WEBVTT 00:00:00.180 --> 00:00:08.929 Summary of Sunni concepts 00:00:08.929 --> 00:00:10.929 Home and family security 00:00:10.929 --> 00:00:15.919 Islam aims to spread peace in the home 00:00:15.919 --> 00:00:19.920 At the same time, he turns to the individual conscience 00:00:19.920 --> 00:00:22.920 And to the human community 00:00:22.920 --> 00:00:24.920 They are all interconnected links 00:00:24.920 --> 00:00:27.920 There is interconnection and communication between them 00:00:27.920 --> 00:00:30.920 And to spread this peace 00:00:30.920 --> 00:00:32.920 Islam guarantees several things 00:00:32.920 --> 00:00:35.920 He urged its availability in the Muslim home 00:00:35.920 --> 00:00:37.920 It is so 00:00:37.920 --> 00:00:38.920 Firstly 00:00:38.920 --> 00:00:40.920 It is necessary for the couple to bond 00:00:40.920 --> 00:00:43.920 It must be based on mutual consent 00:00:43.920 --> 00:00:46.920 Neither of them should be forced to do so 00:00:46.920 --> 00:00:48.920 Especially women 00:00:48.920 --> 00:00:51.920 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:00:51.920 --> 00:00:54.920 Do not have sex with a virgin until she asks for permission 00:00:54.920 --> 00:00:57.920 Nor clothing until you ask for advice 00:00:57.920 --> 00:00:59.920 It was said, O Messenger of God 00:00:59.920 --> 00:01:01.920 So how? 00:01:01.920 --> 00:01:02.920 He said 00:01:02.920 --> 00:01:04.920 If you keep quiet 00:01:04.920 --> 00:01:06.920 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 00:01:06.920 --> 00:01:10.180 And so that satisfaction is real 00:01:10.180 --> 00:01:15.180 They must see each other before marriage 00:01:15.180 --> 00:01:17.180 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:01:17.180 --> 00:01:19.180 By Al-Mughirah bin Shu'bah 00:01:19.180 --> 00:01:21.180 When he wanted to get married 00:01:21.180 --> 00:01:23.180 Look at her 00:01:23.180 --> 00:01:26.180 It is better for it to last between you 00:01:26.180 --> 00:01:30.180 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi, Al-Nasa’i and Ahmad 00:01:30.180 --> 00:01:32.180 It was authenticated by Al-Albani 00:01:32.180 --> 00:01:34.400 Secondly 00:01:34.400 --> 00:01:38.400 There must also be publicity and testimony in marriage 00:01:38.400 --> 00:01:41.400 It is not done in secret as if it were a crime 00:01:41.400 --> 00:01:44.400 It also occurs in temporary marriage 00:01:44.400 --> 00:01:48.400 There must be an explicit offer and acceptance 00:01:48.400 --> 00:01:50.400 Witnesses bear witness to them 00:01:50.400 --> 00:01:55.400 So that there is no doubt about the reality of this connection 00:01:55.400 --> 00:01:56.590 Third 00:01:56.590 --> 00:02:01.590 Likewise, in marriage, there must be an intention to perpetuate the marriage 00:02:01.590 --> 00:02:04.590 So that it is not a fun marriage 00:02:04.590 --> 00:02:09.590 Its purpose is not to create a Muslim family and a Muslim home 00:02:09.590 --> 00:02:10.849 Fourth 00:02:10.849 --> 00:02:16.849 Islam emphasizes the concept of accommodation, affection and mercy between spouses 00:02:16.849 --> 00:02:18.939 Fifth 00:02:18.939 --> 00:02:23.939 The man was assigned the right of guardianship so that he could manage this partnership 00:02:23.939 --> 00:02:26.099 VI 00:02:26.099 --> 00:02:31.099 Make the woman's main job to take care of her husband's house 00:02:31.099 --> 00:02:33.139 Seventh 00:02:33.139 --> 00:02:36.139 Islam forbids adornment and mingling 00:02:36.139 --> 00:02:41.139 So that no strife occurs between women and men 00:02:41.139 --> 00:02:46.139 These include married women or married men 00:02:46.139 --> 00:02:50.139 If they meet with so-called co-workers 00:02:50.139 --> 00:02:53.139 Of the opposite sex for both of them 00:02:53.139 --> 00:02:59.139 The man finds his so-called female co-worker elegant, adorned and adorned 00:02:59.139 --> 00:03:05.139 He does not see her as she really is in her home as he sees his wife 00:03:05.139 --> 00:03:08.139 God Almighty said to women 00:03:08.139 --> 00:03:12.139 And do not display yourselves like the display of pre-Islamic times 00:03:12.139 --> 00:03:14.139 He ordered them to wear the hijab 00:03:14.139 --> 00:03:18.139 Both men and women were ordered to turn a blind eye 00:03:18.139 --> 00:03:21.139 To prevent strife between them 00:03:21.139 --> 00:03:23.139 And in return 00:03:23.139 --> 00:03:27.139 A woman should adorn herself in her home for her husband 00:03:27.139 --> 00:03:29.139 She does not neglect herself 00:03:29.139 --> 00:03:31.139 To protect her husband 00:03:31.139 --> 00:03:34.139 In order not to be alienated from it and look at others 00:03:34.139 --> 00:03:37.139 Outside the family project for him 00:03:37.139 --> 00:03:39.550 Eighth 00:03:39.550 --> 00:03:41.550 Sharia law makes homes inviolable 00:03:41.550 --> 00:03:44.550 Permission must be sought before entering 00:03:44.550 --> 00:03:46.550 God Almighty said 00:03:46.550 --> 00:03:51.550 O you who have believed, do not enter houses other than your own 00:03:51.550 --> 00:03:55.550 Until you feel comfortable and greet its people 00:03:55.550 --> 00:03:59.550 That is better for you, so that you may remember 00:03:59.550 --> 00:04:01.740 Ninth 00:04:01.740 --> 00:04:03.740 He forbade spying on homes 00:04:03.740 --> 00:04:07.740 And to see what is inside her 00:04:07.740 --> 00:04:08.740 God Almighty said 00:04:08.740 --> 00:04:10.740 And do not spy 00:04:10.740 --> 00:04:13.740 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:04:13.740 --> 00:04:16.740 Whoever looks into people's homes without their permission 00:04:16.740 --> 00:04:18.740 So they gouged out his eye 00:04:18.740 --> 00:04:20.740 His eye wasted 00:04:20.740 --> 00:04:22.740 Narrated by Abu Dawood 00:04:22.740 --> 00:04:24.740 It was authenticated by Al-Albani 00:04:24.740 --> 00:04:26.939 Tenth 00:04:26.939 --> 00:04:28.939 He ordered the preservation of private parts 00:04:28.939 --> 00:04:30.939 Even between members of the same family 00:04:30.939 --> 00:04:32.939 Even if they were children 00:04:32.939 --> 00:04:34.939 And he was no exception to that 00:04:34.939 --> 00:04:37.939 Except the spouses between each other 00:04:37.939 --> 00:04:40.029 God Almighty said 00:04:40.029 --> 00:04:42.029 O you who believe 00:04:42.029 --> 00:04:45.029 Let those whom your right hands possess permit you 00:04:45.029 --> 00:04:50.029 And those of you who have not reached the dream three times 00:04:50.029 --> 00:04:52.029 Before dawn prayer 00:04:52.029 --> 00:04:56.029 And when you put on your clothes at noon 00:04:56.029 --> 00:04:59.029 And after the evening prayer 00:04:59.029 --> 00:05:01.029 Three private parts for you 00:05:01.029 --> 00:05:06.029 There is no blame on you or them after them 00:05:06.029 --> 00:05:10.029 You are all over each other 00:05:10.029 --> 00:05:13.029 Thus God makes clear to you the signs 00:05:13.029 --> 00:05:16.029 And God is All-Knowing, All-Wise 00:05:16.029 --> 00:05:19.029 And if your children reach the dream 00:05:19.029 --> 00:05:24.029 Let them ask permission as those before them asked permission 00:05:24.029 --> 00:05:27.029 Thus God makes His signs clear to you 00:05:27.029 --> 00:05:30.029 And God is All-Knowing, All-Wise 00:05:30.029 --> 00:05:32.189 Eleventh 00:05:32.189 --> 00:05:34.189 He commanded justice between wives 00:05:34.189 --> 00:05:38.189 So that the wife can live safe from injustice 00:05:38.189 --> 00:05:43.189 Justice between children also applies to gifts and other things 00:05:43.189 --> 00:05:46.189 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:05:46.189 --> 00:05:49.189 So fear God and be fair among your children 00:05:49.189 --> 00:05:51.189 Agreed 00:05:51.189 --> 00:05:53.290 twelfth 00:05:53.290 --> 00:05:58.290 Even a divorce that appears to be a sign of peace in the family 00:05:58.290 --> 00:06:01.290 In reality, it is security and peace 00:06:01.290 --> 00:06:04.290 When it is impossible to live together between spouses 00:06:04.290 --> 00:06:09.290 The children were negatively affected by this crisis 00:06:09.290 --> 00:06:14.290 However, this divorce is required in order for it to be safe and sound 00:06:14.290 --> 00:06:18.290 In conducting it, it must adhere to the Sharia rulings 00:06:18.290 --> 00:06:23.290 It should be the last remedy after attempts at reconciliation between the two parties 00:06:23.290 --> 00:06:29.290 And send an arbitrator from each party to try to reconcile them 00:06:29.290 --> 00:06:31.290 If he doesn't find it at last 00:06:31.290 --> 00:06:33.290 Then there is a need for divorce 00:06:33.290 --> 00:06:37.290 Taking into account what is known between the two parties and their families 00:06:37.290 --> 00:06:39.319 thirteenth 00:06:39.319 --> 00:06:45.319 It is more important than all of the above to achieve the security and safety of the Muslim home 00:06:45.319 --> 00:06:50.319 Maintaining the security of faith and good morals for family members 00:06:50.319 --> 00:06:56.319 He commanded them to obey God and protect themselves from the causes of punishment in this world and the hereafter 00:06:56.319 --> 00:06:58.379 God Almighty said 00:06:58.379 --> 00:07:07.379 O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a fire whose fuel is people and stones