WEBVTT 00:00:00.780 --> 00:00:03.779 Riyadh Al-Salehin 00:00:03.779 --> 00:00:06.780 From the words of the Master of Messengers 00:00:06.780 --> 00:00:09.779 May God bless him and grant him peace 00:00:09.779 --> 00:00:15.279 Chapter on the husband’s right over the woman 00:00:15.279 --> 00:00:20.100 God Almighty said 00:00:20.100 --> 00:00:23.100 Men are guardians of women 00:00:23.100 --> 00:00:26.100 Because God has favored some of them over others 00:00:26.100 --> 00:00:30.100 And what they spent of their money 00:00:30.100 --> 00:00:32.100 The righteous are obedient 00:00:32.100 --> 00:00:36.100 Preservers of the unseen with what God has preserved 00:00:36.100 --> 00:00:41.320 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said 00:00:41.320 --> 00:00:45.320 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:00:45.320 --> 00:00:48.320 If a man invites his wife to his bed 00:00:48.320 --> 00:00:50.320 She did not come to him 00:00:50.320 --> 00:00:53.320 He became angry with her 00:00:53.320 --> 00:00:56.320 The angels cursed her until she became... 00:00:56.320 --> 00:00:59.539 Agreed 00:00:59.539 --> 00:01:01.539 And in their narration 00:01:01.539 --> 00:01:05.540 If a woman spends the night migrating from her husband’s bed 00:01:05.540 --> 00:01:09.540 The angels cursed her until she became... 00:01:09.540 --> 00:01:11.700 And in a novel 00:01:11.700 --> 00:01:14.700 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:01:14.700 --> 00:01:17.700 By the One in whose hand is my soul 00:01:17.700 --> 00:01:20.700 No man invites his wife to his bed 00:01:20.700 --> 00:01:22.700 So you refuse it 00:01:22.700 --> 00:01:26.700 Unless the one in heaven was angry with her 00:01:26.700 --> 00:01:29.700 Until he is satisfied with her 00:01:29.700 --> 00:01:34.400 One of the benefits of talking 00:01:34.400 --> 00:01:37.400 The husband must obey her husband 00:01:37.400 --> 00:01:39.400 If he invites her to his bed 00:01:39.400 --> 00:01:41.400 There was no excuse for her 00:01:41.400 --> 00:01:45.400 Because the most powerful things that confuse a man 00:01:45.400 --> 00:01:47.430 Advocate of marriage 00:01:47.430 --> 00:01:50.430 Therefore, the wise Law urged women 00:01:50.430 --> 00:01:53.430 To help the man with this 00:01:53.430 --> 00:01:57.069 To lower his gaze and guard his chastity 00:01:57.069 --> 00:01:59.069 A woman should 00:02:00.069 --> 00:02:05.069 And to seek His pleasure in that which involves no sin 00:02:05.069 --> 00:02:10.620 A man's patience to avoid intercourse is weaker than a woman's 00:02:10.620 --> 00:02:15.620 Therefore, a woman’s abstention from her husband’s bed is a big deal 00:02:15.620 --> 00:02:18.620 You deserve God's wrath 00:02:18.620 --> 00:02:24.099 Angels pray against those who commit sin as long as they remain in it 00:02:24.099 --> 00:02:28.099 The prayers of angels are accepted, whether good or evil 00:02:28.099 --> 00:02:34.099 Because he, may God bless him and grant him peace, was wary of that and feared it 00:02:34.099 --> 00:02:37.479 His saying, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:02:37.479 --> 00:02:41.479 Unless the one in heaven was angry with her 00:02:41.479 --> 00:02:45.479 It means God in heaven 00:02:45.479 --> 00:02:47.479 As God Almighty says 00:02:47.479 --> 00:02:54.479 Did you feel safe from the one in the sky that the earth would swallow you up and see that it was dying? 00:02:55.479 --> 00:03:02.479 Or do you feel confident that He who is in heaven will send against you a judge? 