1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,000 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 2 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:09,089 The story of Joseph, peace be upon him, with the wife of Al-Aziz 3 00:00:09,089 --> 00:00:16,679 The doors were closed, evidence of strife 4 00:00:16,679 --> 00:00:19,679 The danger of your infatuation with a man lies 5 00:00:19,679 --> 00:00:25,679 The impact of this temptation on your religion, your faith, and the life of your heart 6 00:00:25,679 --> 00:00:33,679 Until your heart becomes blind to every advice or sermon from within or outside yourself 7 00:00:33,679 --> 00:00:37,130 Only those who are fascinated by him will see it 8 00:00:37,130 --> 00:00:42,130 Islam is keen to protect you from falling into this temptation 9 00:00:42,130 --> 00:00:45,130 For fear of falling into a great sin 10 00:00:45,130 --> 00:00:50,130 What spoils your life and the hereafter is adultery 11 00:00:50,130 --> 00:00:57,219 Therefore, it is forbidden for men who are not your mahrams to have all means that lead you to commit adultery with them 12 00:00:57,219 --> 00:01:01,219 You are prohibited from entering without a mahram 13 00:01:01,219 --> 00:01:03,219 It is forbidden to be alone with you 14 00:01:03,219 --> 00:01:07,219 It is forbidden to shake hands with you or touch anything on your body 15 00:01:07,219 --> 00:01:11,219 He forbade looking at you and other means 16 00:01:11,219 --> 00:01:17,290 He also forbade you from all means by which you can tempt men 17 00:01:17,290 --> 00:01:22,290 It is forbidden for you to display adornment and leave your house wearing perfume 18 00:01:22,290 --> 00:01:26,290 He forbade you from being submissive in words when talking to them 19 00:01:26,290 --> 00:01:29,290 And prevent you from swaying in your walk 20 00:01:29,290 --> 00:01:35,290 Or hit the ground with your foot to alert men to the adornment you are concealing 21 00:01:35,290 --> 00:01:40,319 All this is to maintain your honor and maintain your chastity 22 00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:43,420 And the beginning of your infatuation with the man 23 00:01:43,420 --> 00:01:46,420 From looking at it repeatedly 24 00:01:46,420 --> 00:01:49,420 And move the heart and soul to Him 25 00:01:49,420 --> 00:01:52,420 Therefore, God forbade these beginnings 26 00:01:52,420 --> 00:01:54,420 And he said 27 00:01:54,420 --> 00:01:59,739 And tell the believing women to become angry with their eyes 28 00:01:59,739 --> 00:02:02,739 And they protect their private parts 29 00:02:02,739 --> 00:02:05,739 And they protect their private parts 30 00:02:05,739 --> 00:02:08,740 They do not show off their adornment 31 00:02:08,740 --> 00:02:11,740 Except what appears 32 00:02:12,740 --> 00:02:17,740 And let them put their veils on their pockets 33 00:02:17,740 --> 00:02:20,740 They do not show off their adornment 34 00:02:20,740 --> 00:02:23,740 Except for their husbands 35 00:02:23,740 --> 00:02:27,740 Or their fathers 36 00:02:27,740 --> 00:02:30,740 Or their fathers 37 00:02:30,740 --> 00:02:35,740 Or their fathers and their husbands 38 00:02:35,740 --> 00:02:38,740 Or their children 39 00:02:38,740 --> 00:02:43,740 Or their husband's father 40 00:02:43,740 --> 00:02:48,740 Or their brothers 41 00:02:48,740 --> 00:02:51,740 Or their brothers' sons 42 00:02:51,740 --> 00:02:56,740 Or their sisters' sons 43 00:02:56,740 --> 00:03:02,740 Or their women 44 00:03:02,740 --> 00:03:05,740 Or what filled them 45 00:03:05,740 --> 00:03:10,740 Or what their right hands possess 46 00:03:10,740 --> 00:03:17,740 Or the followers who are not men 47 00:03:17,740 --> 00:03:21,740 Or the followers who are not men 48 00:03:21,740 --> 00:03:29,740 Or children who did not show women's private parts 49 00:03:29,740 --> 00:03:32,740 They do not strike with their feet 50 00:03:32,740 --> 00:03:38,740 So that he may know what they hide of their adornment 51 00:03:38,740 --> 00:03:48,800 And repent to God all together, O believers, that you may succeed 52 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:52,180 Abdul Aziz Al-Tarifi said 53 00:03:52,180 --> 00:03:55,250 God commanded believing women to turn a blind eye 54 00:03:55,250 --> 00:03:59,250 He gave priority to lowering his gaze rather than preserving relief 55 00:03:59,250 --> 00:04:04,250 Because letting go of sight is a path that ends with wasting relief 56 00:04:04,250 --> 00:04:08,250 God provided the means to preserve the goal 57 00:04:08,250 --> 00:04:12,250 Then God forbade the women of the