Breeze of magic
People of happiness and joy are sitting
Man is civil by nature
He tends to mingle with others and gets along well with others
He cannot do so if he is healthy and has choice
To live alone and stay away from sitting with people and meeting them
And that confusion
The transmission of nature, morals, actions, and behavior may be inherited
Because humans have the ability to be affected and influenced
It affects others and is affected by them
Therefore, Islam encouraged the choice of a sitter
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
A person follows the religion of his friend
Let one of you see who he thinks
Our true religion when it urged us to keep company with a good companion
He warned us about the fence sitter
We should understand this in general terms
Righteousness is not limited to soundness of belief and soundness of action
This also includes human nature
His perception of things and his attitude towards them
In terms of happiness
If we find a person who is good in his beliefs and work
But he is a desperate pessimist
A lot of whining and complaining
He looks at things and events from a dark side
This person in our door is a fence sitter
Because babysitting him will make his babysitter miserable and bored
And distress and sadness
He turns away, carrying the worries of the world on his shoulders
Between his eyes there were mazes of deep sadness
He came to him with a smiling face and an open chest
So he threw that on the rug of the fence sitter
What a blessing he threw, and how miserable what he carried
There is a difference between this righteous person who is deficient in his righteousness
And among those who have perfected their righteousness
Until tomorrow in the darkest circumstances
Such optimism, bright mind
Manhala for the skin
And a cloud shades others from the heat of the embrace
Ibn al-Qayyim says on the authority of his sheikh Ibn Taymiyyah
And God knows, I have never seen anyone live better than him
Despite how difficult it was to live
In contrast to luxury and bliss
Rather, against it
Despite the imprisonment, threats, and exhaustion he experienced
And yet it is
He is one of the kindest and kindest people in life
He strengthened them in heart and captivated them in soul
A look of bliss crosses his face
When our fear became intense, we would
We had bad suspicions
The earth narrowed down on us
We came
All we have to do is see him and hear his words
And all of that goes away
It turns into clarity, strength, certainty and reassurance
This is why we say to everyone who wants comfort
Happy people sitting
Who, if you see them, you read happiness in their smiles
I heard a sound of reassurance in the optimism of their words
I tasted sweetness and found peace in sitting with them
Sitting with these people is health for the soul and pleasure for the mind
Al-Muhallab Ibn Abi Safar said
Living all in the fun babysitter
Beware of sitting with people who, if you see them, see distress in their faces
I saw despair in the darkness of their thinking
I heard the noise of pessimism in the sad tones of their words
Sitting with this type is a disease and a rapidly transmitted infection
And also sit those who, when you come to them with rags of pain
I returned from them with hope
And when you respond to them, they have anxious behavior
I feel lonely and distressed by the sorrows of life
Make its sides clear to you
The path to relief is blocked before your eyes
They opened doors for relief for you
The poet said
And I am sitting there and I don't like their conversation
They are safe in sight and in sight
If our society was well-spoken
Helping to push away worries
Do not sit with people who, if you visit, are depressed and sad
You want solace with them
Your return to your source is more depressing and sad
You would have been in your best condition if you had not come to them
It is as if their only mission is to inflate sorrows
Increasing the intensity of distress
So that the soul does not find a soul that comforts it
And people like you are also sitting
So that you don't hurt yourself with the arrow of contempt
If you mix with someone who is higher in status than you
And you did not have a shield of patience and contentment
It repels you from the feeling of inadequacy and worthlessness
Al-Harni said
A good companion is like a bright lamp
A bad sitter is scandalous
Sitting with shapes invites connection
Sitting with opposites melts the liver
If you do not find anyone among those we have described for you, sit with them
He rushed to the unity tent
And I cherish the types of evil companions
Even if you bite the root of a tree
Until happiness returns to you while you do that
Abu Obaid said
Examples of them are found in ancient and modern times
Say them
Loneliness is better than a bad housemate
The breeze of magic in making people happy