00:03:02.479 --> 00:03:07.139 Then you will know what a warner he is 00:03:07.139 --> 00:03:10.139 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him 00:03:10.139 --> 00:03:14.139 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:03:14.139 --> 00:03:20.139 It is not permissible for a woman to fast while her husband is a witness without his permission 00:03:20.139 --> 00:03:24.139 Do not enter his house without his permission 00:03:24.139 --> 00:03:26.270 Agreed 00:03:26.270 --> 00:03:32.169 Her husband is the witness of any non-traveling resident 00:03:32.169 --> 00:03:36.000 One of the benefits of talking 00:03:36.000 --> 00:03:41.159 Voluntary fasting is required for a woman and her husband has his permission 00:03:41.159 --> 00:03:45.159 To ensure his right to it and not miss it 00:03:45.159 --> 00:03:52.539 It is not permissible for a woman to enter her husband’s house without anyone’s permission and consent 00:03:52.539 --> 00:03:56.860 On the authority of Ibn Omar, may God be pleased with them both 00:03:56.860 --> 00:04:00.860 On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said 00:04:00.860 --> 00:04:05.860 You are all a shepherd and you are all responsible for your flock 00:04:05.860 --> 00:04:11.949 The prince is a shepherd, and the man is a shepherd over his family 00:04:11.949 --> 00:04:15.949 The woman is the caretaker of her husband’s house and his children 00:04:15.949 --> 00:04:22.019 Each of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for his flock 00:04:22.019 --> 00:04:24.240 Agreed 00:04:25.240 --> 00:04:31.100 A sponsor is any person charged with taking care of a business and entrusted with it 00:04:31.100 --> 00:04:35.100 He is commanded to do justice to him 00:04:35.100 --> 00:04:39.170 His subjects, i.e. those under his care 00:04:39.170 --> 00:04:43.379 One of the benefits of talking 00:04:43.379 --> 00:04:46.379 Responsibility in the Muslim community in general 00:04:46.379 --> 00:04:49.379 And each according to his ability 00:04:49.379 --> 00:04:53.379 Because every Muslim is on one of the gaps of Islam 00:04:53.379 --> 00:04:56.379 They will not be given before him 00:05:21.569 --> 00:05:23.569 The man is a shepherd of his household 00:05:23.569 --> 00:05:28.569 He feeds them, clothes them, raises them and teaches them 00:05:28.569 --> 00:05:32.980 The role of women in Islamic society is great 00:05:32.980 --> 00:05:34.980 Its impact is serious 00:05:34.980 --> 00:05:37.980 Where she should fulfill her husband’s rights 00:05:37.980 --> 00:05:40.980 She fulfills her duty towards her children 00:05:40.980 --> 00:05:42.980 Education and preparation 00:05:42.980 --> 00:05:46.980 To carry their religion with strength and pride 00:05:46.980 --> 00:05:53.459 On the authority of Abu Ali Talq bin Ali, may God be pleased with him 00:05:53.459 --> 00:05:57.459 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:05:57.459 --> 00:06:01.620 If a man calls his wife for his needs 00:06:01.620 --> 00:06:05.620 So he stutters, even if it is on the stove 00:06:05.620 --> 00:06:08.779 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi and Al-Nasa’i 00:06:08.779 --> 00:06:13.639 His need, that is, what he needs from her 00:06:13.639 --> 00:06:16.639 What she must do 00:06:16.639 --> 00:06:19.639 What is meant is intercourse 00:06:19.639 --> 00:06:22.769 Tandoor, meaning what is baked in it 00:06:22.769 --> 00:06:26.500 One of the benefits of talking 00:06:26.500 --> 00:06:29.790 The husband's right over his wife is great 00:06:29.790 --> 00:06:32.790 She should prepare herself for that 00:06:32.790 --> 00:06:36.300 It is a woman's duty to work on 00:06:36.300 --> 00:06:39.300 Please her husband and make him happy 00:06:39.300 --> 00:06:41.300 With everything he loves 00:06:41.300 --> 00:06:43.300 Because of his credit for it 00:06:43.300 --> 00:06:45.300 Of protection and care 00:06:45.300 --> 00:06:48.689 Things vary in importance 00:06:48.689 --> 00:06:50.689 Some are on top of each other 00:06:50.689 --> 00:06:55.100 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him 00:06:55.100 --> 00:06:59.100 On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said 00:06:59.100 --> 00:07:03.189 If I were to command someone to prostrate to anyone 00:07:03.189 --> 00:07:07.189 The woman was ordered to prostrate to her husband 00:07:07.189 --> 00:07:10.189 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 00:07:10.189 --> 00:07:14.120 One of the benefits of talking 00:07:14.120 --> 00:07:17.379 Prostration is an act of worship that is not appropriate 00:07:17.379 --> 00:07:19.379 Except for God alone 00:07:19.379 --> 00:07:22.759 The husband's right over his wife is great 00:07:22.759 --> 00:07:25.759 He recites God's truth to her 00:07:25.759 --> 00:07:30.139 No human being should prostrate to another human being 00:07:30.139 --> 00:07:34.139 Whoever prostrates to a human or a stone by choice 00:07:34.139 --> 00:07:38.139 He has taken off the collar of Islam 00:07:38.139 --> 00:07:43.259 On the authority of Umm Salamah, may God be pleased with her, she said 00:07:43.259 --> 00:07:47.259 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:07:47.259 --> 00:07:52.329 Any woman who died while her husband was satisfied with her 00:07:52.329 --> 00:07:54.579 I entered heaven 00:07:54.579 --> 00:07:56.579 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 00:07:56.579 --> 00:08:00.930 One of the benefits of talking 00:08:00.930 --> 00:08:02.930 If a Muslim woman dies 00:08:02.930 --> 00:08:06.930 She believes in God alone, who has no partners 00:08:06.930 --> 00:08:09.930 She was fulfilling her husband's rights 00:08:09.930 --> 00:08:13.930 I entered Paradise by God's mercy and grace 00:08:13.930 --> 00:08:18.699 Explaining the greatness of the husband’s right over his wife 00:08:18.699 --> 00:08:20.699 He bears witness to this hadith 00:08:20.699 --> 00:08:23.699 The saying of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:08:23.699 --> 00:08:26.699 If a woman prays one-fifth of it 00:08:26.699 --> 00:08:28.699 She was silent for a month 00:08:28.699 --> 00:08:30.699 She protected her vagina 00:08:30.699 --> 00:08:32.700 She obeyed her husband 00:08:32.700 --> 00:08:37.700 She entered through any gates of Paradise she wished 00:08:37.700 --> 00:08:42.039 On the authority of Moaz bin Jabal, may God be pleased with him 00:08:42.039 --> 00:08:46.039 On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said 00:08:46.039 --> 00:08:50.100 A woman does not harm her husband in this world 00:08:50.100 --> 00:08:54.100 Except that his wife said he was a virgin 00:08:54.100 --> 00:08:57.100 Don't hurt him, may God kill you 00:08:57.100 --> 00:09:00.100 He is an outsider to you 00:09:00.100 --> 00:09:03.100 He is about to leave you to us 00:09:03.100 --> 00:09:05.259 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 00:09:05.259 --> 00:09:10.220 An intruder, any guest or lodger 00:09:10.220 --> 00:09:14.090 One of the benefits of talking 00:09:14.090 --> 00:09:20.379 Warning a woman against harming her husband emotionally or morally 00:09:20.379 --> 00:09:25.980 God has prepared purified spouses for the believers in Paradise 00:09:25.980 --> 00:09:28.980 Believers are waiting for us with passion and eagerness 00:09:28.980 --> 00:09:32.980 They cannot even tolerate the believer being harmed 00:09:32.980 --> 00:09:35.980 Even by his wife in this world 00:09:35.980 --> 00:09:40.460 Heaven and its bliss exist now 00:09:40.460 --> 00:09:43.820 The world is a place of trial and testing 00:09:43.820 --> 00:09:47.820 The afterlife is an abode of reward and survival 00:09:47.820 --> 00:09:52.870 On the authority of Osama bin Zaid, may God be pleased with them both 00:09:52.870 --> 00:09:56.870 On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said 00:09:56.870 --> 00:09:58.899 I left no temptation behind me 00:09:58.899 --> 00:10:02.899 It is more harmful to men than women 00:10:02.899 --> 00:10:05.129 Agreed 00:10:05.129 --> 00:10:09.019 One of the benefits of talking 00:10:09.019 --> 00:10:13.250 Women's temptation is more dangerous than other temptations for men 00:10:13.250 --> 00:10:18.250 Therefore, women should stay in their homes 00:10:18.250 --> 00:10:23.250 They do not display themselves as they did in the pre-Islamic era 00:10:23.250 --> 00:10:27.279 Riad Al-Saleh, oh Riad Al-Saleh 00:10:27.279 --> 00:10:29.279 Riyadh Al-Salehin