1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,799 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 2 00:00:04,780 --> 00:00:17,969 The story of Joseph, peace be upon him 3 00:00:18,390 --> 00:00:23,550 Women have the ability to manipulate words and change facts 4 00:00:23,690 --> 00:00:26,429 This action exists for both men and women 5 00:00:26,929 --> 00:00:30,469 But women are more capable than men to do this 6 00:00:30,469 --> 00:00:41,469 What is strange is that the woman commits this act without fear or fear that her tampering with words and changing the facts will be discovered 7 00:00:41,469 --> 00:00:51,469 Perhaps this stems from her knowledge of the nature of men who believe women more than they believe men if they speak 8 00:00:51,469 --> 00:01:00,500 The Aziz woman used this ability to manipulate speech and change facts in a strange way 9 00:01:00,500 --> 00:01:06,500 To defend herself from the accusation and attach it to the Prophet of God, Joseph, peace be upon him 10 00:01:06,500 --> 00:01:12,540 When I was surprised by Al-Aziz and those with him behind the door, God Almighty said 11 00:01:12,540 --> 00:01:22,819 He preceded the door and took his shirt from behind and wrapped, O Master, at the door 12 00:01:22,819 --> 00:01:37,819 She said: “There is no recompense for anyone who intends evil for your family except imprisonment or a painful punishment.” 13 00:01:37,819 --> 00:01:46,659 When contemplating the scene that this verse tells us, it can be summarized as follows 14 00:01:46,659 --> 00:01:50,659 The dear woman in all her adornment and beauty 15 00:01:50,659 --> 00:01:57,659 Youssef opens the door to escape from inside the closed place, and behind him is Al-Aziz’s wife 16 00:01:57,659 --> 00:02:04,659 Al-Aziz and the men of the palace behind the door with him are surprised by this sight 17 00:02:04,659 --> 00:02:13,780 Here the dear woman takes the initiative to speak to create a mental image of the event in the mind of the dear and those with him 18 00:02:13,780 --> 00:02:18,780 To block their way of thinking and deducing the circumstances of the scene 19 00:02:18,780 --> 00:02:23,780 To cast the accusation on Joseph and extricate herself from it 20 00:02:23,780 --> 00:02:28,780 And form the image of the decision you want in the mind of your loved one 21 00:02:28,780 --> 00:02:35,780 So that he does not act in a way that makes her lose hope of getting back together with Youssef in the future 22 00:02:35,780 --> 00:02:43,849 To convey a message to Joseph that she is the decision-maker in the palace and that her command is obeyed 23 00:02:43,849 --> 00:02:48,849 She said in one sentence that fulfilled all of the above 24 00:02:48,849 --> 00:02:55,849 There is no recompense for anyone who intends harm for your family except imprisonment or a painful punishment 25 00:02:55,849 --> 00:03:04,979 This is an ability that men do not possess because it is based on women’s great ability, which is maliciousness 26 00:03:04,979 --> 00:03:09,099 Taher bin Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said 27 00:03:09,099 --> 00:03:15,099 She began to speak to him so carefully that she did not stutter 28 00:03:15,099 --> 00:03:23,139 Imagine to him that she was right and she emptied the words into a comprehensive form so that it could take the form of the law 29 00:03:23,139 --> 00:03:27,139 And it is a rule whose meaning is not known 30 00:03:27,139 --> 00:03:31,139 The addressee cannot help but acknowledge her 31 00:03:31,139 --> 00:03:37,169 Perhaps she was afraid that Al-Aziz’s love for Joseph, peace be upon him, might be 32 00:03:37,169 --> 00:03:39,169 Preventing him from his punishment 33 00:03:39,169 --> 00:03:42,169 So she put her words into a complete form 34 00:03:42,169 --> 00:03:49,169 In doing so, she wanted her husband not to feel that she was in love with anyone other than her master 35 00:03:49,169 --> 00:03:56,169 And to frighten Joseph, peace be upon him, with her plot so that he would not refrain from it again 36 00:03:56,169 --> 00:04:00,419 Muhammad Rashid Reda, may God have mercy on him, said 37 00:04:00,419 --> 00:04:05,419 This statement was deceitful and deceitful to her husband in many ways 38 00:04:05,419 --> 00:04:13,580 The first was to make her husband believe that Joseph had assaulted her in a way that was bad for him and her 39 00:04:13,580 --> 00:04:23,579 Secondly, she did not declare his guilt so that his anger would not intensify and he would punish him in a way other than what she wanted, such as selling him, for example. 40 00:04:23,579 --> 00:04:33,709 The third is Joseph’s threat and warning, so that he knows that his command is in her hands so that he submits to her and obeys her 41 00:04:33,939 --> 00:04:36,939 This is not the only incident 42 00:04:36,939 --> 00:04:42,939 Indicating women's ability to manipulate words and change facts 43 00:04:42,939 --> 00:04:46,939 Rather, this came from other women 44 00:04:46,939 --> 00:04:48,939 Here are some examples 45 00:04:48,939 --> 00:04:52,060 Abu Saeed, may God be pleased with him, said 46 00:04:52,060 --> 00:04:58,060 A woman came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, while we were with him 47 00:04:58,060 --> 00:05:00,060 She said, O Messenger of God 48 00:05:00,060 --> 00:05:06,060 My husband, Safwan bin Al-Mu'tal, beats me when I pray 49 00:05:06,060 --> 00:05:08,060 It breaks my fast if I fast 50 00:05:08,060 --> 00:05:13,060 He does not pray the dawn prayer until the sun rises 51 00:05:13,060 --> 00:05:16,160 Safwan said to him 52 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:19,160 He said and asked him what she said 53 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:22,189 He said, O Messenger of God 54 00:05:22,189 --> 00:05:25,189 As for her saying, “It hits me when I pray.” 55 00:05:25,189 --> 00:05:29,189 She recites two surahs and I have finished it 56 00:05:29,189 --> 00:05:31,189 He said and he said 57 00:05:31,189 --> 00:05:35,189 If it were one Surah, it would be enough for the people 58 00:05:35,189 --> 00:05:38,189 As for what she said, it breaks my fast 59 00:05:38,189 --> 00:05:40,189 She goes and fasts 60 00:05:40,189 --> 00:05:44,290 I am a young man, so I cannot be patient 61 00:05:44,290 --> 00:05:48,290 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said that day 62 00:05:48,290 --> 00:05:52,290 A woman should not fast without her husband’s permission 63 00:05:52,290 --> 00:05:54,290 As for what she said 64 00:05:54,290 --> 00:05:57,290 I don't pray until the sun rises 65 00:05:57,290 --> 00:06:00,290 We are the people of a household that has been known to us 66 00:06:00,290 --> 00:06:04,290 We hardly wake up until the sun rises 67 00:06:04,290 --> 00:06:08,290 He said, “When I wake up, pray.” 68 00:06:08,290 --> 00:06:11,290 Narrated by Abu Dawood 69 00:06:11,290 --> 00:06:13,579 Think about it, my sister 70 00:06:13,579 --> 00:06:17,579 How did Safwan bin Al-Mu'tal's wife change the facts? 71 00:06:17,579 --> 00:06:20,579 In the presence of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 72 00:06:20,579 --> 00:06:24,579 In the presence of her husband and a group of companions 73 00:06:24,579 --> 00:06:27,579 She was not afraid that her situation would be exposed 74 00:06:27,579 --> 00:06:30,579 Although this great companion 75 00:06:30,579 --> 00:06:33,740 She fasts during the day and prays at night 76 00:06:33,740 --> 00:06:35,740 And another example 77 00:06:35,740 --> 00:06:39,740 On the authority of Ikrimah, Rifa’ah divorced his wife 78 00:06:39,740 --> 00:06:43,740 So Abdul Rahman bin Al-Zubair Al-Qardi married her 79 00:06:43,740 --> 00:06:45,740 Aisha said 80 00:06:45,740 --> 00:06:47,740 She is wearing a green veil 81 00:06:47,740 --> 00:06:51,740 So I complained to her and showed her green skin 82 00:06:51,740 --> 00:06:55,769 When the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, came 83 00:06:55,769 --> 00:06:58,769 Women support each other 84 00:06:58,769 --> 00:07:00,769 Aisha said 85 00:07:00,769 --> 00:07:03,769 I have never seen anything like what happens to believing women 86 00:07:03,769 --> 00:07:07,769 Her skin is greener than her dress 87 00:07:07,769 --> 00:07:08,769 He said 88 00:07:08,769 --> 00:07:13,769 He heard that she had come to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 89 00:07:13,769 --> 00:07:17,769 Then he came with two of his sons from another country 90 00:07:17,769 --> 00:07:18,800 She said 91 00:07:18,800 --> 00:07:21,800 By God, I am not at fault 92 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:26,800 However, with him, he is no better off than me 93 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:29,800 She took a fringe from her dress 94 00:07:29,800 --> 00:07:30,829 And he said 95 00:07:30,829 --> 00:07:33,829 You lied, by God, O Messenger of God 96 00:07:33,829 --> 00:07:36,829 I will shake it off, I will shake it off 97 00:07:36,829 --> 00:07:40,829 But she is an outlier who wants prosperity 98 00:07:40,829 --> 00:07:43,990 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 99 00:07:43,990 --> 00:07:46,990 If so, it is not permissible for him 100 00:07:47,990 --> 00:07:49,990 Or you didn't fix it 101 00:07:49,990 --> 00:07:53,120 Until he tastes your honey 102 00:07:53,120 --> 00:07:54,120 He said 103 00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:56,120 He saw two of his sons with him 104 00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:57,120 And he said 105 00:07:57,120 --> 00:07:59,120 These banks 106 00:07:59,120 --> 00:08:01,120 He said yes 107 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:02,120 He said 108 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:05,120 This is what you claim 109 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:10,120 By God, to them, he resembles a crow to a crow 110 00:08:10,120 --> 00:08:12,120 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 111 00:08:12,120 --> 00:08:15,120 This changes the facts as well 112 00:08:15,120 --> 00:08:18,120 His Holiness the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 113 00:08:18,120 --> 00:08:21,120 In something that may not be easily discovered 114 00:08:21,120 --> 00:08:25,120 However, she is not afraid of being exposed 115 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:29,180 This trait provides an example to everyone who comes out on top 116 00:08:29,180 --> 00:08:32,179 To address marital problems 117 00:08:32,179 --> 00:08:35,179 To be careful of the way women speak 118 00:08:35,179 --> 00:08:38,179 About her husband and the problem 119 00:08:38,179 --> 00:08:41,179 It does not prevent women from using this method 120 00:08:41,179 --> 00:08:43,179 In presenting her problem 121 00:08:43,179 --> 00:08:46,179 Except for fear of God and fear of Him 122 00:08:46,179 --> 00:08:51,179 So, my sister, be careful not to fall into injustice and slander 123 00:08:51,179 --> 00:08:54,179 By playing with your words 124 00:08:54,179 --> 00:08:56,440 For the rest of the talk 125 00:08:56,440 --> 00:09:00,440 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 126 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:05,529 The story of Joseph and Al-Aziz’s wife