning He completed their creation
The one who seeks refuge in you and seeks help from you
One of the benefits of talking
Everything other than God Almighty is created
An object having not been
Emphasizing the prohibition of severing family ties and turning away from them
We seek refuge in God alone, without any partner
Family ties are a reason for God’s mercy to His servants
It is a reason for the emergence of goodness among people
The severing of the uterus is a reason for abandoning the male
It causes corruption and corruption
The best way to explain the Qur’an
The words of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
The best thing to cite to explain the meaning of the hadith
The word of God Almighty
On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said
A man came to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, and said
O Messenger of God, who is the most deserving of my good companions?
Your mother said
Then who said?
Your mother said
Then who said?
Your mother said
Then who said?
Your father said
Agreed
And in a novel
O Messenger of God, who is more deserving of good company?
Your mother said
Then your mother
Then your father
Then below you below you
Companions mean companionship
And he said, “Then your father.”
Thus, it is in the accusative case
That is, then honor your father
And in a novel
Then your father
This is clear
Below you below
That is, the closest, the closest
One of the benefits of talking
A will given to the mother due to her weakness and need
Remembering those who are close to each other is not of the same degree
Arranging rights and putting them in their proper places
It is origin and justice
If the man is obligated to support the mother and father
He only found money for one of them
Mother provided
On the authority of Abu Hurairah, on the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
He said
Despite the nose
Then despite the nose
Who realizes his parents when he grows up
Either or both
He did not enter heaven
Narrated by Muslim
Despite
That is, sticking to the dirt is our humiliation
One of the benefits of talking
Honoring parents and being kind to them
Obligatory in all cases
In their youth and adults
Parents when they grow old
They need more righteousness
Because of their weakness and physical deficiency
A Muslim should be considerate of the weak and the elderly
He is kind to them and has mercy on them
Disobedience to parents leads to hellfire and expulsion from God’s mercy
And their righteousness is a paved path to heaven
On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him
A man said, O Messenger of God
I have a relative, and they cut me off
I do good to them and they do evil to me
I dream about them and they ignore me
And he said
Because you are as you said
It is as if boredom has made them miserable
And you will still have a supporter from God over them as long as you continue to do so
Narrated by Muslim
And you will understand the boredom
That is, as if you were feeding them hot ashes
It is an analogy to the sin that befalls them
The pain that inflicts on the eater of hot ashes
There is nothing wrong with this benefactor
But a great sin befalls them by their negligence in his duty
And they caused harm to him
And God knows best
One of the benefits of talking
The origin of dealings between relatives
Charity and communication
Be patient and ask for excuses
It is not an interview
But the harm must be endured in order to reach it
Matching abuse with kindness
The expectation that the offender will return to the truth
As God Almighty said
Pay with what is best
So, the one between you and whom there is enmity is as if he were a close friend
What you punished those who disobeyed God regarding you
Such as obeying God in it
Complying with God’s command is the reason for God’s help to the believing servant
Breaking ties of kinship is pain and torment in this world
And sin and severity of reckoning in the afterlife
A Muslim should be rewarded for his good deeds
People's harm does not stop him from his good habits
We remember in this regard
The Lord of the Worlds reproaches Abu Bakr, may God be pleased with him
When he decided to cut off Mustaq Ibn Uthatha
Who harmed him in his honor in the Al-Ifk incident
And God Almighty said
And let not the first of your bounty and abundance be neglected
To give to relatives, the needy, and those who migrate for the sake of God
Let them pardon and pardon
Wouldn't you like God to forgive you?
God is Forgiving and Merciful
On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Whoever loves to have his livelihood simplified
And he will follow him in his tracks
May his soul rest in peace
Agreed
And a meaning that comes into its own
To delay his term and his life
One of the benefits of talking
Connecting relatives is a reason for the expansion and breadth of livelihood
And blessings in life
What is meant by extending sustenance in the hadith
It is an increase in the amount of his written livelihood
Or to increase the blessing in it
The same applies to increasing lifespan
Either the real increase
Or attaining blessing at this age
On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him, he said:
Abu Talha was the most wealthy of the Ansar in Medina in terms of palm trees
The most beloved of his wealth was Barah
She was the recipient of the mosque
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to enter it
He drinks water that contains good things
When this verse was revealed
You will not attain righteousness until you spend from what you love
Abu Talha went to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
And he said
O Messenger of God
God Almighty says:
You will not attain righteousness until you spend from what you love
And if he loves my money, he will go
It is a charity for God Almighty
I hope that she will be righteous and treasured by God Almighty
So, O Messenger of God, place it where God shows you
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
That's profitable money
And I heard what you said
I think you should make it among the closest ones
Abu Talha said
I will do so, O Messenger of God
So Abu Talha divided it among his relatives and cousins
Agreed
On the authority of Abdullah bin Omar bin Al-Aas, may God be pleased with them both, he said
A man came to the Prophet of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
He said, “I pledge allegiance to you on immigration and jihad.”
I seek reward from God Almighty
He said: Do you have any of your parents alive?
He said yes, but both
He said, "So you seek reward from God Almighty."
He said yes
He said, “Go back to your parents and keep them company.”
Agreed
This is a Muslim word
And in their narration
A man came and asked him for permission to engage in jihad
He said: May your parents live
He said yes
He said: In both of them, he struggled
One of the benefits of talking
A Muslim seeks what comes and leaves
The reward is from God
Honoring parents is one of the most obligatory duties
If a Muslim can maintain his religion and piety while honoring his parents
This is good
And whoever cannot do anything except by fleeing with his religion
He presented his religion
As the first predecessors were made of immigrants
Providing honor to one’s parents over the obligations of sufficiency and volunteering
He said: In both of them, he struggled
What is intended is to convey the shared amount of the cost of jihad
It is exhausting the body and spending money on them
Everything that is difficult for the soul is called jihad
The advisor is appointed
He should give careful advice
The taxpayer may choose the best energy work
To work with it
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