In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
The story of Maryam bint Imran
Peace be upon her
The pure history of Maryam
Before judging people when you receive shocking news about them
We need to know their history
Comparing it to the shocking news we heard
This approach
Our Lord Almighty has explained it to us in detail in Surah An-Nur
In the verses of Aisha’s innocence, may God be pleased with her
In the story of Maryam, the matter is very different
Mary, peace be upon him, came to them carrying a child on her shoulder
She is not married
This is not news they heard from people
But it happened that they saw with their own eyes
Therefore, her people denounced this act, the image of which is this
Which only has bad thoughts about its owner
They said to her
Oh Mary, you have come to something unique
O sister of Aaron, your father was not a bad person and your mother was not a coward
The history of Mary, peace be upon him
It testifies to her good path in life
It doesn't fit what they see in front of them
Therefore, they strongly denounced this act
They reminded her of her family's good path in this life
Ibn Jarir Naqbari, may God have mercy on him, said
And he said
Your father was not a bad person
He says
Your father was not a bad man who committed immoral acts
And your mother was not a prostitute
He says
And your mother was not an adulteress
Ibn Katheer, may God have mercy on him, said
That is, you are from a good and pure home
Known for his righteousness, worship, and asceticism
How did this come from you?
Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said
Your parents were only good and safe from evil
Especially this evil they refer to
And he meant them
How could you not describe them?
And I brought what they did not bring
This is because the offspring are mostly different from each other
In and against righteousness
And they marveled according to what was in their hearts
How did it happen?
Al-Taher Ibn Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said
And they wanted to vilify her
They came with frank words of praise for her parents
It means that she should be like her parents
So the people of Mary, peace be upon him
They refer to it in several meanings
The first
You are from a good home
Your father was not well known
Nor is your mother into prostitution
Where did this heinous act come from?
This is a veil for the homes of the righteous and a praise for them
It is a good incubator in which nothing but goodness can grow
It also contains a warning that the corruption of wealthy, educated people is in the homes of righteous people
It came because of an external cause
Or from an external environment
Such as bad companions and others
The second
They tell her
You are from a good home
It is not appropriate for you to violate their good behavior
Because violating it is an insult to them
This is not good for them
Third
The people of Mary, peace be upon him, used
This method of strong condemnation and explicit rebuke
With the aim of denying it
Because it does not continue on the path they thought it would
Mary, peace be upon him, and her surroundings were not as bad as they thought of her
But they don't know until that moment
Any other explanation for what they saw from her
This is a warning for every girl
Until human actions have meanings
Many of them are agreed upon by the general public in societies
She does not demand that society interpret her actions other than what people have agreed upon
But she must be cautious in her actions
People have the appearance of its actions
As for the hidden things, no one knows them except God Almighty
It was stated in the hadith of Ibn Abbas, may God be pleased with them both, that he said:
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
If I were to stone someone without clear evidence, I would stone so-and-so
There was suspicion in its logic and structure
And whoever enters it
Narrated by Ibn Majah
The hadith reported first
The girl's logic indicates her moral level
If there is anything in it that indicates bad character
People thought it was evil
It is included in its logic
Everything you write or speak on social media today
Secondly
That girl's body as well
It indicates her level of concealment and life
The girl should not blame people if they criticize her modesty
When she comes out dressed up
And wear what scratches life
And he gets into that
What pictures the girl posts of herself
Or whatever pictures you like of others
She puts it on her social media handle
All of these actions indicate what she is thinking and hoping for
Even if you didn't
Third
Whoever enters upon a girl without her mahrams
Mixed with it or devoid of it
It indicates her level of chastity
She was alone with a foreign young man in the field of study or in the field of work
Her mingling with him and riding with him in the car
Or sit with him in private places such as a café and others
All of this leads people to mistrust her
They have no indication of such behavior
Except bad thoughts
The apparent action on your part may be different from its internal meaning
Here you need to make a statement so that people do not think badly of you
And you have the disposal of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
In the incident of Safiyya, the Mother of the Believers, may God be pleased with her, he had a good example with him at night
On the authority of Ali bin Al-Hussein
Safiyya bint Huyay, the wife of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, told
She came to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, to visit him
He is in seclusion in the mosque
In the last ten days of Ramadan
So I talked to him for an hour after dinner
Then she turned over
So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, stood with her and turned her over
Even when you reach the door of the mosque
The one at the residence of Umm Salamah, the wife of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
Two Ansar men passed by them
He greeted the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, and then carried out
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to them
On your messengers
She is Safiyya bint Huyay
He said
Glory be to God, O Messenger of God
What he said was too great for them
He said
Satan flows blood from the son of Adam
And I feared that he would put evil into your hearts
Narrated by Al-Bukhari
This incident indicates that her time was in the dark of the night
The view indicates that the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
Standing with a woman
The situation is suspicious
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, explained it to us
Such suspicious situations are exploited by Satan
To cast evil into the heart of the observer of the situation
This is the habit of Satan
The solution to this is to remove suspicion with a clear statement
This is a great principle
It was mentioned in the hadith of Saad bin Abi Waqqas, may God be pleased with him
On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said
Beware of what he apologizes for
Narrated by Al-Tabarani
That is, do not do something for which you need to apologize
Some wise men said
Beware of what he apologizes to
And he is not ashamed to mention it
He is just apologizing for the sin
And he is ashamed of the ugly
The biography of Mary, peace be upon him, preceded this situation
All of them indicate her goodness and God’s honor for her
The arrival of this position is contrary to her spotless biography
This is the reason for the strong condemnation of her people
How did Mary, peace be upon him, face that?
We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds