In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
The story of Joseph, peace be upon him, with the wife of Al-Aziz
God forbid, he said
Surviving the temptations that afflict a Muslim’s faith
It begins with restoration in God from it
Then stay away from it and not be exposed to it
Then deal with it through legal methods and prophetic advice
The greatest temptation that passes through a man in this world
It is the temptation of women
As the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, told this
This is the temptation that Joseph, peace be upon him, was exposed to
In the dear's house with the dear's wife
How did he deal with it and survive it?
We must first agree that the temptation of women falls between two extremes
Fascinating and fascinated
Man and woman
The danger comes from the woman’s infatuation with the man and her temptation for him
The woman is greatly to blame for this temptation in two ways
First side
To cause temptation in men
Intentionally or unintentionally
This does not happen unless she exceeds the legal limits set by God
A man will not be tempted by a woman who adheres to the limits of God and His law in her dress and movements
Her adornment and her dealings with men
Rather, a man is fascinated by a woman who has exceeded God’s limits in her clothing or adornment
Or in her movements or in her dealings with men
For this reason, God Almighty said, “Do not be submissive in speech, lest he in whose heart is a disease become greedy, but speak a kind word and remain in your homes, and do not display yourselves like the display of the pre-Islamic era.”
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said there are two types of people in Hell whom I have not seen
People with whips like cow tails, with which they beat people
And women who are clothed, naked, leaning forward
Their heads are like the inclined humps of a camel
He will not enter us into Paradise nor find its comfort
Its scent can be smelled from such and such a distance
The dear woman crossed all these limits
In terms of adornment and clothing
And in terms of submission by speaking in explicit terms
In terms of being alone and preparing the place
This is considered one of the most powerful situations and images that fascinate a man with a woman
These words are an example for every woman who wants truth and honesty with God
To stay away from the temptations of men
And to protect itself from bearing their burdens by causing them to fall into strife
To be honest in working to abide by God’s limits in her clothing
And her movements, her adornment, and her dealings with men
And not to rely on what she claims in her heart
Because she did not intend to charm men and attract their attention
What matters is what you do, not what you claim inside
The second aspect is her infatuation with the man
It is a hidden matter that only God Almighty knows
But evidence of that may appear
Some people see it
A woman's actions are evidence of what is inside her
This will not happen to her unless she neglects to take care of her heart
A sick heart is one that falls into temptation
Therefore, God warned her against being submissive in her words
Even if you didn't mean sedition
Fearing that her submission would come across a sick heart and be tempted by him
You, my sister, are responsible for protecting your heart
From falling into temptations from the beginning
So that your heart does not prevail
After that, he will not know what is right or deny what is wrong
As the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Temptations spread over hearts like mats, stick after stick
Any heart that drinks it has a dark spot on it
And any heart that denies it, there will be a white mark on it
Until it becomes two hearts on white like Safa
No temptation will harm him as long as the heavens and the earth exist
The other is black, like a juicy cup
He does not know what is good and does not deny what is wrong
Except what I drink from my whims
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We have in the story of the Prophet of God Joseph with the wife of the Mighty
A good role model in dealing with the temptation of women
Joseph, peace be upon him, took the first path
In dealing with this strife
By seeking refuge in God from it
He said, God forbid
That is, I seek refuge in God and seek refuge in Him from this temptation
This act was from the Prophet of God, Joseph, peace be upon him
It is the one to which our honorable Prophet guided us
May God bless him and grant him peace, and he said
Seek refuge in God from temptations
What is apparent from it and what is hidden
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Whenever a man or woman feels some kind of temptation
Let each one of them begin by seeking refuge in God from it
There is no protector from temptations except God
Then he turns away from the source of strife and its practical causes
Which got him into it or almost got him into it
If the temptation occurred because of conversation and correspondence
Through modern means of communication
It is necessary to leave it and stay away from it
Even if you change the contact phone number
Delete or block the other party's numbers
Even if the sedition occurred because of...
Direct mixing and friction
In the field of work, study, or other
You must leave that place
If it is the matter of the heart, its protection and safety
Of strife matters who falls into it
Whether man or woman
There is no point in making excuses with flimsy excuses
To continue in the place of strife
We have in the Prophet of God Joseph, peace be upon him
A good example of his quick escape
From the place of strife to the closed door
To open it and exit it
Maintaining his religion until God said about him
He waited for the door and took off his shirt
Who planned?
He did not hesitate for a moment to save himself
From this temptation and use all
His strength in this escape and the previous one
She even tried to catch him
The shirt was torn from force
Joseph, peace be upon him, rushed towards the door
To escape from strife
Oh God, we seek refuge in You from temptations
What is apparent from it and what is hidden
Oh God, we seek refuge in You from
Women's temptation
For the rest of the discussion, we will continue in a meeting
Coming, God willing
With my dear woman