1 00:00:00,780 --> 00:00:09,779 Riyadh al-Salehin from the words of the Master of Messengers, may God bless him and grant him peace 2 00:00:09,779 --> 00:00:18,199 Chapter on honoring one’s parents and maintaining family ties 3 00:00:18,199 --> 00:00:22,199 On the authority of Abdullah bin Omar bin Al-Aas, may God be pleased with them both 4 00:00:22,199 --> 00:00:26,199 On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said 5 00:00:26,199 --> 00:00:29,199 The connector is not equivalent 6 00:00:29,199 --> 00:00:34,200 But the one who connects them, if his ties of kinship are severed, he connects them 7 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:38,130 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 8 00:00:38,130 --> 00:00:43,130 The one who is connected to his family and relatives 9 00:00:43,130 --> 00:00:49,259 The rewarder who rewards them for their connection and kindness 10 00:00:49,259 --> 00:00:53,060 One of the benefits of talking 11 00:00:53,060 --> 00:00:58,060 A Muslim must begin maintaining ties with his relatives and continue doing so 12 00:00:58,060 --> 00:01:02,060 Even if he did not return his deed with kindness 13 00:01:02,060 --> 00:01:05,340 The necessity of deeds being sincere to God 14 00:01:05,340 --> 00:01:09,340 Even if no immediate good comes from it in this world 15 00:01:09,340 --> 00:01:12,340 It is a permanent good in the afterlife 16 00:01:12,340 --> 00:01:18,890 Insulting a Muslim does not make him cut off good deeds from the offended person 17 00:01:18,890 --> 00:01:22,299 A kinship relationship considered by Islamic law 18 00:01:22,299 --> 00:01:27,299 It is to reach out to those who cut you off and forgive those who wronged you 19 00:01:27,299 --> 00:01:29,299 And you give to those who deprive you 20 00:01:29,299 --> 00:01:32,299 There is no connection between the interview and the metaphor 21 00:01:32,299 --> 00:01:37,299 If this happened to relatives without intention or anticipation 22 00:01:37,299 --> 00:01:41,299 That is the grace of God, which He gives to whomever He wishes 23 00:01:41,299 --> 00:01:44,299 God is of great bounty 24 00:01:44,299 --> 00:01:49,549 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said 25 00:01:49,549 --> 00:01:53,549 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 26 00:01:53,549 --> 00:01:57,620 The womb is hanging on the throne, she says 27 00:01:57,620 --> 00:02:00,620 Whoever reaches me, may God reach him 28 00:02:00,620 --> 00:02:03,620 And whoever cuts me off, God will cut him off 29 00:02:03,620 --> 00:02:05,810 Agreed 30 00:02:05,810 --> 00:02:12,319 On the authority of the Mother of the Believers, Maymunah bint Al-Harith, may God be pleased with her 31 00:02:12,319 --> 00:02:14,319 She freed a child 32 00:02:14,319 --> 00:02:19,319 She did not ask permission from the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 33 00:02:19,319 --> 00:02:23,479 When it was her day that came to her 34 00:02:23,479 --> 00:02:27,479 She said: “I feel, O Messenger of God.” 35 00:02:27,479 --> 00:02:30,479 I freed my daughter 36 00:02:30,479 --> 00:02:33,479 He said or did you do? 37 00:02:33,479 --> 00:02:35,509 She said yes 38 00:02:35,509 --> 00:02:42,580 He said: If you had given her your maternal uncles, your reward would have been greater 39 00:02:42,580 --> 00:02:44,860 Agreed 40 00:02:44,860 --> 00:02:49,139 I was notified, i.e. informed 41 00:02:49,139 --> 00:02:52,139 The offspring of his mother 42 00:02:52,139 --> 00:02:55,620 One of the benefits of talking 43 00:02:55,620 --> 00:03:00,009 It is permissible for the wife to dispose of her money 44 00:03:00,009 --> 00:03:03,419 The man visits his family during their day 45 00:03:03,419 --> 00:03:07,419 He hears what concerns them in what has been allocated to them 46 00:03:07,419 --> 00:03:11,969 One of the means of strengthening marital bonds 47 00:03:11,969 --> 00:03:14,969 For a woman to tell her husband what she did 48 00:03:14,969 --> 00:03:17,969 Or whatever you want to do 49 00:03:17,969 --> 00:03:22,479 Charity to relatives is better and greater 50 00:03:22,479 --> 00:03:24,479 Because it is charity and connection 51 00:03:24,479 --> 00:03:30,020 A Muslim should be guided by the opinions of scholars and scholars 52 00:03:30,020 --> 00:03:33,020 To put things in their place 53 00:03:33,020 --> 00:03:36,020 Or achieve more good 54 00:03:36,020 --> 00:03:43,270 On the authority of Asmaa bint Abu Bakr Al-Siddiq, may God be pleased with them, she said 55 00:03:43,270 --> 00:03:46,270 My mother came to me and she is a polytheist 56 00:03:46,270 --> 00:03:50,270 During the era of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 57 00:03:50,270 --> 00:03:55,270 So I asked the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 58 00:03:55,270 --> 00:03:59,270 I said my mother came to me and she was willing 59 00:03:59,270 --> 00:04:07,270 Should I pray for my mother? He said: Yes, pray for your mother. Agreed upon 60 00:04:07,270 --> 00:04:13,400 And she said, “Raghiba” means someone who is greedy of me and asks me something 61 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:22,459 It was said that her mother was from lineage, and it was said from breastfeeding, and the first is correct 62 00:04:22,459 --> 00:04:27,300 During the era of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 63 00:04:27,300 --> 00:04:32,300 That is, his treaty with the polytheists of Quraish in Hudaybiyyah 64 00:04:32,300 --> 00:04:36,029 One of the benefits of talking 65 00:04:36,029 --> 00:04:39,319 It is permissible to honor polytheist parents 66 00:04:39,319 --> 00:04:42,319 As long as they are not combatants 67 00:04:42,319 --> 00:04:44,610 It is necessary to ask the people of remembrance 68 00:04:44,610 --> 00:04:47,610 If the questioner is not knowledgeable 69 00:04:47,610 --> 00:04:51,610 Therefore, Asmaa investigated her religion 70 00:04:51,610 --> 00:04:57,120 It indicates that knowledge comes before words and actions 71 00:04:58,120 --> 00:05:00,660 It is permissible to bid farewell to the people of war 72 00:05:00,660 --> 00:05:04,660 And their treatment during the truce 73 00:05:04,660 --> 00:05:08,100 And about Zainab cultural 74 00:05:08,100 --> 00:05:12,100 The wife of Abdullah bin Masoud, may God be pleased with him and her 75 00:05:12,100 --> 00:05:17,100 She said: The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 76 00:05:17,100 --> 00:05:20,139 Believe me, O women 77 00:05:20,139 --> 00:05:23,139 Even if you are beautiful 78 00:05:23,139 --> 00:05:28,139 She said, “So I went back to Abdullah bin Masoud and told him.” 79 00:05:28,139 --> 00:05:31,139 You are a light-handed man 80 00:05:31,139 --> 00:05:35,139 And the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 81 00:05:35,139 --> 00:05:37,139 We have been commanded to give charity 82 00:05:37,139 --> 00:05:39,139 So go to him and ask him 83 00:05:39,139 --> 00:05:42,139 If that is enough for me 84 00:05:42,139 --> 00:05:45,139 Otherwise, I will spend it on others 85 00:05:45,139 --> 00:05:47,230 Abdullah said 86 00:05:47,230 --> 00:05:49,230 Rather, bring it yourself 87 00:05:49,230 --> 00:05:51,230 So I set off 88 00:05:51,230 --> 00:05:57,230 Then a woman from the Ansar was at the door of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 89 00:05:57,230 --> 00:05:59,230 My need is her need 90 00:05:59,230 --> 00:06:03,230 He was the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 91 00:06:03,230 --> 00:06:06,230 Awe was cast upon him 92 00:06:06,230 --> 00:06:08,230 So Bilal came out to us 93 00:06:08,230 --> 00:06:10,230 So we told him 94 00:06:10,230 --> 00:06:14,230 Come to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 95 00:06:14,230 --> 00:06:18,230 So tell him that two women are at the door asking you 96 00:06:18,230 --> 00:06:22,300 Is it sufficient to give charity on their behalf to their spouses? 