1 00:00:00,180 --> 00:00:08,929 Summary of Sunni concepts 2 00:00:08,929 --> 00:00:10,929 Home and family security 3 00:00:10,929 --> 00:00:15,919 Islam aims to spread peace in the home 4 00:00:15,919 --> 00:00:19,920 At the same time, he turns to the individual conscience 5 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:22,920 And to the human community 6 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:24,920 They are all interconnected links 7 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:27,920 There is interconnection and communication between them 8 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:30,920 And to spread this peace 9 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:32,920 Islam guarantees several things 10 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:35,920 He urged its availability in the Muslim home 11 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:37,920 It is so 12 00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:38,920 Firstly 13 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:40,920 It is necessary for the couple to bond 14 00:00:40,920 --> 00:00:43,920 It must be based on mutual consent 15 00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:46,920 Neither of them should be forced to do so 16 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:48,920 Especially women 17 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:51,920 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 18 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:54,920 Do not have sex with a virgin until she asks for permission 19 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:57,920 Nor clothing until you ask for advice 20 00:00:57,920 --> 00:00:59,920 It was said, O Messenger of God 21 00:00:59,920 --> 00:01:01,920 So how? 22 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:02,920 He said 23 00:01:02,920 --> 00:01:04,920 If you keep quiet 24 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:06,920 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 25 00:01:06,920 --> 00:01:10,180 And so that satisfaction is real 26 00:01:10,180 --> 00:01:15,180 They must see each other before marriage 27 00:01:15,180 --> 00:01:17,180 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 28 00:01:17,180 --> 00:01:19,180 By Al-Mughirah bin Shu'bah 29 00:01:19,180 --> 00:01:21,180 When he wanted to get married 30 00:01:21,180 --> 00:01:23,180 Look at her 31 00:01:23,180 --> 00:01:26,180 It is better for it to last between you 32 00:01:26,180 --> 00:01:30,180 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi, Al-Nasa’i and Ahmad 33 00:01:30,180 --> 00:01:32,180 It was authenticated by Al-Albani 34 00:01:32,180 --> 00:01:34,400 Secondly 35 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:38,400 There must also be publicity and testimony in marriage 36 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:41,400 It is not done in secret as if it were a crime 37 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:44,400 It also occurs in temporary marriage 38 00:01:44,400 --> 00:01:48,400 There must be an explicit offer and acceptance 39 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:50,400 Witnesses bear witness to them 40 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:55,400 So that there is no doubt about the reality of this connection 41 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:56,590 Third 42 00:01:56,590 --> 00:02:01,590 Likewise, in marriage, there must be an intention to perpetuate the marriage 43 00:02:01,590 --> 00:02:04,590 So that it is not a fun marriage 44 00:02:04,590 --> 00:02:09,590 Its purpose is not to create a Muslim family and a Muslim home 45 00:02:09,590 --> 00:02:10,849 Fourth 46 00:02:10,849 --> 00:02:16,849 Islam emphasizes the concept of accommodation, affection and mercy between spouses 47 00:02:16,849 --> 00:02:18,939 Fifth 48 00:02:18,939 --> 00:02:23,939 The man was assigned the right of guardianship so that he could manage this partnership 49 00:02:23,939 --> 00:02:26,099 VI 50 00:02:26,099 --> 00:02:31,099 Make the woman's main job to take care of her husband's house 51 00:02:31,099 --> 00:02:33,139 Seventh 52 00:02:33,139 --> 00:02:36,139 Islam forbids adornment and mingling 53 00:02:36,139 --> 00:02:41,139 So that no strife occurs between women and men 54 00:02:41,139 --> 00:02:46,139 These include married women or married men 55 00:02:46,139 --> 00:02:50,139 If they meet with so-called co-workers 56 00:02:50,139 --> 00:02:53,139 Of the opposite sex for both of them 57 00:02:53,139 --> 00:02:59,139 The man finds his so-called female co-worker elegant, adorned and adorned 58 00:02:59,139 --> 00:03:05,139 He does not see her as she really is in her home as he sees his wife 59 00:03:05,139 --> 00:03:08,139 God Almighty said to women 60 00:03:08,139 --> 00:03:12,139 And do not display yourselves like the display of pre-Islamic times 61 00:03:12,139 --> 00:03:14,139 He ordered them to wear the hijab 62 00:03:14,139 --> 00:03:18,139 Both men and women were ordered to turn a blind eye 63 00:03:18,139 --> 00:03:21,139 To prevent strife between them 64 00:03:21,139 --> 