WEBVTT 00:00:00.780 --> 00:00:09.779 Riyad Al-Saleh from the words of the Master of Messengers, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:00:09.779 --> 00:00:14.570 Chapter on good manners 00:00:14.570 --> 00:00:18.969 God Almighty said 00:00:18.969 --> 00:00:22.969 And you are perhaps a great creation 00:00:22.969 --> 00:00:24.969 And the Almighty said 00:00:24.969 --> 00:00:28.969 And those who suppress anger and pardon people 00:00:28.969 --> 00:00:34.280 And God loves the doers of good 00:00:34.280 --> 00:00:37.280 On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him, he said 00:00:37.280 --> 00:00:43.280 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, was the best of people 00:00:43.280 --> 00:00:45.380 Agreed 00:00:45.380 --> 00:00:48.530 One of the benefits of talking 00:00:48.530 --> 00:00:53.659 From God to His servant and Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:00:53.659 --> 00:00:56.659 By granting him good morals 00:00:56.659 --> 00:00:58.659 Then he praised him 00:00:58.659 --> 00:01:03.659 He mentioned his beautiful morals 00:01:03.659 --> 00:01:05.659 He confirmed this by saying: 00:01:05.659 --> 00:01:09.750 And you are perhaps a great creation 00:01:09.750 --> 00:01:13.750 This is only because he has the best morals among people 00:01:13.750 --> 00:01:15.750 There is no good character 00:01:15.750 --> 00:01:21.750 Except that it is in it in its most complete, ideal and best way 00:01:21.750 --> 00:01:25.969 On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him, he said: 00:01:25.969 --> 00:01:28.969 He did not touch any bag or silk 00:01:28.969 --> 00:01:33.969 Softer than the palm of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:01:33.969 --> 00:01:40.969 I have never smelled a scent better than the scent of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:01:40.969 --> 00:01:47.060 I served the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, for ten years 00:01:47.060 --> 00:01:50.060 He never said to me, “F.” 00:01:50.060 --> 00:01:54.099 He did not say why I did anything I did 00:01:54.099 --> 00:01:57.099 Not for anything I didn't do 00:01:57.099 --> 00:01:59.099 Didn't you do that? 00:01:59.099 --> 00:02:01.189 Agreed 00:02:01.189 --> 00:02:04.120 One of the benefits of talking 00:02:04.120 --> 00:02:08.439 The humility of a Muslim towards his Muslim brother when shaking hands 00:02:08.439 --> 00:02:14.439 So that the face is smiling, the mouth is soft, and the side is soft 00:02:14.439 --> 00:02:17.919 Encouragement to clean and moisturize 00:02:17.919 --> 00:02:21.919 This was what he did, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:02:21.919 --> 00:02:25.430 Encouraging kindness to the servant 00:02:25.430 --> 00:02:28.430 And don't get bored doing it 00:02:28.430 --> 00:02:34.979 Anas, may God be pleased with him, sought to agree with what the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, wanted 00:02:34.979 --> 00:02:38.979 He served the Messenger of God for ten years 00:02:38.979 --> 00:02:41.979 He did not object to his complete action 00:02:41.979 --> 00:02:43.979 Or nearly complete 00:02:43.979 --> 00:02:46.979 If Anas did something that would require discipline 00:02:46.979 --> 00:02:51.979 When the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, delayed that 00:02:51.979 --> 00:02:58.060 On the authority of Al-Saab bin Jathama, may God be pleased with him, he said: 00:02:58.060 --> 00:03:02.129 I was gifted to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:03:02.129 --> 00:03:04.129 Zebra 00:03:04.129 --> 00:03:06.129 He replied to me 00:03:06.129 --> 00:03:09.189 When he saw what was on my face, he said: 00:03:09.189 --> 00:03:12.189 We did not return it to you 00:03:12.189 --> 00:03:14.189 Except we are forbidden 00:03:14.189 --> 00:03:16.189 Agreed 00:03:16.189 --> 00:03:21.930 Any ihram is forbidden for Hajj or Umrah 00:03:21.930 --> 00:03:24.599 One of the benefits of talking 00:03:24.599 --> 00:03:27.860 It is forbidden to eat the meat of game for a muhrim 00:03:27.860 --> 00:03:29.860 