1 00:00:01,419 --> 00:00:07,419 The story of our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 2 00:00:07,419 --> 00:00:14,660 A woman’s care for her husband during Hajj 3 00:00:14,660 --> 00:00:21,030 The Day of Sacrifice is the major day of Hajj and is the day of Eid 4 00:00:21,030 --> 00:00:24,030 It includes most of the Hajj activities 5 00:00:24,030 --> 00:00:30,160 After our Prophet Muhammad, may God bless him and grant him peace, stoned Jamarat al-Aqaba 6 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:32,159 And he shaved his hair 7 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:37,159 Prepare to go to Mecca to perform Tawaf Al-Ifadah 8 00:00:37,159 --> 00:00:43,159 So he took off his ihram clothes, put on a robe, and applied perfume for the circumambulation 9 00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:51,289 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, received the honor of caring for our Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, during Hajj 10 00:00:51,289 --> 00:00:53,380 In many places 11 00:00:53,380 --> 00:01:00,509 One of the things she did was to perfume him with her hand before he went for the Tawaf al-Ifadah 12 00:01:00,509 --> 00:01:03,509 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says 13 00:01:03,509 --> 00:01:09,510 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, perfumed figs with her hands when he entered ihram 14 00:01:09,510 --> 00:01:13,510 And to solve it when it is lawful, before he circumambulates 15 00:01:13,510 --> 00:01:16,510 She spread her hands 16 00:01:16,510 --> 00:01:19,670 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, stated this 17 00:01:19,670 --> 00:01:26,670 That this was after he stoned Jamarat al-Aqaba and before his circumambulation of Ifadha 18 00:01:26,670 --> 00:01:33,670 She said: “I felt good to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, for his ihram when he entered ihram.” 19 00:01:33,670 --> 00:01:39,670 It is permissible after stoning Jamrat al-Aqaba before circumambulating the Kaaba 20 00:01:39,670 --> 00:01:44,959 This is taking care of the Prophet’s clothing and perfume 21 00:01:44,959 --> 00:01:48,959 It was in Mina as it was in Dhul-Halifah 22 00:01:48,959 --> 00:01:53,090 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says 23 00:01:53,090 --> 00:01:58,090 I applied perfume to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, with my hand for his sanctuary 24 00:01:58,090 --> 00:02:02,090 It was filled with water before it overflowed 25 00:02:02,090 --> 00:02:07,409 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, was not limited to these two times 26 00:02:07,409 --> 00:02:14,409 Rather, it was every time the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, wanted to visit the house during our days 27 00:02:14,409 --> 00:02:17,409 His kindness is in her hand, may God be pleased with her 28 00:02:17,409 --> 00:02:24,469 She said: “I pleased the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, for his ihram before he entered ihram.” 29 00:02:24,469 --> 00:02:30,469 And for him when he comes home and when he wants to visit the house 30 00:02:30,469 --> 00:02:36,599 This was part of her keenness to take care of the perfume of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 31 00:02:36,599 --> 00:02:41,599 She, may God be pleased with her, would choose the best perfume for him 32 00:02:41,599 --> 00:02:44,699 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says 33 00:02:45,699 --> 00:02:52,699 I perfumed the Prophet, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, with the best perfume when he was in a state of sanctuary and in his state 34 00:02:52,699 --> 00:02:56,889 In their time, musk was one of the best perfumes 35 00:02:56,889 --> 00:02:59,889 So she took care of him 36 00:02:59,889 --> 00:03:03,979 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says 37 00:03:03,979 --> 00:03:09,020 I was kind to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, before he entered ihram 38 00:03:09,020 --> 00:03:12,020 On the Day of Sacrifice before circumambulating the Kaaba 39 00:03:12,020 --> 00:03:15,020 It has good musk 40 00:03:15,020 --> 00:03:19,979 This care came from our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 41 00:03:19,979 --> 00:03:25,979 It was not because the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was with her on that day 42 00:03:25,979 --> 00:03:34,979 Rather, this care was Aisha’s keenness to serve the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, at all times 43 00:03:34,979 --> 00:03:41,979 This concern stems from the intensity of her love for him, may God bless him and grant him peace 44 00:03:41,979 --> 00:03:47,979 There is no surprise after that when we know that our mother is Aisha, may God be pleased with her 45 00:03:47,979 --> 00:03:52,979 She is the most beloved of his wives, may God bless him and grant him peace 46 00:03:52,979 --> 00:03:59,139 What indicates that this care is not related to her day 47 00:03:59,139 --> 00:04:06,139 Her perfume was given to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, in Dhul-Hulaifah, which was on Sunday night 48 00:04:06,139 --> 00:04:10,139 Perfuming it for the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, on the Day of Sacrifice 49 00:04:11,139 --> 00:04:13,139 It was Saturday 50 00:04:13,139 --> 00:04:18,139 If Aisha's day was Saturday, the night of Sunday in Dhu al-Hulayfa 51 00:04:18,139 --> 00:04:23,139 Her turn can only come after nine days 52 00:04:23,139 --> 00:04:29,139 Because the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, had nine wives at that time 53 00:04:29,139 --> 00:04:37,139 Accordingly, her day will be Monday, Tuesday night, the third day of Eid 54 00:04:37,139 --> 00:04:39,649 I am clearer than that 55 00:04:39,649 --> 00:04:45,649 The narration indicates that she treats him kindly whenever he wants to visit the house 56 00:04:45,649 --> 00:04:50,899 This couldn't be all in her day 57 00:04:50,899 --> 00:04:53,899 This is a warning to you, my dear sister 58 00:04:53,899 --> 00:05:01,899 By taking care of your husband as our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, used to do with the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 59 00:05:01,899 --> 00:05:04,899 During Hajj and other than Hajj 60 00:05:04,899 --> 00:05:09,899 She takes care of his grooming, his beauty, and everything related to him 61 00:05:09,899 --> 00:05:12,899 According to your ability and energy 62 00:05:12,899 --> 00:05:15,899 Do not be excused by travel and the fatigue of Hajj 63 00:05:15,899 --> 00:05:20,899 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, was not unable to do so 64 00:05:23,339 --> 00:05:27,339 A woman's fear of menstruation before Tawaf al-Ifadah 65 00:05:27,339 --> 00:05:32,110 What women fear most is menstruation during Hajj 66 00:05:32,110 --> 00:05:35,110 To do it before Tawaf Al-Ifadah 67 00:05:35,110 --> 00:05:39,110 He delays her from circumambulating and imprisons her guardian with her 68 00:05:39,110 --> 00:05:46,110 Therefore, we find women keen to quickly reach the forbidden house for Tawaf al-Ifadah 69 00:05:46,110 --> 00:05:52,110 This caution may sometimes cause her menstruation to occur before its due time 70 00:05:52,110 --> 00:05:55,110 Due to stress or exhaustion 71 00:05:55,110 --> 00:05:58,180 Therefore, we advise women to be calm during Hajj 72 00:05:58,180 --> 00:06:03,180 Avoid being in a hurry for fear that you will make a mistake in estimating your movement 73 00:06:03,180 --> 00:06:08,240 She becomes more tired and her period comes before its due time 74 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:11,240 Perhaps this is fear of menstruation 75 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:17,240 He is the one who pushes the woman to put pressure on her guardian not to spend the night in Muzdalifah 76 00:06:17,240 --> 00:06:20,240 And payment from it even before midnight 77 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:23,339 To perform Tawaf Al-Ifadah 78 00:06:23,339 --> 00:06:26,339 This is one of the mistakes women make during Hajj 79 00:06:26,339 --> 00:06:29,339 Hajj is undoubtedly a hardship 80 00:06:29,339 --> 00:06:34,339 The hardship is greatest on the Day of Arafah and the Day of Sacrifice 81 00:06:34,339 --> 00:06:38,339 On the day of Arafah, a woman performs her needs in the morning 82 00:06:38,339 --> 00:06:43,339 In movement, remembrance, and reading the Qur’an until noon 83 00:06:43,339 --> 00:06:46,339 Then you devote yourself to praying to Morocco 84 00:06:46,339 --> 00:06:49,339 Then move to Muzdalifah 85 00:06:49,339 --> 00:06:53,339 Why didn't you stop for a while in Muzdalifah to