WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:02.799 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 00:00:04.780 --> 00:00:17.969 The story of Joseph, peace be upon him 00:00:18.390 --> 00:00:23.550 Women have the ability to manipulate words and change facts 00:00:23.690 --> 00:00:26.429 This action exists for both men and women 00:00:26.929 --> 00:00:30.469 But women are more capable than men to do this 00:00:30.469 --> 00:00:41.469 What is strange is that the woman commits this act without fear or fear that her tampering with words and changing the facts will be discovered 00:00:41.469 --> 00:00:51.469 Perhaps this stems from her knowledge of the nature of men who believe women more than they believe men if they speak 00:00:51.469 --> 00:01:00.500 The Aziz woman used this ability to manipulate speech and change facts in a strange way 00:01:00.500 --> 00:01:06.500 To defend herself from the accusation and attach it to the Prophet of God, Joseph, peace be upon him 00:01:06.500 --> 00:01:12.540 When I was surprised by Al-Aziz and those with him behind the door, God Almighty said 00:01:12.540 --> 00:01:22.819 He preceded the door and took his shirt from behind and wrapped, O Master, at the door 00:01:22.819 --> 00:01:37.819 She said: “There is no recompense for anyone who intends evil for your family except imprisonment or a painful punishment.” 00:01:37.819 --> 00:01:46.659 When contemplating the scene that this verse tells us, it can be summarized as follows 00:01:46.659 --> 00:01:50.659 The dear woman in all her adornment and beauty 00:01:50.659 --> 00:01:57.659 Youssef opens the door to escape from inside the closed place, and behind him is Al-Aziz’s wife 00:01:57.659 --> 00:02:04.659 Al-Aziz and the men of the palace behind the door with him are surprised by this sight 00:02:04.659 --> 00:02:13.780 Here the dear woman takes the initiative to speak to create a mental image of the event in the mind of the dear and those with him 00:02:13.780 --> 00:02:18.780 To block their way of thinking and deducing the circumstances of the scene 00:02:18.780 --> 00:02:23.780 To cast the accusation on Joseph and extricate herself from it 00:02:23.780 --> 00:02:28.780 And form the image of the decision you want in the mind of your loved one 00:02:28.780 --> 00:02:35.780 So that he does not act in a way that makes her lose hope of getting back together with Youssef in the future 00:02:35.780 --> 00:02:43.849 To convey a message to Joseph that she is the decision-maker in the palace and that her command is obeyed 00:02:43.849 --> 00:02:48.849 She said in one sentence that fulfilled all of the above 00:02:48.849 --> 00:02:55.849 There is no recompense for anyone who intends harm for your family except imprisonment or a painful punishment 00:02:55.849 --> 00:03:04.979 This is an ability that men do not possess because it is based on women’s great ability, which is maliciousness 00:03:04.979 --> 00:03:09.099 Taher bin Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said 00:03:09.099 --> 00:03:15.099 She began to speak to him so carefully that she did not stutter 00:03:15.099 --> 00:03:23.139 Imagine to him that she was right and she emptied the words into a comprehensive form so that it could take the form of the law 00:03:23.139 --> 00:03:27.139 And it is a rule whose meaning is not known 00:03:27.139 --> 00:03:31.139 The addressee cannot help but acknowledge her 00:03:31.139 --> 00:03:37.169 Perhaps she was afraid that Al-Aziz’s love for Joseph, peace be upon him, might be 00:03:37.169 --> 00:03:39.169 Preventing him from his punishment 00:03:39.169 --> 00:03:42.169 So she put her words into a complete form 00:03:42.169 --> 00:03:49.169 In doing so, she wanted her husband not to feel that she was in love with anyone other than her master 00:03:49.169 --> 00:03:56.169 And to frighten Joseph, peace be upon him, with her plot so that he would not refrain from it again 00:03:56.169 --> 00:04:00.419 Muhammad Rashid Reda, may God have mercy on him, said 00:04:00.419 --> 00:04:05.419 This statement was deceitful and deceitful to her husband in many ways 00:04:05.419 --> 00:04:13.580 The first was to make her husband believe that Joseph had assaulted her in a way that was bad for him and her 00:04:13.580 --> 00:04:23.579 Secondly, she did not declare his guilt so that his anger would not intensify and he would punish him in a way other than what she wanted, such as selling him, for example. 