00:03:23,139 And in return 65 00:03:23,139 --> 00:03:27,139 A woman should adorn herself in her home for her husband 66 00:03:27,139 --> 00:03:29,139 She does not neglect herself 67 00:03:29,139 --> 00:03:31,139 To protect her husband 68 00:03:31,139 --> 00:03:34,139 In order not to be alienated from it and look at others 69 00:03:34,139 --> 00:03:37,139 Outside the family project for him 70 00:03:37,139 --> 00:03:39,550 Eighth 71 00:03:39,550 --> 00:03:41,550 Sharia law makes homes inviolable 72 00:03:41,550 --> 00:03:44,550 Permission must be sought before entering 73 00:03:44,550 --> 00:03:46,550 God Almighty said 74 00:03:46,550 --> 00:03:51,550 O you who have believed, do not enter houses other than your own 75 00:03:51,550 --> 00:03:55,550 Until you feel comfortable and greet its people 76 00:03:55,550 --> 00:03:59,550 That is better for you, so that you may remember 77 00:03:59,550 --> 00:04:01,740 Ninth 78 00:04:01,740 --> 00:04:03,740 He forbade spying on homes 79 00:04:03,740 --> 00:04:07,740 And to see what is inside her 80 00:04:07,740 --> 00:04:08,740 God Almighty said 81 00:04:08,740 --> 00:04:10,740 And do not spy 82 00:04:10,740 --> 00:04:13,740 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 83 00:04:13,740 --> 00:04:16,740 Whoever looks into people's homes without their permission 84 00:04:16,740 --> 00:04:18,740 So they gouged out his eye 85 00:04:18,740 --> 00:04:20,740 His eye wasted 86 00:04:20,740 --> 00:04:22,740 Narrated by Abu Dawood 87 00:04:22,740 --> 00:04:24,740 It was authenticated by Al-Albani 88 00:04:24,740 --> 00:04:26,939 Tenth 89 00:04:26,939 --> 00:04:28,939 He ordered the preservation of private parts 90 00:04:28,939 --> 00:04:30,939 Even between members of the same family 91 00:04:30,939 --> 00:04:32,939 Even if they were children 92 00:04:32,939 --> 00:04:34,939 And he was no exception to that 93 00:04:34,939 --> 00:04:37,939 Except the spouses between each other 94 00:04:37,939 --> 00:04:40,029 God Almighty said 95 00:04:40,029 --> 00:04:42,029 O you who believe 96 00:04:42,029 --> 00:04:45,029 Let those whom your right hands possess permit you 97 00:04:45,029 --> 00:04:50,029 And those of you who have not reached the dream three times 98 00:04:50,029 --> 00:04:52,029 Before dawn prayer 99 00:04:52,029 --> 00:04:56,029 And when you put on your clothes at noon 100 00:04:56,029 --> 00:04:59,029 And after the evening prayer 101 00:04:59,029 --> 00:05:01,029 Three private parts for you 102 00:05:01,029 --> 00:05:06,029 There is no blame on you or them after them 103 00:05:06,029 --> 00:05:10,029 You are all over each other 104 00:05:10,029 --> 00:05:13,029 Thus God makes clear to you the signs 105 00:05:13,029 --> 00:05:16,029 And God is All-Knowing, All-Wise 106 00:05:16,029 --> 00:05:19,029 And if your children reach the dream 107 00:05:19,029 --> 00:05:24,029 Let them ask permission as those before them asked permission 108 00:05:24,029 --> 00:05:27,029 Thus God makes His signs clear to you 109 00:05:27,029 --> 00:05:30,029 And God is All-Knowing, All-Wise 110 00:05:30,029 --> 00:05:32,189 Eleventh 111 00:05:32,189 --> 00:05:34,189 He commanded justice between wives 112 00:05:34,189 --> 00:05:38,189 So that the wife can live safe from injustice 113 00:05:38,189 --> 00:05:43,189 Justice between children also applies to gifts and other things 114 00:05:43,189 --> 00:05:46,189 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 115 00:05:46,189 --> 00:05:49,189 So fear God and be fair among your children 116 00:05:49,189 --> 00:05:51,189 Agreed 117 00:05:51,189 --> 00:05:53,290 twelfth 118 00:05:53,290 --> 00:05:58,290 Even a divorce that appears to be a sign of peace in the family 119 00:05:58,290 --> 00:06:01,290 In reality, it is security and peace 120 00:06:01,290 --> 00:06:04,290 When it is impossible to live together between spouses 121 00:06:04,290 --> 00:06:09,290 The children were negatively affected by this crisis 122 00:06:09,290 --> 00:06:14,290 However, this divorce is required in order for it to be safe and sound 123 00:06:14,290 --> 00:06:18,290 In conducting it, it must adhere to the Sharia rulings 124 00:06:18,290 --> 00:06:23,290 It should be the last remedy after attempts at reconciliation between the two parties 125 00:06:23,290 --> 00:06:29,290 And send an arbitrator from each party to try to reconcile them 126 00:06:29,290 --> 00:06:31,290 If he doesn't find it at last 127 00:06:31,290 --> 00:06:33,290 Then there is a need for divorce 128 00:06:33,290 --> 00:06:37,290 Taking into account what is known between the two parties and their families 129 00:06:37,290 --> 00:06:39,319 thirteenth 130 00:06:39,319 --> 00:06:45,319 It is more important than all of the above to achieve the security and safety of the Muslim home 131 00:06:45,319 --> 00:06:50,319 Maintaining the security of faith and good morals for family members 132 00:06:50,319 --> 00:06:56,319 He commanded them to obey God and protect themselves from the causes of punishment in this world and the hereafter 133 00:06:56,319 --> 00:06:58,379 God Almighty said 134 00:06:58,379 --> 00:07:07,379 O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a fire whose fuel is people and stones