rest? 86 00:06:53,339 --> 00:06:56,339 Then you go to complete the rest of the rituals 87 00:06:56,339 --> 00:06:59,339 She exhausts herself and tires her out 88 00:06:59,339 --> 00:07:05,339 Which may cause her something she does not want, such as her menstruation prematurely 89 00:07:05,339 --> 00:07:12,170 We can provide women with the types of services that comfort their bodies 90 00:07:12,170 --> 00:07:15,170 It reduces the burden on her of performing Hajj 91 00:07:15,170 --> 00:07:22,170 But we cannot remove her fear of menstruation before Tawaf al-Ifadah 92 00:07:22,170 --> 00:07:24,170 Because it is innate 93 00:07:25,170 --> 00:07:33,170 Rather, this fear is transmitted to everyone related to the woman, including her sisters and friends with her 94 00:07:33,170 --> 00:07:39,170 Rather, it will also be transferred to her guardian if he is one of those who knows her condition 95 00:07:39,170 --> 00:07:43,170 This is what happened to the mothers of the believers during Hajj 96 00:07:43,170 --> 00:07:47,259 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says 97 00:07:47,259 --> 00:07:52,259 We were afraid that Safiya would menstruate before she had her menstruation 98 00:07:52,259 --> 00:07:57,509 Tawaf of the Mothers of the Believers on the Day of Sacrifice 99 00:07:57,509 --> 00:08:04,310 After our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, became pure and purified from her menstruation 100 00:08:04,310 --> 00:08:09,310 She set off for the thief’s house to perform the Tawaf al-Ifadah 101 00:08:09,310 --> 00:08:13,310 This was her first circumambulation during the Farewell Hajj 102 00:08:13,310 --> 00:08:17,439 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says 103 00:08:17,439 --> 00:08:21,439 So we went on his argument until he came from us 104 00:08:21,439 --> 00:08:26,439 She purified herself, then left one of us and left the house 105 00:08:26,439 --> 00:08:29,949 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, left 106 00:08:29,949 --> 00:08:33,950 With all the mothers of the believers for Tawaf Al-Ifadah 107 00:08:33,950 --> 00:08:36,950 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says 108 00:08:36,950 --> 00:08:40,950 Our arguments with the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 109 00:08:40,950 --> 00:08:43,950 So we preferred the Day of Sacrifice 110 00:08:43,950 --> 00:08:47,340 Our mother was Aisha, may God be pleased with her 111 00:08:47,340 --> 00:08:51,340 Very close to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 112 00:08:51,340 --> 00:08:56,340 She tells him her condition and consults him about what she is going through 113 00:08:56,340 --> 00:09:00,340 Therefore, when I was cleansed, I was informed 114 00:09:00,340 --> 00:09:03,340 He ordered her to circumambulate the Kaaba 115 00:09:03,340 --> 00:09:06,429 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says 116 00:09:06,429 --> 00:09:10,429 When the Day of Sacrifice came, she became pure 117 00:09:10,429 --> 00:09:13,429 So the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, commanded me 118 00:09:13,429 --> 00:09:15,429 So I finished 119 00:09:15,429 --> 00:09:18,909 It was not limited to circumambulating the Kaaba 120 00:09:18,909 --> 00:09:21,909 When I went to Mecca 121 00:09:21,909 --> 00:09:24,909 But it also roamed and expanded 122 00:09:24,909 --> 00:09:29,909 As stated in the hadith of Jabir bin Abdullah, may God be pleased with them both 123 00:09:29,909 --> 00:09:32,909 He said even if it becomes pure 124 00:09:32,909 --> 00:09:37,840 She circumambulated the Kaaba, Safa, and Marwa 125 00:09:37,840 --> 00:09:39,840 Her return to life 126 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:45,639 And meeting the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 127 00:09:45,639 --> 00:09:49,639 When Aisha finished performing the rites of her lifetime 128 00:09:49,639 --> 00:09:54,639 She returned to the place of her acquaintance with the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 129 00:09:54,639 --> 00:09:57,669 Aisha, may God be pleased with her, said 130 00:09:57,669 --> 00:10:00,669 Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, met me 131 00:10:00,669 --> 00:10:03,669 It is an elevator from Mecca 132 00:10:03,669 --> 00:10:06,669 And I'm down for it 133 00:10:06,669 --> 00:10:10,669 Or I am going up and he is going down