In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
There is nothing wrong with reproaching
God Almighty says in His Holy Qur’an
He admonished his Prophet with gentle reproach
And the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
He blamed his friends
But there are some rules in reproach
You must pay attention to it
So they said
Excessive blame causes hostility and hatred
Abandoning blame altogether causes estrangement
It is like salt in food
If it exceeds its limit
If he turns to his opposite
We have it in the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace
A good example
This is Anas bin Malik, may God be pleased with him
The servant of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
He says
I served the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, for ten years
He never said anything to me
And he did not say to something I did, to what I did
Nor for anything I left behind when I left him
He was the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
One of the best created people
I have never touched any thread or silk
Nothing was more automatic than the palm of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
I have never smelled musk
No perfume was better than the sweat of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
Therefore, it is necessary to be gentle in reproaching
Error cancelled
Too much of it is wrong
It is necessary to reproach
To point out the mistake to the person you blame if he is wrong
Another truth about reproach
Do not ask others not to make mistakes
On the authority of Anas, may God be pleased with him, he said:
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Every human being makes mistakes
The best of sinners are those who repent
And if you want to blame your brother
So use the kind word
And kind words are acceptable
A kind word is charity
Blaming is an art that few people are good at
Therefore, we find many friends and lovers
They lose each other because of their ignorance of the art of reproach
So establish a system of reproach between you and your brother
A reason to strengthen the relationship with him
Do not make it a reason for quarreling
If you were blaming
Because of the wonderful ways of Tabis, righteousness and goodness
So be like the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace
In reproach
Leaf balm
And education and compassion
Honesty, forgiveness, appreciation and reverence
How beautiful is admonition between lovers
These are some of the rules of reproach
You have to do it if you are blaming