In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
Types of men in the hadith of Umm Zara’
Husband Touch Miss Rabbit
After the eighth woman listened to the women before her describing their husbands in praise and disparagement
She was proud of them by describing her husband in few eloquent words
And she said
My husband touched a rabbit
And the wind is the smell of grapes
She didn't talk long
But I exaggerated the description
The women were left to marvel at the beautiful meanings that these few phrases carried
This is an eloquent description
The rabbit and the wind have many things in common
Including the softness that tickles whoever touches them
This is one of the beautiful logics of this woman
It brought general praise without detail
I think it would have been separated
I would have mentioned good qualities
She was summed up with this eloquent description
This is because the detail in praise is among women
The heart of a woman who is deprived of the beautiful qualities in her husband may be sad
So you fall into envy
Or regret missing such a man
Or covet it
Especially if you are not married
Or she ignores her husband's virtues
Looking at the merits of others
So the blessing that is in her is blasphemous
Perfection among men is dear
So how about women?
Advice for a sane woman
Do not talk a lot between women
About the beautiful details that she lives with her husband
But we are afflicted in this time
So-called means of communication
And it's a blessing
Misused
By those whose minds are satiated
I love fame and pride among people
They photograph every moment of their lives
And they publish it in these means
Which indicates the mental level
Which some people have reached in their interests
And the extent to which the culture of triviality controls people
This is a sensible woman
She praised her husband in two short sentences
If we ask women today
To praise their men in two sentences
We could not do this except through the mercy of God
So how is this description that you excelled at?
The eighth woman said
My husband touched a rabbit
And the wind is the smell of grapes
It contains many characteristics
This woman included it in this description
Abu Ubaid Al-Harawi, may God have mercy on him, said
She describes him as having good manners and good looks
Touch a rabbit if you put your hand on its back
Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said
This describes her husband Brian's side of the family
And good manners and treatment with them
The rabbit touched the softness of its tentacle
And its flexibility and righteousness
Ibn Diezel, may God have mercy on him, said
And about her saying, “Touch a rabbit.”
She says he is soft-spoken
Because touching the rabbit is easy and gentle
The woman described her husband in two ways
The first is that it is easy to use
This is a praiseworthy characteristic in Islam
It came in praise of those who possess it
Several hadiths, including:
On the authority of Ibn Masoud, may God be pleased with him, he said
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Shall I not tell you who will be forbidden to Hell?
Or someone for whom Hell is forbidden
Anyway, easy, soft, easy, close to easy
Narrated by Ibn Abi Shaybah
And the easy-going and gentle person
He combines many qualities, all of them beautiful
Including smile and grace
And the kind word
And love making people happy
As for the smile
She has a fluent face when meeting people
The most deserving of people is a fluent face
A woman chosen by this gentle, gentle person
To be his companion in life
He paid the money for her satisfaction
He made himself miserable by working hard
For her happiness
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
And your smile in your brother’s face is sincere
Narrated by Al-Bukhari in Al-Adab Al-Mufrad
And your wife is the one who looks at your face the most
More than smiling at her
Your good deeds will increase while you are at home
It makes her happy and makes her happy
I am fascinated by it because of the most beloved deeds to God
As stated in the hadith of Ibn Omar, may God be pleased with them both
That a man came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
He said, O Messenger of God
Which people are most beloved to God?
Which deeds are most beloved to God?
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
The most beloved people to God Almighty
The most beneficial to people
The most beloved deeds to God Almighty
The pleasure of interfering with a Muslim
Narrated by Al-Tabarani in Al-Kabir
Your wife is the first person to bring happiness to her
As for tolerance
It is not possible to imagine an easy-going, gentle man
To be thick silver
He is expected to be tolerant in his dealings with those around him
He treated them tolerantly
His household
It is a sign of his faith
As stated in the hadith of Jabir bin Abdullah, may God be pleased with them both, he said
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, was asked about faith
He said
Patience and tolerance
Narrated by Abu Ya'la
And tolerance in dealing with people in general
And the man’s household in particular
A reason to enter Paradise and obtain God’s forgiveness
As stated in the hadith of Abdullah bin Omar, may God be pleased with them both, he said
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
A man entered Paradise by his grace as a judge and judge
Narrated by Ahmed
And those who are wise and generous
The kind word
It is what the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said about it
A kind word is charity
Narrated by Ahmed
All of these qualities are included in her statement
Touch the rabbit
The second description I praised him with
He smells good
Abu Ubaid Al-Harawi, may God have mercy on him, said
And say it
The wind is the wind of grapes
It has two meanings
It may be that you want to smell his body
It is to want good praise from people
And it spreads among them like the smell of grapefruit
It is a well-known type of perfume
Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said
As for her likening it to the smell of grapes
There are interpretations
One of them
By doing so, she wanted him to be praised and spread among the people
And the second
She wanted the goodness of his body and the perfume of his gardens
And the third
She wanted him to be gentle and have good manners
It means the first chapter
As for the first meaning
And people praise him
Which is expressed in his fragrant walk among the people
This is consistent with it being easy and supple
People testify to the man about what he was known for
On the authority of Anas bin Malik, may God be pleased with him, he said:
They went through a funeral
They praised her well
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
I got it
Then they passed another
They praised her evilly
And he said
I got it
Omar bin Al-Khattab, may God be pleased with him, said
I didn't have to
He said
This you praised well
So Paradise granted him
And you praised this evilly
So the fire struck him
You are God's martyrs on earth
Narrated by Al-Bukhari
As for the second meaning
He has a good body
This is what people generally like
And the wife especially
It must have a pleasant smell
Because of the abundance of perfume he uses
He takes great care of his personal hygiene
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
A lover of goodness
As stated in the hadith of Anas, may God be pleased with him, he said
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Beloved to me from this world
Women and perfume
And he made the apple of my eye in prayer
Narrated by Ahmed
Are you the brother of the honorable wife?
This type is easy, gentle and tolerant
The one with the kind words and the sweet smell
I hope you are one of them
Congratulations to the one whose husband is of this type
We will continue in the next meeting, God willing
Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds