In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
The story of Maryam, Imran’s daughter
Peace be upon him
Mary, the chaste and pure
God Almighty praised Mary in his book
He described it as chastity and purity
And He said, Glory be to Him
And she who guarded her chastity, so We breathed into her of Our Spirit
And We made it and its sons a sign to the worlds
And God Almighty said
And Maryam, the daughter of Imran, who protected her chastity
So we breathed into him of our spirit
She believed in the words of her Lord and His books and was one of the obedient
And God Almighty said
And when the angels said, O Mary!
God has chosen you and purified you
And He chose you over the women of the worlds
Ibn Jarir al-Tabari, may God have mercy on him, said
What he means by saying: “I am protected, I am protected.”
She prevented her private parts from what God had forbidden her to allow
Meaning, it protected him from suspicion and prevented him from immorality
Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said
That is, she protected him and protected him from immorality
For the perfection of her religion, chastity and integrity
Al-Tahir bin Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said
The horse makes something strong
That is, he does not follow it
What it means is that she withheld her private parts from men
Chastity is one of the greatest morals for a girl
It is to preserve the supply
From being desecrated in any way
And in the story of Mary, peace be upon him
References to practical means
Which helps every girl maintain her chastity
The first of these means
Preoccupation with worship during youth
Whoever grows up with something will grow up with it
And Mary, peace be upon him
She occupied herself from the beginning of her youth
With worship and obedience
Which made her feel comfortable with God
And the heart is preoccupied with remembrance of Him
And whose heart is occupied with God
You have risen above laziness in morals
And actions that desecrate her honor
I stayed away from places that arouse desires and instincts
And who has tasted the pleasure of being intimate with God
She did not look for comfort in anyone else
Through social media
The second method
Avoid mixing with people a lot
God Almighty says, praising the action of Mary, peace be upon him
And mention in the book Maryam when she withdrew from her family to an eastern place
Ibn Jarir al-Tabari, may God have mercy on him, said
God Almighty says mentioning it to His Prophet Muhammad, may God bless him and grant him peace
And remember, O Muhammad, in the Book of God which He revealed to you in truth
Maryam, Imran’s daughter
When she isolated herself from her family and separated from them
Abu Zahra, may God have mercy on him, said
The meaning is that she isolated herself from people and shunned them
She was alone to worship God alone
You can't be happy without Him
Her heart does not live except with his remembrance
Mary’s isolation, peace be upon her, from people gave her life in the heart
Devote yourself to worshiping God
Avoid excessive idle talk and useless talk
Therefore, the Arabs in the past used to allocate a place for the girl when she reached puberty
People isolate themselves there
And her mixing with them decreases
May life grow and increase
So set an example in life
He made her modesty a standard among people
Even the Companions said in describing the modesty of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was more shy than a virgin in her numbness
Narrated by Al-Bukhari
The chaste girl
She maintains her chastity by maintaining the great wall surrounding chastity
And it is life
Which if part of it is demolished
Chastity was affected by the extent to which he fell from the wall of life
He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
It is from what people realized from the words of the first prophecy
If you are not ashamed, do whatever you want
Narrated by Al-Bukhari
The life of girls today is in co-educational fields
and mixed works
And her audacity to compete with men
It weakens the wall of modesty surrounding her chastity
Who fears for her modesty?
I did as the two good girls did
God Almighty said
And what was reported, what is owed
He found a nation of people providing water
And besides him, he found two women fleeing
He said what's wrong with you
God Almighty said: Give us water until the shepherds depart
Our father is a great sheikh
The first sign of the advantage of the two girls
It is that they should not compete with men for watering
Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said
That is, when he reached Midian and received its waters
It had a well supplied by Ra'a Al-Shaq
He found a nation of people providing water
Which group do they water?
And besides him, he found two women fleeing
That is, they are enough for their sheep to be returned with the sheep of those shepherds
Because it doesn't hurt
When Moses, peace be upon him, saw them
Have mercy on them and have mercy on them
He said what's wrong with you
That is, what do you think, you will not be rejected with these people
God Almighty said: Give us water until the shepherds depart
That is, we do not get watering until after they have finished
Our father is a great sheikh
That is, this is the situation that gives us refuge in what you see
Today, girls are involved in mixed communication groups
And follow famous men on social media
His fingerprints appear on her heart and her life
The third method
Cover up
Maryam, peace be upon him, was keen to cover herself in her life
So a special place was allocated for her to worship
He covered him with a veil to protect him from people
God Almighty said
And mention in the Book Maryam when she withdrew from her family to an eastern place
So she took a veil from them
Ibn Jarir al-Tabari, may God have mercy on him, said
He says
So she took a cover from her family to protect her from them and from the people
Ibn Attiya, may God have mercy on him, said
She took it to hide it from people to worship her
Ibn Katheer, may God have mercy on him, said
That is, she hid from them and hid
Cover up
It is the greatest wall surrounding the wall of modesty and chastity
Which if perforated
Modesty broke through with him immediately
It weakened to the extent that the wall of concealment affected the girl’s life
And if Mary, peace be upon him, had hidden herself from the eyes of people in general
In order to protect her heart from hypocrisy
And people intended to worship her
She has also hidden herself from every man who is not permitted to look at her
Whoever covers herself with a veil that prevents her family from seeing her
In her place, she prays, remembers God, and worships Him
The freedom to cover her body if she leaves her niche for any reason
The chaste girl
The first steps of her chastity are known from her clothing, which indicates her level of modesty
From the way she walks and her behavior on public roads
God Almighty said
Then one of them came to him, walking timidly
Al-Tahir bin Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said
The meaning is that she is shy when walking
That is, she walks without strutting, bending over, or showing adornment
The girl does not succeed in achieving this method
Except by complying with two great hadiths
The first
On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Two types of people in Hell that I have not seen
People with whips like cow tails, with which they beat people
And women who are clothed and naked
Slanted slants
Their heads are like the inclined humps of a camel
They will not enter heaven
And they cannot smell its scent
Its scent can be smelled from such and such a distance
Narrated by Muslim
And the second
On the authority of Osama bin Zaid, may God be pleased with him, he said
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, clothed me
Dense Coptic
It was a gift given to her by Dahiya al-Kalbi
So my woman clothed her
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to me
Why don't you wear Coptic?
I said, O Messenger of God
My woman covered it
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to me
Marry it and put a gulag underneath it
I am afraid to describe the size of her bones
Narrated by Ahmed
I ask every girl to hope for what is with God and the Hereafter
Think about these two hadiths
Their meaning is clearly known
Then she looks at her clothes and herself
And extending her distance from what is mentioned in the two hadiths
The fourth method
Sensitivity to men approaching her
Mary, peace be upon him, was in her prayer niche, worshiping
When the king entered her in the form of a man
So I was terrified
Her reaction was evidence of her perfect chastity
God Almighty said
So we sent our spirit to her
She represents a normal human being for her
She said: I seek refuge in the Most Merciful from you if you are pious
Ibn Jarir, may God have mercy on him, said
God Almighty says mention him
Then Maryam feared our Messenger
It represents to her a normal human being
She thought he was a man who wanted her for herself
A chaste woman does not come physically close to men
Even if a man approaches her physically
She was motivated and gathered herself so that he would not touch her
This feeling
This sensitivity to men approaching women
Evidence of her chastity
This sensitivity is transmitted from being physically close to men
To get closer morally
When a chaste woman feels that a man who is not her mahram is communicating with her through social media
Without necessity or need
You must be sensitive to that
As for opening the way for the girl
To sit with men at the same table in public and private squares
For whatever reason people are unable to do so today
It is the beginning of deviation and the breaking of the walls of maintaining chastity
The cover is falling apart
And modesty is lacking
And chastity gnaws
And the heart gets corrupted
Worship becomes a form without a soul
Whoever follows Mary, peace be upon him
Let her review these methods of chastity in her life
We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds