1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,759 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 2 00:00:03,759 --> 00:00:07,860 The story of Maryam bint Imran 3 00:00:07,860 --> 00:00:10,220 Peace be upon her 4 00:00:10,220 --> 00:00:15,519 The pure history of Maryam 5 00:00:15,519 --> 00:00:24,140 Before judging people when you receive shocking news about them 6 00:00:24,140 --> 00:00:27,699 We need to know their history 7 00:00:27,699 --> 00:00:31,980 Comparing it to the shocking news we heard 8 00:00:31,980 --> 00:00:33,880 This approach 9 00:00:34,079 --> 00:00:40,200 Our Lord Almighty has explained it to us in detail in Surah An-Nur 10 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:44,500 In the verses of Aisha’s innocence, may God be pleased with her 11 00:00:44,500 --> 00:00:49,060 In the story of Maryam, the matter is very different 12 00:00:49,060 --> 00:00:54,899 Mary, peace be upon him, came to them carrying a child on her shoulder 13 00:00:54,899 --> 00:00:57,340 She is not married 14 00:00:57,340 --> 00:01:00,539 This is not news they heard from people 15 00:01:00,579 --> 00:01:04,060 But it happened that they saw with their own eyes 16 00:01:04,060 --> 00:01:08,659 Therefore, her people denounced this act, the image of which is this 17 00:01:08,659 --> 00:01:13,500 Which only has bad thoughts about its owner 18 00:01:13,500 --> 00:01:15,180 They said to her 19 00:01:15,180 --> 00:01:18,939 Oh Mary, you have come to something unique 20 00:01:18,939 --> 00:01:26,200 O sister of Aaron, your father was not a bad person and your mother was not a coward 21 00:01:26,239 --> 00:01:28,799 The history of Mary, peace be upon him 22 00:01:28,799 --> 00:01:32,280 It testifies to her good path in life 23 00:01:32,280 --> 00:01:36,000 It doesn't fit what they see in front of them 24 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:40,400 Therefore, they strongly denounced this act 25 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:45,349 They reminded her of her family's good path in this life 26 00:01:45,349 --> 00:01:48,430 Ibn Jarir Naqbari, may God have mercy on him, said 27 00:01:48,430 --> 00:01:49,709 And he said 28 00:01:49,709 --> 00:01:52,269 Your father was not a bad person 29 00:01:52,269 --> 00:01:53,549 He says 30 00:01:53,549 --> 00:01:57,390 Your father was not a bad man who committed immoral acts 31 00:01:57,390 --> 00:02:00,349 And your mother was not a prostitute 32 00:02:00,349 --> 00:02:01,510 He says 33 00:02:01,510 --> 00:02:04,500 And your mother was not an adulteress 34 00:02:04,500 --> 00:02:07,340 Ibn Katheer, may God have mercy on him, said 35 00:02:07,340 --> 00:02:10,300 That is, you are from a good and pure home 36 00:02:10,300 --> 00:02:14,099 Known for his righteousness, worship, and asceticism 37 00:02:14,099 --> 00:02:17,300 How did this come from you? 38 00:02:17,300 --> 00:02:19,860 Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said 39 00:02:20,620 --> 00:02:25,180 Your parents were only good and safe from evil 40 00:02:25,180 --> 00:02:29,099 Especially this evil they refer to 41 00:02:29,099 --> 00:02:30,539 And he meant them 42 00:02:30,539 --> 00:02:33,379 How could you not describe them? 43 00:02:33,379 --> 00:02:36,539 And I brought what they did not bring 44 00:02:36,539 --> 00:02:40,860 This is because the offspring are mostly different from each other 45 00:02:40,860 --> 00:02:42,979 In and against righteousness 46 00:02:42,979 --> 00:02:46,099 And they marveled according to what was in their hearts 47 00:02:46,099 --> 00:02:48,409 How did it happen? 48 00:02:48,449 --> 00:02:51,689 Al-Taher Ibn Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said 49 00:02:51,689 --> 00:02:53,889 And they wanted to vilify her 50 00:02:53,889 --> 00:02:58,210 They came with frank words of praise for her parents 51 00:02:58,210 --> 00:03:02,900 It means that she should be like her parents 52 00:03:02,900 --> 00:03:05,340 So the people of Mary, peace be upon him 53 00:03:05,340 --> 00:03:09,819 They refer to it in several meanings 54 00:03:09,819 --> 00:03:11,180 The first 55 00:03:11,180 --> 00:03:13,259 You are from a good home 56 00:03:13,259 --> 00:03:15,620 Your father was not well known 57 00:03:15,620 --> 00:03:18,219 Nor is your mother into prostitution 58 00:03:18,259 --> 00:03:22,120 Where did this heinous act come from? 59 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:26,639 This is a veil for the homes of the righteous and a praise for them 60 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:32,699 It is a good incubator in which nothing but goodness can grow 61 00:03:32,699 --> 00:03:39,659 It also contains a warning that the corruption of wealthy, educated people is in the homes of righteous people 62 00:03:39,659 --> 00:03:42,460 It came because of an external cause 63 00:03:42,460 --> 00:03:44,819 Or from an external environment 64 00:03:44,819 --> 00:03:47,780 Such as bad companions and others 65 00:03:47,819 --> 00:03:49,099 The second 66 00:03:49,099 --> 00:03:50,860 They tell her 67 00:03:50,860 --> 00:03:53,060 You are from a good home 68 00:03:53,060 --> 00:03:57,180 It is not appropriate for you to violate their good behavior 69 00:03:57,180 --> 00:04:00,580 Because violating it is an insult to them 70 00:04:00,580 --> 00:04:03,750 This is not good for them 71 00:04:03,750 --> 00:04:05,150 Third 72 00:04:05,150 --> 00:04:07,669 The people of Mary, peace be upon him, used 73 00:04:07,669 --> 00:04:12,189 This method of strong condemnation and explicit rebuke 74 00:04:12,189 --> 00:04:14,550 With the aim of denying it 75 00:04:14,550 --> 00:04:19,459 Because it does not continue on the path they thought it would 76 00:04:19,459 --> 00:04:25,019 Mary, peace be upon him, and her surroundings were not as bad as they thought of her 77 00:04:25,019 --> 00:04:28,579 But they don't know until that moment 78 00:04:28,579 --> 00:04:32,509 Any other explanation for what they saw from her 79 00:04:32,509 --> 00:04:35,430 This is a warning for every girl 80 00:04:35,430 --> 00:04:38,310 Until human actions have meanings 81 00:04:38,310 --> 00:04:43,029 Many of them are agreed upon by the general public in societies 82 00:04:43,029 --> 00:04:49,750 She does not demand that society interpret her actions other than what people have agreed upon 83 00:04:49,750 --> 00:04:54,470 But she must be cautious in her actions 84 00:04:54,470 --> 00:04:57,629 People have the appearance of its actions 85 00:04:57,629 --> 00:05:02,990 As for the hidden things, no one knows them except God Almighty 86 00:05:02,990 --> 00:05:07,709 It was stated in the hadith of Ibn Abbas, may God be pleased with them both, that he said: 87 00:05:07,709 --> 00:05:11,470 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 88 00:05:11,470 --> 00:05:16,670 If I were to stone someone without clear evidence, I would stone so-and-so 89 00:05:16,670 --> 00:05:20,750 There was suspicion in its logic and structure 90 00:05:20,750 --> 00:05:23,110 And whoever enters it 91 00:05:23,110 --> 00:05:25,319 Narrated by Ibn Majah 92 00:05:25,319 --> 00:05:28,120 The hadith reported first 93 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:32,720 The girl's logic indicates her moral level 94 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:36,240 If there is anything in it that indicates bad character 95 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:38,839 People thought it was evil 96 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:40,959 It is included in its logic 97 00:05:40,959 --> 00:05:47,819 Everything you write or speak on social media today 98 00:05:47,819 --> 00:05:49,139 Secondly 99 00:05:49,139 --> 00:05:51,620 That girl's body as well 100 00:05:51,620 --> 00:05:55,579 It indicates her level of concealment and life 101 00:05:55,579 --> 00:05:59,459 The girl should not blame people if they criticize her modesty 102 00:05:59,459 --> 00:06:01,939 When she comes out dressed up 103 00:06:01,939 --> 00:06:05,050 And wear what scratches life 104 00:06:05,050 --> 00:06:06,769 And he gets into that 105 00:06:06,769 --> 00:06:09,730 What pictures the girl posts of herself 106 00:06:09,769 --> 00:06:13,129 Or whatever pictures you like of others 107 00:06:13,129 --> 00:06:17,410 She puts it on her social media handle 108 00:06:17,410 --> 00:06:23,449 All of these actions indicate what she is thinking and hoping for 109 00:06:23,449 --> 00:06:25,699 Even if you didn't 110 00:06:25,699 --> 00:06:27,220 Third 111 00:06:27,220 --> 00:06:30,779 Whoever enters upon a girl without her mahrams 112 00:06:30,779 --> 00:06:33,579 Mixed with it or devoid of it 113 00:06:33,579 --> 00:06:37,060 It indicates her level of chastity 114 00:06:37,060 --> 00:06:43,339 She was alone with a foreign young man in the field of study or in the field of work 115 00:06:43,339 --> 00:06:47,540 Her mingling with him and riding with him in the car 116 00:06:47,540 --> 00:06:52,579 Or sit with him in private places such as a café and others 117 00:06:52,579 --> 00:06:57,019 All of this leads people to mistrust her 118 00:06:57,019 --> 00:07:01,100 They have no indication of such behavior 119 00:07:01,100 --> 