1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:02,399 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 2 00:01:13,290 --> 00:01:15,290 There is nothing wrong with reproaching 3 00:01:15,290 --> 00:01:18,290 God Almighty says in His Holy Qur’an 4 00:01:18,290 --> 00:01:21,290 He admonished his Prophet with gentle reproach 5 00:01:21,290 --> 00:01:24,290 And the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 6 00:01:24,290 --> 00:01:26,290 He blamed his friends 7 00:01:26,290 --> 00:01:30,290 But there are some rules in reproach 8 00:01:30,290 --> 00:01:32,290 You must pay attention to it 9 00:01:32,290 --> 00:01:34,319 So they said 10 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:38,319 Excessive blame causes hostility and hatred 11 00:01:38,319 --> 00:01:42,319 Abandoning blame altogether causes estrangement 12 00:01:42,319 --> 00:01:44,349 It is like salt in food 13 00:01:44,349 --> 00:01:46,349 If it exceeds its limit 14 00:01:46,349 --> 00:01:48,349 If he turns to his opposite 15 00:01:48,349 --> 00:01:51,420 We have it in the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace 16 00:01:51,420 --> 00:01:53,420 A good example 17 00:01:53,420 --> 00:01:57,420 This is Anas bin Malik, may God be pleased with him 18 00:01:57,420 --> 00:02:00,420 The servant of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 19 00:02:00,420 --> 00:02:02,420 He says 20 00:02:02,420 --> 00:02:06,510 I served the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, for ten years 21 00:02:06,510 --> 00:02:09,509 He never said anything to me 22 00:02:09,509 --> 00:02:13,509 And he did not say to something I did, to what I did 23 00:02:13,509 --> 00:02:16,509 Nor for anything I left behind when I left him 24 00:02:16,509 --> 00:02:20,509 He was the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 25 00:02:20,509 --> 00:02:22,509 One of the best created people 26 00:02:22,509 --> 00:02:26,509 I have never touched any thread or silk 27 00:02:26,509 --> 00:02:32,509 Nothing was more automatic than the palm of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 28 00:02:32,509 --> 00:02:34,509 I have never smelled musk 29 00:02:34,509 --> 00:02:40,509 No perfume was better than the sweat of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 30 00:02:40,509 --> 00:02:44,539 Therefore, it is necessary to be gentle in reproaching 31 00:02:44,539 --> 00:02:46,539 Error cancelled 32 00:02:46,539 --> 00:02:48,539 Too much of it is wrong 33 00:02:48,539 --> 00:02:51,669 It is necessary to reproach 34 00:02:51,669 --> 00:02:55,669 To point out the mistake to the person you blame if he is wrong 35 00:02:55,669 --> 00:02:58,900 Another truth about reproach 36 00:02:58,900 --> 00:03:02,900 Do not ask others not to make mistakes 37 00:03:02,900 --> 00:03:05,960 On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him, he said: 38 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:08,960 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 39 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:10,960 Every human being makes mistakes 40 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:14,960 The best of sinners are those who repent 41 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:17,990 And if you want to blame your brother 42 00:03:17,990 --> 00:03:20,990 So use the kind word 43 00:03:20,990 --> 00:03:22,990 And kind words are acceptable 44 00:03:22,990 --> 00:03:25,990 A kind word is charity 45 00:03:25,990 --> 00:03:30,020 Blaming is an art that few people are good at 46 00:03:31,020 --> 00:03:35,020 Therefore, we find many friends and lovers 47 00:03:35,020 --> 00:03:39,020 They lose each other because of their ignorance of the art of reproach 48 00:03:39,020 --> 00:03:43,020 So establish a system of reproach between you and your brother 49 00:03:43,020 --> 00:03:46,020 A reason to strengthen the relationship with him 50 00:03:46,020 --> 00:03:49,020 Do not make it a reason for quarreling 51 00:03:49,020 --> 00:03:51,150 If you were blaming 52 00:03:51,150 --> 00:03:55,150 Because of the wonderful ways of Tabis, righteousness and goodness 53 00:03:55,150 --> 00:03:59,219 So be like the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace 54 00:03:59,219 --> 00:04:01,219 In reproach 55 00:04:01,219 --> 00:04:03,219 Leaf balm 56 00:04:03,219 --> 00:04:05,219 And education and compassion 57 00:04:05,219 --> 00:04:09,219 Honesty, forgiveness, appreciation and reverence 58 00:04:09,219 --> 00:04:13,219 How beautiful is admonition between lovers 59 00:04:13,219 --> 00:04:16,220 These are some of the rules of reproach 60 00:04:16,220 --> 00:04:20,220 You have to do it if you are blaming