In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
The story of Joseph, peace be upon him
Women have the ability to manipulate words and change facts
This action exists for both men and women
But women are more capable than men to do this
What is strange is that the woman commits this act without fear or fear that her tampering with words and changing the facts will be discovered
Perhaps this stems from her knowledge of the nature of men who believe women more than they believe men if they speak
The Aziz woman used this ability to manipulate speech and change facts in a strange way
To defend herself from the accusation and attach it to the Prophet of God, Joseph, peace be upon him
When I was surprised by Al-Aziz and those with him behind the door, God Almighty said
He preceded the door and took his shirt from behind and wrapped, O Master, at the door
She said: “There is no recompense for anyone who intends evil for your family except imprisonment or a painful punishment.”
When contemplating the scene that this verse tells us, it can be summarized as follows
The dear woman in all her adornment and beauty
Youssef opens the door to escape from inside the closed place, and behind him is Al-Aziz’s wife
Al-Aziz and the men of the palace behind the door with him are surprised by this sight
Here the dear woman takes the initiative to speak to create a mental image of the event in the mind of the dear and those with him
To block their way of thinking and deducing the circumstances of the scene
To cast the accusation on Joseph and extricate herself from it
And form the image of the decision you want in the mind of your loved one
So that he does not act in a way that makes her lose hope of getting back together with Youssef in the future
To convey a message to Joseph that she is the decision-maker in the palace and that her command is obeyed
She said in one sentence that fulfilled all of the above
There is no recompense for anyone who intends harm for your family except imprisonment or a painful punishment
This is an ability that men do not possess because it is based on women’s great ability, which is maliciousness
Taher bin Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said
She began to speak to him so carefully that she did not stutter
Imagine to him that she was right and she emptied the words into a comprehensive form so that it could take the form of the law
And it is a rule whose meaning is not known
The addressee cannot help but acknowledge her
Perhaps she was afraid that Al-Aziz’s love for Joseph, peace be upon him, might be
Preventing him from his punishment
So she put her words into a complete form
In doing so, she wanted her husband not to feel that she was in love with anyone other than her master
And to frighten Joseph, peace be upon him, with her plot so that he would not refrain from it again
Muhammad Rashid Reda, may God have mercy on him, said
This statement was deceitful and deceitful to her husband in many ways
The first was to make her husband believe that Joseph had assaulted her in a way that was bad for him and her
Secondly, she did not declare his guilt so that his anger would not intensify and he would punish him in a way other than what she wanted, such as selling him, for example.
The third is Joseph’s threat and warning, so that he knows that his command is in her hands so that he submits to her and obeys her
This is not the only incident
Indicating women's ability to manipulate words and change facts
Rather, this came from other women
Here are some examples
Abu Saeed, may God be pleased with him, said
A woman came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, while we were with him
She said, O Messenger of God
My husband, Safwan bin Al-Mu'tal, beats me when I pray
It breaks my fast if I fast
He does not pray the dawn prayer until the sun rises
Safwan said to him
He said and asked him what she said
He said, O Messenger of God
As for her saying, “It hits me when I pray.”
She recites two surahs and I have finished it
He said and he said
If it were one Surah, it would be enough for the people
As for what she said, it breaks my fast
She goes and fasts
I am a young man, so I cannot be patient
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said that day
A woman should not fast without her husband’s permission
As for what she said
I don't pray until the sun rises
We are the people of a household that has been known to us
We hardly wake up until the sun rises
He said, “When I wake up, pray.”
Narrated by Abu Dawood
Think about it, my sister
How did Safwan bin Al-Mu'tal's wife change the facts?
In the presence of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
In the presence of her husband and a group of companions
She was not afraid that her situation would be exposed
Although this great companion
She fasts during the day and prays at night
And another example
On the authority of Ikrimah, Rifa’ah divorced his wife
So Abdul Rahman bin Al-Zubair Al-Qardi married her
Aisha said
She is wearing a green veil
So I complained to her and showed her green skin
When the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, came
Women support each other
Aisha said
I have never seen anything like what happens to believing women
Her skin is greener than her dress
He said
He heard that she had come to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
Then he came with two of his sons from another country
She said
By God, I am not at fault
However, with him, he is no better off than me
She took a fringe from her dress
And he said
You lied, by God, O Messenger of God
I will shake it off, I will shake it off
But she is an outlier who wants prosperity
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
If so, it is not permissible for him
Or you didn't fix it
Until he tastes your honey
He said
He saw two of his sons with him
And he said
These banks
He said yes
He said
This is what you claim
By God, to them, he resembles a crow to a crow
Narrated by Al-Bukhari
This changes the facts as well
His Holiness the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
In something that may not be easily discovered
However, she is not afraid of being exposed
This trait provides an example to everyone who comes out on top
To address marital problems
To be careful of the way women speak
About her husband and the problem
It does not prevent women from using this method
In presenting her problem
Except for fear of God and fear of Him
So, my sister, be careful not to fall into injustice and slander
By playing with your words
For the rest of the talk
We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
The story of Joseph and Al-Aziz’s wife