1 00:00:00,780 --> 00:00:03,779 Riyadh Al-Salehin 2 00:00:03,779 --> 00:00:06,780 From the words of the Master of Messengers 3 00:00:06,780 --> 00:00:09,779 May God bless him and grant him peace 4 00:00:09,779 --> 00:00:15,279 Chapter on the husband’s right over the woman 5 00:00:15,279 --> 00:00:20,100 God Almighty said 6 00:00:20,100 --> 00:00:23,100 Men are guardians of women 7 00:00:23,100 --> 00:00:26,100 Because God has favored some of them over others 8 00:00:26,100 --> 00:00:30,100 And what they spent of their money 9 00:00:30,100 --> 00:00:32,100 The righteous are obedient 10 00:00:32,100 --> 00:00:36,100 Preservers of the unseen with what God has preserved 11 00:00:36,100 --> 00:00:41,320 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said 12 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:45,320 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 13 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:48,320 If a man invites his wife to his bed 14 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:50,320 She did not come to him 15 00:00:50,320 --> 00:00:53,320 He became angry with her 16 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:56,320 The angels cursed her until she became... 17 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:59,539 Agreed 18 00:00:59,539 --> 00:01:01,539 And in their narration 19 00:01:01,539 --> 00:01:05,540 If a woman spends the night migrating from her husband’s bed 20 00:01:05,540 --> 00:01:09,540 The angels cursed her until she became... 21 00:01:09,540 --> 00:01:11,700 And in a novel 22 00:01:11,700 --> 00:01:14,700 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 23 00:01:14,700 --> 00:01:17,700 By the One in whose hand is my soul 24 00:01:17,700 --> 00:01:20,700 No man invites his wife to his bed 25 00:01:20,700 --> 00:01:22,700 So you refuse it 26 00:01:22,700 --> 00:01:26,700 Unless the one in heaven was angry with her 27 00:01:26,700 --> 00:01:29,700 Until he is satisfied with her 28 00:01:29,700 --> 00:01:34,400 One of the benefits of talking 29 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:37,400 The husband must obey her husband 30 00:01:37,400 --> 00:01:39,400 If he invites her to his bed 31 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:41,400 There was no excuse for her 32 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:45,400 Because the most powerful things that confuse a man 33 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:47,430 Advocate of marriage 34 00:01:47,430 --> 00:01:50,430 Therefore, the wise Law urged women 35 00:01:50,430 --> 00:01:53,430 To help the man with this 36 00:01:53,430 --> 00:01:57,069 To lower his gaze and guard his chastity 37 00:01:57,069 --> 00:01:59,069 A woman should 38 00:02:00,069 --> 00:02:05,069 And to seek His pleasure in that which involves no sin 39 00:02:05,069 --> 00:02:10,620 A man's patience to avoid intercourse is weaker than a woman's 40 00:02:10,620 --> 00:02:15,620 Therefore, a woman’s abstention from her husband’s bed is a big deal 41 00:02:15,620 --> 00:02:18,620 You deserve God's wrath 42 00:02:18,620 --> 00:02:24,099 Angels pray against those who commit sin as long as they remain in it 43 00:02:24,099 --> 00:02:28,099 The prayers of angels are accepted, whether good or evil 44 00:02:28,099 --> 00:02:34,099 Because he, may God bless him and grant him peace, was wary of that and feared it 45 00:02:34,099 --> 00:02:37,479 His saying, may God bless him and grant him peace 46 00:02:37,479 --> 00:02:41,479 Unless the one in heaven was angry with her 47 00:02:41,479 --> 00:02:45,479 It means God in heaven 48 00:02:45,479 --> 00:02:47,479 As God Almighty says 49 00:02:47,479 --> 00:02:54,479 Did you feel safe from the one in the sky that the earth would swallow you up and see that it was dying? 50 00:02:55,479 --> 00:03:02,479 Or do you feel confident that He who is in heaven will send against you a judge? 51 00:03:02,479 --> 00:03:07,139 Then you will know what a warner he is 52 00:03:07,139 --> 00:03:10,139 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him 53 00:03:10,139 --> 00:03:14,139 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 54 00:03:14,139 --> 00:03:20,139 It is not permissible for a woman to fast while her husband is a witness without his permission 55 00:03:20,139 --> 00:03:24,139 Do not enter his house without his permission 56 00:03:24,139 --> 00:03:26,270 Agreed 57 00:03:26,270 --> 00:03:32,169 Her husband is the witness of any non-traveling resident 58 00:03:32,169 --> 00:03:36,000 One of the benefits of talking 59 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:41,159 Voluntary fasting is required for a woman and her husband has his permission 60 00:03:41,159 --> 00:03:45,159 To ensure his right to it and not miss it 61 00:03:45,159 --> 00:03:52,539 It is not permissible for a woman to enter her husband’s house without anyone’s permission and consent 62 00:03:52,539 --> 00:03:56,860 On the authority of Ibn Omar, may God be pleased with them both 63 00:03:56,860 --> 00:04:00,860 On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said 64 00:04:00,860 --> 00:04:05,860 You are all a shepherd and you are all responsible for your flock 65 00:04:05,860 --> 00:04:11,949 The prince is a shepherd, and the man is a shepherd over his family 66 00:04:11,949 --> 00:04:15,949 The woman is the caretaker of her husband’s house and his children 67 00:04:15,949 --> 00:04:22,019 Each of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for his flock 68 00:04:22,019 --> 00:04:24,240 Agreed 69 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:31,100 A sponsor is any person charged with taking care of a business and entrusted with it 70 00:04:31,100 --> 00:04:35,100 He is commanded to do justice to him 71 00:04:35,100 --> 00:04:39,170 His subjects, i.e. those under his care 72 00:04:39,170 --> 00:04:43,379 One of the benefits of talking 73 00:04:43,379 --> 00:04:46,379 Responsibility in the Muslim community in general 74 00:04:46,379 --> 00:04:49,379 And each according to his ability 75 00:04:49,379 --> 00:04:53,379 Because every Muslim is on one of the gaps of Islam 76 00:04:53,379 --> 00:04:56,379 They will not be given before him 77 00:05:21,569 --> 00:05:23,569 The man is a shepherd of his household 78 00:05:23,569 --> 00:05:28,569 He feeds them, clothes them, raises them and teaches them 79 00:05:28,569 --> 00:05:32,980 The role of women in Islamic society is great 80 00:05:32,980 --> 00:05:34,980 Its impact is serious 81 00:05:34,980 --> 00:05:37,980 Where she should fulfill her husband’s rights 82 00:05:37,980 --> 00:05:40,980 She fulfills her duty towards her children 83 00:05:40,980 --> 00:05:42,980 Education and preparation 84 00:05:42,980 --> 00:05:46,980 To carry their religion with strength and pride 85 00:05:46,980 --> 00:05:53,459 On the authority of Abu Ali Talq bin Ali, may God be pleased with him 86 00:05:53,459 --> 00:05:57,459 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 87 00:05:57,459 --> 00:06:01,620 If a man calls his wife for his needs 88 00:06:01,620 --> 00:06:05,620 So he stutters, even if it is on the stove 89 00:06:05,620 --> 00:06:08,779 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi and Al-Nasa’i 90 00:06:08,779 --> 00:06:13,639 His need, that is, what he needs from her 91 00:06:13,639 --> 00:06:16,639 What she must do 92 00:06:16,639 --> 00:06:19,639 What is meant is intercourse 93 00:06:19,639 --> 00:06:22,769 Tandoor, meaning what is baked in it 94 00:06:22,769 --> 00:06:26,500 One of the benefits of talking 95 00:06:26,500 --> 00:06:29,790 The husband's right over his wife is great 96 00:06:29,790 --> 00:06:32,790 She should prepare herself for that 97 00:06:32,790 --> 00:06:36,300 It is a woman's duty to work on 98 00:06:36,300 --> 00:06:39,300 Please her husband and make him happy 99 00:06:39,300 --> 00:06:41,300 With everything he loves 100 00:06:41,300 --> 00:06:43,300 Because of his credit for it 101 00:06:43,300 --> 00:06:45,300 Of protection and care 102 00:06:45,300 --> 00:06:48,689 Things vary in importance 103 00:06:48,689 --> 00:06:50,689 Some are on top of each other 104 00:06:50,689 --> 00:06:55,100 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him 105 00:06:55,100 --> 00:06:59,100 On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said 106 00:06:59,100 --> 00:07:03,189 If I were to command someone to prostrate to anyone 107 00:07:03,189 --> 00:07:07,189 The woman was ordered to prostrate to her husband 108 00:07:07,189 --> 00:07:10,189 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 109 00:07:10,189 --> 00:07:14,120 One of the benefits of talking 110 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:17,379 Prostration is an act of worship that is not appropriate 111 00:07:17,379 --> 00:07:19,379 Except for God alone 112 00:07:19,379 --> 00:07:22,759 The husband's right over his wife is great 113 00:07:22,759 --> 00:07:25,759 He recites God's truth to her 114 00:07:25,759 --> 00:07:30,139 No human being should prostrate to another human being 115 00:07:30,139 --> 00:07:34,139 Whoever prostrates to a human or a stone by choice 116 00:07:34,139 --> 00:07:38,139 He has taken off the collar of Islam 117 00:07:38,139 --> 00:07:43,259 On the authority of Umm Salamah, may God be pleased with her, she said 118 00:07:43,259 --> 00:07:47,259 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 119 00:07:47,259 --> 00:07:52,329 Any woman who died while her husband was satisfied with her 120 00:07:52,329 --> 00:07:54,579 I entered heaven 121 00:07:54,579 --> 00:07:56,579 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 122 00:07:56,579 --> 00:08:00,930 One of the benefits of talking 123 00:08:00,930 --> 00:08:02,930 If a Muslim woman dies 124 00:08:02,930 --> 00:08:06,930 She believes in God alone, who has no partners 125 00:08:06,930 --> 00:08:09,930 She was fulfilling her husband's rights 126 00:08:09,930 --> 00:08:13,930 I entered Paradise by God's mercy and grace 127 00:08:13,930 --> 00:08:18,699 Explaining the greatness of the husband’s right over his wife 128 00:08:18,699 --> 00:08:20,699 He bears witness to this hadith 129 00:08:20,699 --> 00:08:23,699 The saying of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 130 00:08:23,699 --> 00:08:26,699 If a woman prays one-fifth of it 131 00:08:26,699 --> 00:08:28,699 She was silent for a month 132 00:08:28,699 --> 00:08:30,699 She protected her vagina 133 00:08:30,699 --> 00:08:32,700 She obeyed her husband 134 00:08:32,700 --> 00:08:37,700 She entered through any gates of Paradise she wished 135 00:08:37,700 --> 00:08:42,039 On the authority of Moaz bin Jabal, may God be pleased with him 136 00:08:42,039 --> 00:08:46,039 On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said 137 00:08:46,039 --> 00:08:50,100 A woman does not harm her husband in this world 138 00:08:50,100 --> 00:08:54,100 Except that his wife said he was a virgin 139 00:08:54,100 --> 00:08:57,100 Don't hurt him, may God kill you 140 00:08:57,100 --> 00:09:00,100 He is an outsider to you 141 00:09:00,100 --> 00:09:03,100 He is about to leave you to us 142 00:09:03,100 --> 00:09:05,259 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 143 00:09:05,259 --> 00:09:10,220 An intruder, any guest or lodger 144 00:09:10,220 --> 00:09:14,090 One of the benefits of talking 145 00:09:14,090 --> 00:09:20,379 Warning a woman against harming her husband emotionally or morally 146 00:09:20,379 --> 00:09:25,980 God has prepared purified spouses for the believers in Paradise 147 00:09:25,980 --> 00:09:28,980 Believers are waiting for us with passion and eagerness 148 00:09:28,980 --> 00:09:32,980 They cannot even tolerate the believer being harmed 149 00:09:32,980 --> 00:09:35,980 Even by his wife in this world 150 00:09:35,980 --> 00:09:40,460 Heaven and its bliss exist now 151 00:09:40,460 --> 00:09:43,820 The world is a place of trial and testing 152 00:09:43,820 --> 00:09:47,820 The afterlife is an abode of reward and survival 153 00:09:47,820 --> 00:09:52,870 On the authority of Osama bin Zaid, may God be pleased with them both 154 00:09:52,870 --> 00:09:56,870 On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said 155 00:09:56,870 --> 00:09:58,899 I left no temptation behind me 156 00:09:58,899 --> 00:10:02,899 It is more harmful to men than women 157 00:10:02,899 --> 00:10:05,129 Agreed 158 00:10:05,129 --> 00:10:09,019 One of the benefits of talking 159 00:10:09,019 --> 00:10:13,250 Women's temptation is more dangerous than other temptations for men 160 00:10:13,250 --> 00:10:18,250 Therefore, women should stay in their homes 161 00:10:18,250 --> 00:10:23,250 They do not display themselves as they did in the pre-Islamic era 162 00:10:23,250 --> 00:10:27,279 Riad Al-Saleh, oh Riad Al-Saleh 163 00:10:27,279 --> 00:10:29,279 Riyadh Al-Salehin