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In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful

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The life of the predecessors between words and deeds

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Gifts and donations

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On the authority of Abdullah bin Al-Saadi

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He came before Omar, may God be pleased with him, in his caliphate

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Omar said to him

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Didn't I say that you follow people's deeds?

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If you are given labor, you hate it

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I said yes

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Omar said

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So whatever you want

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I said

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I have horses and slaves

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And I'm fine

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I want my work to be a charity for Muslims

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Omar said

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Don't

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I wanted what I wanted

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So the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, used to give me perfume

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So I say

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I give it to him who is poorer than me

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He even once gave me money

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So I said

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I give it to him who is poorer than me

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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said

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If you give something without asking

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Eat and give charity

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Salem said

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For this reason, Ibn Omar, may God be pleased with him

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He doesn't ask anyone anything

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He does not return anything I give him

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Imam Ahmed, may God have mercy on him, was asked

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About the man who gives him something

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I think he will accept

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And he said

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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, would accept the gift and reward it

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I see him before he gets rewarded

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It is said

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Mortada Ghadhban

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And you will seek the sympathy of the Sultan

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Nor the soot basket

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Nor the payment of debts

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And do not avoid the forbidden

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I do not appeal to the abandoned

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With the same gift and kindness

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The poet said

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People's gifts to each other

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Connection is born in their hearts

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It is grown in Al-Dhamir, like wood

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And she wears them when camels are present

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The position of the predecessors regarding praise and commendation

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On the authority of Omar bin Al-Khattab, may God be pleased with him, he said

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Praise slaughter

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On the authority of a man from the companions of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace

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From the origin of this nation

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He had merit

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If he was praised or praised, he would listen

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He said

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Oh God, do not hold me accountable for what they say

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And forgive me what they do not know

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On the authority of Al-Hasan, may God have mercy on him, he said:

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The man disparaged himself in public

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Compliment her in secret

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And it was said

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Whoever exposes his own faults has purified them

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Al-Rabi’ bin Khathim, may God have mercy on him, said to his son:

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Don't be tempted by people's praise of yourself

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For your work is sincere

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Sufyan bin Uyaynah, may God have mercy on him, said

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It does no harm to praise someone who knows himself

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On the authority of Malik bin Dinar, may God have mercy on him, he said:

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When a man goes, he praises himself

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His splendor is gone

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He also said, may God have mercy on him

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Since I have known people, I have not been happy with their praise

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I did not hate slandering them

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Because their praise is excessive

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Their blame is excessive

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Wahb bin Munabbih said

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Auf bin Abi Jamila, may God have mercy on them

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From the morals of the hypocrite

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To love praise and hate blame

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Jealousy and chastity

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On the authority of Abu Abdullah Muhammad bin Ahmed Al-Qadi, he said:

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She was in charge of the council of Musa bin Ishaq Al-Qadi, may God have mercy on him

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In the year two hundred and eighty-six

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A woman came forward

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Her guardian claimed 500 dinars as a dowry from her husband

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So he denied

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The judge said

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Your witnesses

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He said

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I brought them

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He summoned some witnesses to look at the woman

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To refer to it in his testimony

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So the witness got up and said to the woman

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Get up

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The husband said

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What are you doing?

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The agent said

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They look at your woman while she is uncovered

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So that their knowledge may be correct

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The husband said

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I bear witness to the judge

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She has this dowry that she claims

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And it does not leave her face

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So the woman told what had happened to her husband

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And she said

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I bear witness to the judge

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I gave him this dowry

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And I absolved him of it in this world and the hereafter

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The judge said

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He writes this in Makarim Al-Akhlaq

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Slowness, deliberation and gentleness

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Slander the wheel

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A Bedouin testified with Muawiyah, may God be pleased with him, about something he disliked

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Muawiyah said to him

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I lied

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The Bedouins said

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The liar, by God, is wearing your clothes

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Muawiyah said and smiled

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This is a reward for haste

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On the authority of Urwa Ibn Al-Zubayr, may God have mercy on him, he said:

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Written in wisdom

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Kindness is the beginning of wisdom

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Like the Arabs

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Lord of the wheel blowing Retha

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He gives an example of a man who does a job but does not rule over it

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To rush it

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He needs to go back and revoke it and then resume

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Ibrahim Al-Khawas, may God have mercy on him, said

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The wheel prevents injury to the right

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The life of the ancestor

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Between words and action