WEBVTT 00:00:02.060 --> 00:00:08.529 Breeze of magic 00:00:08.529 --> 00:00:15.500 People of happiness and joy are sitting 00:00:15.500 --> 00:00:18.500 Man is civil by nature 00:00:18.500 --> 00:00:22.500 He tends to mingle with others and gets along well with others 00:00:22.500 --> 00:00:26.539 He cannot do so if he is healthy and has choice 00:00:26.539 --> 00:00:33.890 To live alone and stay away from sitting with people and meeting them 00:00:33.890 --> 00:00:35.890 And that confusion 00:00:35.890 --> 00:00:40.920 The transmission of nature, morals, actions, and behavior may be inherited 00:00:40.920 --> 00:00:45.979 Because humans have the ability to be affected and influenced 00:00:45.979 --> 00:00:49.979 It affects others and is affected by them 00:00:49.979 --> 00:00:53.979 Therefore, Islam encouraged the choice of a sitter 00:00:53.979 --> 00:00:58.140 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:00:58.140 --> 00:01:01.179 A person follows the religion of his friend 00:01:01.179 --> 00:01:04.180 Let one of you see who he thinks 00:01:04.180 --> 00:01:09.719 Our true religion when it urged us to keep company with a good companion 00:01:09.719 --> 00:01:12.719 He warned us about the fence sitter 00:01:12.719 --> 00:01:16.719 We should understand this in general terms 00:01:16.719 --> 00:01:22.849 Righteousness is not limited to soundness of belief and soundness of action 00:01:22.849 --> 00:01:26.849 This also includes human nature 00:01:26.849 --> 00:01:30.849 His perception of things and his attitude towards them 00:01:30.849 --> 00:01:33.200 In terms of happiness 00:01:33.200 --> 00:01:37.200 If we find a person who is good in his beliefs and work 00:01:37.200 --> 00:01:40.200 But he is a desperate pessimist 00:01:40.200 --> 00:01:43.200 A lot of whining and complaining 00:01:43.200 --> 00:01:47.260 He looks at things and events from a dark side 00:01:47.260 --> 00:01:52.390 This person in our door is a fence sitter 00:01:52.390 --> 00:01:57.549 Because babysitting him will make his babysitter miserable and bored 00:01:57.549 --> 00:01:59.549 And distress and sadness 00:02:00.709 --> 00:02:05.709 He turns away, carrying the worries of the world on his shoulders 00:02:05.709 --> 00:02:09.810 Between his eyes there were mazes of deep sadness 00:02:09.810 --> 00:02:14.900 He came to him with a smiling face and an open chest 00:02:14.900 --> 00:02:18.900 So he threw that on the rug of the fence sitter 00:02:18.900 --> 00:02:22.969 What a blessing he threw, and how miserable what he carried 00:02:22.969 --> 00:02:28.449 There is a difference between this righteous person who is deficient in his righteousness 00:02:28.449 --> 00:02:31.449 And among those who have perfected their righteousness 00:02:31.449 --> 00:02:34.449 Until tomorrow in the darkest circumstances 00:02:34.449 --> 00:02:38.449 Such optimism, bright mind 00:02:38.449 --> 00:02:40.449 Manhala for the skin 00:02:40.449 --> 00:02:45.900 And a cloud shades others from the heat of the embrace 00:02:45.900 --> 00:02:50.120 Ibn al-Qayyim says on the authority of his sheikh Ibn Taymiyyah 00:02:50.120 --> 00:02:55.120 And God knows, I have never seen anyone live better than him 00:02:55.120 --> 00:02:58.250 Despite how difficult it was to live 00:02:58.250 --> 00:03:01.250 In contrast to luxury and bliss 00:03:01.250 --> 00:03:03.250 Rather, against it 00:03:03.250 --> 00:03:07.250 Despite the imprisonment, threats, and exhaustion he experienced 00:03:07.250 --> 00:03:09.280 And yet it is 00:03:09.280 --> 00:03:13.280 He is one of the kindest and kindest people in life 00:03:13.280 --> 00:03:17.280 He strengthened them in heart and captivated them in soul 00:03:17.280 --> 00:03:21.340 A look of bliss crosses his face 00:03:21.340 --> 00:03:24.629 When our fear became intense, we would 00:03:24.629 --> 00:03:26.629 We had bad suspicions 00:03:26.629 --> 00:03:28.629 The earth narrowed down on us 00:03:28.629 --> 00:03:29.629 We came 00:03:29.629 --> 00:03:33.629 All we have to do