1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,759 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 2 00:00:03,759 --> 00:00:07,860 The story of Maryam, Imran’s daughter 3 00:00:07,860 --> 00:00:10,419 Peace be upon him 4 00:00:10,419 --> 00:00:19,980 Mary, the chaste and pure 5 00:00:19,980 --> 00:00:23,699 God Almighty praised Mary in his book 6 00:00:23,699 --> 00:00:26,539 He described it as chastity and purity 7 00:00:26,539 --> 00:00:28,539 And He said, Glory be to Him 8 00:00:28,539 --> 00:00:33,729 And she who guarded her chastity, so We breathed into her of Our Spirit 9 00:00:33,929 --> 00:00:38,549 And We made it and its sons a sign to the worlds 10 00:00:38,549 --> 00:00:40,710 And God Almighty said 11 00:00:40,710 --> 00:00:44,789 And Maryam, the daughter of Imran, who protected her chastity 12 00:00:44,789 --> 00:00:47,590 So we breathed into him of our spirit 13 00:00:47,590 --> 00:00:53,630 She believed in the words of her Lord and His books and was one of the obedient 14 00:00:53,630 --> 00:00:55,759 And God Almighty said 15 00:00:55,759 --> 00:01:00,439 And when the angels said, O Mary! 16 00:01:00,439 --> 00:01:04,040 God has chosen you and purified you 17 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:10,870 And He chose you over the women of the worlds 18 00:01:10,870 --> 00:01:14,150 Ibn Jarir al-Tabari, may God have mercy on him, said 19 00:01:14,150 --> 00:01:18,269 What he means by saying: “I am protected, I am protected.” 20 00:01:18,269 --> 00:01:23,670 She prevented her private parts from what God had forbidden her to allow 21 00:01:23,670 --> 00:01:29,030 Meaning, it protected him from suspicion and prevented him from immorality 22 00:01:29,189 --> 00:01:31,829 Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said 23 00:01:31,829 --> 00:01:35,109 That is, she protected him and protected him from immorality 24 00:01:35,109 --> 00:01:39,469 For the perfection of her religion, chastity and integrity 25 00:01:39,469 --> 00:01:42,790 Al-Tahir bin Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said 26 00:01:42,790 --> 00:01:46,590 The horse makes something strong 27 00:01:46,590 --> 00:01:48,750 That is, he does not follow it 28 00:01:48,750 --> 00:01:53,310 What it means is that she withheld her private parts from men 29 00:01:53,310 --> 00:01:56,709 Chastity is one of the greatest morals for a girl 30 00:01:56,750 --> 00:01:58,950 It is to preserve the supply 31 00:01:58,950 --> 00:02:03,019 From being desecrated in any way 32 00:02:03,019 --> 00:02:05,739 And in the story of Mary, peace be upon him 33 00:02:05,739 --> 00:02:08,340 References to practical means 34 00:02:08,340 --> 00:02:13,280 Which helps every girl maintain her chastity 35 00:02:13,280 --> 00:02:15,719 The first of these means 36 00:02:15,719 --> 00:02:19,560 Preoccupation with worship during youth 37 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:23,150 Whoever grows up with something will grow up with it 38 00:02:23,150 --> 00:02:25,229 And Mary, peace be upon him 39 00:02:25,270 --> 00:02:28,110 She occupied herself from the beginning of her youth 40 00:02:28,110 --> 00:02:30,229 With worship and obedience 41 00:02:30,229 --> 00:02:33,270 Which made her feel comfortable with God 42 00:02:33,270 --> 00:02:36,099 And the heart is preoccupied with remembrance of Him 43 00:02:36,099 --> 00:02:38,659 And whose heart is occupied with God 44 00:02:38,659 --> 00:02:41,180 You have risen above laziness in morals 45 00:02:41,180 --> 00:02:44,699 And actions that desecrate her honor 46 00:02:44,699 --> 00:02:49,419 I stayed away from places that arouse desires and instincts 47 00:02:49,419 --> 00:02:52,219 And who has tasted the pleasure of being intimate with God 48 00:02:52,219 --> 00:02:54,419 She did not look for comfort in anyone else 49 00:02:54,419 --> 00:02:58,389 Through social media 50 00:02:58,389 --> 00:03:00,550 The second method 51 00:03:00,550 --> 00:03:04,430 Avoid mixing with people a lot 52 00:03:04,430 --> 00:03:08,909 God Almighty says, praising the action of Mary, peace be upon him 53 00:03:08,909 --> 00:03:15,860 And mention in the book Maryam when she withdrew from her family to an eastern place 54 00:03:15,860 --> 00:03:19,219 Ibn Jarir al-Tabari, may God have mercy on him, said 55 00:03:19,219 --> 00:03:25,129 God Almighty says mentioning it to His Prophet Muhammad, may God bless him and grant him peace 56 00:03:25,129 --> 00:03:30,370 And remember, O Muhammad, in the Book of God which He revealed to you in truth 57 00:03:30,370 --> 00:03:32,449 Maryam, Imran’s daughter 58 00:03:32,449 --> 00:03:36,449 When she isolated herself from her family and separated from them 59 00:03:36,449 --> 00:03:39,330 Abu Zahra, may God have mercy on him, said 60 00:03:39,330 --> 00:03:43,370 The meaning is that she isolated herself from people and shunned them 61 00:03:43,370 --> 00:03:46,370 She was alone to worship God alone 62 00:03:46,370 --> 00:03:48,409 You can't be happy without Him 63 00:03:48,449 --> 00:03:52,360 Her heart does not live except with his remembrance 64 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:57,800 Mary’s isolation, peace be upon her, from people gave her life in the heart 65 00:03:57,800 --> 00:04:00,439 Devote yourself to worshiping God 66 00:04:00,439 --> 00:04:05,360 Avoid excessive idle talk and useless talk 67 00:04:05,360 --> 00:04:11,319 Therefore, the Arabs in the past used to allocate a place for the girl when she reached puberty 68 00:04:11,319 --> 00:04:13,400 People isolate themselves there 69 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:15,800 And her mixing with them decreases 70 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:19,079 May life grow and increase 71 00:04:19,079 --> 00:04:22,279 So set an example in life 72 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:26,000 He made her modesty a standard among people 73 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:31,759 Even the Companions said in describing the modesty of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 74 00:04:31,759 --> 00:04:38,800 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was more shy than a virgin in her numbness 75 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:41,180 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 76 00:04:41,180 --> 00:04:43,180 The chaste girl 77 00:04:43,180 --> 00:04:48,660 She maintains her chastity by maintaining the great wall surrounding chastity 78 00:04:48,660 --> 00:04:50,180 And it is life 79 00:04:50,180 --> 00:04:52,740 Which if part of it is demolished 80 00:04:52,740 --> 00:04:57,860 Chastity was affected by the extent to which he fell from the wall of life 81 00:04:57,860 --> 00:05:00,740 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 82 00:05:00,740 --> 00:05:05,500 It is from what people realized from the words of the first prophecy 83 00:05:05,500 --> 00:05:08,899 If you are not ashamed, do whatever you want 84 00:05:08,899 --> 00:05:11,089 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 85 00:05:11,129 --> 00:05:15,649 The life of girls today is in co-educational fields 86 00:05:15,649 --> 00:05:17,810 and mixed works 87 00:05:17,810 --> 00:05:21,009 And her audacity to compete with men 88 00:05:21,009 --> 00:05:25,519 It weakens the wall of modesty surrounding her chastity 89 00:05:25,519 --> 00:05:28,120 Who fears for her modesty? 90 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:31,920 I did as the two good girls did 91 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:33,720 God Almighty said 92 00:05:33,720 --> 00:05:38,319 And what was reported, what is owed 93 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:46,120 He found a nation of people providing water 94 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:51,839 And besides him, he found two women fleeing 95 00:05:51,839 --> 00:05:54,639 He said what's wrong with you 96 00:05:54,639 --> 00:06:01,959 God Almighty said: Give us water until the shepherds depart 97 00:06:01,959 --> 00:06:07,139 Our father is a great sheikh 98 00:06:07,180 --> 00:06:10,579 The first sign of the advantage of the two girls 99 00:06:10,579 --> 00:06:14,829 It is that they should not compete with men for watering 100 00:06:14,829 --> 00:06:17,629 Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said 101 00:06:17,629 --> 00:06:21,870 That is, when he reached Midian and received its waters 102 00:06:21,870 --> 00:06:25,750 It had a well supplied by Ra'a Al-Shaq 103 00:06:25,750 --> 00:06:30,269 He found a nation of people providing water 104 00:06:30,269 --> 00:06:32,750 Which group do they water? 105 00:06:32,750 --> 00:06:36,829 And besides him, he found two women fleeing 106 00:06:36,870 --> 00:06:41,910 That is, they are enough for their sheep to be returned with the sheep of those shepherds 107 00:06:41,910 --> 00:06:44,220 Because it doesn't hurt 108 00:06:44,220 --> 00:06:47,339 When Moses, peace be upon him, saw them 109 00:06:47,339 --> 00:06:50,139 Have mercy on them and have mercy on them 110 00:06:50,139 --> 00:06:52,339 He said what's wrong with you 111 00:06:52,339 --> 00:06:56,769 That is, what do you think, you will not be rejected with these people 112 00:06:56,769 --> 00:07:00,930 God Almighty said: Give us water until the shepherds depart 113 00:07:00,930 --> 00:07:06,009 That is, we do not get watering until after they have finished 114 00:07:06,009 --> 00:07:09,009 Our father is a great sheikh 115 00:07:09,009 --> 00:07:14,550 That is, this is the situation that gives us refuge in what you see 116 00:07:14,550 --> 00:07:19,149 Today, girls are involved in mixed communication groups 117 00:07:19,149 --> 00:07:23,550 And follow famous men on social media 118 00:07:23,550 --> 00:07:28,139 His fingerprints appear on her heart and her life 119 00:07:28,139 --> 00:07:30,220 The third method 120 00:07:30,220 --> 00:07:31,810 Cover up 121 00:07:31,810 --> 00:07:36,290 Maryam, peace be upon him, was keen to cover herself in her life 122 00:07:36,290 --> 00:07:40,610 So a special place was allocated for her to worship 123 00:07:40,610 --> 00:07:44,649 He covered him with a veil to protect him from people 124 00:07:44,649 --> 00:07:46,490 God Almighty said 125 00:07:46,490 --> 00:07:53,490 And mention in the Book Maryam when she withdrew from her family to an eastern place 126 00:07:53,490 --> 00:07:57,339 So she took a veil from them 127 00:07:57,339 --> 00:08:00,620 Ibn Jarir al-Tabari, may God have mercy on him, said 128 00:08:00,620 --> 00:08:02,019 He says 129 00:08:02,019 --> 00:08:07,819 So she took a cover from her family to protect her from them and from the people 130 00:08:07,819 --> 00:08:10,620 Ibn Attiya, may God have mercy on him, said 131 00:08:10,620 --> 00:08:15,850 She took it to hide it from people to worship her 132 00:08:15,850 --> 00:08:18,850 Ibn Katheer, may God have mercy on him, said 133 00:08:18,850 --> 00:08:22,079 That is, she hid from them and hid 134 00:08:22,079 --> 00:08:23,480 Cover up 135 00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:27,879 It is the greatest wall surrounding the wall of modesty and chastity 136 00:08:27,879 --> 00:08:29,680 Which if perforated 137 00:08:29,680 --> 00:08:32,879 Modesty broke through with him immediately 138 00:08:32,879 --> 00:08:38,669 It weakened to the extent that the wall of concealment affected the girl’s life 139 00:08:38,669 --> 00:08:44,669 And if Mary, peace be upon him, had hidden herself from the eyes of people in general 140 00:08:44,669 --> 00:08:48,070 In order to protect her heart from hypocrisy 141 00:08:48,070 --> 00:08:51,070 And people intended to worship her 142 00:08:51,070 --> 00:08:57,940 She has also hidden herself from every man who is not permitted to look at her 143 00:08:57,940 --> 00:09:02,940 Whoever covers herself with a veil that prevents her family from seeing her 144 00:09:02,940 --> 00:09:08,139 In her place, she prays, remembers God, and worships Him 145 00:09:08,139 --> 00:09:15,700 The freedom to cover her body if she leaves her niche for any reason 146 00:09:15,700 --> 00:09:17,700 The chaste girl 147 00:09:17,700 --> 00:09:24,100 The first steps of her chastity are known from her clothing, which indicates her level of modesty 148 00:09:24,100 --> 00:09:29,100 From the way she walks and her behavior on public roads 149 00:09:29,100 --> 00:09:30,899 God Almighty said 150 00:09:30,899 --> 00:09:35,220 Then one of them came to him, walking timidly 151 00:09:35,220 --> 00:09:38,419 Al-Tahir bin Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said 152 00:09:38,419 --> 00:09:43,220 The meaning is that she is shy when walking 153 00:09:43,220 --> 00:09:49,750 That is, she walks without strutting, bending over, or showing adornment 154 00:09:49,750 --> 00:09:53,549 The girl does not succeed in achieving this method 155 00:09:53,549 --> 00:09:57,549 Except by complying with two great hadiths 156 00:09:57,549 --> 00:09:59,649 The first 157 00:09:59,649 --> 00:10:02,649 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said 158 00:10:02,649 --> 00:10:06,649 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 159 00:10:06,649 --> 00:10:10,649 Two types of people in Hell that I have not seen 160 00:10:10,649 --> 00:10:16,649 People with whips like cow tails, with which they beat people 161 00:10:16,649 --> 00:10:19,649 And women who are clothed and naked 162 00:10:19,649 --> 00:10:21,649 Slanted slants 163 00:10:21,649 --> 00:10:25,649 Their heads are like the inclined humps of a camel 164 00:10:25,649 --> 00:10:27,649 They will not enter heaven 165 00:10:27,649 --> 00:10:29,649 And they cannot smell its scent 166 00:10:29,649 --> 00:10:34,649 Its scent can be smelled from such and such a distance 167 00:10:34,649 --> 00:10:36,870 Narrated by Muslim 168 00:10:36,870 --> 00:10:37,870 And the second 169 00:10:37,870 --> 00:10:42,870 On the authority of Osama bin Zaid, may God be pleased with him, he said 170 00:10:42,870 --> 00:10:45,870 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, clothed me 171 00:10:45,870 --> 00:10:47,870 Dense Coptic 172 00:10:47,870 --> 00:10:51,870 It was a gift given to her by Dahiya al-Kalbi 173 00:10:51,870 --> 00:10:53,870 So my woman clothed her 174 00:10:53,870 --> 00:10:57,870 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to me 175 00:10:57,870 --> 00:11:00,870 Why don't you wear Coptic? 176 00:11:00,870 --> 00:11:02,870 I said, O Messenger of God 177 00:11:02,870 --> 00:11:04,870 My woman covered it 178 00:11:04,870 --> 00:11:08,870 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to me 179 00:11:08,870 --> 00:11:12,870 Marry it and put a gulag underneath it 180 00:11:12,870 --> 00:11:16,870 I am afraid to describe the size of her bones 181 00:11:16,870 --> 00:11:18,970 Narrated by Ahmed 182 00:11:18,970 --> 00:11:24,970 I ask every girl to hope for what is with God and the Hereafter 183 00:11:24,970 --> 00:11:27,970 Think about these two hadiths 184 00:11:27,970 --> 00:11:30,970 Their meaning is clearly known 185 00:11:30,970 --> 00:11:33,970 Then she looks at her clothes and herself 186 00:11:33,970 --> 00:11:37,970 And extending her distance from what is mentioned in the two hadiths 187 00:11:37,970 --> 00:11:40,320 The fourth method 188 00:11:40,320 --> 00:11:44,450 Sensitivity to men approaching her 189 00:11:44,450 --> 00:11:49,610 Mary, peace be upon him, was in her prayer niche, worshiping 190 00:11:49,610 --> 00:11:52,610 When the king entered her in the form of a man 191 00:11:52,610 --> 00:11:54,610 So I was terrified 192 00:11:54,610 --> 00:11:59,669 Her reaction was evidence of her perfect chastity 193 00:11:59,669 --> 00:12:01,740 God Almighty said 194 00:12:01,740 --> 00:12:05,740 So we sent our spirit to her 195 00:12:05,740 --> 00:12:10,740 She represents a normal human being for her 196 00:12:10,740 --> 00:12:20,740 She said: I seek refuge in the Most Merciful from you if you are pious 197 00:12:20,740 --> 00:12:24,279 Ibn Jarir, may God have mercy on him, said 198 00:12:24,279 --> 00:12:26,279 God Almighty says mention him 199 00:12:26,279 --> 00:12:29,279 Then Maryam feared our Messenger 200 00:12:29,279 --> 00:12:32,279 It represents to her a normal human being 201 00:12:32,279 --> 00:12:36,279 She thought he was a man who wanted her for herself 202 00:12:36,279 --> 00:12:41,539 A chaste woman does not come physically close to men 203 00:12:41,539 --> 00:12:44,539 Even if a man approaches her physically 204 00:12:44,539 --> 00:12:49,539 She was motivated and gathered herself so that he would not touch her 205 00:12:49,539 --> 00:12:51,600 This feeling 206 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:55,600 This sensitivity to men approaching women 207 00:12:55,600 --> 00:12:57,600 Evidence of her chastity 208 00:12:57,600 --> 00:13:02,730 This sensitivity is transmitted from being physically close to men 209 00:13:02,730 --> 00:13:05,730 To get closer morally 210 00:13:05,730 --> 00:13:13,730 When a chaste woman feels that a man who is not her mahram is communicating with her through social media 211 00:13:13,730 --> 00:13:16,730 Without necessity or need 212 00:13:16,730 --> 00:13:19,730 You must be sensitive to that 213 00:13:19,730 --> 00:13:22,730 As for opening the way for the girl 214 00:13:22,730 --> 00:13:28,730 To sit with men at the same table in public and private squares 215 00:13:28,730 --> 00:13:33,730 For whatever reason people are unable to do so today 216 00:13:33,730 --> 00:13:39,730 It is the beginning of deviation and the breaking of the walls of maintaining chastity 217 00:13:39,730 --> 00:13:41,730 The cover is falling apart 218 00:13:41,730 --> 00:13:43,730 And modesty is lacking 219 00:13:43,730 --> 00:13:45,730 And chastity gnaws 220 00:13:45,730 --> 00:13:47,730 And the heart gets corrupted 221 00:13:47,730 --> 00:13:51,889 Worship becomes a form without a soul 222 00:13:51,889 --> 00:13:54,889 Whoever follows Mary, peace be upon him 223 00:13:54,889 --> 00:14:00,049 Let her review these methods of chastity in her life 224 00:14:00,049 --> 00:14:03,049 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 225 00:14:03,049 --> 00:14:06,049 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds