WEBVTT 00:00:00.780 --> 00:00:09.779 Riyadh al-Salehin from the words of the Master of Messengers, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:00:09.779 --> 00:00:18.199 Chapter on honoring one’s parents and maintaining family ties 00:00:18.199 --> 00:00:22.199 On the authority of Abdullah bin Omar bin Al-Aas, may God be pleased with them both 00:00:22.199 --> 00:00:26.199 On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said 00:00:26.199 --> 00:00:29.199 The connector is not equivalent 00:00:29.199 --> 00:00:34.200 But the one who connects them, if his ties of kinship are severed, he connects them 00:00:34.200 --> 00:00:38.130 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 00:00:38.130 --> 00:00:43.130 The one who is connected to his family and relatives 00:00:43.130 --> 00:00:49.259 The rewarder who rewards them for their connection and kindness 00:00:49.259 --> 00:00:53.060 One of the benefits of talking 00:00:53.060 --> 00:00:58.060 A Muslim must begin maintaining ties with his relatives and continue doing so 00:00:58.060 --> 00:01:02.060 Even if he did not return his deed with kindness 00:01:02.060 --> 00:01:05.340 The necessity of deeds being sincere to God 00:01:05.340 --> 00:01:09.340 Even if no immediate good comes from it in this world 00:01:09.340 --> 00:01:12.340 It is a permanent good in the afterlife 00:01:12.340 --> 00:01:18.890 Insulting a Muslim does not make him cut off good deeds from the offended person 00:01:18.890 --> 00:01:22.299 A kinship relationship considered by Islamic law 00:01:22.299 --> 00:01:27.299 It is to reach out to those who cut you off and forgive those who wronged you 00:01:27.299 --> 00:01:29.299 And you give to those who deprive you 00:01:29.299 --> 00:01:32.299 There is no connection between the interview and the metaphor 00:01:32.299 --> 00:01:37.299 If this happened to relatives without intention or anticipation 00:01:37.299 --> 00:01:41.299 That is the grace of God, which He gives to whomever He wishes 00:01:41.299 --> 00:01:44.299 God is of great bounty 00:01:44.299 --> 00:01:49.549 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said 00:01:49.549 --> 00:01:53.549 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:01:53.549 --> 00:01:57.620 The womb is hanging on the throne, she says 00:01:57.620 --> 00:02:00.620 Whoever reaches me, may God reach him 00:02:00.620 --> 00:02:03.620 And whoever cuts me off, God will cut him off 00:02:03.620 --> 00:02:05.810 Agreed 00:02:05.810 --> 00:02:12.319 On the authority of the Mother of the Believers, Maymunah bint Al-Harith, may God be pleased with her 00:02:12.319 --> 00:02:14.319 She freed a child 00:02:14.319 --> 00:02:19.319 She did not ask permission from the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:02:19.319 --> 00:02:23.479 When it was her day that came to her 00:02:23.479 --> 00:02:27.479 She said: “I feel, O Messenger of God.” 00:02:27.479 --> 00:02:30.479 I freed my daughter 00:02:30.479 --> 00:02:33.479 He said or did you do? 00:02:33.479 --> 00:02:35.509 She said yes 00:02:35.509 --> 00:02:42.580 He said: If you had given her your maternal uncles, your reward would have been greater 00:02:42.580 --> 00:02:44.860 Agreed 00:02:44.860 --> 00:02:49.139 I was notified, i.e. informed 00:02:49.139 --> 00:02:52.139 The offspring of his mother 00:02:52.139 --> 00:02:55.620 One of the benefits of talking 00:02:55.620 --> 00:03:00.009 It is permissible for the wife to dispose of her money 00:03:00.009 --> 00:03:03.419 The man visits his family during their day 00:03:03.419 --> 00:03:07.419 He hears what concerns them in what has been allocated to them 00:03:07.419 --> 00:03:11.969 One of the means of strengthening marital bonds 00:03:11.969 --> 00:03:14.969 For a woman to tell her husband what she did 00:03:14.969 --> 00:03:17.969 Or whatever you want to do 00:03:17.969 --> 00:03:22.479 Charity to relatives is better and greater 00:03:22.479 --> 00:03:24.479 Because it is charity and connection 00:03:24.479 --> 00:03:30.020 A Muslim should be guided by the opinions of scholars and scholars 00:03:30.020 --> 00:03:33.020 To put things in their place 00:03:33.020 --> 00:03:36.020 Or achieve more good 00:03:36.020 --> 00:03:43.270 On the authority of Asmaa bint Abu Bakr Al-Siddiq, may God be pleased with them, she said 00:03:43.270 --> 00:03:46.270 My mother came to me and she is a polytheist 00:03:46.270 --> 00:03:50.270 During the era of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:03:50.270 --> 00:03:55.270 So I asked the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:03:55.270 --> 00:03:59.270 I said my mother came to me and she was willing 00:03:59.270 --> 00:04:07.270 Should I pray for my mother? He said: Yes, pray for your mother. Agreed upon 00:04:07.270 --> 00:04:13.400 And she said, “Raghiba” means someone who is greedy of me and asks me something 00:04:13.400 --> 00:04:22.459 It was said that her mother was from lineage, and it was said from breastfeeding, and the first is correct 00:04:22.459 --> 00:04:27.300 During the era of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:04:27.300 --> 00:04:32.300 That is, his treaty with the polytheists of Quraish in Hudaybiyyah 00:04:32.300 --> 00:04:36.029 One of the benefits of talking 00:04:36.029 --> 00:04:39.319 It is permissible to honor polytheist parents 00:04:39.319 --> 00:04:42.319 As long as they are not combatants 00:04:42.319 --> 00:04:44.610 It is necessary to ask the people of remembrance 00:04:44.610 --> 00:04:47.610 If the questioner is not knowledgeable 00:04:47.610 --> 00:04:51.610 Therefore, Asmaa investigated her religion 00:04:51.610 --> 00:04:57.120 It indicates that knowledge comes before words and actions 00:04:58.120 --> 00:05:00.660 It is permissible to bid farewell to the people of war 00:05:00.660 --> 00:05:04.660 And their treatment during the truce 00:05:04.660 --> 00:05:08.100 And about Zainab cultural 00:05:08.100 --> 00:05:12.100 The wife of Abdullah bin Masoud, may God be pleased with him and her 00:05:12.100 --> 00:05:17.100 She said: The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:05:17.100 --> 00:05:20.139 Believe me, O women 00:05:20.139 --> 00:05:23.139 Even if you are beautiful 00:05:23.139 --> 00:05:28.139 She said, “So I went back to Abdullah bin Masoud and told him.” 00:05:28.139 --> 00:05:31.139 You are a light-handed man 00:05:31.139 --> 00:05:35.139 And the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:05:35.139 --> 00:05:37.139 We have been commanded to give charity 00:05:37.139 --> 00:05:39.139 So go to him and ask him 00:05:39.139 --> 00:05:42.139 If that is enough for me 00:05:42.139 --> 00:05:45.139 Otherwise, I will spend it on others 00:05:45.139 --> 00:05:47.230 Abdullah said 00:05:47.230 --> 00:05:49.230 Rather, bring it yourself 00:05:49.230 --> 00:05:51.230 So I set off 00:05:51.230 --> 00:05:57.230 Then a woman from the Ansar was at the door of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:05:57.230 --> 00:05:59.230 My need is her need 00:05:59.230 --> 00:06:03.230 He was the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:06:03.230 --> 00:06:06.230 Awe was cast upon him 00:06:06.230 --> 00:06:08.230 So Bilal came out to us 00:06:08.230 --> 00:06:10.230 So we told him 00:06:10.230 --> 00:06:14.230 Come to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:06:14.230 --> 00:06:18.230 So tell him that two women are at the door asking you 00:06:18.230 --> 00:06:22.300 Is it sufficient to give charity on their behalf to their spouses? 00:06:22.300 --> 00:06:25.300 And orphans in their laps 00:06:25.300 --> 00:06:28.300 Don't tell him who we are 00:06:28.300 --> 00:06:33.300 So Bilal entered upon the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:06:33.300 --> 00:06:35.329 So he asked him 00:06:35.329 --> 00:06:39.329 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to him 00:06:39.329 --> 00:06:41.329 Of them 00:06:41.329 --> 00:06:42.329 He said 00:06:42.329 --> 00:06:45.329 An Ansar woman and Zainab 00:06:45.329 --> 00:06:49.329 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:06:49.329 --> 00:06:51.329 What a beauty he has 00:06:51.329 --> 00:06:53.329 He said 00:06:53.329 --> 00:06:55.329 Abdullah's woman 00:06:55.329 --> 00:06:59.550 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:06:59.550 --> 00:07:01.550 They have two wages 00:07:01.550 --> 00:07:04.550 The reward of kinship and the reward of charity 00:07:04.550 --> 00:07:07.779 Agreed 00:07:07.779 --> 00:07:10.899 Light hand 00:07:10.899 --> 00:07:12.899 That is, little money 00:07:12.899 --> 00:07:15.060 Prestige 00:07:15.060 --> 00:07:18.060 That is, prestige and reverence 00:07:18.060 --> 00:07:20.250 In their laps 00:07:20.250 --> 00:07:23.250 That is, in their jurisdiction 00:07:23.250 --> 00:07:25.949 One of the benefits of talking 00:07:25.949 --> 00:07:28.180 Permissibility of giving charity 00:07:28.180 --> 00:07:31.180 Even if it was the obligatory zakat 00:07:31.180 --> 00:07:33.180 To the husband and children 00:07:33.180 --> 00:07:37.180 Those whose expenses are not obligatory for the zakat payer 00:07:37.180 --> 00:07:38.180 Like a wife 00:07:38.180 --> 00:07:42.720 It is permissible for a woman to leave her home for her needs 00:07:42.720 --> 00:07:45.720 And asking about her religion 00:07:45.720 --> 00:07:50.170 Seeking knowledge is obligatory for Muslims, male and female 00:07:50.170 --> 00:07:53.459 It is necessary to ask people of knowledge and dhikr 00:07:53.459 --> 00:07:56.459 If the questioner is not knowledgeable 00:07:56.459 --> 00:08:01.060 It is permissible for a woman to take wealth rather than a man 00:08:01.060 --> 00:08:04.060 Even if he was poor and needy 00:08:04.060 --> 00:08:08.579 Charity to relatives has two rewards 00:08:08.579 --> 00:08:10.579 Charity and connection 00:08:10.579 --> 00:08:13.250 It is permissible to ask the mufti 00:08:13.250 --> 00:08:16.250 The questioner asking about his name 00:08:16.250 --> 00:08:19.889 And get to know his person 00:08:19.889 --> 00:08:21.889 Who is ashamed when asked 00:08:21.889 --> 00:08:25.889 He can tell someone else what he wants 00:08:25.889 --> 00:08:27.889 To bring it to the world 00:08:27.889 --> 00:08:30.889 Then he takes the answer from him 00:08:30.889 --> 00:08:34.200 On the authority of Abu Sufyan 00:08:34.200 --> 00:08:37.200 Sakhr bin Harb, may God be pleased with him 00:08:37.200 --> 00:08:40.200 In his long speech in his story Raql 00:08:40.200 --> 00:08:44.200 Raqla said to Abu Sufyan 00:08:44.200 --> 00:08:46.200 What does he command you to do? 00:08:46.200 --> 00:08:49.200 It means the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:08:49.200 --> 00:08:52.200 He said, I said, he says 00:08:52.200 --> 00:08:54.200 Worship God alone 00:08:54.200 --> 00:08:57.200 And do not associate anything with Him 00:08:57.200 --> 00:09:00.200 And abandon what your fathers say 00:09:00.200 --> 00:09:03.200 He commands us to pray and be honest 00:09:03.200 --> 00:09:06.200 Chastity and connection 00:09:06.200 --> 00:09:08.299 Agreed 00:09:08.299 --> 00:09:11.580 On the authority of Abu Dharr, may God be pleased with him, he said 00:09:11.580 --> 00:09:15.580 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:09:15.580 --> 00:09:20.580 You will conquer a land in which the Qirat will be mentioned 00:09:20.580 --> 00:09:22.580 And in a novel 00:09:22.580 --> 00:09:24.580 You will conquer Egypt 00:09:24.580 --> 00:09:28.580 It is a land in which it is called karat 00:09:28.580 --> 00:09:31.580 So treat its people well 00:09:31.580 --> 00:09:34.580 For they have protection and mercy 00:09:34.580 --> 00:09:36.580 And in a novel 00:09:36.580 --> 00:09:40.580 If you conquer it, do good to its people 00:09:40.580 --> 00:09:43.580 For they have protection and mercy 00:09:44.580 --> 00:09:46.580 Or he said 00:09:46.580 --> 00:09:48.580 Dhimma and son-in-law 00:09:48.580 --> 00:09:50.580 Narrated by Muslim 00:09:50.580 --> 00:09:52.679 Scientists said 00:09:52.679 --> 00:09:54.679 The womb that is theirs 00:09:54.679 --> 00:09:59.679 The fact that Hagar, the mother of Ishmael, may God bless him and grant him peace, was one of them 00:09:59.679 --> 00:10:01.679 And the son-in-law 00:10:01.679 --> 00:10:07.679 That Maria was the mother of Ibrahim, son of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, was one of them 00:10:07.679 --> 00:10:10.610 Carat 00:10:10.610 --> 00:10:12.610 He's half-dang 00:10:12.610 --> 00:10:15.669 The Danaq is one-sixth of the dirham 00:10:15.669 --> 00:10:18.669 Dhimma means right and sanctity 00:10:18.669 --> 00:10:20.740 In-laws 00:10:20.740 --> 00:10:22.740 That is, the woman's household 00:10:22.740 --> 00:10:26.820 One of the benefits of talking 00:10:26.820 --> 00:10:29.820 The miracle of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:10:29.820 --> 00:10:33.820 By telling him that his nation will conquer Egypt 00:10:33.820 --> 00:10:38.299 The imam should advise the army to fear God 00:10:38.299 --> 00:10:41.299 And no corruption on earth 00:10:41.299 --> 00:10:48.940 This is how the Rightly Guided Caliphs were after the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:10:48.940 --> 00:10:51.940 Islam came to the worlds as a mercy 00:10:51.940 --> 00:10:53.940 To worship God alone 00:10:53.940 --> 00:10:57.940 He is the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:10:57.940 --> 00:11:01.940 The Muslim army wishes the people of Egypt good deeds 00:11:01.940 --> 00:11:07.519 It is desirable to be kind to those close to one another, relatives, and in-laws 00:11:07.519 --> 00:11:09.519 Even if they were polytheists 00:11:09.519 --> 00:11:12.519 Unless he fights God and His Messenger 00:11:12.519 --> 00:11:17.129 The concept of kinship is broader than close kinship 00:11:17.129 --> 00:11:19.129 What is meant by the womb 00:11:19.129 --> 00:11:23.129 Hagar, mother of Ismail, peace and blessings be upon him 00:11:23.129 --> 00:11:28.669 The entry of kinship on the mother’s side into the concept of the womb 00:11:28.669 --> 00:11:33.980 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said 00:11:33.980 --> 00:11:36.980 When this verse was revealed 00:11:36.980 --> 00:11:40.980 And warn your closest clan 00:11:40.980 --> 00:11:45.980 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, called the Quraysh 00:11:45.980 --> 00:11:48.980 So they gathered, and he spoke in general and in private 00:11:48.980 --> 00:11:49.980 And he said 00:11:49.980 --> 00:11:51.980 O sons of Abd Shams 00:11:51.980 --> 00:11:54.980 O Banu Kaab bin Luay 00:11:54.980 --> 00:11:57.980 Save yourselves from the fire 00:11:57.980 --> 00:12:00.080 O son of Murrah bin Ka'b 00:12:00.080 --> 00:12:04.080 Save yourselves from the fire 00:12:04.080 --> 00:12:06.080 O sons of Abd Manaf 00:12:06.080 --> 00:12:09.080 Save yourselves from the fire 00:12:10.080 --> 00:12:12.080 Oh Bani Hashem 00:12:12.080 --> 00:12:15.080 Save yourselves from the fire 00:12:15.080 --> 00:12:18.080 O sons of Abdul Muttalib 00:12:18.080 --> 00:12:21.080 Save yourselves from the fire 00:12:21.080 --> 00:12:23.080 Oh Fatima 00:12:23.080 --> 00:12:26.080 Save yourself from fire 00:12:26.080 --> 00:12:30.080 For I do not possess anything for you from God 00:12:30.080 --> 00:12:35.080 However, you have a uterus that I will wet with its wetness 00:12:35.080 --> 00:12:37.299 Narrated by Muslim 00:12:37.299 --> 00:12:40.429 His saying, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:12:40.429 --> 00:12:42.429 With her wetness 00:12:42.429 --> 00:12:44.429 Bilal is water 00:12:44.429 --> 00:12:46.429 And the meaning of the hadith 00:12:46.429 --> 00:12:48.429 I will get it 00:12:48.429 --> 00:12:52.429 He likened its cutting to heat that is extinguished by water 00:12:52.429 --> 00:12:56.649 This is cooled by connection 00:12:56.649 --> 00:12:58.779 One of the benefits of talking 00:12:58.779 --> 00:13:03.779 Reward in the afterlife will be for faith and good deeds 00:13:03.779 --> 00:13:06.779 Kinship and lineage are of no use 00:13:06.779 --> 00:13:10.350 The necessity of maintaining family ties and taking care of them 00:13:10.350 --> 00:13:15.350 And try to reform them and direct them to goodness 00:13:15.350 --> 00:13:21.899 Breaking family ties is a fire that fuels envy, hatred, and hatred in this world 00:13:21.899 --> 00:13:24.899 And a painful torment in the afterlife 00:13:24.899 --> 00:13:27.899 It should be wet 00:13:27.899 --> 00:13:29.899 He is her connection 00:13:29.899 --> 00:13:33.899 That extinguishes longing and removes adversity 00:13:33.899 --> 00:13:37.600 The first thing that is required of the caller to God 00:13:37.600 --> 00:13:40.600 Warning his family and then his clan 00:13:40.600 --> 00:13:43.600 Because they are more deserving of goodness than others 00:13:43.600 --> 00:13:45.600 Then those who follow them 00:13:45.600 --> 00:13:49.600 So that goodness may spread to all people 00:13:49.600 --> 00:13:55.240 A statement that the man’s clan are the people of his country and his people 00:13:55.240 --> 00:13:58.779 Whoever wanted to warn their uncle's people 00:13:58.779 --> 00:14:01.779 Then he singled them out by their names 00:14:01.779 --> 00:14:04.779 Mentioning the name resonates with the soul 00:14:04.779 --> 00:14:07.419 The one who calls to God should 00:14:07.419 --> 00:14:12.419 To show people the intensity of his love for them and his concern for them 00:14:12.419 --> 00:14:15.419 And his fear for their fate 00:14:15.419 --> 00:14:22.700 On the authority of Abu Abdullah Omar bin Al-Aas, may God be pleased with them both, he said 00:14:22.700 --> 00:14:29.700 I heard the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, saying publicly, not secretly 00:14:29.700 --> 00:14:33.860 The family of Banu So-and-so are not my friends 00:14:33.860 --> 00:14:37.860 He is the guardian of God and the righteous of the believers 00:14:37.860 --> 00:14:42.860 But they have a womb that is wet with its wetness 00:14:42.860 --> 00:14:44.860 Agreed 00:14:44.860 --> 00:14:46.860 The pronunciation is by Bukhari 00:14:46.860 --> 00:14:54.759 My guardian, that is, my supporter, whom I take charge of in all matters 00:14:54.759 --> 00:14:58.659 One of the benefits of talking 00:14:58.659 --> 00:15:01.820 There is no guardianship between a Muslim and an infidel 00:15:01.820 --> 00:15:06.820 Even if it is permissible to have a polytheist kinship other than a warrior 00:15:06.820 --> 00:15:14.419 The brotherhood of religion and the bond of Islam are greater than ties of blood, lineage, and interest 00:15:14.419 --> 00:15:18.870 Muslims are friends of each other 00:15:18.870 --> 00:15:24.419 The womb that one is commanded to maintain and one that is threatened to be cut off 00:15:24.419 --> 00:15:27.419 She is the one for whom God has decreed this 00:15:27.419 --> 00:15:31.419 As for those whom God commanded to cut it off for the sake of religion 00:15:31.419 --> 00:15:33.419 So you are excluded from that 00:15:33.419 --> 00:15:37.419 It does not apply to the one who breaks the threat 00:15:37.419 --> 00:15:40.629 On the authority of Abu Ayyub 00:15:40.629 --> 00:15:44.629 Khaled bin Zaidin Al-Ansari, may God be pleased with him 00:15:44.629 --> 00:15:47.629 A man said, O Messenger of God 00:15:47.629 --> 00:15:53.629 Tell me something that will take me into Paradise and keep me away from Hell 00:15:53.629 --> 00:15:56.759 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:15:56.759 --> 00:16:00.759 Worship God and do not associate anything with Him 00:16:00.759 --> 00:16:02.759 And perform prayer 00:16:02.759 --> 00:16:04.759 And you pay zakat 00:16:04.759 --> 00:16:06.759 And reach the womb 00:16:06.759 --> 00:16:08.759 Agreed 00:16:08.759 --> 00:16:12.529 One of the benefits of talking 00:16:12.529 --> 00:16:16.720 Monotheism, establishing prayer, and paying zakat 00:16:16.720 --> 00:16:18.720 Link of the womb 00:16:18.720 --> 00:16:23.720 One of the reasons for entering Paradise and staying away from Hell 00:16:23.720 --> 00:16:28.259 Knowledge of goodness is achieved by learning 00:16:28.259 --> 00:16:32.899 Knowledge can only be obtained by seeking it 00:16:32.899 --> 00:16:34.899 The first question 00:16:34.899 --> 00:16:40.059 On the authority of Salman bin Amer, may God be pleased with him 00:16:40.059 --> 00:16:44.059 On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said 00:16:44.059 --> 00:16:46.090 If one of you breaks his fast 00:16:46.090 --> 00:16:48.090 Let him break his fast with dates 00:16:48.090 --> 00:16:50.090 It is a blessing 00:16:50.090 --> 00:16:52.090 If he does not find dates 00:16:52.090 --> 00:16:54.090 Water 00:16:54.090 --> 00:16:56.090 It is purification 00:16:56.090 --> 00:16:57.090 And he said 00:16:57.090 --> 00:17:00.090 Charity given to the poor is charity 00:17:00.090 --> 00:17:03.090 And two of the relatives 00:17:03.090 --> 00:17:05.089 Charity and connection 00:17:05.089 --> 00:17:07.250 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 00:17:07.250 --> 00:17:10.920 One of the benefits of talking 00:17:10.920 --> 00:17:14.180 It is desirable to break the fast with dates 00:17:14.180 --> 00:17:17.180 Whoever does not find it must water 00:17:17.180 --> 00:17:21.180 This was confirmed by his actions, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:17:21.180 --> 00:17:26.690 Charity and kindness to relatives are doubled 00:17:26.690 --> 00:17:29.690 Because there is charity and connection in it 00:17:29.690 --> 00:17:34.900 On the authority of Ibn Omar, may God be pleased with them both, he said: 00:17:34.900 --> 00:17:36.900 She was under a woman 00:17:36.900 --> 00:17:38.900 And I loved her 00:17:38.900 --> 00:17:40.900 Omar hated her 00:17:40.900 --> 00:17:42.900 He said to me 00:17:42.900 --> 00:17:44.900 He divorced her 00:17:44.900 --> 00:17:45.900 So I refused 00:17:45.900 --> 00:17:50.900 Then Omar, may God be pleased with him, came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:17:50.900 --> 00:17:52.900 So mention that to him 00:17:52.900 --> 00:17:56.940 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:17:56.940 --> 00:17:58.940 He divorced her 00:17:58.940 --> 00:18:02.130 Narrated by Abu Dawud and Al-Tirmidhi 00:18:02.130 --> 00:18:04.960 One of the benefits of talking 00:18:04.960 --> 00:18:11.220 The obligation to obey the father in matters imposed on him by Islam 00:18:11.220 --> 00:18:14.789 It is permissible to hate a Muslim man or woman 00:18:14.789 --> 00:18:17.789 Because there are some bad qualities in it 00:18:17.789 --> 00:18:21.789 Provided that this hatred does not exceed this characteristic 00:18:21.789 --> 00:18:25.369 The obligation to obey the father 00:18:25.369 --> 00:18:28.369 If he orders something, the religion approves of it 00:18:28.369 --> 00:18:32.369 Ibn Omar loved his wife with an innate love 00:18:32.369 --> 00:18:35.369 Omar hated her 00:18:35.369 --> 00:18:37.369 Religious hatred 00:18:37.369 --> 00:18:40.369 So he ordered him to divorce her 00:18:40.369 --> 00:18:44.369 The Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace, approved of that 00:18:44.369 --> 00:18:48.369 He ordered Ibn Omar to obey his father in divorcing her 00:18:48.369 --> 00:18:51.369 Even if Omar was unjust to her 00:18:51.369 --> 00:18:56.369 When the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace, agreed with him on that 00:18:56.369 --> 00:19:01.490 On the authority of Abu Darda, may God be pleased with him 00:19:01.490 --> 00:19:04.490 A man came to him and said: 00:19:04.490 --> 00:19:09.490 I have a wife and my mother is ordering me to divorce her 00:19:09.490 --> 00:19:10.519 And he said 00:19:10.519 --> 00:19:15.519 I heard the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, say 00:19:15.519 --> 00:19:18.519 The father is the middle of the gates of Paradise 00:19:18.519 --> 00:19:23.519 If you want, delete that section or memorize it 00:19:23.519 --> 00:19:26.779 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 00:19:26.779 --> 00:19:29.349 The middle gates of heaven 00:19:29.349 --> 00:19:32.349 That is, the best of its doors 00:19:32.349 --> 00:19:34.900 One of the benefits of talking 00:19:34.900 --> 00:19:40.220 Honoring parents is a reason for entering Paradise and opening its doors 00:19:40.220 --> 00:19:45.660 Pleasing the parents takes precedence over pleasing the wife 00:19:45.660 --> 00:19:48.079 Someone who loves something 00:19:48.079 --> 00:19:52.079 His parents, or one of them, asked him to leave it 00:19:52.079 --> 00:19:54.079 So he felt sad for him 00:19:54.079 --> 00:19:56.079 The first thing he does 00:19:56.079 --> 00:19:59.079 Consulting knowledgeable people 00:19:59.079 --> 00:20:04.299 On the authority of Al-Baraa bin Azib, may God be pleased with them both 00:20:04.299 --> 00:20:08.299 On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said 00:20:08.299 --> 00:20:11.329 An aunt is like a mother 00:20:11.329 --> 00:20:13.490 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 00:20:13.490 --> 00:20:17.220 One of the benefits of talking 00:20:17.220 --> 00:20:19.480 An aunt is like a mother 00:20:19.480 --> 00:20:22.480 In sympathy with her sister's children 00:20:22.480 --> 00:20:25.480 She is also in their custody 00:20:25.480 --> 00:20:29.769 It is obligatory to be kind to the aunt and be kind to her 00:20:29.769 --> 00:20:32.769 Just as a servant treats his mother kindly 00:20:32.769 --> 00:20:37.250 The aunt in the nursery takes precedence over the paternal aunt 00:20:37.250 --> 00:20:40.859 This conversation is specific to nursery 00:20:40.859 --> 00:20:44.859 There is no evidence for it for those who claim that the maternal aunt inherits 00:20:44.859 --> 00:20:47.859 Because the nation inherits 00:20:47.859 --> 00:20:51.950 Riyadh Al-Salehin