1 00:00:00,780 --> 00:00:09,779 *Riyadh al-Salihin* from the words of the Master of the Messengers, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him. 2 00:00:09,779 --> 00:00:15,439 Chapter on Altruism (*I'thar*) and Mutual Consolation. 3 00:00:15,439 --> 00:00:18,879 Allah the Exalted said: 4 00:00:18,879 --> 00:00:24,980 “Those who entered the city and the faith before them love those who flee unto them for refuge, and find in their breasts no need for that which hath been given them, but prefer (the fugitives) above themselves though poverty become their lot. And whoso is saved from his own avarice - such are they who are successful.” (59:9) 5 00:00:24,980 --> 00:00:27,199 And the Exalted said: 6 00:00:27,199 --> 00:00:34,200 “And feed with food the needy wretch, the orphan and the prisoner, for love of Him,” (76:8) 7 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:38,960 ...to the end of the verses. 8 00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:42,990 On the authority of Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: 9 00:00:42,990 --> 00:00:47,990 A man came to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and said, 10 00:00:47,990 --> 00:00:49,990 "I am exhausted by hunger." 11 00:00:49,990 --> 00:00:53,020 So he sent a message to one of his wives, 12 00:00:53,020 --> 00:00:54,020 but she said, 13 00:00:54,020 --> 00:00:59,020 "By the One Who sent you with the truth, I have nothing except water." 14 00:00:59,060 --> 00:01:01,060 Then he sent to another, 15 00:01:01,060 --> 00:01:04,090 and she said the same thing, 16 00:01:04,090 --> 00:01:07,090 until they all said the same: 17 00:01:07,090 --> 00:01:10,090 "No, by the One Who sent you with the truth, 18 00:01:10,090 --> 00:01:13,219 I have nothing except water." 19 00:01:13,219 --> 00:01:16,219 So the Prophet (peace be upon him) said, 20 00:01:16,219 --> 00:01:19,219 "Who will host this man tonight?" 21 00:01:19,219 --> 00:01:22,340 A man from the Ansar said, 22 00:01:22,340 --> 00:01:24,340 "I will, O Messenger of Allah." 23 00:01:24,340 --> 00:01:27,379 So he took him along to his home, 24 00:01:27,379 --> 00:01:29,379 and said to his wife, 25 00:01:29,379 --> 00:01:33,379 "Honor the guest of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him)." 26 00:01:33,379 --> 00:01:35,409 And in another narration, 27 00:01:35,409 --> 00:01:36,409 he said to his wife, 28 00:01:36,409 --> 00:01:38,409 "Do you have anything?" 29 00:01:38,409 --> 00:01:40,409 She said, "No, 30 00:01:40,409 --> 00:01:42,409 nothing except the sustenance of my children." 31 00:01:42,409 --> 00:01:46,409 He said, "Distract them with something, 32 00:01:46,409 --> 00:01:50,409 and if they want dinner, put them to sleep. 33 00:01:50,409 --> 00:01:52,409 When our guest enters, 34 00:01:52,409 --> 00:01:54,409 extinguish the lamp, 35 00:01:54,409 --> 00:01:56,409 and make him think that we are eating." 36 00:01:56,409 --> 00:01:59,409 So they sat, and the guest ate, 37 00:01:59,409 --> 00:02:01,409 while they spent the night hungry with empty bellies. 38 00:02:02,409 --> 00:02:04,409 When morning came, 39 00:02:04,409 --> 00:02:07,409 he went early to the Prophet (peace be upon him), 40 00:02:07,409 --> 00:02:09,409 who said, 41 00:02:09,409 --> 00:02:12,409 "Allah was indeed amazed by the deed of you two 42 00:02:12,409 --> 00:02:14,409 regarding your guest last night." 43 00:02:14,409 --> 00:02:16,539 Agreed upon. 44 00:02:16,539 --> 00:02:19,979 "Exhausted" (*majhud*): 45 00:02:19,979 --> 00:02:21,979 meaning hardship has afflicted me, 46 00:02:21,979 --> 00:02:24,979 which refers to distress, severe hardship, and hunger. 47 00:02:24,979 --> 00:02:27,389 "His home" (*rahlihi*): 48 00:02:27,389 --> 00:02:29,520 meaning his dwelling in town. 49 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:31,520 "Except the sustenance of my children": 50 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:37,520 meaning what they usually eat according to their habit and desire for food. 51 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:39,840 "Distract them" (*'allilihim*): 52 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:43,840 meaning occupy them with something other than this food. 53 00:02:43,840 --> 00:02:46,000 "And make him think that we are eating": 54 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:50,000 meaning give him the impression by moving hands over the food 55 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:52,000 and moving the mouth in chewing. 56 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:54,259 "With empty bellies" (*tawiyayn*): 57 00:02:54,259 --> 00:02:56,259 meaning hungry. 58 00:02:56,259 --> 00:02:58,449 "Went early" (*ghada*): 59 00:02:58,449 --> 00:03:00,449 meaning he came in the morning. 60 00:03:02,379 --> 00:03:04,569 Among the benefits of the hadith: 61 00:03:04,569 --> 00:03:09,050 Honoring the guest is obligatory in Islam. 62 00:03:09,050 --> 00:03:14,050 The permissibility of referring a guest to someone who is capable of spending on him 63 00:03:14,050 --> 00:03:16,560 and fulfilling his need. 64 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:21,560 An illustration of the state in which the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) lived, 65 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:25,560 regarding scarcity of provisions and asceticism in worldly life, 66 00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:28,139 alongside his abundant generosity. 67 00:03:28,139 --> 00:03:30,139 The virtue and chastity of the Ansar, 68 00:03:30,139 --> 00:03:32,139 and that they are people of altruism 69 00:03:32,139 --> 00:03:34,840 despite their own poverty. 70 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:38,840 Allah, Glorified and Exalted is He, is Ever-Watchful over His servants, 71 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:40,840 Aware of their deeds, 72 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:44,610 and All-Knowing of their conditions. 73 00:03:44,610 --> 00:03:50,180 The recommendation of expressing admiration for one who does good. 74 00:03:50,180 --> 00:03:54,180 A clarification of the reason for the revelation of Allah's statement regarding the Ansar: 75 00:03:54,180 --> 00:03:59,180 “Those who entered the city and the faith before them love those who flee unto them for refuge, and find in their breasts no need for that which hath been given them, but prefer (the fugitives) above themselves though poverty become their lot. And whoso is saved from his own avarice - such are they who are successful.” (59:9) 76 00:03:59,180 --> 00:04:05,819 "And whoever is saved from the greed of his soul — it is those who are the successful." 77 00:04:05,819 --> 00:04:08,819 Affirming the attribute of wonder (*al-'ajab*) for Allah, 78 00:04:08,819 --> 00:04:14,819 which is among the active attributes affirmed by Ahl al-Sunnah wa al-Jama'ah. 79 00:04:14,819 --> 00:04:20,009 On the authority of Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: 80 00:04:20,009 --> 00:04:24,009 The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said: 81 00:04:24,009 --> 00:04:27,009 "The food of two is sufficient for three, 82 00:04:27,009 --> 00:04:31,069 and the food of three is sufficient for four." 83 00:04:31,069 --> 00:04:33,230 Agreed upon. 84 00:04:33,230 --> 00:04:35,230 And in a narration by Muslim, 85 00:04:35,230 --> 00:04:38,230 on the authority of Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him), 86 00:04:38,230 --> 00:04:42,230 from the Prophet (peace be upon him), who said: 87 00:04:42,230 --> 00:04:45,230 "The food of one suffices for two, 88 00:04:45,230 --> 00:04:48,230 the food of two suffices for four, 89 00:04:48,230 --> 00:04:52,230 and the food of four suffices for eight." 90 00:04:52,230 --> 00:04:56,379 Among the benefits of the hadith: 91 00:04:56,379 --> 00:05:00,899 Encouragement of noble traits and contentment with what suffices. 92 00:05:00,899 --> 00:05:03,899 The recommendation of gathering together over food, 93 00:05:03,899 --> 00:05:07,899 because the larger the gathering, the greater the blessing. 94 00:05:07,899 --> 00:05:12,500 Sufficiency arises from the blessing of gathering together. 95 00:05:12,500 --> 00:05:15,889 Encouragement to feed others, 96 00:05:15,889 --> 00:05:18,889 and not looking down upon what one has 97 00:05:18,889 --> 00:05:20,889 so as to withhold offering it, 98 00:05:20,889 --> 00:05:23,889 for even a small amount may bring about sufficiency, 99 00:05:23,889 --> 00:05:27,889 in the sense of staving off hunger and sustaining the body, 100 00:05:27,889 --> 00:05:30,889 which is better than having nothing. 101 00:05:30,889 --> 00:05:37,170 On the authority of Abu Sa'id al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: 102 00:05:37,170 --> 00:05:42,170 While we were on a journey with the Prophet (peace be upon him), 103 00:05:42,170 --> 00:05:46,170 a man came on his mount 104 00:05:46,170 --> 00:05:50,170 and began looking right and left. 105 00:05:50,170 --> 00:05:54,170 So the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said: 106 00:05:54,170 --> 00:05:57,170 "Whoever has an extra mount, 107 00:05:57,170 --> 00:06:00,170 let him give it to the one who has no mount; 108 00:06:00,170 --> 00:06:03,360 and whoever has surplus provisions, 109 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:07,360 let him give them to the one who has no provisions." 110 00:06:07,360 --> 00:06:10,459 And he mentioned various types of wealth 111 00:06:10,459 --> 00:06:16,620 until we felt that none of us had any right to any surplus. 112 00:06:16,620 --> 00:06:18,620 Narrated by Muslim. 113 00:06:18,620 --> 00:06:22,220 "Looking" (*yasrif*): meaning turning his gaze about. 114 00:06:22,220 --> 00:06:24,350 "An extra mount" (*fadl dzahr*): 115 00:06:24,350 --> 00:06:27,350 meaning a riding animal beyond one's need. 116 00:06:27,350 --> 00:06:29,610 "Let him give it" (*fal-ya'ud bihi*): 117 00:06:29,610 --> 00:06:31,610 meaning let him give it in charity. 118 00:06:31,610 --> 00:06:35,730 Among the benefits of the hadith: 119 00:06:35,730 --> 00:06:41,139 The leader looks after his subjects and guides them to what is most upright for them. 120 00:06:41,139 --> 00:06:47,529 Encouragement to cooperate in doing good deeds and show solidarity in times of hardship. 121 00:06:47,529 --> 00:06:53,529 The swift response of the Companions to the desire of the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) 122 00:06:53,529 --> 00:06:55,529 and their implementation of it, 123 00:06:55,529 --> 00:07:00,709 for they were truly a source of joy to him. 124 00:07:00,709 --> 00:07:03,709 On the authority of Sahl ibn Sa'd (may Allah be pleased with him), 125 00:07:03,709 --> 00:07:08,709 that a woman came to the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) 126 00:07:08,709 --> 00:07:10,709 with a woven cloak (*burdah*), 127 00:07:10,709 --> 00:07:11,709 and said, 128 00:07:11,709 --> 00:07:15,709 "I wove it with my own hands to clothe you with it." 129 00:07:15,709 --> 00:07:21,810 So the Prophet (peace be upon him) took it, being in need of it. 130 00:07:21,810 --> 00:07:24,810 Then he came out to us wearing it as his lower garment. 131 00:07:24,810 --> 00:07:26,810 A certain man said, 132 00:07:26,810 --> 00:07:29,810 "Clothe me with it; how beautiful it is!" 133 00:07:29,810 --> 00:07:30,810 He replied, 134 00:07:30,810 --> 00:07:31,810 "Yes." 135 00:07:31,810 --> 00:07:36,810 So the Prophet (peace be upon him) sat in the gathering for a while, 136 00:07:36,810 --> 00:07:38,810 then returned home, folded it up, 137 00:07:38,810 --> 00:07:41,810 and sent it to him. 138 00:07:41,810 --> 00:07:43,870 The people said to the man, 139 00:07:43,870 --> 00:07:44,870 "You did not do well! 140 00:07:44,870 --> 00:07:49,870 The Prophet (peace be upon him) wore it while he was in need of it, 141 00:07:49,870 --> 00:07:51,870 yet you asked him for it, 142 00:07:51,870 --> 00:07:55,870 knowing that he never turns down anyone who asks." 143 00:07:55,870 --> 00:07:56,870 He replied, 144 00:07:56,870 --> 00:08:00,870 "By Allah, I did not ask him for it to wear it; 145 00:08:00,870 --> 00:08:04,870 I only asked him for it so that it would be my shroud." 146 00:08:04,870 --> 00:08:06,000 Sahl said: 147 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:09,189 "And it indeed served as his shroud." 148 00:08:09,189 --> 00:08:11,189 Narrated by al-Bukhari. 149 00:08:11,189 --> 00:08:14,060 "A cloak" (*burdah*): 150 00:08:14,060 --> 00:08:16,060 it is a striped wrap. 151 00:08:16,060 --> 00:08:18,149 "His lower garment" (*izar*): 152 00:08:18,149 --> 00:08:21,149 meaning he wrapped it around the lower part of his body, 153 00:08:21,149 --> 00:08:26,149 because the *izar* is what is worn on the lower half of the body to cover the nakedness. 154 00:08:26,149 --> 00:08:30,370 Among the benefits of the hadith: 155 00:08:30,370 --> 00:08:36,850 The recommendation to readily accept a gift to comfort the heart of the giver. 156 00:08:36,850 --> 00:08:40,850 The generosity of the Prophet (peace be upon him) and the vastness of his munificence, 157 00:08:40,850 --> 00:08:45,360 and that he never turned away anyone who asked. 158 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:49,360 The permissibility of preparing an item before the time of its need, 159 00:08:49,360 --> 00:08:52,360 as this man designated it to be his shroud. 160 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:56,000 The legitimacy of relying on contextual clues, 161 00:08:56,000 --> 00:09:00,000 as the Companions deduced from the Messenger's taking it 162 00:09:00,000 --> 00:09:02,000 that he was in need of it, 163 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:06,000 so they said, "He took it while in need of it." 164 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:11,580 The permissibility of expressing admiration for garments seen on others, 165 00:09:11,580 --> 00:09:14,580 either to let them know its worth, 166 00:09:14,580 --> 00:09:19,580 or to hint at requesting it when that is appropriate. 167 00:09:19,580 --> 00:09:24,960 The legitimacy of censuring perceived breaches of etiquette, 168 00:09:24,960 --> 00:09:27,960 even if they do not reach the level of prohibition. 169 00:09:27,960 --> 00:09:33,779 On the authority of Abu Musa (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: 170 00:09:33,779 --> 00:09:37,779 The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said: 171 00:09:37,779 --> 00:09:41,779 "When the Ash'aris run short of provisions during military expeditions, 172 00:09:41,779 --> 00:09:44,779 or the food of their families runs low in Madinah, 173 00:09:44,779 --> 00:09:48,779 they collect whatever they have in a single cloth, 174 00:09:48,779 --> 00:09:53,779 and then divide it equally among themselves in a single vessel. 175 00:09:53,779 --> 00:09:57,850 So they are of me, and I am of them." 176 00:09:57,850 --> 00:10:00,100 Agreed upon. 177 00:10:00,100 --> 00:10:05,299 "Run short of provisions" (*armalu*): their provisions run out or come close to depletion. 178 00:10:05,299 --> 00:10:11,190 "During military expeditions" (*fi al-ghazw*): meaning going out to fight the enemy. 179 00:10:11,190 --> 00:10:16,289 "They are of me": meaning they are close to me in character and guidance. 180 00:10:16,289 --> 00:10:20,120 Among the benefits of the hadith: 181 00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:23,250 A clarification of the virtue of the Ash'aris, 182 00:10:23,250 --> 00:10:27,250 who are the tribe of Abu Musa al-Ash'ari (may Allah be pleased with him). 183 00:10:27,250 --> 00:10:30,730 A clarification of the virtue of mutual consolation, 184 00:10:30,730 --> 00:10:33,730 the merit of pooling provisions together while traveling, 185 00:10:33,730 --> 00:10:38,730 and gathering them in one place when they are scarce and then distributing them. 186 00:10:38,730 --> 00:10:43,179 The permissibility of a person speaking about the virtues of his people. 187 00:10:43,179 --> 00:10:48,799 Chapter on Competing in Matters of the Hereafter 188 00:10:48,799 --> 00:10:51,799 and Seeking Abundance in What Brings Blessing (*Barakah*). 189 00:10:51,799 --> 00:10:55,019 Allah the Exalted said: 190 00:10:55,019 --> 00:11:00,019 “Whose seal is musk - for this let (all) those strive who strive for bliss -” (83:26) 191 00:11:00,019 --> 00:11:04,200 On the authority of Sahl ibn Sa'd (may Allah be pleased with him), 192 00:11:04,200 --> 00:11:08,200 that the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) 193 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:09,200 was brought a drink, 194 00:11:09,200 --> 00:11:11,200 so he drank from it. 195 00:11:11,200 --> 00:11:13,200 On his right was a young boy, 196 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:16,200 and on his left were the elders. 197 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:18,259 So he said to the boy, 198 00:11:18,259 --> 00:11:21,259 "Do you permit me to give these elders first?" 199 00:11:21,259 --> 00:11:23,259 The boy said, 200 00:11:23,259 --> 00:11:26,259 "No, by Allah, O Messenger of Allah! 201 00:11:26,259 --> 00:11:29,259 I will not give preference to anyone over my share of your blessing." 202 00:11:29,259 --> 00:11:34,299 So the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) placed it in his hand. 203 00:11:34,299 --> 00:11:36,419 [Agreed upon]. 204 00:11:36,419 --> 00:11:39,679 "He handed it," meaning he placed it. 205 00:11:39,679 --> 00:11:44,679 This young boy was Ibn 'Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him and his father). 206 00:11:44,679 --> 00:11:48,419 "Al-Ashyakh" is the plural of "Shaykh," 207 00:11:48,419 --> 00:11:51,419 which refers to someone advanced in age. 208 00:11:51,419 --> 00:11:53,480 "My share of you," 209 00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:57,480 meaning of the remnant of your blessing and virtue. 210 00:11:57,480 --> 00:12:00,340 Among the lessons of the hadith: 211 00:12:00,340 --> 00:12:03,730 The general Sunnah regarding drinking. 212 00:12:03,730 --> 00:12:06,730 Giving precedence to the right side in every situation. 213 00:12:06,730 --> 00:12:13,210 Giving precedence to the right is not due to higher status or favoring them over others present, 214 00:12:13,210 --> 00:12:16,750 but rather to give precedence to that side itself. 215 00:12:16,750 --> 00:12:22,100 Prioritizing legal (Shar'i) considerations over all other considerations. 216 00:12:22,100 --> 00:12:27,100 The recommendation to respect elders and accord people their proper status, 217 00:12:27,100 --> 00:12:30,100 so long as it does not conflict with a legal ruling. 218 00:12:30,100 --> 00:12:36,490 The rightful owner takes precedence over others in receiving their full right, and they need not yield it to others. 219 00:12:36,490 --> 00:12:42,029 The eagerness of the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) for whatever benefited them. 220 00:12:42,029 --> 00:12:46,639 Encouragement to give dues to their rightful owners. 221 00:12:46,639 --> 00:12:49,990 Good manners when interacting with people, 222 00:12:49,990 --> 00:12:53,730 whether they are old or young. 223 00:12:53,730 --> 00:12:56,730 The permissibility of youngsters attending gatherings of elders, 224 00:12:56,730 --> 00:13:00,730 because it serves to teach and discipline them; 225 00:13:00,730 --> 00:13:05,730 for true manhood is only learned in the gatherings of men. 226 00:13:05,730 --> 00:13:09,879 On the authority of Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him), 227 00:13:09,879 --> 00:13:13,879 from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), who said: 228 00:13:13,879 --> 00:13:17,879 "While Ayyub (peace be upon him) was bathing naked, 229 00:13:17,879 --> 00:13:21,879 golden locusts fell upon him, 230 00:13:21,879 --> 00:13:24,879 so Ayyub began scooping them up into his garment. 231 00:13:24,879 --> 00:13:27,909 Thereupon, his Lord, Mighty and Majestic, called out to him: 232 00:13:27,909 --> 00:13:32,909 'O Ayyub, did I not make you rich enough not to need what you see?' 233 00:13:32,909 --> 00:13:35,909 He said: 'Yes, by Your Might, 234 00:13:35,909 --> 00:13:39,909 but I cannot do without Your blessing.'" 235 00:13:39,909 --> 00:13:46,350 Narrated by al-Bukhari. "Fakharra" means they fell down. 236 00:13:46,350 --> 00:13:48,580 "Golden locusts," 237 00:13:48,580 --> 00:13:51,580 meaning pieces of gold resembling locusts 238 00:13:51,580 --> 00:13:54,580 in shape and abundance. 239 00:13:54,580 --> 00:14:00,830 "He scooped," meaning he took them with his hand and tossed them into his garment. 240 00:14:00,830 --> 00:14:05,139 Among the lessons of the hadith: 241 00:14:05,139 --> 00:14:10,139 Encouragement to seek whatever increases a person in blessing and bounty. 242 00:14:10,139 --> 00:14:14,720 The permissibility of desiring to acquire an abundance of lawful wealth, 243 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:17,720 for someone who is confident they will remain grateful for it. 244 00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:21,870 The virtue of the grateful wealthy person. 245 00:14:21,870 --> 00:14:26,870 The permissibility of bathing naked when alone in private, 246 00:14:26,870 --> 00:14:30,379 though covering oneself is better. 247 00:14:30,379 --> 00:14:35,149 Affirming the attribute of Speech for Allah the Exalted. 248 00:14:35,149 --> 00:14:39,149 Riyad al-Salihin.