It's a hunt for him 00:03:29.860 --> 00:03:33.860 This is based on the hadith of Al-Saab bin Jathama 00:03:33.860 --> 00:03:36.860 If he catches it, it is lawful for himself 00:03:36.860 --> 00:03:41.500 If a gift is given to a person in ihram, he may eat it 00:03:41.500 --> 00:03:45.979 It is desirable to accept a gift and eat from it 00:03:45.979 --> 00:03:50.259 It is not permissible to accept any gift that is not permissible 00:03:50.259 --> 00:03:54.259 The good character of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:03:54.259 --> 00:03:56.259 Where Mahdi's soul is good 00:03:56.259 --> 00:04:00.780 Explaining the cause and reason for abstention 00:04:00.780 --> 00:04:03.780 In the hadith, it is permissible to judge based on evidence 00:04:03.780 --> 00:04:07.780 When missing evidence to say it is difficult 00:04:07.780 --> 00:04:11.990 When he saw what was on my face 00:04:11.990 --> 00:04:15.990 On the authority of Al-Nawaz bin Samaan, may God be pleased with him, he said: 00:04:15.990 --> 00:04:19.990 I asked the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:04:19.990 --> 00:04:21.990 About righteousness and sin 00:04:21.990 --> 00:04:22.990 And he said 00:04:22.990 --> 00:04:25.990 Righteousness and good character 00:04:25.990 --> 00:04:28.990 Sin is what wavers within yourself 00:04:28.990 --> 00:04:31.990 I hated for people to see it 00:04:31.990 --> 00:04:33.990 Narrated by Muslim 00:04:33.990 --> 00:04:39.250 On the authority of Abdullah bin Omar bin Al-Aas, may God be pleased with them both, he said 00:04:39.250 --> 00:04:43.250 He was not the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:04:43.250 --> 00:04:46.250 Obscene or obscene 00:04:46.250 --> 00:04:48.250 And he was saying 00:04:48.250 --> 00:04:52.250 The best of you are the ones with the best morals 00:04:52.250 --> 00:04:54.410 Agreed 00:04:54.410 --> 00:04:57.750 Obscene 00:04:57.750 --> 00:04:59.750 That is, an obscenity speaker 00:04:59.750 --> 00:05:03.939 It is an increase in the limit of bad speech 00:05:03.939 --> 00:05:04.939 Obscene 00:05:04.939 --> 00:05:10.160 That is, the arrogant and exaggerated in obscenity 00:05:10.160 --> 00:05:12.160 One of the benefits of talking 00:05:12.160 --> 00:05:18.160 The believing servant should stay away from bad words and ugly actions 00:05:18.160 --> 00:05:20.160 And it doesn't work 00:05:20.160 --> 00:05:22.160 He ignores his reasons 00:05:22.160 --> 00:05:27.740 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, carried in his creation 00:05:27.740 --> 00:05:30.740 Nothing but good deeds came out of him 00:05:30.740 --> 00:05:33.250 And good words 00:05:33.250 --> 00:05:37.250 Good character is an arena for competition between believers 00:05:37.250 --> 00:05:39.250 Whoever preceded it 00:05:39.250 --> 00:05:43.250 He was one of the best believers and the most complete in faith 00:05:43.250 --> 00:05:48.529 On the authority of Abu Darda, may God be pleased with him 00:05:48.529 --> 00:05:52.529 That the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:05:52.529 --> 00:05:58.720 There is nothing heavier in the scale of a believer on the Day of Resurrection than good character 00:05:58.720 --> 00:06:02.850 And God hates the indecent and obscene 00:06:02.850 --> 00:06:05.300 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 00:06:05.300 --> 00:06:12.160 An obscene person is someone who speaks obscenely and has bad words 00:06:12.160 --> 00:06:14.160 One of the benefits of talking 00:06:14.160 --> 00:06:20.290 Proof of the scale that weighs good deeds and bad deeds on the Day of Resurrection 00:06:20.290 --> 00:06:22.290 And he has two palms 00:06:22.290 --> 00:06:30.670 Good behavior is one of the greatest good deeds that a servant will find in his journal on the Day of Resurrection 00:06:30.670 --> 00:06:33.670 He sees it in his balance of good deeds 00:06:33.670 --> 00:06:41.149 The obscene and obscene person who speaks bad words is not loved by God 00:06:41.149 --> 00:06:46.370 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said 00:06:46.370 --> 