WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.000 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 00:00:03.000 --> 00:00:09.089 The story of Joseph, peace be upon him, with the wife of Al-Aziz 00:00:09.089 --> 00:00:16.679 The doors were closed, evidence of strife 00:00:16.679 --> 00:00:19.679 The danger of your infatuation with a man lies 00:00:19.679 --> 00:00:25.679 The impact of this temptation on your religion, your faith, and the life of your heart 00:00:25.679 --> 00:00:33.679 Until your heart becomes blind to every advice or sermon from within or outside yourself 00:00:33.679 --> 00:00:37.130 Only those who are fascinated by him will see it 00:00:37.130 --> 00:00:42.130 Islam is keen to protect you from falling into this temptation 00:00:42.130 --> 00:00:45.130 For fear of falling into a great sin 00:00:45.130 --> 00:00:50.130 What spoils your life and the hereafter is adultery 00:00:50.130 --> 00:00:57.219 Therefore, it is forbidden for men who are not your mahrams to have all means that lead you to commit adultery with them 00:00:57.219 --> 00:01:01.219 You are prohibited from entering without a mahram 00:01:01.219 --> 00:01:03.219 It is forbidden to be alone with you 00:01:03.219 --> 00:01:07.219 It is forbidden to shake hands with you or touch anything on your body 00:01:07.219 --> 00:01:11.219 He forbade looking at you and other means 00:01:11.219 --> 00:01:17.290 He also forbade you from all means by which you can tempt men 00:01:17.290 --> 00:01:22.290 It is forbidden for you to display adornment and leave your house wearing perfume 00:01:22.290 --> 00:01:26.290 He forbade you from being submissive in words when talking to them 00:01:26.290 --> 00:01:29.290 And prevent you from swaying in your walk 00:01:29.290 --> 00:01:35.290 Or hit the ground with your foot to alert men to the adornment you are concealing 00:01:35.290 --> 00:01:40.319 All this is to maintain your honor and maintain your chastity 00:01:40.319 --> 00:01:43.420 And the beginning of your infatuation with the man 00:01:43.420 --> 00:01:46.420 From looking at it repeatedly 00:01:46.420 --> 00:01:49.420 And move the heart and soul to Him 00:01:49.420 --> 00:01:52.420 Therefore, God forbade these beginnings 00:01:52.420 --> 00:01:54.420 And he said 00:01:54.420 --> 00:01:59.739 And tell the believing women to become angry with their eyes 00:01:59.739 --> 00:02:02.739 And they protect their private parts 00:02:02.739 --> 00:02:05.739 And they protect their private parts 00:02:05.739 --> 00:02:08.740 They do not show off their adornment 00:02:08.740 --> 00:02:11.740 Except what appears 00:02:12.740 --> 00:02:17.740 And let them put their veils on their pockets 00:02:17.740 --> 00:02:20.740 They do not show off their adornment 00:02:20.740 --> 00:02:23.740 Except for their husbands 00:02:23.740 --> 00:02:27.740 Or their fathers 00:02:27.740 --> 00:02:30.740 Or their fathers 00:02:30.740 --> 00:02:35.740 Or their fathers and their husbands 00:02:35.740 --> 00:02:38.740 Or their children 00:02:38.740 --> 00:02:43.740 Or their husband's father 00:02:43.740 --> 00:02:48.740 Or their brothers 00:02:48.740 --> 00:02:51.740 Or their brothers' sons 00:02:51.740 --> 00:02:56.740 Or their sisters' sons 00:02:56.740 --> 00:03:02.740 Or their women 00:03:02.740 --> 00:03:05.740 Or what filled them 00:03:05.740 --> 00:03:10.740 Or what their right hands possess 00:03:10.740 --> 00:03:17.740 Or the followers who are not men 00:03:17.740 --> 00:03:21.740 Or the followers who are not men 00:03:21.740 --> 00:03:29.740 Or children who did not show women's private parts 00:03:29.740 --> 00:03:32.740 They do not strike with their feet 00:03:32.740 --> 00:03:38.740 So that he may know what they hide of their adornment 00:03:38.740 --> 00:03:48.800 And repent to God all together, O believers, that you may succeed 00:03:48.800 --> 00:03:52.180 Abdul Aziz Al-Tarifi said 00:03:52.180 --> 00:03:55.250 God commanded believing women to turn a blind eye 00:03:55.250 --> 00:03:59.250 He gave priority to lowering his gaze rather than preserving relief 00:03:59.250 --> 00:04:04.250 Because letting go of sight is a path that ends with wasting relief 00:04:04.250 --> 00:04:08.250 God provided the means to preserve the goal 00:04:08.250 --> 00:04:12.250 Then God forbade the women of the believers from displaying adornment 00:04:12.250 --> 00:04:17.250 Then there is a connection between freeing the sight and adornment 00:04:17.250 --> 00:04:21.250 This is because foreign men should not adorn themselves excessively 00:04:21.250 --> 00:04:24.250 Except for those whom she set her sights on 00:04:24.250 --> 00:04:27.250 So she looked at them with her eyes 00:04:27.250 --> 00:04:30.250 She decorated her body and clothes 00:04:30.250 --> 00:04:32.279 Even if she did not release her sight 00:04:32.279 --> 00:04:36.279 There was no reason in my heart to beautify them 00:04:36.279 --> 00:04:39.279 Whoever preserves her sight, preserves her chastity 00:04:39.279 --> 00:04:44.279 It did not occur to her to attract men to her through adornment 00:04:44.279 --> 00:04:47.279 Because the heart is devoid of them 00:04:47.279 --> 00:04:52.279 This is why preserving one's eyesight is given precedence over preserving one's chastity and forbidding adornment 00:04:52.279 --> 00:04:55.279 Because sight is a rope that attracts hearts 00:04:55.279 --> 00:04:58.279 And he moves her to adorn herself to tempt men 00:04:58.279 --> 00:05:02.279 Seducing them and falling into forbidden things 00:05:02.279 --> 00:05:05.660 And in the story of Joseph and the wife of Al-Aziz 00:05:05.660 --> 00:05:09.660 What indicates this clear fact 00:05:09.660 --> 00:05:13.660 The presence of Joseph, peace be upon him, in the house of the dear wife 00:05:13.660 --> 00:05:16.660 He caused her to look at him a lot 00:05:16.660 --> 00:05:20.660 And contemplate his beauty, virtues, and appearance 00:05:20.660 --> 00:05:23.660 This made her fall in love with him 00:05:24.660 --> 00:05:29.819 This is a lesson for every girl and woman who works or studies 00:05:29.819 --> 00:05:33.819 Or live in a mixed environment with men 00:05:33.819 --> 00:05:37.819 She sees them often and interacts with them 00:05:37.819 --> 00:05:41.819 It is rare for a girl or woman to be safe from temptation 00:05:41.819 --> 00:05:45.819 With the men around her in such an atmosphere 00:05:45.819 --> 00:05:50.949 A married woman should not think that she is immune from this temptation 00:05:50.949 --> 00:05:53.949 Being under her husband 00:05:53.949 --> 00:05:56.949 She allows herself to mix with men 00:05:56.949 --> 00:05:58.949 This is the woman of the dear 00:05:58.949 --> 00:06:02.949 She was fascinated by a girl who worked in her house while she was married 00:06:02.949 --> 00:06:07.949 She has someone who is sufficient for her and protects her from falling into adultery 00:06:07.949 --> 00:06:10.949 However, it is because of strife 00:06:10.949 --> 00:06:13.949 I wanted the halal for the haram 00:06:13.949 --> 00:06:17.949 She closed the doors to get what she wanted 00:06:17.949 --> 00:06:19.949 And so are you 00:06:19.949 --> 00:06:22.949 If you release your sight without control 00:06:22.949 --> 00:06:25.949 You may be mesmerized by the beauty and youth of a man 00:06:25.949 --> 00:06:28.949 Or you are fascinated by something else about it 00:06:28.949 --> 00:06:33.949 So close the door to temptation from the beginning and lower your gaze 00:06:33.949 --> 00:06:38.949 This requires you to be careful with modern methods 00:06:38.949 --> 00:06:44.949 Which makes you look at men in privacy without anyone seeing you 00:06:44.949 --> 00:06:48.949 Like watching movies on satellite channels 00:06:48.949 --> 00:06:51.949 Or modern Internet programs 00:06:51.949 --> 00:06:56.949 Such as YouTube, Tiktok, Snap, etc 00:06:56.949 --> 00:07:00.949 Or communicate with men through modern means of communication 00:07:00.949 --> 00:07:03.949 Under the pretext of fellowship and study 00:07:03.949 --> 00:07:07.240 The dear woman closing doors 00:07:07.240 --> 00:07:10.240 Evidence of her falling into temptation 00:07:10.240 --> 00:07:15.240 Her desire to do something forbidden is not approved by those around her 00:07:15.240 --> 00:07:19.240 All the doors were closed so that no one could reach them 00:07:19.240 --> 00:07:22.240 She prepared to close the doors 00:07:22.240 --> 00:07:26.240 The solitude occurred