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In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.

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The life of the righteous between word and deed.

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Moderation in worship, ease, and avoiding extremism and over-scrupulousness.

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The Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, established a bond of brotherhood between Salman and Abu al-Darda', may Allah be pleased with them both.

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Salman visited Abu al-Darda'.

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He saw Umm al-Darda' looking unkempt.

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He asked her, "What is the matter with you?"

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She replied, "Your brother Abu al-Darda' has no interest in the world."

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Abu al-Darda' came and prepared food for him.

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He said, "Eat."

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Salman said, "I am fasting."

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He said, "I will not eat until you eat."

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So he ate.

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When night came,

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Abu al-Darda' went to stand for prayer.

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Salman said, "Sleep."

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So he slept.

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Then he went to stand again.

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He said, "Sleep."

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When it was the last part of the night,

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Salman said, "Get up now."

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"And pray, O brother."

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Then Salman said to him,

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"Indeed, your Lord has a right over you,"

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"And your own self has a right over you,"

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"And your family has a right over you."

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"So give each one who has a right their due right."

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He then went to the Prophet, peace be upon him.

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And mentioned that to him.

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The Prophet, peace be upon him, said,

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"Salman has spoken the truth."

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Abdullah Ibn Mas'ud, may Allah be pleased with him, said,

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"Moderation in the Sunnah is better than exertion in innovation."

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And he, may Allah be pleased with him, said,

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"By the One besides whom there is no god,"

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"I have never seen anyone more severe against those who are over-scrupulous than the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him."

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"And I have never seen anyone more severe against them after him than Abu Bakr, may Allah be pleased with him."

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He, may Allah be pleased with him, used to

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Remind the people every Thursday.

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A man said to him,

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"O Abu Abd al-Rahman,"

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"I wish you would remind us every day."

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He said,

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"What prevents me from doing that is that I dislike to bore you."

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"I choose the appropriate times for the sermon,"

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"Just as the Prophet, peace be upon him, used to choose the times for us,"

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"For fear of causing us weariness."

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And he, may Allah be pleased with him, said,

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"Do not contend with this night,"

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"For you will not be able to endure it."

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"So if one of you feels sleepy, let him go to his bed,"

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"For that is safer for him."

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A man came to Abu Umamah, may Allah be pleased with him, and said,

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"Someone came to me and said,"

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"'Perform deeds like the deeds of Abu Umamah.'"

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Abu Umamah said,

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"And what could the deeds of Abu Umamah possibly amount to?"

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"I perform the five prayers and fast Ramadan,"

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"And three days of every month."

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"And when the birds sing, I sing with them,"

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"Meaning at the time of the pre-dawn prayer (sahar)."

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From 'Umayr Ibn Ishaq, may Allah have mercy on him,

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Who had met most of the Companions, may Allah be pleased with them,

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He said,

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"I have never seen a people more easy-going,"

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"Nor less prone to extremism than the Companions of the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him."

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And from Abu 'Ubaydah, may Allah have mercy on him,

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He said,

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"I have never seen anyone more gentle in worship than al-Rabi' Ibn Khuthaym, may Allah have mercy on him."

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Some of the wise said,

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"These hearts have an aversion like the aversion of wild animals,"

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"So win them over with moderation in teaching,"

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"And balance in presentation,"

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"So that their obedience may be improved and their energy may endure."

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Some of the wise said,

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"Beware of departing from moderation,"

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"For the one who goes to excess is like the one who falls short in overstepping the limit."

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The wise said,

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"The seeker of knowledge and the doer of good,"

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"Are like one who eats food."

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"If he takes a nourishing amount, it sustains him,"

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"But if he overindulges, it causes him indigestion,"

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"And it may even be the cause of his death."

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"It is like taking medicine,"

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"Where the intended purpose is healing,"

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"But exceeding the intended dose is a deadly poison."

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From Makhlad Ibn al-Husayn, may Allah have mercy on him, he said,

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"Allah has not called the servants to anything,"

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"Except that Iblis has obstructed it with two things,"

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"He does not care which of the two he succeeds with:"

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"Either extremism in it,"

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"Or falling short of it."

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The life of peace between word and deed.