believers from displaying adornment 58 00:04:12,250 --> 00:04:17,250 Then there is a connection between freeing the sight and adornment 59 00:04:17,250 --> 00:04:21,250 This is because foreign men should not adorn themselves excessively 60 00:04:21,250 --> 00:04:24,250 Except for those whom she set her sights on 61 00:04:24,250 --> 00:04:27,250 So she looked at them with her eyes 62 00:04:27,250 --> 00:04:30,250 She decorated her body and clothes 63 00:04:30,250 --> 00:04:32,279 Even if she did not release her sight 64 00:04:32,279 --> 00:04:36,279 There was no reason in my heart to beautify them 65 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:39,279 Whoever preserves her sight, preserves her chastity 66 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:44,279 It did not occur to her to attract men to her through adornment 67 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:47,279 Because the heart is devoid of them 68 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:52,279 This is why preserving one's eyesight is given precedence over preserving one's chastity and forbidding adornment 69 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:55,279 Because sight is a rope that attracts hearts 70 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:58,279 And he moves her to adorn herself to tempt men 71 00:04:58,279 --> 00:05:02,279 Seducing them and falling into forbidden things 72 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:05,660 And in the story of Joseph and the wife of Al-Aziz 73 00:05:05,660 --> 00:05:09,660 What indicates this clear fact 74 00:05:09,660 --> 00:05:13,660 The presence of Joseph, peace be upon him, in the house of the dear wife 75 00:05:13,660 --> 00:05:16,660 He caused her to look at him a lot 76 00:05:16,660 --> 00:05:20,660 And contemplate his beauty, virtues, and appearance 77 00:05:20,660 --> 00:05:23,660 This made her fall in love with him 78 00:05:24,660 --> 00:05:29,819 This is a lesson for every girl and woman who works or studies 79 00:05:29,819 --> 00:05:33,819 Or live in a mixed environment with men 80 00:05:33,819 --> 00:05:37,819 She sees them often and interacts with them 81 00:05:37,819 --> 00:05:41,819 It is rare for a girl or woman to be safe from temptation 82 00:05:41,819 --> 00:05:45,819 With the men around her in such an atmosphere 83 00:05:45,819 --> 00:05:50,949 A married woman should not think that she is immune from this temptation 84 00:05:50,949 --> 00:05:53,949 Being under her husband 85 00:05:53,949 --> 00:05:56,949 She allows herself to mix with men 86 00:05:56,949 --> 00:05:58,949 This is the woman of the dear 87 00:05:58,949 --> 00:06:02,949 She was fascinated by a girl who worked in her house while she was married 88 00:06:02,949 --> 00:06:07,949 She has someone who is sufficient for her and protects her from falling into adultery 89 00:06:07,949 --> 00:06:10,949 However, it is because of strife 90 00:06:10,949 --> 00:06:13,949 I wanted the halal for the haram 91 00:06:13,949 --> 00:06:17,949 She closed the doors to get what she wanted 92 00:06:17,949 --> 00:06:19,949 And so are you 93 00:06:19,949 --> 00:06:22,949 If you release your sight without control 94 00:06:22,949 --> 00:06:25,949 You may be mesmerized by the beauty and youth of a man 95 00:06:25,949 --> 00:06:28,949 Or you are fascinated by something else about it 96 00:06:28,949 --> 00:06:33,949 So close the door to temptation from the beginning and lower your gaze 97 00:06:33,949 --> 00:06:38,949 This requires you to be careful with modern methods 98 00:06:38,949 --> 00:06:44,949 Which makes you look at men in privacy without anyone seeing you 99 00:06:44,949 --> 00:06:48,949 Like watching movies on satellite channels 100 00:06:48,949 --> 00:06:51,949 Or modern Internet programs 101 00:06:51,949 --> 00:06:56,949 Such as YouTube, Tiktok, Snap, etc 102 00:06:56,949 --> 00:07:00,949 Or communicate with men through modern means of communication 103 00:07:00,949 --> 00:07:03,949 Under the pretext of fellowship and study 104 00:07:03,949 --> 00:07:07,240 The dear woman closing doors 105 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:10,240 Evidence of her falling into temptation 106 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:15,240 Her desire to do something forbidden is not approved by those around her 107 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:19,240 All the doors were closed so that no one could reach them 108 00:07:19,240 --> 00:07:22,240 She prepared to close the doors 109 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:26,240 The solitude occurred between her and Joseph, peace be upon him 110 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:30,269 Being alone never brings goodness 111 00:07:30,269 --> 00:07:33,269 Ibn Jarir al-Tabari, may God have mercy on him, said 112 00:07:33,269 --> 00:07:38,370 The woman closed the doors of the houses on her and Joseph 113 00:07:38,370 --> 00:07:43,370 When she wanted him and sought him out door after door 114 00:07:43,370 --> 00:07:46,560 Al-Taher Ibn Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said 115 00:07:46,560 --> 00:07:53,560 Closing the doors makes each door obscure the space in which it is located 116 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:58,560 Ghalut is weakened to indicate the intensity and strength of the action 117 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:01,560 That is, it was closed tightly 118 00:08:01,560 --> 00:08:04,819 This picture is of closing the doors 119 00:08:04,819 --> 00:08:10,939 Evidence of the intention of a dear woman to do evil and the desire to commit adultery 120 00:08:10,939 --> 00:08:14,939 And like this picture today of closing the doors 121 00:08:14,939 --> 00:08:17,939 We see it in modern social media 122 00:08:17,939 --> 00:08:20,939 Such as telephone and Internet programs 123 00:08:20,939 --> 00:08:23,939 We see it in the girl's coding of the phone 124 00:08:23,939 --> 00:08:28,939 So that no one would see her correspondence with those she was fascinated with 125 00:08:28,939 --> 00:08:31,939 We see it in whispers on calls 126 00:08:31,939 --> 00:08:34,940 So that no one next to her could hear her 127 00:08:34,940 --> 00:08:39,940 He does not know what you are saying or who you are talking to 128 00:08:39,940 --> 00:08:42,940 We see it by turning the phone on its face 129 00:08:42,940 --> 00:08:46,940 So that no one can see who is calling 130 00:08:46,940 --> 00:08:49,940 We see it in her distance from people 131 00:08:49,940 --> 00:08:53,940 Being alone in closed rooms for long hours 132 00:08:53,940 --> 00:09:00,070 So that you can't see her feelings through her facial expressions while she speaks 133 00:09:00,070 --> 00:09:04,070 The girl's fear of seeing her family or knowing what she is doing 134 00:09:04,070 --> 00:09:07,070 This is evidence of what he did wrong 135 00:09:07,070 --> 00:09:10,070 According to the saying of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 136 00:09:10,070 --> 00:09:13,070 Righteousness and good character 137 00:09:13,070 --> 00:09:15,070 Sin is what wavers within yourself 138 00:09:15,070 --> 00:09:18,070 I hated for people to see it 139 00:09:18,070 --> 00:09:21,100 Narrated by Muslim 140 00:09:21,100 --> 00:09:24,100 The dear woman closing doors 141 00:09:24,100 --> 00:09:28,100 There is evidence that if a woman is fascinated by a man 142 00:09:28,100 --> 00:09:32,100 She sought to be alone with him in any way 143 00:09:32,100 --> 00:09:35,100 Or complete physical seclusion 144 00:09:35,100 --> 00:09:39,100 Or being alone through modern means of communication 145 00:09:39,100 --> 00:09:43,100 Which makes people live as if they were in a closed room 146 00:09:43,100 --> 00:09:47,230 This seclusion is only attended by a third person 147 00:09:47,230 --> 00:09:51,230 He is the one who paved the way for it, and he is Satan 148 00:09:51,230 --> 00:09:54,230 According to the saying of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 149 00:09:54,230 --> 00:09:57,230 A man should not be alone with a woman 150 00:09:57,230 --> 00:10:00,230 Except the third of them was Satan 151 00:10:00,230 --> 00:10:02,230 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 152 00:10:02,230 --> 00:10:05,419 He knew with certainty that was beyond doubt 153 00:10:05,419 --> 00:10:09,419 Every woman seeks to be alone with a man 154 00:10:09,419 --> 00:10:13,419 She must prepare herself to tempt and seduce him 155 00:10:13,419 --> 00:10:16,419 With its charms, beauty and adornment 156 00:10:16,419 --> 00:10:20,419 To be desirable and wanted 157 00:10:20,419 --> 00:10:22,419 The message is understood 158 00:10:22,419 --> 00:10:25,419 Otherwise, she told him, “Here you are.” 159 00:10:25,419 --> 00:10:28,710 Do you realize the seriousness of the beginnings he makes? 160 00:10:28,710 --> 00:10:32,710 Satan has it for you to trap you in 161 00:10:32,710 --> 00:10:34,940 For the rest of the talk 162 00:10:34,940 --> 00:10:38,940 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 163 00:10:38,940 --> 00:10:45,019 The story of Joseph and the wife of Al-Aziz