1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,560 The story of the Queen of Seba 2 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:09,550 Verification before imposing punishment 3 00:00:09,550 --> 00:00:16,140 When the Prophet of God, Solomon, peace be upon him, became angry with the hoopoe 4 00:00:16,140 --> 00:00:18,780 Because of his absence from the army 5 00:00:18,780 --> 00:00:21,739 He threatened to torture or kill him 6 00:00:21,739 --> 00:00:24,780 Unless he comes up with an acceptable excuse 7 00:00:24,780 --> 00:00:27,820 This is the morals of prophecy 8 00:00:27,820 --> 00:00:30,300 There is no punishment without sin 9 00:00:30,300 --> 00:00:33,500 There is no punishment without proof 10 00:00:33,890 --> 00:00:35,890 God Almighty said 11 00:00:35,890 --> 00:00:47,170 He inspected the bird and said, “What is the matter with me that I do not see the hoopoe or was it one of those absent?” 12 00:00:47,170 --> 00:00:55,329 I will punish him with severe punishment or I will slaughter him 13 00:00:55,329 --> 00:01:02,670 Or to bring me clear authority 14 00:01:02,750 --> 00:01:05,230 Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said 15 00:01:05,230 --> 00:01:11,870 His loss of the hoopoe indicates the perfection of his resolve and his management of the king himself 16 00:01:11,870 --> 00:01:16,909 And his cleverness was perfect until he lost this little bird 17 00:01:16,909 --> 00:01:21,870 He said: What is the matter with me that I do not see the hoopoe or is it one of those absent? 18 00:01:21,870 --> 00:01:26,109 That is, is the failure to see it due to the few who were aware of it? 19 00:01:26,109 --> 00:01:30,030 Because it is hidden among these many nations 20 00:01:30,109 --> 00:01:36,180 Or at her door because he was absent without my permission or command 21 00:01:36,180 --> 00:01:40,180 So when you get angry at him and threaten him 22 00:01:40,180 --> 00:01:46,180 He said: If we torture him severely without killing him 23 00:01:46,180 --> 00:01:51,299 Or I will slaughter him, or he will bring me clear evidence 24 00:01:51,299 --> 00:01:54,819 No clear argument for his backwardness 25 00:01:54,819 --> 00:01:57,859 This is the perfection of his piety and fairness 26 00:01:57,939 --> 00:02:02,980 He did not swear to merely punish him with torture or death 27 00:02:02,980 --> 00:02:06,579 Because that can only be a result of sin 28 00:02:06,579 --> 00:02:10,580 His absence may be presumed to be due to a clear excuse 29 00:02:10,580 --> 00:02:15,900 That is why we excluded him because of his piety and intelligence 30 00:02:15,900 --> 00:02:18,139 This is perfect justice 31 00:02:18,139 --> 00:02:22,060 Do we not punish the guilty person immediately after anger? 32 00:02:22,060 --> 00:02:26,139 Rather, we leave him an opportunity to explain his argument 33 00:02:26,139 --> 00:02:28,860 If it is acceptable, leave it 34 00:02:28,860 --> 00:02:33,860 Otherwise, he will be punished with the punishment he deserves for his sin 35 00:02:33,860 --> 00:02:37,139 Al-Tahir bin Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said 36 00:02:37,139 --> 00:02:42,180 His saying is first to come to me with clear authority 37 00:02:42,180 --> 00:02:46,900 He made it the third of the things he made as a punishment for his absence 38 00:02:46,900 --> 00:02:50,580 It is to come up with something to ward off the punishment for itself 39 00:02:50,580 --> 00:02:55,069 Any excuse for being late is acceptable 40 00:02:55,069 --> 00:02:56,830 My dear sister 41 00:02:56,909 --> 00:03:01,229 Be sure before you impose punishment on your children 42 00:03:01,229 --> 00:03:04,909 And give them the opportunity to defend themselves 43 00:03:04,909 --> 00:03:07,969 They explain their point of view 44 00:03:07,969 --> 00:03:11,969 This confirmation is what God commanded His servants to do 45 00:03:11,969 --> 00:03:16,530 To avoid rushing to judge and accuse people 46 00:03:16,530 --> 00:03:18,849 And God Almighty said 47 00:03:18,849 --> 00:03:25,009 O you who believe 48 00:03:25,009 --> 00:03:31,659 If you fight for the sake of God, then investigate 49 00:03:31,659 --> 00:03:37,979 And do not say to those who greeted you 50 00:03:37,979 --> 00:03:45,520 You are not a believer. You seek the reward of the life of this world 51 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:50,879 God has many spoils 52 00:03:50,879 --> 00:03:55,919 So were you before 53 00:03:55,919 --> 00:04:00,800 It is from God upon you, so investigate 54 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:09,520 Indeed, God is Acquainted with what you do 55 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:12,000 Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said 56 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:14,560 God Almighty commands His faithful servants 57 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:17,040 If they go out to fight in His cause 58 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:19,120 And seeking His pleasure 59 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:24,160 To investigate and confirm all their suspected matters 60 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:26,399 Matters are of two kinds 61 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:29,279 Clear and unclear 62 00:04:29,279 --> 00:04:34,399 What is clear and evident does not need to be proven or clarified 63 00:04:34,399 --> 00:04:37,279 Because that is an achievement 64 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:40,560 As for the unclear issues 65 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:44,879 A person needs to confirm and understand it 66 00:04:44,879 --> 00:04:48,720 To know whether to submit it or not 67 00:04:48,720 --> 00:04:51,279 Verification in these matters 68 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:54,240 It gets many benefits 69 00:04:54,319 --> 00:04:56,800 And refraining from great evils 70 00:04:56,800 --> 00:05:01,040 What is the means by which the servant’s religion, mind, and sobriety are known 71 00:05:01,040 --> 00:05:04,319 Unlike rushing things at the beginning 72 00:05:04,319 --> 00:05:07,519 Before its ruling became clear to him 73 00:05:07,519 --> 00:05:11,360 This leads to what should not be done 74 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:15,759 As happened to those whom God blamed in the verse 75 00:05:15,759 --> 00:05:21,439 When they did not prove themselves and killed those who greeted them 76 00:05:21,439 --> 00:05:23,759 And the more that keeps you away from confirmation 77 00:05:23,759 --> 00:05:27,360 It causes you to be unfair to your children and those around you 78 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:28,720 Anger 79 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:33,199 So seek refuge in God from anger and haste 80 00:05:33,199 --> 00:05:36,100 Al-Shafi’i, may God have mercy on him, said 81 00:05:36,100 --> 00:05:40,660 So God commanded someone to carry out His command over any of His servants 82 00:05:40,660 --> 00:05:44,480 He must be clear before he proceeds with it 83 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:47,759 Then the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, ordered 84 00:05:47,759 --> 00:05:49,680 Especially in governance 85 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:53,120 Doesn't the ruler rule when he is angry? 86 00:05:53,199 --> 00:05:56,720 Because anger is feared for two reasons 87 00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:59,600 One is lack of verification 88 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:00,879 And the other 89 00:06:00,879 --> 00:06:04,240 Anger may change the mind 90 00:06:04,240 --> 00:06:09,040 Its owner takes precedence over what he did not take precedence over 91 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:12,449 If he wasn't angry 92 00:06:12,449 --> 00:06:17,730 The balance of anger among many parents is imbalanced 93 00:06:17,730 --> 00:06:20,769 The reason is that they do not get angry with God 94 00:06:20,769 --> 00:06:23,889 But they get angry with themselves 95 00:06:23,889 --> 00:06:25,810 If you ask yourself 96 00:06:25,810 --> 00:06:30,290 What makes you angry for yourself and