00:04:23.579 --> 00:04:33.709 The third is Joseph’s threat and warning, so that he knows that his command is in her hands so that he submits to her and obeys her 00:04:33.939 --> 00:04:36.939 This is not the only incident 00:04:36.939 --> 00:04:42.939 Indicating women's ability to manipulate words and change facts 00:04:42.939 --> 00:04:46.939 Rather, this came from other women 00:04:46.939 --> 00:04:48.939 Here are some examples 00:04:48.939 --> 00:04:52.060 Abu Saeed, may God be pleased with him, said 00:04:52.060 --> 00:04:58.060 A woman came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, while we were with him 00:04:58.060 --> 00:05:00.060 She said, O Messenger of God 00:05:00.060 --> 00:05:06.060 My husband, Safwan bin Al-Mu'tal, beats me when I pray 00:05:06.060 --> 00:05:08.060 It breaks my fast if I fast 00:05:08.060 --> 00:05:13.060 He does not pray the dawn prayer until the sun rises 00:05:13.060 --> 00:05:16.160 Safwan said to him 00:05:16.160 --> 00:05:19.160 He said and asked him what she said 00:05:19.160 --> 00:05:22.189 He said, O Messenger of God 00:05:22.189 --> 00:05:25.189 As for her saying, “It hits me when I pray.” 00:05:25.189 --> 00:05:29.189 She recites two surahs and I have finished it 00:05:29.189 --> 00:05:31.189 He said and he said 00:05:31.189 --> 00:05:35.189 If it were one Surah, it would be enough for the people 00:05:35.189 --> 00:05:38.189 As for what she said, it breaks my fast 00:05:38.189 --> 00:05:40.189 She goes and fasts 00:05:40.189 --> 00:05:44.290 I am a young man, so I cannot be patient 00:05:44.290 --> 00:05:48.290 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said that day 00:05:48.290 --> 00:05:52.290 A woman should not fast without her husband’s permission 00:05:52.290 --> 00:05:54.290 As for what she said 00:05:54.290 --> 00:05:57.290 I don't pray until the sun rises 00:05:57.290 --> 00:06:00.290 We are the people of a household that has been known to us 00:06:00.290 --> 00:06:04.290 We hardly wake up until the sun rises 00:06:04.290 --> 00:06:08.290 He said, “When I wake up, pray.” 00:06:08.290 --> 00:06:11.290 Narrated by Abu Dawood 00:06:11.290 --> 00:06:13.579 Think about it, my sister 00:06:13.579 --> 00:06:17.579 How did Safwan bin Al-Mu'tal's wife change the facts? 00:06:17.579 --> 00:06:20.579 In the presence of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:06:20.579 --> 00:06:24.579 In the presence of her husband and a group of companions 00:06:24.579 --> 00:06:27.579 She was not afraid that her situation would be exposed 00:06:27.579 --> 00:06:30.579 Although this great companion 00:06:30.579 --> 00:06:33.740 She fasts during the day and prays at night 00:06:33.740 --> 00:06:35.740 And another example 00:06:35.740 --> 00:06:39.740 On the authority of Ikrimah, Rifa’ah divorced his wife 00:06:39.740 --> 00:06:43.740 So Abdul Rahman bin Al-Zubair Al-Qardi married her 00:06:43.740 --> 00:06:45.740 Aisha said 00:06:45.740 --> 00:06:47.740 She is wearing a green veil 00:06:47.740 --> 00:06:51.740 So I complained to her and showed her green skin 00:06:51.740 --> 00:06:55.769 When the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, came 00:06:55.769 --> 00:06:58.769 Women support each other 00:06:58.769 --> 00:07:00.769 Aisha said 00:07:00.769 --> 00:07:03.769 I have never seen anything like what happens to believing women 00:07:03.769 --> 00:07:07.769 Her skin is greener than her dress 00:07:07.769 --> 00:07:08.769 He said 00:07:08.769 --> 00:07:13.769 He heard that she had come to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:07:13.769 --> 00:07:17.769 Then he came with two of his sons from another country 00:07:17.769 --> 00:07:18.800 She said 00:07:18.800 --> 00:07:21.800 By God, I am not at fault 00:07:21.800 --> 00:07:26.800 However, with him, he is no better off than me 00:07:26.800 --> 00:07:29.800 She took a fringe from her dress 00:07:29.800 --> 00:07:30.829 And he said 00:07:30.829 --> 00:07:33.829 You lied, by God, O Messenger of God 00:07:33.829 --> 00:07:36.829 I will shake it off, I will shake it off 00:07:36.829 --> 00:07:40.829 But she is an outlier who wants prosperity 00:07:40.829 --> 00:07:43.990 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:07:43.990 --> 00:07:46.990 If so, it is not permissible for him 00:07:47.990 --> 00:07:49.990 Or you didn't fix it 00:07:49.990 --> 00:07:53.120 Until he tastes your honey 00:07:53.120 --> 00:07:54.120 He said 00:07:54.120 --> 00:07:56.120 He saw two of his sons with him 00:07:56.120 --> 00:07:57.120 And he said 00:07:57.120 --> 00:07:59.120 These banks 00:07:59.120 --> 00:08:01.120 He said yes 00:08:01.120 --> 00:08:02.120 He said 00:08:02.120 --> 00:08:05.120 This is what you claim 00:08:05.120 --> 00:08:10.120 By God, to them, he resembles a crow to a crow 00:08:10.120 --> 00:08:12.120 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 00:08:12.120 --> 00:08:15.120 This changes the facts as well 00:08:15.120 --> 00:08:18.120 His Holiness the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:08:18.120 --> 00:08:21.120 In something that may not be easily discovered 00:08:21.120 --> 00:08:25.120 However, she is not afraid of being exposed 00:08:25.120 --> 00:08:29.180 This trait provides an example to everyone who comes out on top 00:08:29.180 --> 00:08:32.179 To address marital problems 00:08:32.179 --> 00:08:35.179 To be careful of the way women speak 00:08:35.179 --> 00:08:38.179 About her husband and the problem 00:08:38.179 --> 00:08:41.179 It does not prevent women from using this method 00:08:41.179 --> 00:08:43.179 In presenting her problem 00:08:43.179 --> 00:08:46.179 Except for fear of God and fear of Him 00:08:46.179 --> 00:08:51.179 So, my sister, be careful not to fall into injustice and slander 00:08:51.179 --> 00:08:54.179 By playing with your words 00:08:54.179 --> 00:08:56.440 For the rest of the talk 00:08:56.440 --> 00:09:00.440 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 00:09:00.440 --> 00:09:05.529 The story of Joseph and Al-Aziz’s wife