WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.000 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 00:00:15.609 --> 00:00:17.609 Mawaddah Association is pleased 00:00:17.609 --> 00:00:19.899 To be presented to you 00:00:19.899 --> 00:00:23.019 Pictures from the lives of female companions 00:00:23.019 --> 00:00:27.019 By Dr. Abdul Rahman Raafat Al-Basha 00:00:27.019 --> 00:00:31.780 May God have mercy on him 00:00:31.780 --> 00:00:36.810 Al-Ghumisa bint Milhan, may God be pleased with her 00:00:49.539 --> 00:00:56.119 Al-Ghumisa was the daughter of Malhan 00:00:56.119 --> 00:00:59.119 When Islam spread its light on earth 00:00:59.119 --> 00:01:03.119 Nasfa is approaching forty years of age 00:01:03.119 --> 00:01:05.120 Her husband was Malik bin Al-Nadhar 00:01:05.120 --> 00:01:09.120 He bestows upon her His abundant love and the shade of His affection 00:01:09.120 --> 00:01:12.120 What filled her life with insight and happiness 00:01:12.120 --> 00:01:16.120 The people of Yathrib were happy with the happy husband 00:01:16.120 --> 00:01:20.120 For his wife's clear-headedness 00:01:20.120 --> 00:01:23.120 After consideration and good judgment 00:01:23.120 --> 00:01:26.180 And on one of God's eternal days 00:01:26.180 --> 00:01:31.180 He went to Yathrib with the Meccan preacher Musab bin Umair 00:01:32.180 --> 00:01:36.180 The first ray of Muhammad's guidance 00:01:36.180 --> 00:01:39.180 So the heart of Al-Ghumisa opens for him 00:01:39.180 --> 00:01:43.180 Riyadh's flowers also bloom to herald the morning 00:01:43.180 --> 00:01:46.180 She soon declared her conversion to Islam 00:01:46.180 --> 00:01:50.180 The day the Muslims in Medina were counted on their fingers 00:01:50.180 --> 00:01:54.180 Then the loyal wife called her beloved husband 00:01:54.180 --> 00:01:59.180 To drink with her from this sweet and pure divine source 00:01:59.180 --> 00:02:03.180 May he enjoy the happiness of faith that you have enjoyed 00:02:03.180 --> 00:02:05.180 But Malik Ibn Al-Nazar 00:02:05.180 --> 00:02:08.180 He did not explain the new religion 00:02:08.180 --> 00:02:11.180 And he was not pleased with him 00:02:11.180 --> 00:02:15.180 In fact, he called on his wife in return to abandon Islam 00:02:15.180 --> 00:02:19.180 And returning to the religion of our fathers and grandfathers 00:02:19.180 --> 00:02:22.180 Both spouses stuck to their position 00:02:22.180 --> 00:02:27.180 Al-Ghumisaa hates to return to disbelief after believing 00:02:27.180 --> 00:02:30.180 What a person hates is being thrown into the fire 00:02:30.180 --> 00:02:35.180 Malik stubbornly adheres to the religion of his fathers and grandfathers 00:02:35.180 --> 00:02:37.180 She was the fool 00:02:37.180 --> 00:02:41.180 She has the strength of the argument to speak against her husband 00:02:41.180 --> 00:02:44.180 There was a light of truth in her calling 00:02:44.180 --> 00:02:48.180 What exposes his flimsy and incoherent falsehood 00:02:48.180 --> 00:02:51.180 Malik had a wooden idol 00:02:51.180 --> 00:02:53.180 He worships him instead of God 00:02:53.180 --> 00:02:56.180 She was arguing with him about his matter, saying: 00:02:56.180 --> 00:03:01.180 Worship the trunk of a tree that grows in the ground you tread on 00:03:01.180 --> 00:03:04.180 And throw your waste into it 00:03:04.180 --> 00:03:10.250 Do you pray for a piece of wood that we will drag for you, an Ethiopian from the craftsmen of Medina? 00:03:10.250 --> 00:03:14.250 When the husband was fed up with his wife's compelling arguments 00:03:14.250 --> 00:03:16.250 He left the city 00:03:16.250 --> 00:03:21.250 He went on his way, heading towards the Levant 00:03:21.250 --> 00:03:26.250 Then he did not stay there for a while until he died as a result of his polytheism 00:03:26.250 --> 00:03:30.280 As soon as news spread in the city about Al-Ghumisa’s demise 00:03:30.280 --> 00:03:34.280 So many men are eager to marry her 00:03:34.280 --> 00:03:38.280 Had they not been afraid that you would return them disappointed 00:03:38.280 --> 00:03:42.280 Because of the difference between them in religion 00:03:42.280 --> 00:03:46.280 However, Zaid bin Sahl called Abu Talha 00:03:46.280 --> 00:03:51.280 He coveted her satisfaction with him due to the close ties that existed between them 00:03:51.280 --> 00:03:54.280 Both of them are from Bin Al-Najjar 00:03:54.280 --> 00:03:57.500 Abu Talha went to Al-Ghumisa's house 00:03:57.500 --> 00:04:00.500 He addressed her by her nickname, saying: 00:04:00.500 --> 00:04:04.500 O Umm Salim, I have come to you with a suitor 00:04:04.500 --> 00:04:07.500 I hope I will not respond disappointed 00:04:07.500 --> 00:04:11.500 She said, “By God, there is no one like you who can respond, Abu Talha.” 00:04:12.500 --> 00:04:16.500 But you are an infidel man and I am a Muslim woman 00:04:16.500 --> 00:04:19.500 It is not permissible for me to marry you 00:04:19.500 --> 00:04:22.500 If he accepts it, that is my dowry 00:04:22.500 --> 00:04:25.500 I do not want any friendship from you other than Islam 00:04:25.500 --> 00:04:30.540 He said, “Leave me to look into my matter,” and he left 00:04:30.540 --> 00:04:34.540 The next day, he returned to her and said: 00:04:34.540 --> 00:04:39.540 I bear witness that there is no god but God alone, without partners 00:04:39.540 --> 00:04:43.540 I bear witness that Muhammad is His servant and Messenger 00:04:43.540 --> 00:04:47.600 She said, “But you have converted to Islam.” 00:04:47.600 --> 00:04:49.600 I have accepted you as a husband 00:04:49.600 --> 00:04:52.600 So he made people say 00:04:52.600 --> 00:04:54.600 We have never heard of a woman 00:04:54.600 --> 00:04:57.600 She was a more generous foal than Umm Salim 00:04:57.600 --> 00:05:00.699 Her dowry was Islam 00:05:00.699 --> 00:05:04.699 Yes, Abu Talha was as good as Umm Salim was 00:05:04.699 --> 00:05:07.699 From Karim Al-Shamael and Nabil Al-Khasael 00:05:07.699 --> 00:05:11.699 Then he was happier with it because it was given to him 00:05:11.699 --> 00:05:15.699 A boy who became the apple of his eye and the joy of his heart 00:05:15.699 --> 00:05:19.699 But while he was preparing for one of his travels 00:05:19.699 --> 00:05:23.699 The little boy complained of an illness that befell him 00:05:23.699 --> 00:05:26.699 He was greatly alarmed 00:05:26.699 --> 00:05:28.699 It almost distracted him from traveling 00:05:28.699 --> 00:05:32.699 And in his short absence, those with the opposite branch 00:05:32.699 --> 00:05:34.699 Then he was buried 00:05:34.699 --> 00:05:37.699 Umm Salim said to her family: 00:05:37.699 --> 00:05:40.699 Do not tell Abu Talha about his son's death 00:05:40.699 --> 00:05:42.699 Until I tell him 00:05:42.699 --> 00:05:45.819 Abu Talha returned from his trip 00:05:45.819 --> 00:05:48.819 So Umm Salim received it Hasha Basha 00:05:48.819 --> 00:05:50.819 Exciting joy 00:05:50.819 --> 00:05:53.860 So he asked her about the boy 00:05:53.860 --> 00:05:55.860 She said let him 00:05:55.860 --> 00:05:58.860 For now I dwell on what I have known 00:05:58.860 --> 00:06:01.980 Then she brought dinner to him 00:06:01.980 --> 00:06:05.980 She made him feel comfortable and brought joy to his heart 00:06:05.980 --> 00:06:08.980 When I found that he was satisfied and rested 00:06:08.980 --> 00:06:09.980 She told him 00:06:09.980 --> 00:06:11.980 O Abu Talha! 00:06:11.980 --> 00:06:16.980 What do you think, if some people got back a naked woman, they lent it to others? 00:06:16.980 --> 00:06:20.980 Do they have the right to step on them and prevent them from doing so? 00:06:20.980 --> 00:06:22.980 He said no 00:06:22.980 --> 00:06:26.980 She said that God took back from you what he gave 00:06:26.980 --> 00:06:28.980 So count your son with him 00:06:28.980 --> 00:06:33.980 Abu Talha received God's judgment with satisfaction and submission 00:06:33.980 --> 00:06:36.019 And when it became 00:06:36.019 --> 00:06:39.019 Tomorrow to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:06:39.019 --> 00:06:42.019 He told him about what happened to Umm Salim 00:06:42.019 --> 00:06:47.019 He prayed for him and her that God would compensate them with something better than what they lost 00:06:47.019 --> 00:06:50.019 And bless them in return 00:06:50.019 --> 00:06:55.110 So God Almighty answered the supplication of His Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:06:55.110 --> 00:06:57.110 Umm Salim became pregnant 00:06:57.110 --> 00:06:59.110 When she completed her pregnancy 00:06:59.110 --> 00:07:02.110 She was returning to the city from travel 00:07:02.110 --> 00:07:06.110 She and her husband are with the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:07:06.110 --> 00:07:08.110 When they approached Yathrib 00:07:08.110 --> 00:07:10.110 She went into labor 00:07:10.110 --> 00:07:13.110 Abu Talha stopped with her 00:07:13.110 --> 00:07:17.110 The Holy Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, passed away 00:07:17.110 --> 00:07:21.110 He wants to enter the city before night falls 00:07:21.110 --> 00:07:25.110 Abu Talha raised his eyes to the sky and said 00:07:26.110 --> 00:07:28.110 You know, Lord 00:07:28.110 --> 00:07:33.110 I would like to go out with your messenger when he goes out 00:07:33.110 --> 00:07:36.110 And to enter with him if he enters 00:07:36.110 --> 00:07:39.110 What you see prevented me from doing that 00:07:39.110 --> 00:07:41.110 Umm Salim said to him 00:07:41.110 --> 00:07:43.110 O Abu Talha! 00:07:43.110 --> 00:07:47.110 By God, I do not feel the pain of labor with this baby 00:07:47.110 --> 00:07:49.110 What I was finding before 00:07:49.110 --> 00:07:51.110 So he set off with us 00:07:51.110 --> 00:07:56.110 Do not be late in the company of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:07:56.110 --> 00:08:01.110 So he set off until he reached Medina and she gave birth 00:08:01.110 --> 00:08:03.110 So he was a boy 00:08:03.110 --> 00:08:05.110 She said to those around her 00:08:05.110 --> 00:08:11.110 No one should breastfeed him before you take him to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:08:11.110 --> 00:08:13.110 When it became 00:08:13.110 --> 00:08:16.110 His brother Anas bin Malik carried it to him 00:08:16.110 --> 00:08:20.110 When the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, saw him coming 00:08:20.110 --> 00:08:23.110 He said that Umm Salim may have given birth 00:08:23.110 --> 00:08:26.110 He said: Yes, O Messenger of God 00:08:26.110 --> 00:08:28.110 He put the boy on his lap 00:08:28.110 --> 00:08:31.110 So he was called Ajwa from Ajju of the city 00:08:31.110 --> 00:08:34.110 He put it in his honorable mouth until it melted 00:08:34.110 --> 00:08:37.110 And put it in the boy's mouth 00:08:37.110 --> 00:08:39.110 So he started licking it 00:08:39.110 --> 00:08:42.110 Then he wiped his face with his generous hand 00:08:42.110 --> 00:08:44.110 He named him Abdullah 00:08:44.110 --> 00:08:49.460 From his family came ten good Islamic scholars 00:08:49.460 --> 00:08:52.460 It was the same as Umm Salim 00:08:52.460 --> 00:08:56.460 She loved the Messenger of God, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him 00:08:56.460 --> 00:08:59.460 A mixture of flesh and bone 00:08:59.460 --> 00:09:02.460 And he resides in the grain of the heart 00:09:02.460 --> 00:09:04.460 Her love for him had reached the point of being 00:09:04.460 --> 00:09:08.460 What her son Anas, may God be pleased with him, narrated about him, said: 00:09:08.460 --> 00:09:11.460 He was the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:09:11.460 --> 00:09:14.460 Sleeping in our house one day 00:09:14.460 --> 00:09:16.460 The heat was intense 00:09:16.460 --> 00:09:19.460 Sweat started dripping from his forehead 00:09:19.460 --> 00:09:21.460 Then my mother came with a bottle 00:09:21.460 --> 00:09:24.460 And made the race prevail in it 00:09:24.460 --> 00:09:27.460 Then the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, woke up 00:09:27.460 --> 00:09:31.460 He said, “What are you doing, Umm Salim?” 