1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,000 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 2 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:09,089 The story of Joseph, peace be upon him, with the wife of Al-Aziz 3 00:00:09,089 --> 00:00:14,259 God forbid, he said 4 00:00:14,259 --> 00:00:18,260 Surviving the temptations that afflict a Muslim’s faith 5 00:00:18,260 --> 00:00:21,260 It begins with restoration in God from it 6 00:00:21,260 --> 00:00:25,260 Then stay away from it and not be exposed to it 7 00:00:25,260 --> 00:00:31,489 Then deal with it through legal methods and prophetic advice 8 00:00:31,489 --> 00:00:35,490 The greatest temptation that passes through a man in this world 9 00:00:35,490 --> 00:00:37,490 It is the temptation of women 10 00:00:37,490 --> 00:00:42,490 As the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, told this 11 00:00:42,490 --> 00:00:46,490 This is the temptation that Joseph, peace be upon him, was exposed to 12 00:00:46,490 --> 00:00:49,490 In the dear's house with the dear's wife 13 00:00:49,490 --> 00:00:53,490 How did he deal with it and survive it? 14 00:00:53,490 --> 00:00:59,710 We must first agree that the temptation of women falls between two extremes 15 00:00:59,710 --> 00:01:01,710 Fascinating and fascinated 16 00:01:01,710 --> 00:01:03,710 Man and woman 17 00:01:03,710 --> 00:01:08,739 The danger comes from the woman’s infatuation with the man and her temptation for him 18 00:01:08,739 --> 00:01:13,870 The woman is greatly to blame for this temptation in two ways 19 00:01:13,870 --> 00:01:15,870 First side 20 00:01:15,870 --> 00:01:18,870 To cause temptation in men 21 00:01:18,870 --> 00:01:20,870 Intentionally or unintentionally 22 00:01:20,870 --> 00:01:27,870 This does not happen unless she exceeds the legal limits set by God 23 00:01:27,870 --> 00:01:34,900 A man will not be tempted by a woman who adheres to the limits of God and His law in her dress and movements 24 00:01:34,900 --> 00:01:37,900 Her adornment and her dealings with men 25 00:01:37,900 --> 00:01:44,900 Rather, a man is fascinated by a woman who has exceeded God’s limits in her clothing or adornment 26 00:01:44,900 --> 00:01:48,900 Or in her movements or in her dealings with men 27 00:01:48,900 --> 00:02:05,900 For this reason, God Almighty said, “Do not be submissive in speech, lest he in whose heart is a disease become greedy, but speak a kind word and remain in your homes, and do not display yourselves like the display of the pre-Islamic era.” 28 00:02:06,969 --> 00:02:13,969 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said there are two types of people in Hell whom I have not seen 29 00:02:13,969 --> 00:02:18,969 People with whips like cow tails, with which they beat people 30 00:02:18,969 --> 00:02:23,969 And women who are clothed, naked, leaning forward 31 00:02:23,969 --> 00:02:27,969 Their heads are like the inclined humps of a camel 32 00:02:27,969 --> 00:02:31,969 He will not enter us into Paradise nor find its comfort 33 00:02:31,969 --> 00:02:36,969 Its scent can be smelled from such and such a distance 34 00:02:36,969 --> 00:02:41,259 The dear woman crossed all these limits 35 00:02:41,259 --> 00:02:44,259 In terms of adornment and clothing 36 00:02:44,259 --> 00:02:48,259 And in terms of submission by speaking in explicit terms 37 00:02:48,259 --> 00:02:52,259 In terms of being alone and preparing the place 38 00:02:52,259 --> 00:02:58,259 This is considered one of the most powerful situations and images that fascinate a man with a woman 39 00:02:58,259 --> 00:03:03,419 These words are an example for every woman who wants truth and honesty with God 40 00:03:03,419 --> 00:03:06,419 To stay away from the temptations of men 41 00:03:06,419 --> 00:03:11,419 And to protect itself from bearing their burdens by causing them to fall into strife 42 00:03:11,419 --> 00:03:16,419 To be honest in working to abide by God’s limits in her clothing 43 00:03:16,419 --> 00:03:21,419 And her movements, her adornment, and her dealings with men 44 00:03:21,419 --> 00:03:24,419 And not to rely on what she claims in her heart 45 00:03:24,419 --> 00:03:28,419 Because she did not intend to charm men and attract their attention 46 00:03:28,419 --> 00:03:33,419 What matters is what you do, not what you claim inside 47 00:03:33,419 --> 00:03:37,610 The second aspect is her infatuation with the man 48 00:03:37,610 --> 00:03:42,610 It is a hidden matter that only God Almighty knows 49 00:03:42,610 --> 00:03:46,610 But evidence of that may appear 50 00:03:46,610 --> 00:03:49,610 Some people see it 51 00:03:49,610 --> 00:03:53,610 A woman's actions are evidence of what is inside her 52 00:03:53,610 --> 00:03:59,610 This will not happen to her unless she neglects to take care of her heart 53 00:03:59,610 --> 00:04:03,610 A sick heart is one that falls into temptation 54 00:04:03,610 --> 00:04:07,639 Therefore, God warned her against being submissive in her words 55 00:04:07,639 --> 00:04:09,639 Even if you didn't mean sedition 56 00:04:09,639 --> 00:04:14,639 Fearing that her submission would come across a sick heart and be tempted by him 57 00:04:14,639 --> 00:04:18,860 You, my sister, are responsible for protecting your heart 58 00:04:18,860 --> 00:04:22,860 From falling into temptations from the beginning 59 00:04:22,860 --> 00:04:24,860 So that your heart does not prevail 60 00:04:24,860 --> 00:04:29,860 After that, he will not know what is right or deny what is wrong 61 00:04:29,860 --> 00:04:33,899 As the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 62 00:04:33,899 --> 00:04:38,899 Temptations spread over hearts like mats, stick after stick 63 00:04:38,899 --> 00:04:43,899 Any heart that drinks it has a dark spot on it 64 00:04:43,899 --> 00:04:48,899 And any heart that denies it, there will be a white mark on it 65 00:04:48,899 --> 00:04:53,899 Until it becomes two hearts on white like Safa 66 00:04:53,899 --> 00:04:58,899 No temptation will harm him as long as the heavens and the earth exist 67 00:04:58,899 --> 00:05:02,930 The other is black, like a juicy cup 68 00:05:02,930 --> 00:05:06,930 He does not know what is good and does not deny what is wrong 69 00:05:06,930 --> 00:05:09,930 Except what I drink from my whims 70 00:05:09,930 --> 00:05:11,930 Narrated by Muslim 71 00:05:11,930 --> 00:05:16,220 We have in the story of the Prophet of God Joseph with the wife of the Mighty 72 00:05:16,220 --> 00:05:20,220 A good role model in dealing with the temptation of women 73 00:05:20,220 --> 00:05:24,220 Joseph, peace be upon him, took the first path 74 00:05:24,220 --> 00:05:26,220 In dealing with this strife 75 00:05:26,220 --> 00:05:29,220 By seeking refuge in God from it 76 00:05:29,220 --> 00:05:32,220 He said, God forbid 77 00:05:32,220 --> 00:05:37,279 That is, I seek refuge in God and seek refuge in Him from this temptation 78 00:05:37,279 --> 00:05:41,500 This act was from the Prophet of God, Joseph, peace be upon him 79 00:05:41,500 --> 00:05:44,500 It is the one to which our honorable Prophet guided us 80 00:05:44,500 --> 00:05:47,500 May God bless him and grant him peace, and he said 81 00:05:47,500 --> 00:05:50,500 Seek refuge in God from temptations 82 00:05:50,500 --> 00:05:53,500 What is apparent from it and what is hidden 83 00:05:53,500 --> 00:05:55,600 Narrated by Muslim 84 00:05:55,600 --> 00:05:59,600 Whenever a man or woman feels some kind of temptation 85 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:04,600 Let each one of them begin by seeking refuge in God from it 86 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:07,600 There is no protector from temptations except God 87 00:06:07,600 --> 00:06:11,600 Then he turns away from the source of strife and its practical causes 88 00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:16,600 Which got him into it or almost got him into it 89 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:20,759 If the temptation occurred because of conversation and correspondence 90 00:06:20,759 --> 00:06:23,759 Through modern means of communication 91 00:06:23,759 --> 00:06:26,759 It is necessary to leave it and stay away from it 92 00:06:26,759 --> 00:06:29,759 Even if you change the contact phone number 93 00:06:29,759 --> 00:06:33,759 Delete or block the other party's numbers 94 00:06:33,759 --> 00:06:36,819 Even if the sedition occurred because of... 95 00:06:36,819 --> 00:06:39,819 Direct mixing and friction 96 00:06:39,819 --> 00:06:42,819 In the field of work, study, or other 97 00:06:42,819 --> 00:06:45,819 You must leave that place 98 00:06:45,819 --> 00:06:48,819 If it is the matter of the heart, its protection and safety 99 00:06:48,819 --> 00:06:51,819 Of strife matters who falls into it 100 00:06:51,819 --> 00:06:54,819 Whether man or woman 101 00:06:54,819 --> 00:06:57,819 There is no point in making excuses with flimsy excuses 102 00:06:57,819 --> 00:07:00,819 To continue in the place of strife 103 00:07:00,819 --> 00:07:04,110 We have in the Prophet of God Joseph, peace be upon him 104 00:07:04,110 --> 00:07:07,110 A good example of his quick escape 105 00:07:07,110 --> 00:07:10,110 From the place of strife to the closed door 106 00:07:10,110 --> 00:07:13,110 To open it and exit it 107 00:07:13,110 --> 00:07:16,110 Maintaining his religion until God said about him 108 00:07:16,110 --> 00:07:19,110 He waited for the door and took off his shirt 109 00:07:19,110 --> 00:07:22,110 Who planned? 110 00:07:22,110 --> 00:07:25,110 He did not hesitate for a moment to save himself 111 00:07:25,110 --> 00:07:28,110 From this temptation and use all 112 00:07:28,110 --> 00:07:31,110 His strength in this escape and the previous one 113 00:07:31,110 --> 00:07:34,110 She even tried to catch him 114 00:07:35,110 --> 00:07:38,110 The shirt was torn from force 115 00:07:38,110 --> 00:07:41,110 Joseph, peace be upon him, rushed towards the door 116 00:07:41,110 --> 00:07:44,240 To escape from strife 117 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:47,240 Oh God, we seek refuge in You from temptations 118 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:50,240 What is apparent from it and what is hidden 119 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:53,240 Oh God, we seek refuge in You from 120 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:56,300 Women's temptation 121 00:07:56,300 --> 00:07:59,300 For the rest of the discussion, we will continue in a meeting 122 00:07:59,300 --> 00:08:03,199 Coming, God willing 123 00:08:03,199 --> 00:08:06,199 With my dear woman