97 00:06:22,300 --> 00:06:25,300 And orphans in their laps 98 00:06:25,300 --> 00:06:28,300 Don't tell him who we are 99 00:06:28,300 --> 00:06:33,300 So Bilal entered upon the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 100 00:06:33,300 --> 00:06:35,329 So he asked him 101 00:06:35,329 --> 00:06:39,329 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to him 102 00:06:39,329 --> 00:06:41,329 Of them 103 00:06:41,329 --> 00:06:42,329 He said 104 00:06:42,329 --> 00:06:45,329 An Ansar woman and Zainab 105 00:06:45,329 --> 00:06:49,329 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 106 00:06:49,329 --> 00:06:51,329 What a beauty he has 107 00:06:51,329 --> 00:06:53,329 He said 108 00:06:53,329 --> 00:06:55,329 Abdullah's woman 109 00:06:55,329 --> 00:06:59,550 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 110 00:06:59,550 --> 00:07:01,550 They have two wages 111 00:07:01,550 --> 00:07:04,550 The reward of kinship and the reward of charity 112 00:07:04,550 --> 00:07:07,779 Agreed 113 00:07:07,779 --> 00:07:10,899 Light hand 114 00:07:10,899 --> 00:07:12,899 That is, little money 115 00:07:12,899 --> 00:07:15,060 Prestige 116 00:07:15,060 --> 00:07:18,060 That is, prestige and reverence 117 00:07:18,060 --> 00:07:20,250 In their laps 118 00:07:20,250 --> 00:07:23,250 That is, in their jurisdiction 119 00:07:23,250 --> 00:07:25,949 One of the benefits of talking 120 00:07:25,949 --> 00:07:28,180 Permissibility of giving charity 121 00:07:28,180 --> 00:07:31,180 Even if it was the obligatory zakat 122 00:07:31,180 --> 00:07:33,180 To the husband and children 123 00:07:33,180 --> 00:07:37,180 Those whose expenses are not obligatory for the zakat payer 124 00:07:37,180 --> 00:07:38,180 Like a wife 125 00:07:38,180 --> 00:07:42,720 It is permissible for a woman to leave her home for her needs 126 00:07:42,720 --> 00:07:45,720 And asking about her religion 127 00:07:45,720 --> 00:07:50,170 Seeking knowledge is obligatory for Muslims, male and female 128 00:07:50,170 --> 00:07:53,459 It is necessary to ask people of knowledge and dhikr 129 00:07:53,459 --> 00:07:56,459 If the questioner is not knowledgeable 130 00:07:56,459 --> 00:08:01,060 It is permissible for a woman to take wealth rather than a man 131 00:08:01,060 --> 00:08:04,060 Even if he was poor and needy 132 00:08:04,060 --> 00:08:08,579 Charity to relatives has two rewards 133 00:08:08,579 --> 00:08:10,579 Charity and connection 134 00:08:10,579 --> 00:08:13,250 It is permissible to ask the mufti 135 00:08:13,250 --> 00:08:16,250 The questioner asking about his name 136 00:08:16,250 --> 00:08:19,889 And get to know his person 137 00:08:19,889 --> 00:08:21,889 Who is ashamed when asked 138 00:08:21,889 --> 00:08:25,889 He can tell someone else what he wants 139 00:08:25,889 --> 00:08:27,889 To bring it to the world 140 00:08:27,889 --> 00:08:30,889 Then he takes the answer from him 141 00:08:30,889 --> 00:08:34,200 On the authority of Abu Sufyan 142 00:08:34,200 --> 00:08:37,200 Sakhr bin Harb, may God be pleased with him 143 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:40,200 In his long speech in his story Raql 144 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:44,200 Raqla said to Abu Sufyan 145 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:46,200 What does he command you to do? 146 00:08:46,200 --> 00:08:49,200 It means the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 147 00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:52,200 He said, I said, he says 148 00:08:52,200 --> 00:08:54,200 Worship God alone 149 00:08:54,200 --> 00:08:57,200 And do not associate anything with Him 150 00:08:57,200 --> 00:09:00,200 And abandon what your fathers say 151 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:03,200 He commands us to pray and be honest 152 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:06,200 Chastity and connection 153 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:08,299 Agreed 154 00:09:08,299 --> 00:09:11,580 On the authority of Abu Dharr, may God be pleased with him, he said 155 00:09:11,580 --> 00:09:15,580 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 156 00:09:15,580 --> 00:09:20,580 You will conquer a land in which the Qirat will be mentioned 157 00:09:20,580 --> 00:09:22,580 And in a novel 158 00:09:22,580 --> 00:09:24,580 You will conquer Egypt 159 00:09:24,580 --> 00:09:28,580 It is a land in which it is called karat 160 00:09:28,580 --> 00:09:31,580 So treat its people well 161 00:09:31,580 --> 00:09:34,580 For they have protection and mercy 162 00:09:34,580 --> 00:09:36,580 And in a novel 163 00:09:36,580 --> 00:09:40,580 If you conquer it, do good to its people 164 00:09:40,580 --> 00:09:43,580 For they have protection and mercy 165 00:09:44,580 --> 00:09:46,580 Or he said 166 00:09:46,580 --> 00:09:48,580 Dhimma and son-in-law 167 00:09:48,580 --> 00:09:50,580 Narrated by Muslim 168 00:09:50,580 --> 00:09:52,679 Scientists said 169 00:09:52,679 --> 00:09:54,679 The womb that is theirs 170 00:09:54,679 --> 00:09:59,679 The fact that Hagar, the mother of Ishmael, may God bless him and grant him peace, was one of them 171 00:09:59,679 --> 00:10:01,679 And the son-in-law 172 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:07,679 That Maria was the mother of Ibrahim, son of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, was one of them 173 00:10:07,679 --> 00:10:10,610 Carat 174 00:10:10,610 --> 00:10:12,610 He's half-dang 175 00:10:12,610 --> 00:10:15,669 The Danaq is one-sixth of the dirham 176 00:10:15,669 --> 00:10:18,669 Dhimma means right and sanctity 177 00:10:18,669 --> 00:10:20,740 In-laws 178 00:10:20,740 --> 00:10:22,740 That is, the woman's household 179 00:10:22,740 --> 00:10:26,820 One of the benefits of talking 180 00:10:26,820 --> 00:10:29,820 The miracle of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 181 00:10:29,820 --> 00:10:33,820 By telling him that his nation will conquer Egypt 182 00:10:33,820 --> 00:10:38,299 The imam should advise the army to fear God 183 00:10:38,299 --> 00:10:41,299 And no corruption on earth 184 00:10:41,299 --> 00:10:48,940 This is how the Rightly Guided Caliphs were after the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 185 00:10:48,940 --> 00:10:51,940 Islam came to the worlds as a mercy 186 00:10:51,940 --> 00:10:53,940 To worship God alone 187 00:10:53,940 --> 00:10:57,940 He is the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 188 00:10:57,940 --> 00:11:01,940 The Muslim army wishes the people of Egypt good deeds 189 00:11:01,940 --> 00:11:07,519 It is desirable to be kind to those close to one another, relatives, and in-laws 190 00:11:07,519 --> 00:11:09,519 Even if they were polytheists 191 00:11:09,519 --> 00:11:12,519 Unless he fights God and His Messenger 192 00:11:12,519 --> 00:11:17,129 The concept of kinship is broader than close kinship 193 00:11:17,129 --> 00:11:19,129 What is meant by the womb 194 00:11:19,129 --> 00:11:23,129 Hagar, mother of Ismail, peace and blessings be upon him 195 00:11:23,129 --> 00:11:28,669 The entry of kinship on the mother’s side into the concept of the womb 196 00:11:28,669 --> 00:11:33,980 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said 197 00:11:33,980 --> 00:11:36,980 When this verse was revealed 198 00:11:36,980 --> 00:11:40,980 And warn your closest clan 199 00:11:40,980 --> 00:11:45,980 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, called the Quraysh 200 00:11:45,980 --> 00:11:48,980 So they gathered, and he spoke in general and in private 201 00:11:48,980 --> 00:11:49,980 And he said 202 00:11:49,980 --> 00:11:51,980 O sons of Abd Shams 203 00:11:51,980 --> 00:11:54,980 O Banu Kaab bin Luay 204 00:11:54,980 --> 00:11:57,980 Save yourselves from the fire 205 00:11:57,980 --> 00:12:00,080 O son of Murrah bin Ka'b 206 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:04,080 Save yourselves from the fire 207 00:12:04,080 --> 00:12:06,080 O sons of Abd Manaf 208 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:09,080 Save yourselves from the fire 209 00:12:10,080 --> 00:12:12,080 Oh Bani Hashem 210 00:12:12,080 --> 00:12:15,080 Save yourselves from the fire 211 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:18,080 O sons of Abdul Muttalib 212 00:12:18,080 --> 00:12:21,080 Save yourselves from the fire 213 00:12:21,080 --> 00:12:23,080 Oh Fatima 214 00:12:23,080 --> 00:12:26,080 Save yourself from fire 215 00:12:26,080 --> 00:12:30,080 For I do not possess anything for you from God 216 00:12:30,080 --> 00:12:35,080 However, you have a uterus that I will wet with its wetness 217 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:37,299 Narrated by Muslim 218 00:12:37,299 --> 00:12:40,429 His saying, may God bless him and grant him peace 219 00:12:40,429 --> 00:12:42,429 With her wetness 220 00:12:42,429 --> 00:12:44,429 Bilal is water 221 00:12:44,429 --> 00:12:46,429 And the meaning of the hadith 222 00:12:46,429 --> 00:12:48,429 I will get it 223 00:12:48,429 --> 00:12:52,429 He likened its cutting to heat that is extinguished by water 224 00:12:52,429 --> 00:12:56,649 This is cooled by connection 225 00:12:56,649 --> 00:12:58,779 One of the benefits of talking 226 00:12:58,779 --> 00:13:03,779 Reward in the afterlife will be for faith and good deeds 227 00:13:03,779 --> 00:13:06,779 Kinship and lineage are of no use 228 00:13:06,779 --> 00:13:10,350 The necessity of maintaining family ties and taking care of them 229 00:13:10,350 --> 00:13:15,350 And try to reform them and direct them to goodness 230 00:13:15,350 --> 00:13:21,899 Breaking family ties is a fire that fuels envy, hatred, and hatred in this world 231 00:13:21,899 --> 00:13:24,899 And a painful torment in the afterlife 232 00:13:24,899 --> 00:13:27,899 It should be wet 233 00:13:27,899 --> 00:13:29,899 He is her connection 234 00:13:29,899 --> 00:13:33,899 That extinguishes longing and removes adversity 235 00:13:33,899 --> 00:13:37,600 The first thing that is required of the caller to God 236 00:13:37,600 --> 00:13:40,600 Warning his family and then his clan 237 00:13:40,600 --> 00:13:43,600 Because they are more deserving of goodness than others 238 00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:45,600 Then those who follow them 239 00:13:45,600 --> 00:13:49,600 So that goodness may spread to all people 240 00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:55,240 A statement that the man’s clan are the people of his country and his people 241 00:13:55,240 --> 00:13:58,779 Whoever wanted to warn their uncle's people 242 00:13:58,779 --> 00:14:01,779 Then he singled them out by their names 243 00:14:01,779 --> 00:14:04,779 Mentioning the name resonates with the soul 244 00:14:04,779 --> 00:14:07,419 The one who calls to God should 245 00:14:07,419 --> 00:14:12,419 To show people the intensity of his love for them and his concern for them 246 00:14:12,419 --> 00:14:15,419 And his fear for their fate 247 00:14:15,419 --> 00:14:22,700 On the authority of Abu Abdullah Omar bin Al-Aas, may God be pleased with them both, he said 248 00:14:22,700 --> 00:14:29,700 I heard the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, saying publicly, not secretly 249 00:14:29,700 --> 00:14:33,860 The family of Banu So-and-so are not my friends 250 00:14:33,860 --> 00:14:37,860 He is the guardian of God and the righteous of the believers 251 00:14:37,860 --> 00:14:42,860 But they have a womb that is wet with its wetness 252 00:14:42,860 --> 00:14:44,860 Agreed 253 00:14:44,860 --> 00:14:46,860 The pronunciation is by Bukhari 254 00:14:46,860 --> 00:14:54,759 My guardian, that is, my supporter, whom I take charge of in all matters 255 00:14:54,759 --> 00:14:58,659 One of the benefits of talking 256 00:14:58,659 --> 00:15:01,820 There is no guardianship between a Muslim and an infidel 257 00:15:01,820 --> 00:15:06,820 Even if it is permissible to have a polytheist kinship other than a warrior 258 00:15:06,820 --> 00:15:14,419 The brotherhood of religion and the bond of Islam are greater than ties of blood, lineage, and interest 259 00:15:14,419 --> 00:15:18,870 Muslims are friends of each other 260 00:15:18,870 --> 00:15:24,419 The womb that one is commanded to maintain and one that is threatened to be cut off 261 00:15:24,419 --> 00:15:27,419 She is the one for whom God has decreed this 262 00:15:27,419 --> 00:15:31,419 As for those whom God commanded to cut it off for the sake of religion 263 00:15:31,419 --> 00:15:33,419 So you are excluded from that 264 00:15:33,419 --> 00:15:37,419 It does not apply to the one who breaks the threat 265 00:15:37,419 --> 00:15:40,629 On the authority of Abu Ayyub 266 00:15:40,629 --> 00:15:44,629 Khaled bin Zaidin Al-Ansari, may God be pleased with him 267 00:15:44,629 --> 00:15:47,629 A man said, O Messenger of God 268 00:15:47,629 --> 00:15:53,629 Tell me something that will take me into Paradise and keep me away from Hell 269 00:15:53,629 --> 00:15:56,759 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 270 00:15:56,759 --> 00:16:00,759 Worship God and do not associate anything with Him 271 00:16:00,759 --> 00:16:02,759 And perform prayer 272 00:16:02,759 --> 00:16:04,759 And you pay zakat 273 00:16:04,759 --> 00:16:06,759 And reach the womb 274 00:16:06,759 --> 00:16:08,759 Agreed 275 00:16:08,759 --> 00:16:12,529 One of the benefits of talking 276 00:16:12,529 --> 00:16:16,720 Monotheism, establishing prayer, and paying zakat 277 00:16:16,720 --> 00:16:18,720 Link of the womb 278 00:16:18,720 --> 00:16:23,720 One of the reasons for entering Paradise and staying away from Hell 279 00:16:23,720 --> 00:16:28,259 Knowledge of goodness is achieved by learning 280 00:16:28,259 --> 00:16:32,899 Knowledge can only be obtained by seeking it 281 00:16:32,899 --> 00:16:34,899 The first question 282 00:16:34,899 --> 00:16:40,059 On the authority of Salman bin Amer, may God be pleased with him 283 00:16:40,059 --> 00:16:44,059 On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said 284 00:16:44,059 --> 00:16:46,090 If one of you breaks his fast 285 00:16:46,090 --> 00:16:48,090 Let him break his fast with dates 286 00:16:48,090 --> 00:16:50,090 It is a blessing 287 00:16:50,090 --> 00:16:52,090 If he does not find dates 288 00:16:52,090 --> 00:16:54,090 Water 289 00:16:54,090 --> 00:16:56,090 It is purification 290 00:16:56,090 --> 00:16:57,090 And he said 291 00:16:57,090 --> 00:17:00,090 Charity given to the poor is charity 292 00:17:00,090 --> 00:17:03,090 And two of the relatives 293 00:17:03,090 --> 00:17:05,089 Charity and connection 294 00:17:05,089 --> 00:17:07,250 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 295 00:17:07,250 --> 00:17:10,920 One of the benefits of talking 296 00:17:10,920 --> 00:17:14,180 It is desirable to break the fast with dates 297 00:17:14,180 --> 00:17:17,180 Whoever does not find it must water 298 00:17:17,180 --> 00:17:21,180 This was confirmed by his actions, may God bless him and grant him peace 299 00:17:21,180 --> 00:17:26,690 Charity and kindness to relatives are doubled 300 00:17:26,690 --> 00:17:29,690 Because there is charity and connection in it 301 00:17:29,690 --> 00:17:34,900 On the authority of Ibn Omar, may God be pleased with them both, he said: 302 00:17:34,900 --> 00:17:36,900 She was under a woman 303 00:17:36,900 --> 00:17:38,900 And I loved her 304 00:17:38,900 --> 00:17:40,900 Omar hated her 305 00:17:40,900 --> 00:17:42,900 He said to me 306 00:17:42,900 --> 00:17:44,900 He divorced her 307 00:17:44,900 --> 00:17:45,900 So I refused 308 00:17:45,900 --> 00:17:50,900 Then Omar, may God be pleased with him, came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 309 00:17:50,900 --> 00:17:52,900 So mention that to him 310 00:17:52,900 --> 00:17:56,940 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 311 00:17:56,940 --> 00:17:58,940 He divorced her 312 00:17:58,940 --> 00:18:02,130 Narrated by Abu Dawud and Al-Tirmidhi 313 00:18:02,130 --> 00:18:04,960 One of the benefits of talking 314 00:18:04,960 --> 00:18:11,220 The obligation to obey the father in matters imposed on him by Islam 315 00:18:11,220 --> 00:18:14,789 It is permissible to hate a Muslim man or woman 316 00:18:14,789 --> 00:18:17,789 Because there are some bad qualities in it 317 00:18:17,789 --> 00:18:21,789 Provided that this hatred does not exceed this characteristic 318 00:18:21,789 --> 00:18:25,369 The obligation to obey the father 319 00:18:25,369 --> 00:18:28,369 If he orders something, the religion approves of it 320 00:18:28,369 --> 00:18:32,369 Ibn Omar loved his wife with an innate love 321 00:18:32,369 --> 00:18:35,369 Omar hated her 322 00:18:35,369 --> 00:18:37,369 Religious hatred 323 00:18:37,369 --> 00:18:40,369 So he ordered him to divorce her 324 00:18:40,369 --> 00:18:44,369 The Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace, approved of that 325 00:18:44,369 --> 00:18:48,369 He ordered Ibn Omar to obey his father in divorcing her 326 00:18:48,369 --> 00:18:51,369 Even if Omar was unjust to her 327 00:18:51,369 --> 00:18:56,369 When the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace, agreed with him on that 328 00:18:56,369 --> 00:19:01,490 On the authority of Abu Darda, may God be pleased with him 329 00:19:01,490 --> 00:19:04,490 A man came to him and said: 330 00:19:04,490 --> 00:19:09,490 I have a wife and my mother is ordering me to divorce her 331 00:19:09,490 --> 00:19:10,519 And he said 332 00:19:10,519 --> 00:19:15,519 I heard the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, say 333 00:19:15,519 --> 00:19:18,519 The father is the middle of the gates of Paradise 334 00:19:18,519 --> 00:19:23,519 If you want, delete that section or memorize it 335 00:19:23,519 --> 00:19:26,779 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 336 00:19:26,779 --> 00:19:29,349 The middle gates of heaven 337 00:19:29,349 --> 00:19:32,349 That is, the best of its doors 338 00:19:32,349 --> 00:19:34,900 One of the benefits of talking 339 00:19:34,900 --> 00:19:40,220 Honoring parents is a reason for entering Paradise and opening its doors 340 00:19:40,220 --> 00:19:45,660 Pleasing the parents takes precedence over pleasing the wife 341 00:19:45,660 --> 00:19:48,079 Someone who loves something 342 00:19:48,079 --> 00:19:52,079 His parents, or one of them, asked him to leave it 343 00:19:52,079 --> 00:19:54,079 So he felt sad for him 344 00:19:54,079 --> 00:19:56,079 The first thing he does 345 00:19:56,079 --> 00:19:59,079 Consulting knowledgeable people 346 00:19:59,079 --> 00:20:04,299 On the authority of Al-Baraa bin Azib, may God be pleased with them both 347 00:20:04,299 --> 00:20:08,299 On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said 348 00:20:08,299 --> 00:20:11,329 An aunt is like a mother 349 00:20:11,329 --> 00:20:13,490 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 350 00:20:13,490 --> 00:20:17,220 One of the benefits of talking 351 00:20:17,220 --> 00:20:19,480 An aunt is like a mother 352 00:20:19,480 --> 00:20:22,480 In sympathy with her sister's children 353 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:25,480 She is also in their custody 354 00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:29,769 It is obligatory to be kind to the aunt and be kind to her 355 00:20:29,769 --> 00:20:32,769 Just as a servant treats his mother kindly 356 00:20:32,769 --> 00:20:37,250 The aunt in the nursery takes precedence over the paternal aunt 357 00:20:37,250 --> 00:20:40,859 This conversation is specific to nursery 358 00:20:40,859 --> 00:20:44,859 There is no evidence for it for those who claim that the maternal aunt inherits 359 00:20:44,859 --> 00:20:47,859 Because the nation inherits 360 00:20:47,859 --> 00:20:51,950 Riyadh Al-Salehin