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In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful

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There is nothing wrong with reproaching

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God Almighty says in His Holy Qur’an

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He admonished his Prophet with gentle reproach

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And the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace

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He blamed his friends

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But there are some rules in reproach

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You must pay attention to it

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So they said

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Excessive blame causes hostility and hatred

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Abandoning blame altogether causes estrangement

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It is like salt in food

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If it exceeds its limit

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If he turns to his opposite

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We have it in the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace

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A good example

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This is Anas bin Malik, may God be pleased with him

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The servant of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace

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He says

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I served the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, for ten years

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He never said anything to me

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And he did not say to something I did, to what I did

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Nor for anything I left behind when I left him

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He was the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace

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One of the best created people

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I have never touched any thread or silk

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Nothing was more automatic than the palm of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace

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I have never smelled musk

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No perfume was better than the sweat of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace

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Therefore, it is necessary to be gentle in reproaching

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Too much of it is wrong

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It is necessary to reproach

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To point out the mistake to the person you blame if he is wrong

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Another truth about reproach

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Do not ask others not to make mistakes

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On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him, he said:

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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said

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Every human being makes mistakes

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The best of sinners are those who repent

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And if you want to blame your brother

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So use the kind word

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And kind words are acceptable

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A kind word is charity

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Blaming is an art that few people are good at

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Therefore, we find many friends and lovers

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They lose each other because of their ignorance of the art of reproach

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So establish a system of reproach between you and your brother

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A reason to strengthen the relationship with him

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Do not make it a reason for quarreling

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If you were blaming

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Because of the wonderful ways of Tabis, righteousness and goodness

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So be like the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace

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In reproach

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Leaf balm

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And education and compassion

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Honesty, forgiveness, appreciation and reverence

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How beautiful is admonition between lovers

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These are some of the rules of reproach

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You have to do it if you are blaming