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In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful

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The story of Maryam bint Imran

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Peace be upon her

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The pure history of Maryam

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Before judging people when you receive shocking news about them

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We need to know their history

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Comparing it to the shocking news we heard

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This approach

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Our Lord Almighty has explained it to us in detail in Surah An-Nur

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In the verses of Aisha’s innocence, may God be pleased with her

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In the story of Maryam, the matter is very different

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Mary, peace be upon him, came to them carrying a child on her shoulder

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She is not married

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This is not news they heard from people

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But it happened that they saw with their own eyes

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Therefore, her people denounced this act, the image of which is this

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Which only has bad thoughts about its owner

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They said to her

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Oh Mary, you have come to something unique

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O sister of Aaron, your father was not a bad person and your mother was not a coward

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The history of Mary, peace be upon him

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It testifies to her good path in life

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It doesn't fit what they see in front of them

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Therefore, they strongly denounced this act

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They reminded her of her family's good path in this life

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Ibn Jarir Naqbari, may God have mercy on him, said

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And he said

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Your father was not a bad person

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He says

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Your father was not a bad man who committed immoral acts

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And your mother was not a prostitute

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He says

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And your mother was not an adulteress

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Ibn Katheer, may God have mercy on him, said

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That is, you are from a good and pure home

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Known for his righteousness, worship, and asceticism

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How did this come from you?

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Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said

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Your parents were only good and safe from evil

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Especially this evil they refer to

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And he meant them

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How could you not describe them?

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And I brought what they did not bring

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This is because the offspring are mostly different from each other

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In and against righteousness

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And they marveled according to what was in their hearts

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How did it happen?

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Al-Taher Ibn Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said

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And they wanted to vilify her

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They came with frank words of praise for her parents

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It means that she should be like her parents

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So the people of Mary, peace be upon him

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They refer to it in several meanings

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The first

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You are from a good home

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Your father was not well known

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Nor is your mother into prostitution

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Where did this heinous act come from?

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This is a veil for the homes of the righteous and a praise for them

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It is a good incubator in which nothing but goodness can grow

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It also contains a warning that the corruption of wealthy, educated people is in the homes of righteous people

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It came because of an external cause

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Or from an external environment

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Such as bad companions and others

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The second

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They tell her

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You are from a good home

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It is not appropriate for you to violate their good behavior

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Because violating it is an insult to them

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This is not good for them

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Third

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The people of Mary, peace be upon him, used

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This method of strong condemnation and explicit rebuke

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With the aim of denying it

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Because it does not continue on the path they thought it would

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Mary, peace be upon him, and her surroundings were not as bad as they thought of her

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But they don't know until that moment

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Any other explanation for what they saw from her

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This is a warning for every girl

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Until human actions have meanings

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Many of them are agreed upon by the general public in societies

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She does not demand that society interpret her actions other than what people have agreed upon

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But she must be cautious in her actions

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People have the appearance of its actions

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As for the hidden things, no one knows them except God Almighty

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It was stated in the hadith of Ibn Abbas, may God be pleased with them both, that he said:

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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said

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If I were to stone someone without clear evidence, I would stone so-and-so

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There was suspicion in its logic and structure

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And whoever enters it

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Narrated by Ibn Majah

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The hadith reported first

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The girl's logic indicates her moral level

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If there is anything in it that indicates bad character

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People thought it was evil

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It is included in its logic

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Everything you write or speak on social media today

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Secondly

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That girl's body as well

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It indicates her level of concealment and life

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The girl should not blame people if they criticize her modesty

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When she comes out dressed up

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And wear what scratches life

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And he gets into that

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What pictures the girl posts of herself

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Or whatever pictures you like of others

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She puts it on her social media handle

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All of these actions indicate what she is thinking and hoping for

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Even if you didn't

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Third

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Whoever enters upon a girl without her mahrams

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Mixed with it or devoid of it

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It indicates her level of chastity

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She was alone with a foreign young man in the field of study or in the field of work

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Her mingling with him and riding with him in the car

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Or sit with him in private places such as a café and others

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All of this leads people to mistrust her

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They have no indication of such behavior

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Except bad thoughts

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The apparent action on your part may be different from its internal meaning

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Here you need to make a statement so that people do not think badly of you

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And you have the disposal of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace

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In the incident of Safiyya, the Mother of the Believers, may God be pleased with her, he had a good example with him at night

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On the authority of Ali bin Al-Hussein

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Safiyya bint Huyay, the wife of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, told

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She came to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, to visit him

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He is in seclusion in the mosque

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In the last ten days of Ramadan

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So I talked to him for an hour after dinner

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Then she turned over

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So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, stood with her and turned her over

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Even when you reach the door of the mosque

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The one at the residence of Umm Salamah, the wife of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace

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Two Ansar men passed by them

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He greeted the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, and then carried out

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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to them

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On your messengers

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She is Safiyya bint Huyay

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He said

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Glory be to God, O Messenger of God

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What he said was too great for them

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He said

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Satan flows blood from the son of Adam

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And I feared that he would put evil into your hearts

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Narrated by Al-Bukhari

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This incident indicates that her time was in the dark of the night

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The view indicates that the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace

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Standing with a woman

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The situation is suspicious

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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, explained it to us

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Such suspicious situations are exploited by Satan

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To cast evil into the heart of the observer of the situation

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This is the habit of Satan

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The solution to this is to remove suspicion with a clear statement

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This is a great principle

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It was mentioned in the hadith of Saad bin Abi Waqqas, may God be pleased with him

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On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, he said

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Beware of what he apologizes for

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Narrated by Al-Tabarani

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That is, do not do something for which you need to apologize

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Some wise men said

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Beware of what he apologizes to

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And he is not ashamed to mention it

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He is just apologizing for the sin

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And he is ashamed of the ugly

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The biography of Mary, peace be upon him, preceded this situation

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All of them indicate her goodness and God’s honor for her

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The arrival of this position is contrary to her spotless biography

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This is the reason for the strong condemnation of her people

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How did Mary, peace be upon him, face that?

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We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing

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Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds