Riyadh al-Salehin from the words of the Master of Messengers, may God bless him and grant him peace
Chapter on honoring one’s parents and maintaining family ties
On the authority of Abdullah bin Omar bin Al-Aas, may God be pleased with them both
On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said
The connector is not equivalent
But the one who connects them, if his ties of kinship are severed, he connects them
Narrated by Al-Bukhari
The one who is connected to his family and relatives
The rewarder who rewards them for their connection and kindness
One of the benefits of talking
A Muslim must begin maintaining ties with his relatives and continue doing so
Even if he did not return his deed with kindness
The necessity of deeds being sincere to God
Even if no immediate good comes from it in this world
It is a permanent good in the afterlife
Insulting a Muslim does not make him cut off good deeds from the offended person
A kinship relationship considered by Islamic law
It is to reach out to those who cut you off and forgive those who wronged you
And you give to those who deprive you
There is no connection between the interview and the metaphor
If this happened to relatives without intention or anticipation
That is the grace of God, which He gives to whomever He wishes
God is of great bounty
On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
The womb is hanging on the throne, she says
Whoever reaches me, may God reach him
And whoever cuts me off, God will cut him off
Agreed
On the authority of the Mother of the Believers, Maymunah bint Al-Harith, may God be pleased with her
She freed a child
She did not ask permission from the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
When it was her day that came to her
She said: “I feel, O Messenger of God.”
I freed my daughter
He said or did you do?
She said yes
He said: If you had given her your maternal uncles, your reward would have been greater
Agreed
I was notified, i.e. informed
The offspring of his mother
One of the benefits of talking
It is permissible for the wife to dispose of her money
The man visits his family during their day
He hears what concerns them in what has been allocated to them
One of the means of strengthening marital bonds
For a woman to tell her husband what she did
Or whatever you want to do
Charity to relatives is better and greater
Because it is charity and connection
A Muslim should be guided by the opinions of scholars and scholars
To put things in their place
Or achieve more good
On the authority of Asmaa bint Abu Bakr Al-Siddiq, may God be pleased with them, she said
My mother came to me and she is a polytheist
During the era of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
So I asked the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
I said my mother came to me and she was willing
Should I pray for my mother? He said: Yes, pray for your mother. Agreed upon
And she said, “Raghiba” means someone who is greedy of me and asks me something
It was said that her mother was from lineage, and it was said from breastfeeding, and the first is correct
During the era of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
That is, his treaty with the polytheists of Quraish in Hudaybiyyah
One of the benefits of talking
It is permissible to honor polytheist parents
As long as they are not combatants
It is necessary to ask the people of remembrance
If the questioner is not knowledgeable
Therefore, Asmaa investigated her religion
It indicates that knowledge comes before words and actions
It is permissible to bid farewell to the people of war
And their treatment during the truce
And about Zainab cultural
The wife of Abdullah bin Masoud, may God be pleased with him and her
She said: The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Believe me, O women
Even if you are beautiful
She said, “So I went back to Abdullah bin Masoud and told him.”
You are a light-handed man
And the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
We have been commanded to give charity
So go to him and ask him
If that is enough for me
Otherwise, I will spend it on others
Abdullah said
Rather, bring it yourself
So I set off
Then a woman from the Ansar was at the door of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
My need is her need
He was the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
Awe was cast upon him
So Bilal came out to us
So we told him
Come to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
So tell him that two women are at the door asking you
Is it sufficient to give charity on their behalf to their spouses?
And orphans in their laps
Don't tell him who we are
So Bilal entered upon the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
So he asked him
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to him
Of them
He said
An Ansar woman and Zainab
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
What a beauty he has
He said
Abdullah's woman
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
They have two wages
The reward of kinship and the reward of charity
Agreed
Light hand
That is, little money
Prestige
That is, prestige and reverence
In their laps
That is, in their jurisdiction
One of the benefits of talking
Permissibility of giving charity
Even if it was the obligatory zakat
To the husband and children
Those whose expenses are not obligatory for the zakat payer
Like a wife
It is permissible for a woman to leave her home for her needs
And asking about her religion
Seeking knowledge is obligatory for Muslims, male and female
It is necessary to ask people of knowledge and dhikr
If the questioner is not knowledgeable
It is permissible for a woman to take wealth rather than a man
Even if he was poor and needy
Charity to relatives has two rewards
Charity and connection
It is permissible to ask the mufti
The questioner asking about his name
And get to know his person
Who is ashamed when asked
He can tell someone else what he wants
To bring it to the world
Then he takes the answer from him
On the authority of Abu Sufyan
Sakhr bin Harb, may God be pleased with him
In his long speech in his story Raql
Raqla said to Abu Sufyan
What does he command you to do?
It means the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
He said, I said, he says
Worship God alone
And do not associate anything with Him
And abandon what your fathers say
He commands us to pray and be honest
Chastity and connection
Agreed
On the authority of Abu Dharr, may God be pleased with him, he said
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
You will conquer a land in which the Qirat will be mentioned
And in a novel
You will conquer Egypt
It is a land in which it is called karat
So treat its people well
For they have protection and mercy
And in a novel
If you conquer it, do good to its people
For they have protection and mercy
Or he said
Dhimma and son-in-law
Narrated by Muslim
Scientists said
The womb that is theirs
The fact that Hagar, the mother of Ishmael, may God bless him and grant him peace, was one of them
And the son-in-law
That Maria was the mother of Ibrahim, son of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, was one of them
Carat
He's half-dang
The Danaq is one-sixth of the dirham
Dhimma means right and sanctity
In-laws
That is, the woman's household
One of the benefits of talking
The miracle of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
By telling him that his nation will conquer Egypt
The imam should advise the army to fear God
And no corruption on earth
This is how the Rightly Guided Caliphs were after the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
Islam came to the worlds as a mercy
To worship God alone
He is the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
The Muslim army wishes the people of Egypt good deeds
It is desirable to be kind to those close to one another, relatives, and in-laws
Even if they were polytheists
Unless he fights God and His Messenger
The concept of kinship is broader than close kinship
What is meant by the womb
Hagar, mother of Ismail, peace and blessings be upon him
The entry of kinship on the mother’s side into the concept of the womb
On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said
When this verse was revealed
And warn your closest clan
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, called the Quraysh
So they gathered, and he spoke in general and in private
And he said
O sons of Abd Shams
O Banu Kaab bin Luay
Save yourselves from the fire
O son of Murrah bin Ka'b
Save yourselves from the fire
O sons of Abd Manaf
Save yourselves from the fire
Oh Bani Hashem
Save yourselves from the fire
O sons of Abdul Muttalib
Save yourselves from the fire
Oh Fatima
Save yourself from fire
For I do not possess anything for you from God
However, you have a uterus that I will wet with its wetness
Narrated by Muslim
His saying, may God bless him and grant him peace
With her wetness
Bilal is water
And the meaning of the hadith
I will get it
He likened its cutting to heat that is extinguished by water
This is cooled by connection
One of the benefits of talking
Reward in the afterlife will be for faith and good deeds
Kinship and lineage are of no use
The necessity of maintaining family ties and taking care of them
And try to reform them and direct them to goodness
Breaking family ties is a fire that fuels envy, hatred, and hatred in this world
And a painful torment in the afterlife
It should be wet
He is her connection
That extinguishes longing and removes adversity
The first thing that is required of the caller to God
Warning his family and then his clan
Because they are more deserving of goodness than others
Then those who follow them
So that goodness may spread to all people
A statement that the man’s clan are the people of his country and his people
Whoever wanted to warn their uncle's people
Then he singled them out by their names
Mentioning the name resonates with the soul
The one who calls to God should
To show people the intensity of his love for them and his concern for them
And his fear for their fate
On the authority of Abu Abdullah Omar bin Al-Aas, may God be pleased with them both, he said
I heard the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, saying publicly, not secretly
The family of Banu So-and-so are not my friends
He is the guardian of God and the righteous of the believers
But they have a womb that is wet with its wetness
Agreed
The pronunciation is by Bukhari
My guardian, that is, my supporter, whom I take charge of in all matters
One of the benefits of talking
There is no guardianship between a Muslim and an infidel
Even if it is permissible to have a polytheist kinship other than a warrior
The brotherhood of religion and the bond of Islam are greater than ties of blood, lineage, and interest
Muslims are friends of each other
The womb that one is commanded to maintain and one that is threatened to be cut off
She is the one for whom God has decreed this
As for those whom God commanded to cut it off for the sake of religion
So you are excluded from that
It does not apply to the one who breaks the threat
On the authority of Abu Ayyub
Khaled bin Zaidin Al-Ansari, may God be pleased with him
A man said, O Messenger of God
Tell me something that will take me into Paradise and keep me away from Hell
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Worship God and do not associate anything with Him
And perform prayer
And you pay zakat
And reach the womb
Agreed
One of the benefits of talking
Monotheism, establishing prayer, and paying zakat
Link of the womb
One of the reasons for entering Paradise and staying away from Hell
Knowledge of goodness is achieved by learning
Knowledge can only be obtained by seeking it
The first question
On the authority of Salman bin Amer, may God be pleased with him
On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said
If one of you breaks his fast
Let him break his fast with dates
It is a blessing
If he does not find dates
Water
It is purification
And he said
Charity given to the poor is charity
And two of the relatives
Charity and connection
Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi
One of the benefits of talking
It is desirable to break the fast with dates
Whoever does not find it must water
This was confirmed by his actions, may God bless him and grant him peace
Charity and kindness to relatives are doubled
Because there is charity and connection in it
On the authority of Ibn Omar, may God be pleased with them both, he said:
She was under a woman
And I loved her
Omar hated her
He said to me
He divorced her
So I refused
Then Omar, may God be pleased with him, came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
So mention that to him
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
He divorced her
Narrated by Abu Dawud and Al-Tirmidhi
One of the benefits of talking
The obligation to obey the father in matters imposed on him by Islam
It is permissible to hate a Muslim man or woman
Because there are some bad qualities in it
Provided that this hatred does not exceed this characteristic
The obligation to obey the father
If he orders something, the religion approves of it
Ibn Omar loved his wife with an innate love
Omar hated her
Religious hatred
So he ordered him to divorce her
The Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace, approved of that
He ordered Ibn Omar to obey his father in divorcing her
Even if Omar was unjust to her
When the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace, agreed with him on that
On the authority of Abu Darda, may God be pleased with him
A man came to him and said:
I have a wife and my mother is ordering me to divorce her
And he said
I heard the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, say
The father is the middle of the gates of Paradise
If you want, delete that section or memorize it
Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi
The middle gates of heaven
That is, the best of its doors
One of the benefits of talking
Honoring parents is a reason for entering Paradise and opening its doors
Pleasing the parents takes precedence over pleasing the wife
Someone who loves something
His parents, or one of them, asked him to leave it
So he felt sad for him
The first thing he does
Consulting knowledgeable people
On the authority of Al-Baraa bin Azib, may God be pleased with them both
On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said
An aunt is like a mother
Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi
One of the benefits of talking
An aunt is like a mother
In sympathy with her sister's children
She is also in their custody
It is obligatory to be kind to the aunt and be kind to her
Just as a servant treats his mother kindly
The aunt in the nursery takes precedence over the paternal aunt
This conversation is specific to nursery
There is no evidence for it for those who claim that the maternal aunt inherits
Because the nation inherits
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