00:07:03,480 Except bad thoughts 120 00:07:03,519 --> 00:07:07,639 The apparent action on your part may be different from its internal meaning 121 00:07:07,639 --> 00:07:13,259 Here you need to make a statement so that people do not think badly of you 122 00:07:13,259 --> 00:07:17,339 And you have the disposal of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 123 00:07:17,339 --> 00:07:24,610 In the incident of Safiyya, the Mother of the Believers, may God be pleased with her, he had a good example with him at night 124 00:07:24,610 --> 00:07:26,730 On the authority of Ali bin Al-Hussein 125 00:07:26,730 --> 00:07:33,089 Safiyya bint Huyay, the wife of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, told 126 00:07:33,129 --> 00:07:37,930 She came to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, to visit him 127 00:07:37,930 --> 00:07:40,410 He is in seclusion in the mosque 128 00:07:40,410 --> 00:07:43,370 In the last ten days of Ramadan 129 00:07:43,370 --> 00:07:46,810 So I talked to him for an hour after dinner 130 00:07:46,810 --> 00:07:49,129 Then she turned over 131 00:07:49,129 --> 00:07:53,730 So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, stood with her and turned her over 132 00:07:53,730 --> 00:07:56,569 Even when you reach the door of the mosque 133 00:07:56,569 --> 00:08:02,250 The one at the residence of Umm Salamah, the wife of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 134 00:08:02,290 --> 00:08:05,410 Two Ansar men passed by them 135 00:08:05,410 --> 00:08:11,089 He greeted the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, and then carried out 136 00:08:11,089 --> 00:08:15,250 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to them 137 00:08:15,250 --> 00:08:17,089 On your messengers 138 00:08:17,089 --> 00:08:20,329 She is Safiyya bint Huyay 139 00:08:20,329 --> 00:08:21,410 He said 140 00:08:21,410 --> 00:08:24,209 Glory be to God, O Messenger of God 141 00:08:24,209 --> 00:08:27,009 What he said was too great for them 142 00:08:27,009 --> 00:08:28,209 He said 143 00:08:28,209 --> 00:08:32,210 Satan flows blood from the son of Adam 144 00:08:32,210 --> 00:08:36,889 And I feared that he would put evil into your hearts 145 00:08:36,889 --> 00:08:39,200 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 146 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:44,480 This incident indicates that her time was in the dark of the night 147 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:48,679 The view indicates that the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 148 00:08:48,679 --> 00:08:50,679 Standing with a woman 149 00:08:50,679 --> 00:08:53,220 The situation is suspicious 150 00:08:53,220 --> 00:08:57,059 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, explained it to us 151 00:08:57,059 --> 00:09:01,580 Such suspicious situations are exploited by Satan 152 00:09:01,580 --> 00:09:05,379 To cast evil into the heart of the observer of the situation 153 00:09:05,379 --> 00:09:07,860 This is the habit of Satan 154 00:09:07,860 --> 00:09:12,419 The solution to this is to remove suspicion with a clear statement 155 00:09:12,419 --> 00:09:14,460 This is a great principle 156 00:09:14,460 --> 00:09:19,220 It was mentioned in the hadith of Saad bin Abi Waqqas, may God be pleased with him 157 00:09:19,220 --> 00:09:23,019 On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said 158 00:09:23,019 --> 00:09:26,059 Beware of what he apologizes for 159 00:09:26,059 --> 00:09:28,299 Narrated by Al-Tabarani 160 00:09:28,299 --> 00:09:33,539 That is, do not do something for which you need to apologize 161 00:09:33,539 --> 00:09:35,700 Some wise men said 162 00:09:35,700 --> 00:09:38,259 Beware of what he apologizes to 163 00:09:38,259 --> 00:09:40,899 And he is not ashamed to mention it 164 00:09:40,899 --> 00:09:43,259 He is just apologizing for the sin 165 00:09:43,259 --> 00:09:46,399 And he is ashamed of the ugly 166 00:09:46,399 --> 00:09:50,559 The biography of Mary, peace be upon him, preceded this situation 167 00:09:50,559 --> 00:09:55,470 All of them indicate her goodness and God’s honor for her 168 00:09:55,470 --> 00:09:59,429 The arrival of this position is contrary to her spotless biography 169 00:09:59,429 --> 00:10:03,230 This is the reason for the strong condemnation of her people 170 00:10:03,230 --> 00:10:07,580 How did Mary, peace be upon him, face that? 171 00:10:07,580 --> 00:10:11,139 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 172 00:10:11,139 --> 00:10:14,019 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds