WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.000 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 00:00:03.000 --> 00:00:09.089 The story of Joseph, peace be upon him, with the wife of Al-Aziz 00:00:09.089 --> 00:00:14.259 God forbid, he said 00:00:14.259 --> 00:00:18.260 Surviving the temptations that afflict a Muslim’s faith 00:00:18.260 --> 00:00:21.260 It begins with restoration in God from it 00:00:21.260 --> 00:00:25.260 Then stay away from it and not be exposed to it 00:00:25.260 --> 00:00:31.489 Then deal with it through legal methods and prophetic advice 00:00:31.489 --> 00:00:35.490 The greatest temptation that passes through a man in this world 00:00:35.490 --> 00:00:37.490 It is the temptation of women 00:00:37.490 --> 00:00:42.490 As the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, told this 00:00:42.490 --> 00:00:46.490 This is the temptation that Joseph, peace be upon him, was exposed to 00:00:46.490 --> 00:00:49.490 In the dear's house with the dear's wife 00:00:49.490 --> 00:00:53.490 How did he deal with it and survive it? 00:00:53.490 --> 00:00:59.710 We must first agree that the temptation of women falls between two extremes 00:00:59.710 --> 00:01:01.710 Fascinating and fascinated 00:01:01.710 --> 00:01:03.710 Man and woman 00:01:03.710 --> 00:01:08.739 The danger comes from the woman’s infatuation with the man and her temptation for him 00:01:08.739 --> 00:01:13.870 The woman is greatly to blame for this temptation in two ways 00:01:13.870 --> 00:01:15.870 First side 00:01:15.870 --> 00:01:18.870 To cause temptation in men 00:01:18.870 --> 00:01:20.870 Intentionally or unintentionally 00:01:20.870 --> 00:01:27.870 This does not happen unless she exceeds the legal limits set by God 00:01:27.870 --> 00:01:34.900 A man will not be tempted by a woman who adheres to the limits of God and His law in her dress and movements 00:01:34.900 --> 00:01:37.900 Her adornment and her dealings with men 00:01:37.900 --> 00:01:44.900 Rather, a man is fascinated by a woman who has exceeded God’s limits in her clothing or adornment 00:01:44.900 --> 00:01:48.900 Or in her movements or in her dealings with men 00:01:48.900 --> 00:02:05.900 For this reason, God Almighty said, “Do not be submissive in speech, lest he in whose heart is a disease become greedy, but speak a kind word and remain in your homes, and do not display yourselves like the display of the pre-Islamic era.” 00:02:06.969 --> 00:02:13.969 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said there are two types of people in Hell whom I have not seen 00:02:13.969 --> 00:02:18.969 People with whips like cow tails, with which they beat people 00:02:18.969 --> 00:02:23.969 And women who are clothed, naked, leaning forward 00:02:23.969 --> 00:02:27.969 Their heads are like the inclined humps of a camel 00:02:27.969 --> 00:02:31.969 He will not enter us into Paradise nor find its comfort 00:02:31.969 --> 00:02:36.969 Its scent can be smelled from such and such a distance 00:02:36.969 --> 00:02:41.259 The dear woman crossed all these limits 00:02:41.259 --> 00:02:44.259 In terms of adornment and clothing 00:02:44.259 --> 00:02:48.259 And in terms of submission by speaking in explicit terms 00:02:48.259 --> 00:02:52.259 In terms of being alone and preparing the place 00:02:52.259 --> 00:02:58.259 This is considered one of the most powerful situations and images that fascinate a man with a woman 00:02:58.259 --> 00:03:03.419 These words are an example for every woman who wants truth and honesty with God 00:03:03.419 --> 00:03:06.419 To stay away from the temptations of men 00:03:06.419 --> 00:03:11.419 And to protect itself from bearing their burdens by causing them to fall into strife 00:03:11.419 --> 00:03:16.419 To be honest in working to abide by God’s limits in her clothing 00:03:16.419 --> 00:03:21.419 And her movements, her adornment, and her dealings with men 00:03:21.419 --> 00:03:24.419 And not to rely on what she claims in her heart 00:03:24.419 --> 00:03:28.419 Because she did not intend to charm men and attract their attention 00:03:28.419 --> 00:03:33.419 What matters is what you do, not what you claim inside 00:03:33.419 --> 00:03:37.610 The second aspect is her infatuation with the man 00:03:37.610 --> 00:03:42.610 It is a hidden matter that only God Almighty knows 00:03:42.610 --> 00:03:46.610 But evidence of that may appear 00:03:46.610 --> 00:03:49.610 Some people see it 00:03:49.610 --> 00:03:53.610 A woman's actions are evidence of what is inside her 00:03:53.610 --> 00:03:59.610 This will not happen to her unless she neglects to take care of her heart 00:03:59.610 --> 00:04:03.610 A sick heart is one that falls into temptation 00:04:03.610 --> 00:04:07.639 Therefore, God warned her against being submissive in her words 00:04:07.639 --> 00:04:09.639 Even if you didn't mean sedition 00:04:09.639 --> 00:04:14.639 Fearing that her submission would come across a sick heart and be tempted by him 00:04:14.639 --> 00:04:18.860 You, my sister, are responsible for protecting your heart 00:04:18.860 --> 00:04:22.860 From falling into temptations from the beginning 00:04:22.860 --> 00:04:24.860 So that your heart does not prevail 00:04:24.860 --> 00:04:29.860 After that, he will not know what is right or deny what is wrong 00:04:29.860 --> 00:04:33.899 As the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:04:33.899 --> 00:04:38.899 Temptations spread over hearts like mats, stick after stick 00:04:38.899 --> 00:04:43.899 Any heart that drinks it has a dark spot on it 00:04:43.899 --> 00:04:48.899 And any heart that denies it, there will be a white mark on it 00:04:48.899 --> 00:04:53.899 Until it becomes two hearts on white like Safa 00:04:53.899 --> 00:04:58.899 No temptation will harm him as long as the heavens and the earth exist 00:04:58.899 --> 00:05:02.930 The other is black, like a juicy cup 00:05:02.930 --> 00:05:06.930 He does not know what is good and does not deny what is wrong 00:05:06.930 --> 00:05:09.930 Except what I drink from my whims 00:05:09.930 --> 00:05:11.930 Narrated by Muslim 00:05:11.930 --> 00:05:16.220 We have in the story of the Prophet of God Joseph with the wife of the Mighty 00:05:16.220 --> 00:05:20.220 A good role model in dealing with the temptation of women 00:05:20.220 --> 00:05:24.220 Joseph, peace be upon him, took the first path 00:05:24.220 --> 00:05:26.220 In dealing with this strife 00:05:26.220 --> 00:05:29.220 By seeking refuge in God from it 00:05:29.220 --> 00:05:32.220 He said, God forbid 00:05:32.220 --> 00:05:37.279 That is, I seek refuge in God and seek refuge in Him from this temptation 00:05:37.279 --> 00:05:41.500 This act was from the Prophet of God, Joseph, peace be upon him 00:05:41.500 --> 00:05:44.500 It is the one to which our honorable Prophet guided us 00:05:44.500 --> 00:05:47.500 May God bless him and grant him peace, and he said 00:05:47.500 --> 00:05:50.500 Seek refuge in God from temptations 00:05:50.500 --> 00:05:53.500 What is apparent from it and what is hidden 00:05:53.500 --> 00:05:55.600 Narrated by Muslim 00:05:55.600 --> 00:05:59.600 Whenever a man or woman feels some kind of temptation 00:05:59.600 --> 00:06:04.600 Let each one of them begin by seeking refuge in God from it 00:06:04.600 --> 00:06:07.600 There is no protector from temptations except God 00:06:07.600 --> 00:06:11.600 Then he turns away from the source of strife and its practical causes 00:06:11.600 --> 00:06:16.600 Which got him into it or almost got him into it 00:06:16.600 --> 00:06:20.759 If the temptation occurred because of conversation and correspondence 00:06:20.759 --> 00:06:23.759 Through modern means of communication 00:06:23.759 --> 00:06:26.759 It is necessary to leave it and stay away from it 00:06:26.759 --> 00:06:29.759 Even if you change the contact phone number 00:06:29.759 --> 00:06:33.759 Delete or block the other party's numbers 00:06:33.759 --> 00:06:36.819 Even if the sedition occurred because of... 00:06:36.819 --> 00:06:39.819 Direct mixing and friction 00:06:39.819 --> 00:06:42.819 In the field of work, study, or other 00:06:42.819 --> 00:06:45.819 You must leave that place 00:06:45.819 --> 00:06:48.819 If it is the matter of the heart, its protection and safety 00:06:48.819 --> 00:06:51.819 Of strife matters who falls into it 00:06:51.819 --> 00:06:54.819 Whether man or woman 00:06:54.819 --> 00:06:57.819 There is no point in making excuses with flimsy excuses 00:06:57.819 --> 00:07:00.819 To continue in the place of strife 00:07:00.819 --> 00:07:04.110 We have in the Prophet of God Joseph, peace be upon him 00:07:04.110 --> 00:07:07.110 A good example of his quick escape 00:07:07.110 --> 00:07:10.110 From the place of strife to the closed door 00:07:10.110 --> 00:07:13.110 To open it and exit it 00:07:13.110 --> 00:07:16.110 Maintaining his religion until God said about him 00:07:16.110 --> 00:07:19.110 He waited for the door and took off his shirt 00:07:19.110 --> 00:07:22.110 Who planned? 00:07:22.110 --> 00:07:25.110 He did not hesitate for a moment to save himself 00:07:25.110 --> 00:07:28.110 From this temptation and use all 00:07:28.110 --> 00:07:31.110 His strength in this escape and the previous one 00:07:31.110 --> 00:07:34.110 She even tried to catch him 00:07:35.110 --> 00:07:38.110 The shirt was torn from force 00:07:38.110 --> 00:07:41.110 Joseph, peace be upon him, rushed towards the door 00:07:41.110 --> 00:07:44.240 To escape from strife 00:07:44.240 --> 00:07:47.240 Oh God, we seek refuge in You from temptations 00:07:47.240 --> 00:07:50.240 What is apparent from it and what is hidden 00:07:50.240 --> 00:07:53.240 Oh God, we seek refuge in You from 00:07:53.240 --> 00:07:56.300 Women's temptation 00:07:56.300 --> 00:07:59.300 For the rest of the discussion, we will continue in a meeting 00:07:59.300 --> 00:08:03.199 Coming, God willing 00:08:03.199 --> 00:08:06.199 With my dear woman