Summary of Sunni concepts
Home and family security
Islam aims to spread peace in the home
At the same time, he turns to the individual conscience
And to the human community
They are all interconnected links
There is interconnection and communication between them
And to spread this peace
Islam guarantees several things
He urged its availability in the Muslim home
It is so
Firstly
It is necessary for the couple to bond
It must be based on mutual consent
Neither of them should be forced to do so
Especially women
He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Do not have sex with a virgin until she asks for permission
Nor clothing until you ask for advice
It was said, O Messenger of God
So how?
He said
If you keep quiet
Narrated by Al-Bukhari
And so that satisfaction is real
They must see each other before marriage
He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
By Al-Mughirah bin Shu'bah
When he wanted to get married
Look at her
It is better for it to last between you
Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi, Al-Nasa’i and Ahmad
It was authenticated by Al-Albani
Secondly
There must also be publicity and testimony in marriage
It is not done in secret as if it were a crime
It also occurs in temporary marriage
There must be an explicit offer and acceptance
Witnesses bear witness to them
So that there is no doubt about the reality of this connection
Third
Likewise, in marriage, there must be an intention to perpetuate the marriage
So that it is not a fun marriage
Its purpose is not to create a Muslim family and a Muslim home
Fourth
Islam emphasizes the concept of accommodation, affection and mercy between spouses
Fifth
The man was assigned the right of guardianship so that he could manage this partnership
VI
Make the woman's main job to take care of her husband's house
Seventh
Islam forbids adornment and mingling
So that no strife occurs between women and men
These include married women or married men
If they meet with so-called co-workers
Of the opposite sex for both of them
The man finds his so-called female co-worker elegant, adorned and adorned
He does not see her as she really is in her home as he sees his wife
God Almighty said to women
And do not display yourselves like the display of pre-Islamic times
He ordered them to wear the hijab
Both men and women were ordered to turn a blind eye
To prevent strife between them
And in return
A woman should adorn herself in her home for her husband
She does not neglect herself
To protect her husband
In order not to be alienated from it and look at others
Outside the family project for him
Eighth
Sharia law makes homes inviolable
Permission must be sought before entering
God Almighty said
O you who have believed, do not enter houses other than your own
Until you feel comfortable and greet its people
That is better for you, so that you may remember
Ninth
He forbade spying on homes
And to see what is inside her
God Almighty said
And do not spy
He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Whoever looks into people's homes without their permission
So they gouged out his eye
His eye wasted
Narrated by Abu Dawood
It was authenticated by Al-Albani
Tenth
He ordered the preservation of private parts
Even between members of the same family
Even if they were children
And he was no exception to that
Except the spouses between each other
God Almighty said
O you who believe!
Let those whom your right hands possess permit you
And those of you who have not reached the dream three times
Before dawn prayer
And when you put on your clothes at noon
And after the evening prayer
Three private parts for you
There is no blame on you or them after them
You are all over each other
Thus God makes clear to you the signs
And God is All-Knowing, All-Wise
And if your children reach the dream
Let them ask permission as those before them asked permission
Thus God makes His signs clear to you
And God is All-Knowing, All-Wise
Eleventh
He commanded justice between wives
So that the wife can live safe from injustice
Justice between children also applies to gifts and other things
He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
So fear God and be fair among your children
Agreed
twelfth
Even a divorce that appears to be a sign of peace in the family
In reality, it is security and peace
When it is impossible to live together between spouses
The children were negatively affected by this crisis
However, this divorce is required in order for it to be safe and sound
In conducting it, it must adhere to the Sharia rulings
It should be the last remedy after attempts at reconciliation between the two parties
And send an arbitrator from each party to try to reconcile them
If he doesn't find it at last
Then there is a need for divorce
Taking into account what is known between the two parties and their families
thirteenth
It is more important than all of the above to achieve the security and safety of the Muslim home
Maintaining the security of faith and good morals for family members
He commanded them to obey God and protect themselves from the causes of punishment in this world and the hereafter
God Almighty said
O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a fire whose fuel is people and stones