00:06:53.370 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, was asked about the most common things that bring people into Paradise 00:06:53.370 --> 00:06:57.370 He said: Fear God and have good manners 00:06:57.370 --> 00:07:01.620 He was asked about what causes most people to enter Hell 00:07:01.620 --> 00:07:04.620 He said the mouth and the vagina 00:07:05.750 --> 00:07:09.220 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 00:07:09.220 --> 00:07:11.220 One of the benefits of talking 00:07:11.220 --> 00:07:14.350 Encouraging piety and good manners 00:07:14.350 --> 00:07:17.740 Warning against the harvests of tongues 00:07:17.740 --> 00:07:20.740 Such as disbelief, backbiting, and gossip 00:07:20.740 --> 00:07:24.740 False testimony, slandering chaste women, etc 00:07:24.740 --> 00:07:30.740 Because it will throw people on their noses into the fire of Hell on the Day of Resurrection 00:07:30.740 --> 00:07:33.180 Warning against adultery 00:07:33.180 --> 00:07:39.180 It is an obscene act that will lead to bad consequences in this world and the hereafter 00:07:39.180 --> 00:07:44.269 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said 00:07:44.269 --> 00:07:48.269 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:07:48.269 --> 00:07:51.269 Complete the believers in faith 00:07:51.269 --> 00:07:53.269 The best of them 00:07:53.269 --> 00:07:57.269 Your choice is their wives 00:07:57.269 --> 00:07:59.430 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 00:07:59.430 --> 00:08:03.980 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said 00:08:03.980 --> 00:08:07.980 I heard the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, say 00:08:07.980 --> 00:08:14.009 The believer realizes, through his good character, the status of the one who is fasting and standing 00:08:14.009 --> 00:08:17.100 Narrated by Abu Dawood 00:08:17.100 --> 00:08:20.379 One of the benefits of hadith 00:08:20.379 --> 00:08:22.379 Highest scores 00:08:22.379 --> 00:08:24.379 Fasting during the day 00:08:24.379 --> 00:08:26.379 Night stand for prayer 00:08:26.379 --> 00:08:30.930 Good manners multiply the reward 00:08:30.930 --> 00:08:34.929 Until the servant reaches the level of a fasting person who does not break his fast 00:08:34.929 --> 00:08:37.929 And the one who does not waver 00:08:37.929 --> 00:08:44.110 On the authority of Abu Umamah Al-Bahili, may God be pleased with him, he said 00:08:44.110 --> 00:08:48.110 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:08:48.110 --> 00:08:52.110 I live in a house in the outskirts of Paradise 00:08:52.110 --> 00:08:56.110 For the one who abandons disputes, even if he is right 00:08:56.110 --> 00:08:59.110 And a house in the middle of heaven 00:08:59.110 --> 00:09:03.110 For someone who abandons lying, even if it is joking 00:09:03.110 --> 00:09:06.110 And a home in the highest heaven 00:09:06.110 --> 00:09:08.110 For one who has good character 00:09:08.110 --> 00:09:11.370 Narrated by Abu Dawood 00:09:11.370 --> 00:09:14.850 Guarantor leader 00:09:14.850 --> 00:09:19.100 The lowest part of Paradise 00:09:19.100 --> 00:09:22.100 And the city spread out around it 00:09:22.100 --> 00:09:29.350 Dissent is arguing and disputing in words and actions with the intention of falsehood 00:09:29.350 --> 00:09:32.179 One of the benefits of talking 00:09:32.179 --> 00:09:35.309 The guarantee is permissible to encourage work 00:09:35.309 --> 00:09:39.309 Among those included, fulfillment is obligatory 00:09:39.309 --> 00:09:43.309 Due to the necessity of fulfilling promises and covenants 00:09:43.309 --> 00:09:45.860 Encouragement to leave hypocrisy 00:09:45.860 --> 00:09:49.860 Because it leads to disagreement and discord 00:09:49.860 --> 00:09:56.299 The hadith indicates the principle of blocking pretexts and warding off evil 00:09:56.299 --> 00:10:00.299 If the interest will lead to major corruption 00:10:01.299 --> 00:10:04.590 I left the interest to that 00:10:04.590 --> 00:10:06.590 Heaven has degrees 00:10:06.590 --> 00:10:12.100 People's homes in Paradise will be according to their deeds 00:10:12.100 --> 00:10:16.100 The prohibition of lying in all its forms and colours 00:10:16.100 --> 00:10:18.100 Even if it was in jest and amusement 00:10:18.100 --> 00:10:20.100 Except what is excluded 00:10:20.100 --> 00:10:25.100 This is a refutation of those who claim that there is a white lie 00:10:25.100 --> 00:10:28.100 It means lying in amusement and jest 00:10:28.100 --> 00:10:31.679 The highest level of reward from God 00:10:31.679 --> 00:10:33.679 For one who has good character 00:10:33.679 --> 00:10:37.679 Because good character combines all virtues 00:10:37.679 --> 00:10:41.960 On the authority of Jabir, may God be pleased with him 00:10:41.960 --> 00:10:45.960 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:10:45.960 --> 00:10:49.090 I am the one who loves you the most 00:10:49.090 --> 00:10:53.090 And you are closest to me in sitting on the Day of Resurrection 00:10:53.090 --> 00:10:55.090 Your sense of morals 00:10:55.090 --> 00:11:00.090 And I will hate you most and keep you away from me on the Day of Resurrection 00:11:00.090 --> 00:11:05.090 The gossips, the rants, and the upstarts 00:11:05.090 --> 00:11:08.250 They said, O Messenger of God 00:11:08.250 --> 00:11:12.309 The chatterboxes and rants have taught us 00:11:12.309 --> 00:11:14.309 So what are those who wake up? 00:11:14.309 --> 00:11:17.309 The arrogant said 00:11:17.309 --> 00:11:20.730 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 00:11:20.730 --> 00:11:24.730 A talkative person is a talkative person who talks a lot 00:11:24.730 --> 00:11:26.820 And the rant 00:11:26.820 --> 00:11:29.820 He insults people with his words 00:11:29.820 --> 00:11:34.820 He speaks with fullness of clarity and magnification of his words 00:11:34.820 --> 00:11:36.980 And the Mutafihiq 00:11:36.980 --> 00:11:38.980 Its origin is from jurisprudence 00:11:38.980 --> 00:11:39.980 It is fullness 00:11:39.980 --> 00:11:42.980 He is the one who fills his mouth with words 00:11:42.980 --> 00:11:44.980 And expands on it 00:11:44.980 --> 00:11:47.980 He is struck with arrogance and elevation 00:11:47.980 --> 00:11:50.980 And to show virtue over others 00:11:51.980 --> 00:11:54.750 One of the benefits of talking 00:11:54.750 --> 00:12:00.820 Good manners are among the reasons for loving the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:12:00.820 --> 00:12:03.820 And being close to Him on the Day of Resurrection 00:12:03.820 --> 00:12:08.200 The highest degree of Paradise is for those who have good character 00:12:08.200 --> 00:12:11.200 Because it contains all the qualities of righteousness 00:12:11.200 --> 00:12:16.519 Warning against speaking eloquently by displaying claims 00:12:16.519 --> 00:12:19.519 Bragging and self-purification 00:12:19.519 --> 00:12:23.519 And being eloquent in speech to show eloquence and eloquence 00:12:23.519 --> 00:12:28.519 These qualities are characteristics of the arrogant and hypocritical 00:12:28.519 --> 00:12:31.639 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 00:12:31.639 --> 00:12:36.639 On the authority of Abdullah bin Al-Mubarak, may God have mercy on him, in the interpretation of good morals 00:12:36.639 --> 00:12:37.639 He said 00:12:37.639 --> 00:12:39.639 He is facial fluent 00:12:39.639 --> 00:12:41.639 And do the favor 00:12:41.639 --> 00:12:43.639 Stop hurting 00:12:43.639 --> 00:12:47.730 One of the benefits of this effect 00:12:47.730 --> 00:12:52.049 Abdullah bin Al-Mubarak, may God have mercy on him, indicated 00:12:52.049 --> 00:12:55.049 To the sign and fruit of good character 00:12:55.049 --> 00:12:57.049 The good manners 00:12:57.049 --> 00:13:01.049 It requires that the Muslim slander and slander in the face of my brother 00:13:01.049 --> 00:13:04.049 Because he has a reward for that 00:13:04.049 --> 00:13:06.049 And who was he? 00:13:06.049 --> 00:13:08.049 He extended his hand with kindness 00:13:08.049 --> 00:13:11.049 He preferred others with what he had 00:13:11.049 --> 00:13:13.049 He did not prevent his dismissal 00:13:13.049 --> 00:13:17.779 Riyadh Al-Salehin