1 00:00:00,180 --> 00:00:08,580 A summary of the concepts of Ahl al-Sunnah. 2 00:00:08,580 --> 00:00:14,580 The difference between appeasement (mudaahanah) and gentle dealing (mudaaraah) in the struggle of truth against falsehood. 3 00:00:14,580 --> 00:00:20,820 Appeasement is compromising some of the fundamental principles of the religion. 4 00:00:20,820 --> 00:00:25,820 To gain worldly benefits or to preserve them. 5 00:00:25,820 --> 00:00:29,820 Like someone who supports falsehood to obtain a position or wealth. 6 00:00:29,820 --> 00:00:32,820 Or out of fear of losing that. 7 00:00:32,820 --> 00:00:36,820 And like someone who remains silent about speaking the truth to gain worldly things. 8 00:00:36,820 --> 00:00:41,820 Therefore, appeasement is forbidden and detested by Islamic law. 9 00:00:41,820 --> 00:00:44,820 And Allah the Almighty said in condemnation of it: 10 00:00:44,820 --> 00:00:47,820 "So do not obey the deniers." (Qur'an 68:8) 11 00:00:47,820 --> 00:00:50,820 "They wish you would compromise, so they would compromise." (Qur'an 68:9) 12 00:00:50,820 --> 00:00:56,920 Gentle dealing, on the other hand, is compromising something of this world or personal gains. 13 00:00:56,920 --> 00:01:01,920 To preserve the religion and its principles, and to ward off corruption. 14 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:06,920 Or to achieve interests related to preserving the religion and its people. 15 00:01:06,920 --> 00:01:08,920 And an example of this is: 16 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:12,920 Holding back the hand from fighting in the Meccan period. 17 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:17,920 And the terms of peace that were made with the polytheists in the Treaty of Hudaybiyyah. 18 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:20,950 Therefore, gentle dealing is permissible. 19 00:01:20,950 --> 00:01:24,950 In fact, it might even be required by Islamic law. 20 00:01:24,950 --> 00:01:29,950 And Al-Bukhari, may Allah have mercy on him, dedicated a chapter in his authentic book. 21 00:01:29,950 --> 00:01:32,950 Titled "Gentle Dealing with People." 22 00:01:32,950 --> 00:01:36,950 And he narrated from Abu Al-Darda', may Allah be pleased with him, his saying: 23 00:01:36,950 --> 00:01:40,950 "We indeed show a cheerful face (i.e., we appear to smile) towards certain people. 24 00:01:40,950 --> 00:01:44,950 Even though our hearts curse them." 25 00:01:44,950 --> 00:01:48,950 And the saying of the Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him: 26 00:01:48,950 --> 00:01:51,950 "The worst of people in status before Allah on the Day of Resurrection 27 00:01:51,950 --> 00:01:56,980 are those whom people abandon or shun for fear of their obscenity." 28 00:01:56,980 --> 00:02:00,980 Ibn Hajar expressed concern regarding these two narrations, saying: 29 00:02:00,980 --> 00:02:05,980 Ibn Battal said: Gentle dealing is among the characteristics of a believer. 30 00:02:05,980 --> 00:02:09,979 It is lowering one's wing to people and speaking kindly. 31 00:02:09,979 --> 00:02:11,979 And refraining from being harsh with them. 32 00:02:11,979 --> 00:02:16,979 Al-Qurtubi said: The difference between gentle dealing and appeasement is: 33 00:02:16,979 --> 00:02:22,979 That gentle dealing involves expending worldly resources for the sake of worldly or religious reform. 34 00:02:23,979 --> 00:02:27,979 And it is permissible, and perhaps even recommended. 35 00:02:27,979 --> 00:02:32,270 While appeasement is abandoning the religion for the sake of worldly reform. 36 00:02:32,270 --> 00:02:35,270 And Ibn Al-Qayyim, may Allah have mercy on him, said: 37 00:02:35,270 --> 00:02:40,270 Gentle dealing is a praiseworthy trait, and appeasement is a blameworthy trait. 38 00:02:40,270 --> 00:02:44,270 The difference between them is that the one who practices gentle dealing is kind. 39 00:02:44,270 --> 00:02:50,270 To his companion until he extracts the truth from him or turns him away from falsehood. 40 00:02:50,270 --> 00:02:56,270 While the appeaser is kind in order to affirm him in falsehood and leave him to his desires. 41 00:02:56,270 --> 00:03:02,590 So, gentle dealing is for the people of faith, and appeasement is for the people of hypocrisy. 42 00:03:02,590 --> 00:03:04,590 And with this clear distinction, 43 00:03:04,590 --> 00:03:10,590 it is not permissible for anyone to practice appeasement in the religion of Allah and to ally with the enemies of Allah. 44 00:03:10,590 --> 00:03:13,590 Under the guise of gentle dealing and tolerance. 45 00:03:13,590 --> 00:03:20,590 Just as it is not permissible for anyone to abandon the required gentle dealing to defend the religion and its people. 46 00:03:20,590 --> 00:03:23,590 For fear that it might be considered appeasement.