00:09:31.460 --> 00:09:34.460 She said this is your race 00:09:34.460 --> 00:09:37.460 Collect it and put it in our comfort 00:09:37.460 --> 00:09:39.460 It becomes the best of good things 00:09:39.460 --> 00:09:44.460 One of the evidences of her love for the Messenger of God, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him 00:09:44.460 --> 00:09:46.460 They are many and plentiful 00:09:46.460 --> 00:09:51.460 Her son Ansa had a dragonfly on his forehead 00:09:51.460 --> 00:09:55.460 Her husband wanted her to cut it for him after it had become long 00:09:55.460 --> 00:09:57.460 She refused 00:09:57.460 --> 00:10:01.460 Because the Prophet, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him 00:10:01.460 --> 00:10:03.460 It was whenever Anas came to him 00:10:03.460 --> 00:10:05.460 He wiped his head with his hand 00:10:05.460 --> 00:10:09.460 He touched his lashes that hung on his forehead 00:10:09.460 --> 00:10:12.500 Umm Salim’s qualities were not limited to her 00:10:12.500 --> 00:10:16.500 However, she was a firm believer 00:10:16.500 --> 00:10:18.500 Wise and wise 00:10:18.500 --> 00:10:21.500 A first-class husband and mother 00:10:21.500 --> 00:10:24.500 But it was above all that 00:10:24.500 --> 00:10:27.500 Striving for the sake of God 00:10:27.500 --> 00:10:33.559 Her lungs were filled with the dust of battle fragrant with the perfumes of Paradise 00:10:33.559 --> 00:10:37.559 Her fingertips were stained by the wounds of the Mujahideen 00:10:37.559 --> 00:10:41.559 She wipes it with her hands and applies a bandage to it 00:10:41.559 --> 00:10:44.559 And you poured water into the throats of the thirsty 00:10:44.559 --> 00:10:48.559 They sacrifice their lives for the sake of God 00:10:48.559 --> 00:10:52.559 I carried provisions for them and fixed the arrows 00:10:52.559 --> 00:10:59.559 She and her husband, Abu Talha, witnessed Uhud with the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:10:59.559 --> 00:11:03.559 She and Aisha, may God be pleased with them, continued to do so 00:11:03.559 --> 00:11:06.559 To carry waterskin on their backs 00:11:06.559 --> 00:11:09.559 And emptying it into people's mouths 00:11:09.559 --> 00:11:12.590 Hanina also witnessed it 00:11:12.590 --> 00:11:16.590 That day she took a dagger for herself and girded herself with it 00:11:16.590 --> 00:11:19.590 When her husband, Abu Talha, saw him 00:11:19.590 --> 00:11:24.590 He said, “O Messenger of God, this is Umm Salim with a dagger.” 00:11:24.590 --> 00:11:27.590 The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said to her 00:11:27.590 --> 00:11:30.590 What is this, Umm Salim? 00:11:30.590 --> 00:11:33.590 She said dagger she took 00:11:33.590 --> 00:11:36.590 Even if one of the polytheists approached me 00:11:36.590 --> 00:11:38.590 It broke his stomach 00:11:38.590 --> 00:11:41.590 So the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:11:41.590 --> 00:11:44.590 He laughed happily at what she said 00:11:44.590 --> 00:11:47.590 Do you think that it is on the surface of the earth? 00:11:47.590 --> 00:11:51.590 A woman with the happiest happiness and brightest ending 00:11:51.590 --> 00:11:53.590 From Umm Salim 00:11:53.590 --> 00:11:57.590 After the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said about it 00:11:57.590 --> 00:11:59.590 I entered heaven 00:11:59.590 --> 00:12:02.590 Then I heard a whisper in it 00:12:02.590 --> 00:12:04.590 So I said who is this? 00:12:04.590 --> 00:12:06.590 They said 00:12:14.460 --> 00:12:16.529 We have never heard of a woman 00:12:16.529 --> 00:12:19.529 She was a more generous foal than Umm Salim 00:12:19.529 --> 00:12:23.200 Her dowry was Islam 00:12:23.200 --> 00:12:25.620 The people of the city