between her and Joseph, peace be upon him 00:07:26.240 --> 00:07:30.269 Being alone never brings goodness 00:07:30.269 --> 00:07:33.269 Ibn Jarir al-Tabari, may God have mercy on him, said 00:07:33.269 --> 00:07:38.370 The woman closed the doors of the houses on her and Joseph 00:07:38.370 --> 00:07:43.370 When she wanted him and sought him out door after door 00:07:43.370 --> 00:07:46.560 Al-Taher Ibn Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said 00:07:46.560 --> 00:07:53.560 Closing the doors makes each door obscure the space in which it is located 00:07:53.560 --> 00:07:58.560 Ghalut is weakened to indicate the intensity and strength of the action 00:07:58.560 --> 00:08:01.560 That is, it was closed tightly 00:08:01.560 --> 00:08:04.819 This picture is of closing the doors 00:08:04.819 --> 00:08:10.939 Evidence of the intention of a dear woman to do evil and the desire to commit adultery 00:08:10.939 --> 00:08:14.939 And like this picture today of closing the doors 00:08:14.939 --> 00:08:17.939 We see it in modern social media 00:08:17.939 --> 00:08:20.939 Such as telephone and Internet programs 00:08:20.939 --> 00:08:23.939 We see it in the girl's coding of the phone 00:08:23.939 --> 00:08:28.939 So that no one would see her correspondence with those she was fascinated with 00:08:28.939 --> 00:08:31.939 We see it in whispers on calls 00:08:31.939 --> 00:08:34.940 So that no one next to her could hear her 00:08:34.940 --> 00:08:39.940 He does not know what you are saying or who you are talking to 00:08:39.940 --> 00:08:42.940 We see it by turning the phone on its face 00:08:42.940 --> 00:08:46.940 So that no one can see who is calling 00:08:46.940 --> 00:08:49.940 We see it in her distance from people 00:08:49.940 --> 00:08:53.940 Being alone in closed rooms for long hours 00:08:53.940 --> 00:09:00.070 So that you can't see her feelings through her facial expressions while she speaks 00:09:00.070 --> 00:09:04.070 The girl's fear of seeing her family or knowing what she is doing 00:09:04.070 --> 00:09:07.070 This is evidence of what he did wrong 00:09:07.070 --> 00:09:10.070 According to the saying of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:09:10.070 --> 00:09:13.070 Righteousness and good character 00:09:13.070 --> 00:09:15.070 Sin is what wavers within yourself 00:09:15.070 --> 00:09:18.070 I hated for people to see it 00:09:18.070 --> 00:09:21.100 Narrated by Muslim 00:09:21.100 --> 00:09:24.100 The dear woman closing doors 00:09:24.100 --> 00:09:28.100 There is evidence that if a woman is fascinated by a man 00:09:28.100 --> 00:09:32.100 She sought to be alone with him in any way 00:09:32.100 --> 00:09:35.100 Or complete physical seclusion 00:09:35.100 --> 00:09:39.100 Or being alone through modern means of communication 00:09:39.100 --> 00:09:43.100 Which makes people live as if they were in a closed room 00:09:43.100 --> 00:09:47.230 This seclusion is only attended by a third person 00:09:47.230 --> 00:09:51.230 He is the one who paved the way for it, and he is Satan 00:09:51.230 --> 00:09:54.230 According to the saying of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:09:54.230 --> 00:09:57.230 A man should not be alone with a woman 00:09:57.230 --> 00:10:00.230 Except the third of them was Satan 00:10:00.230 --> 00:10:02.230 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 00:10:02.230 --> 00:10:05.419 He knew with certainty that was beyond doubt 00:10:05.419 --> 00:10:09.419 Every woman seeks to be alone with a man 00:10:09.419 --> 00:10:13.419 She must prepare herself to tempt and seduce him 00:10:13.419 --> 00:10:16.419 With its charms, beauty and adornment 00:10:16.419 --> 00:10:20.419 To be desirable and wanted 00:10:20.419 --> 00:10:22.419 The message is understood 00:10:22.419 --> 00:10:25.419 Otherwise, she told him, “Here you are.” 00:10:25.419 --> 00:10:28.710 Do you realize the seriousness of the beginnings he makes? 00:10:28.710 --> 00:10:32.710 Satan has it for you to trap you in 00:10:32.710 --> 00:10:34.940 For the rest of the talk 00:10:34.940 --> 00:10:38.940 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 00:10:38.940 --> 00:10:45.019 The story of Joseph and the wife of Al-Aziz