is see him and hear his words 00:03:33.629 --> 00:03:36.629 And all of that goes away 00:03:36.629 --> 00:03:41.629 It turns into clarity, strength, certainty and reassurance 00:03:41.629 --> 00:03:46.139 This is why we say to everyone who wants comfort 00:03:46.139 --> 00:03:49.210 Happy people sitting 00:03:49.210 --> 00:03:54.210 Who, if you see them, you read happiness in their smiles 00:03:54.210 --> 00:03:59.240 I heard a sound of reassurance in the optimism of their words 00:03:59.240 --> 00:04:04.620 I tasted sweetness and found peace in sitting with them 00:04:04.620 --> 00:04:10.620 Sitting with these people is health for the soul and pleasure for the mind 00:04:10.620 --> 00:04:14.819 Al-Muhallab Ibn Abi Safar said 00:04:14.819 --> 00:04:19.170 Living all in the fun babysitter 00:04:19.170 --> 00:04:26.259 Beware of sitting with people who, if you see them, see distress in their faces 00:04:26.259 --> 00:04:30.300 I saw despair in the darkness of their thinking 00:04:30.300 --> 00:04:37.579 I heard the noise of pessimism in the sad tones of their words 00:04:37.579 --> 00:04:44.100 Sitting with this type is a disease and a rapidly transmitted infection 00:04:44.100 --> 00:04:50.100 And also sit those who, when you come to them with rags of pain 00:04:50.100 --> 00:04:54.100 I returned from them with hope 00:04:54.100 --> 00:04:58.160 And when you respond to them, they have anxious behavior 00:04:58.160 --> 00:05:04.189 I feel lonely and distressed by the sorrows of life 00:05:04.189 --> 00:05:07.319 Make its sides clear to you 00:05:07.319 --> 00:05:10.319 The path to relief is blocked before your eyes 00:05:11.319 --> 00:05:14.319 They opened doors for relief for you 00:05:14.319 --> 00:05:16.800 The poet said 00:05:16.800 --> 00:05:20.800 And I am sitting there and I don't like their conversation 00:05:20.800 --> 00:05:24.899 They are safe in sight and in sight 00:05:24.899 --> 00:05:28.899 If our society was well-spoken 00:05:28.899 --> 00:05:32.899 Helping to push away worries 00:05:32.899 --> 00:05:39.019 Do not sit with people who, if you visit, are depressed and sad 00:05:39.019 --> 00:05:41.019 You want solace with them 00:05:41.019 --> 00:05:46.110 Your return to your source is more depressing and sad 00:05:46.110 --> 00:05:50.110 You would have been in your best condition if you had not come to them 00:05:50.110 --> 00:05:55.269 It is as if their only mission is to inflate sorrows 00:05:55.269 --> 00:05:58.269 Increasing the intensity of distress 00:05:58.269 --> 00:06:02.269 So that the soul does not find a soul that comforts it 00:06:02.269 --> 00:06:05.819 And people like you are also sitting 00:06:05.819 --> 00:06:09.819 So that you don't hurt yourself with the arrow of contempt 00:06:09.819 --> 00:06:13.819 If you mix with someone who is higher in status than you 00:06:13.819 --> 00:06:18.819 And you did not have a shield of patience and contentment 00:06:18.819 --> 00:06:23.620 It repels you from the feeling of inadequacy and worthlessness 00:06:23.620 --> 00:06:25.709 Al-Harni said 00:06:25.709 --> 00:06:29.709 A good companion is like a bright lamp 00:06:29.899 --> 00:06:34.189 A bad sitter is scandalous 00:06:34.189 --> 00:06:38.189 Sitting with shapes invites connection 00:06:38.189 --> 00:06:42.189 Sitting with opposites melts the liver 00:06:42.189 --> 00:06:47.800 If you do not find anyone among those we have described for you, sit with them 00:06:47.800 --> 00:06:50.800 He rushed to the unity tent 00:06:50.800 --> 00:06:53.899 And I cherish the types of evil companions 00:06:53.899 --> 00:06:56.899 Even if you bite the root of a tree 00:06:56.899 --> 00:07:01.899 Until happiness returns to you while you do that 00:07:01.899 --> 00:07:04.220 Abu Obaid said 00:07:04.220 --> 00:07:08.379 Examples of them are found in ancient and modern times 00:07:08.379 --> 00:07:10.379 Say them 00:07:10.379 --> 00:07:16.009 Loneliness is better than a bad housemate 00:07:16.009 --> 00:07:20.009 The breeze of magic in making people happy