Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her
Oh Aisha
Pray in stone
It is a piece of the house
When we talk about beauty in dealing with people
We cannot describe the beauty of how the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, dealt with his wives
Especially Aisha, may God be pleased with her
He describes Jaber bin Abdullah, may God be pleased with him
The creation of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
And the way he dealt with Aisha
And he says
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, was an easy-going man
If the identity of a thing depends on it
Narrated by Muslim
Thus, a man and his wives should be members of his household
From wives, daughters and sisters
He easily follows his family in what they want
Unless it is a sin
This is part of good treatment with women
This behavior is required at all times when dealing with women
But it is required when traveling more
So that a woman does not suffer from the hardship of traveling with the hardship of a man
It is an example of the behavior of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
With Aisha, may God be pleased with her
What happened to her while she was in Mecca?
With the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
From her desire to pray inside the Kaaba
How did you treat the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace?
With this desire
Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says
I loved to enter the house and pray there
So the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, took my hand
So he brought me into the quarantine
And he said
Oh Aisha
When your people built the Kaaba
They fell short
So they took the stone out of the house
If you want to pray at home, pray in quarantine
It is a piece of the house
Narrated by Ibn Khuzaymah
Aisha's desire was to pray inside the Kaaba
As the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, and some of the Companions did
She expressed this desire to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
He did not object to her desire or prevent her
Rather, he strived to achieve it
Even if it is not in the image you requested
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, justified to Aisha what he would do to fulfill her desire
To understand why it did not come with the image you wanted
He said to her
Oh Aisha
When your people built the Kaaba
They fell short
So they took the stone out of the house
This justification and clarification is very important in dealing with the wife
So as not to hold the husband’s behavior in the worst light
Do not open the door for Satan to whisper evil to her
Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, guided her on how to pray inside the Kaaba
He said to her
If you want to pray at home
Pray in the stone
It is a piece of the house
This is a great opening for the nation deprived of entering the Kaaba
To pray inside the Kaaba by praying in the stone
Anytime she wants
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
He did not prevent Aisha from fulfilling her desire
He apologizes to her that the house is closed
You cannot enter it, especially at the hour you requested
Rather, he sought to find a legitimate solution that would fulfill this desire
This event
Aisha, may God be pleased with her, used it to dialogue with the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
To know more details about the story of the construction of the Sacred House
And she said
I asked the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, about walls
Home security is?
He said yes
I said
What is theirs that they did not bring into the house?
He said
Your people have neglected to provide for him
I said
What about his high door?
He said
So let your people enter it whoever they want and deny it whoever they want
If your people were not new to ignorance
I fear that their hearts will deny me entering the walls into the house
And to stick his door to the ground
Narrated by Al-Bukhari
This is Aisha's style of dialogue, may God be pleased with her
He is the one who enabled her to acquire knowledge and excel in it
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, told her about the details of building the house in the days of the Quraysh
And the reason they built it like this
Firstly, he explained that the house was not built completely on the principles of Abraham
But it is smaller than it in terms of stone
The reason for this shortage
The Quraysh at that time did not have halal money
Who is not mixed with usury or gambling
Enough to build a house on the rules of Abraham
This means that they associate themselves with God
They were evacuating the Sacred House from serving it with illicit money
The victim of usury or anything else
Because the Quraysh were in control of the Sacred House at that time
It changed the character of the building of the Kaaba and diminished it
The Arabs as a whole were unable to object to the Quraysh at that time
Then when I asked Aisha about the secret of the house’s height above the ground
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, explained to her the reason
That is, the Quraysh wanted to control who entered the house
People cannot enter it without her permission
This control is not intended to protect the house from the tyrants and arrogant people entering it
Rather, it was intended merely to control and oppress the general public
They open it to whoever wants, even if he is one of the most immoral people
And they prevent him from whomever he wants, even if he is one of the most pious people
And they continued this act
Until people became convinced that this was the truth
And everything else is falsehood
Therefore, the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, refrained from rebuilding the house on the principles of Abraham
And stick the door of the house to the ground
And to make the house two doors
An eastern door and a western door
Let people enter through one door and exit through the other
Because of the wrong image in people's hearts
Which was built by the Quraish by distorting the character of the building of the Sacred House
God made the Sacred House a place of residence for all people
Not for Quraysh
But it was domineering over the Arabs
So it sets for them the legislation it wants according to its whims
In order to allow them to visit the Grand Mosque
This is the wish that the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, had
We would not have known this had it not been for God inspiring Aisha to engage in dialogue with the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
So he declares it
Many rulings are based on it
You will find it mentioned extensively in scholars’ explanations of the hadith
May God be pleased with our mother Aisha
Which caused her desire to pray inside the house
By opening a door for Muslims throughout the ages
Through it they can pray inside the Kaaba
Even if the laws of Quraysh remained until the Day of Resurrection
This is one of the blessings of Aisha and the family of Abu Bakr on the nation
We ask God to grant us her love and the love of the Abu Bakr family
And may He grant us reassurance to visit the Sacred House, Amen
We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds