1 00:00:02,060 --> 00:00:08,529 Breeze of magic 2 00:00:08,529 --> 00:00:15,500 People of happiness and joy are sitting 3 00:00:15,500 --> 00:00:18,500 Man is civil by nature 4 00:00:18,500 --> 00:00:22,500 He tends to mingle with others and gets along well with others 5 00:00:22,500 --> 00:00:26,539 He cannot do so if he is healthy and has choice 6 00:00:26,539 --> 00:00:33,890 To live alone and stay away from sitting with people and meeting them 7 00:00:33,890 --> 00:00:35,890 And that confusion 8 00:00:35,890 --> 00:00:40,920 The transmission of nature, morals, actions, and behavior may be inherited 9 00:00:40,920 --> 00:00:45,979 Because humans have the ability to be affected and influenced 10 00:00:45,979 --> 00:00:49,979 It affects others and is affected by them 11 00:00:49,979 --> 00:00:53,979 Therefore, Islam encouraged the choice of a sitter 12 00:00:53,979 --> 00:00:58,140 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 13 00:00:58,140 --> 00:01:01,179 A person follows the religion of his friend 14 00:01:01,179 --> 00:01:04,180 Let one of you see who he thinks 15 00:01:04,180 --> 00:01:09,719 Our true religion when it urged us to keep company with a good companion 16 00:01:09,719 --> 00:01:12,719 He warned us about the fence sitter 17 00:01:12,719 --> 00:01:16,719 We should understand this in general terms 18 00:01:16,719 --> 00:01:22,849 Righteousness is not limited to soundness of belief and soundness of action 19 00:01:22,849 --> 00:01:26,849 This also includes human nature 20 00:01:26,849 --> 00:01:30,849 His perception of things and his attitude towards them 21 00:01:30,849 --> 00:01:33,200 In terms of happiness 22 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:37,200 If we find a person who is good in his beliefs and work 23 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:40,200 But he is a desperate pessimist 24 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:43,200 A lot of whining and complaining 25 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:47,260 He looks at things and events from a dark side 26 00:01:47,260 --> 00:01:52,390 This person in our door is a fence sitter 27 00:01:52,390 --> 00:01:57,549 Because babysitting him will make his babysitter miserable and bored 28 00:01:57,549 --> 00:01:59,549 And distress and sadness 29 00:02:00,709 --> 00:02:05,709 He turns away, carrying the worries of the world on his shoulders 30 00:02:05,709 --> 00:02:09,810 Between his eyes there were mazes of deep sadness 31 00:02:09,810 --> 00:02:14,900 He came to him with a smiling face and an open chest 32 00:02:14,900 --> 00:02:18,900 So he threw that on the rug of the fence sitter 33 00:02:18,900 --> 00:02:22,969 What a blessing he threw, and how miserable what he carried 34 00:02:22,969 --> 00:02:28,449 There is a difference between this righteous person who is deficient in his righteousness 35 00:02:28,449 --> 00:02:31,449 And among those who have perfected their righteousness 36 00:02:31,449 --> 00:02:34,449 Until tomorrow in the darkest circumstances 37 00:02:34,449 --> 00:02:38,449 Such optimism, bright mind 38 00:02:38,449 --> 00:02:40,449 Manhala for the skin 39 00:02:40,449 --> 00:02:45,900 And a cloud shades others from the heat of the embrace 40 00:02:45,900 --> 00:02:50,120 Ibn al-Qayyim says on the authority of his sheikh Ibn Taymiyyah 41 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:55,120 And God knows, I have never seen anyone live better than him 42 00:02:55,120 --> 00:02:58,250 Despite how difficult it was to live 43 00:02:58,250 --> 00:03:01,250 In contrast to luxury and bliss 44 00:03:01,250 --> 00:03:03,250 Rather, against it 45 00:03:03,250 --> 00:03:07,250 Despite the imprisonment, threats, and exhaustion he experienced 46 00:03:07,250 --> 00:03:09,280 And yet it is 47 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:13,280 He is one of the kindest and kindest people in life 48 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:17,280 He strengthened them in heart and captivated them in soul 49 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:21,340 A look of bliss crosses his face 50 00:03:21,340 --> 00:03:24,629 When our fear became intense, we would 51 00:03:24,629 --> 00:03:26,629 We had bad suspicions 52 00:03:26,629 --> 00:03:28,629 The earth narrowed down on us 53 00:03:28,629 --> 00:03:29,629 We came 54 00:03:29,629 --> 00:03:33,629 All we have to do is see him and hear his words 55 00:03:33,629 --> 00:03:36,629 And all of that goes away 56 00:03:36,629 --> 00:03:41,629 It turns into clarity, strength, certainty and reassurance 57 00:03:41,629 --> 00:03:46,139 This is why we say to everyone who wants comfort 58 00:03:46,139 --> 00:03:49,210 Happy people sitting 59 00:03:49,210 --> 00:03:54,210 Who, if you see them, you read happiness in their smiles 60 00:03:54,210 --> 00:03:59,240 I heard a sound of reassurance in the optimism of their words 61 00:03:59,240 --> 00:04:04,620 I tasted sweetness and found peace in sitting with them 62 00:04:04,620 --> 00:04:10,620 Sitting with these people is health for the soul and pleasure for the mind 63 00:04:10,620 --> 00:04:14,819 Al-Muhallab Ibn Abi Safar said 64 00:04:14,819 --> 00:04:19,170 Living all in the fun babysitter 65 00:04:19,170 --> 00:04:26,259 Beware of sitting with people who, if you see them, see distress in their faces 66 00:04:26,259 --> 00:04:30,300 I saw despair in the darkness of their thinking 67 00:04:30,300 --> 00:04:37,579 I heard the noise of pessimism in the sad tones of their words 68 00:04:37,579 --> 00:04:44,100 Sitting with this type is a disease and a rapidly transmitted infection 69 00:04:44,100 --> 00:04:50,100 And also sit those who, when you come to them with rags of pain 70 00:04:50,100 --> 00:04:54,100 I returned from them with hope 71 00:04:54,100 --> 00:04:58,160 And when you respond to them, they have anxious behavior 72 00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:04,189 I feel lonely and distressed by the sorrows of life 73 00:05:04,189 --> 00:05:07,319 Make its sides clear to you 74 00:05:07,319 --> 00:05:10,319 The path to relief is blocked before your eyes 75 00:05:11,319 --> 00:05:14,319 They opened doors for relief for you 76 00:05:14,319 --> 00:05:16,800 The poet said 77 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:20,800 And I am sitting there and I don't like their conversation 78 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:24,899 They are safe in sight and in sight 79 00:05:24,899 --> 00:05:28,899 If our society was well-spoken 80 00:05:28,899 --> 00:05:32,899 Helping to push away worries 81 00:05:32,899 --> 00:05:39,019 Do not sit with people who, if you visit, are depressed and sad 82 00:05:39,019 --> 00:05:41,019 You want solace with them 83 00:05:41,019 --> 00:05:46,110 Your return to your source is more depressing and sad 84 00:05:46,110 --> 00:05:50,110 You would have been in your best condition if you had not come to them 85 00:05:50,110 --> 00:05:55,269 It is as if their only mission is to inflate sorrows 86 00:05:55,269 --> 00:05:58,269 Increasing the intensity of distress 87 00:05:58,269 --> 00:06:02,269 So that the soul does not find a soul that comforts it 88 00:06:02,269 --> 00:06:05,819 And people like you are also sitting 89 00:06:05,819 --> 00:06:09,819 So that you don't hurt yourself with the arrow of contempt 90 00:06:09,819 --> 00:06:13,819 If you mix with someone who is higher in status than you 91 00:06:13,819 --> 00:06:18,819 And you did not have a shield of patience and contentment 92 00:06:18,819 --> 00:06:23,620 It repels you from the feeling of inadequacy and worthlessness 93 00:06:23,620 --> 00:06:25,709 Al-Harni said 94 00:06:25,709 --> 00:06:29,709 A good companion is like a bright lamp 95 00:06:29,899 --> 00:06:34,189 A bad sitter is scandalous 96 00:06:34,189 --> 00:06:38,189 Sitting with shapes invites connection 97 00:06:38,189 --> 00:06:42,189 Sitting with opposites melts the liver 98 00:06:42,189 --> 00:06:47,800 If you do not find anyone among those we have described for you, sit with them 99 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:50,800 He rushed to the unity tent 100 00:06:50,800 --> 00:06:53,899 And I cherish the types of evil companions 101 00:06:53,899 --> 00:06:56,899 Even if you bite the root of a tree 102 00:06:56,899 --> 00:07:01,899 Until happiness returns to you while you do that 103 00:07:01,899 --> 00:07:04,220 Abu Obaid said 104 00:07:04,220 --> 00:07:08,379 Examples of them are found in ancient and modern times 105 00:07:08,379 --> 00:07:10,379 Say them 106 00:07:10,379 --> 00:07:16,009 Loneliness is better than a bad housemate 107 00:07:16,009 --> 00:07:20,009 The breeze of magic in making people happy