not for God? 97 00:06:30,290 --> 00:06:34,449 I would have found that social hypocrisy is the reason 98 00:06:34,449 --> 00:06:36,610 And social hypocrisy 99 00:06:36,610 --> 00:06:41,329 It is for a person to beautify himself in front of people with what he does not have 100 00:06:41,329 --> 00:06:46,850 Therefore, if your son makes a mistake in any action or behavior in front of people 101 00:06:46,850 --> 00:06:48,930 You would have revolted against him 102 00:06:48,930 --> 00:06:51,730 Your blood boiled and your face turned red 103 00:06:51,730 --> 00:06:53,410 Your blood pressure has risen 104 00:06:53,410 --> 00:06:56,209 The tone of your voice rose to him 105 00:06:56,209 --> 00:06:59,649 Although the same mistake may occur at home 106 00:06:59,649 --> 00:07:04,290 And it does not come from you like what was issued in front of people 107 00:07:04,290 --> 00:07:07,410 It is one of the things that makes mothers and fathers 108 00:07:07,410 --> 00:07:11,410 They do not verify what is attributed to their children 109 00:07:11,410 --> 00:07:14,769 Listening to people's criticism of their children 110 00:07:14,769 --> 00:07:19,970 They believe this criticism directly without proof 111 00:07:19,970 --> 00:07:23,810 The critic may be spiteful or envious 112 00:07:23,810 --> 00:07:25,649 Or actually advised 113 00:07:25,649 --> 00:07:28,529 But it exaggerates the issues 114 00:07:28,529 --> 00:07:34,589 Or he does not know the nature of the human soul in childhood and youth 115 00:07:34,589 --> 00:07:38,029 There should be no haste in dealing with children 116 00:07:38,029 --> 00:07:43,569 Based on the news we hear from people without proof 117 00:07:43,569 --> 00:07:46,129 And the worst thing is that it makes parents angry 118 00:07:46,129 --> 00:07:50,930 They rush to judge their children and do not hesitate 119 00:07:50,930 --> 00:07:56,370 What some mothers do by receiving the husband’s children’s problems 120 00:07:56,370 --> 00:07:58,930 When he returns from work 121 00:07:58,930 --> 00:08:03,490 Which makes his heart anxious for his children even though he does not realize it 122 00:08:03,490 --> 00:08:10,589 Then he rushes to judge and punish them without thinking or delaying 123 00:08:10,589 --> 00:08:12,540 My dear sister 124 00:08:12,620 --> 00:08:18,060 You also need to be patient in judging your children's actions 125 00:08:18,060 --> 00:08:25,259 You also need to be patient in judging the actions of everyone around you 126 00:08:25,259 --> 00:08:29,740 From your brothers, sisters, husband and neighbors 127 00:08:29,740 --> 00:08:35,259 To avoid bad relationships built on haste and anger 128 00:08:35,259 --> 00:08:38,539 A man is originally rational 129 00:08:38,539 --> 00:08:43,580 Because God gave him the perfection of reason and his dominance over emotions 130 00:08:43,580 --> 00:08:47,980 His haste and lack of certainty about what he hears 131 00:08:47,980 --> 00:08:52,220 And issuing punishment to them unjustly under his control 132 00:08:52,220 --> 00:08:58,059 It is considered an ugly trait that does not suit men 133 00:08:58,059 --> 00:09:03,019 All the directions given to the woman in this article 134 00:09:03,019 --> 00:09:06,720 It is for men, first and foremost 135 00:09:06,799 --> 00:09:08,720 My dear brother 136 00:09:08,720 --> 00:09:11,919 Be one of the best and wisest men 137 00:09:11,919 --> 00:09:16,159 Be a good role model for others and your family 138 00:09:16,159 --> 00:09:21,899 Be sure and wait when you hear the news 139 00:09:21,899 --> 00:09:25,980 But is the son of the hoopoe exempt from punishment? 140 00:09:25,980 --> 00:09:29,580 How did he deal with this great threat? 141 00:09:29,580 --> 00:09:31,419 From a great prophet 142 00:09:31,419 --> 00:09:36,700 A king that no human being on the face of the earth has 143 00:09:36,700 --> 00:09:40,460 We will continue in the future, God willing 144 00:09:40,460 --> 00:09:43,500 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds 145 00:09:44,960 --> 00:09:47,360 The story of the Queen of Sheba 146 00:09:47,360 --> 00:09:51,360 With the Prophet of God Solomon, peace be upon him