In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
The story of Maryam, Imran’s daughter
Peace be upon him
Friendly Mary
Mary rose through the ranks of faith
Until I reached the rank of friend
God Almighty said
Christ, son of Mary, is nothing but a messenger
The messengers had passed away before him
His mother is a friend
They were eating food
See how noble His verses are to them
Then see I'm being fooled
Ibn Taymiyyah, may God have mercy on him, said
So he made the goal of Maryam Al-Siddiqiyyah
He also made the goal of Christ the message
Ibn Katheer, may God have mercy on him, said
And he said
His mother is a friend
That is, she believes in him and believes in him
This is its highest status
This indicates that she is not his prophet
Truthfulness is a rank that is only surpassed by the rank of prophethood
As God Almighty said
And whoever obeys God and the Messenger
Those are with those upon whom God has bestowed blessings
Of the prophets and the truthful ones
And the martyrs and the righteous
And those are good companions
Then he attained the rank of friendliness
Immediately after the rank of prophecy
Friendship is the perfection of faith
What the Messenger brought
Knowledge, belief and standing
It is due to the same science
Everyone knew better
What the Messenger brought
And complete his belief
He was the perfect friend
Truthfulness is a tree whose origins are science
And its branches are certification
Its fruit is work
Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said
Friendship is useful knowledge
Fruitful for certainty and good deeds
And between our Lord Almighty
The path that Mary took
Until I reached the level of friendliness
It is believing the word of God without doubt
And believing in the revealed books
Continuing obedience and worship
God Almighty said
And Mary is the daughter of Imran, who
She strengthened her vagina
So we breathed into him of our spirit
She believed the words of her Lord
And he wrote it
She was one of the obedient ones
Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said
This describes her as science and knowledge
Believing in the words of God
It includes his religious and fatalistic lyrics
And believe his books
It requires knowledge of what is required for certification
This can only be achieved through knowledge and work
That's why he said
She was one of the obedient ones
That is, those who are obedient to God
Those who continue to obey Him with fear and reverence
This is a description of her perfect work
She, may God be pleased with her, is a friend
Friendship is the perfection of knowledge and work
The rank of friendliness is available to all men and women who follow her path
She became famous in this nation
Mother of the Believers Aisha, may God be pleased with her
The friend is the friend's daughter
Every girl and woman wants to follow Mary, peace be upon him
She follows the path she took to achieve the rank of friend
She has to do these things
Firstly
Knowledge of what the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace, brought
From what God revealed to him from the Qur’an
It is the purified Sunnah
This requires the woman to read the Qur’an
And you understand its meanings
Even if it is a short interpretation book
Like Al-Saadi’s interpretation
Or the Qur’an contemplate and act
Both are available online
She also needs to read the hadiths of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
It is the practical application of the Qur’an
And prophetic guidance for the nation
Especially
Hadiths in which the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, addressed women
Among the suggested books
The book of Riyadh Al-Salehin by Al-Nawawi
And the book of encouragement and intimidation by Al-Mundhiri
And the book explaining the woman’s mayor
Secondly
Believing and being certain about what the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, brought
This is a matter of my heart
The woman knows it from herself
Its sign is that if she hears a legal text from the Book of God
Or the Sunnah of His Messenger
Oppose what you like
She did not object to him with her mind or opinion
She did not search for opinions that agreed with her
But it was delivered freely without objection
Third
Work according to this knowledge
It is the fruit
This is what changes the lives of girls and women
It moves her from darkness to light
From misery to happiness that only those who have tasted it know
Fourth
Continuing obedience and worship
This persistence is a sign of stability
Especially in the age of girls
Fifth
Commitment to honesty in words, actions and circumstances
Ibn al-Qayyim, may God have mercy on him, said
He who came with honesty
It is his business to be honest in his words, actions, and condition
Honesty is in these three
Honesty is in words
The tongue is equal to the words
Like the flatness of a spike on its stem
And honesty in business
The verbs are equal to the command and the follower
Like the head being flat on the body
And honesty in circumstances
The actions of the heart and limbs are equal to sincerity
Exhausting effort and expending energy
Thus, the servant is one of those who bring truth
According to the perfection of these things in him and their fulfillment, she will be his friend
Therefore, Abu Bakr Al-Siddiqi had the peak of the hump of Al-Siddiqi, so he was named Al-Siddiqi at all
A friend is more eloquent than the truthful, and the truthful is more eloquent than the truthful
The highest level of honesty is the level of truthfulness, which is perfect leadership of the Messenger along with perfect loyalty to the Messenger
A woman must beware of the corruption of her faith by listening to those in whose hearts there is a disease
Those who raise suspicions and those who invite desires, God Almighty said
It is He who sent down to you the Book, some of which are decisive verses that are the mother of the Book, and others that are allegorical
As for those in whose hearts there is deviation, they follow that which is similar, seeking temptation
And seeking its interpretation, and none knows its interpretation except God
And those who are well-grounded in knowledge say, “We believe in it, it is all from our Lord,” and only the minds remember
Our Lord, do not let our hearts deviate after You have guided us, and grant us mercy from You. Indeed, You are the Giver.
My advice to every girl and woman who seeks high ranks with God is to investigate who she listens to or reads to
Today's means of communication are filled with those with lusts and suspicions who address women with sweet words to spread their suspicions and drag her into their desires.
God Almighty said
God wants to make clear to you and guide you to the traditions of those before you and to turn toward you. And God is All-Knowing, All-Wise
And God wants to turn to you in repentance, and those who follow desires want you to lean greatly
God wants to lighten your burden and He created man weak
The most dangerous tendency that a woman has because of them is her denial or doubt about the texts of Islamic law
Especially the Prophetic hadiths related to women, about which suspicions are often raised
This tendency affects the heart and deprives it of the pleasure of faith and obedience
How can a girl and woman then reach the status of a friend?
We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing, and praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds