WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.759 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 00:00:03.759 --> 00:00:07.860 The story of Maryam, Imran’s daughter 00:00:07.860 --> 00:00:10.419 Peace be upon him 00:00:10.419 --> 00:00:19.980 Mary, the chaste and pure 00:00:19.980 --> 00:00:23.699 God Almighty praised Mary in his book 00:00:23.699 --> 00:00:26.539 He described it as chastity and purity 00:00:26.539 --> 00:00:28.539 And He said, Glory be to Him 00:00:28.539 --> 00:00:33.729 And she who guarded her chastity, so We breathed into her of Our Spirit 00:00:33.929 --> 00:00:38.549 And We made it and its sons a sign to the worlds 00:00:38.549 --> 00:00:40.710 And God Almighty said 00:00:40.710 --> 00:00:44.789 And Maryam, the daughter of Imran, who protected her chastity 00:00:44.789 --> 00:00:47.590 So we breathed into him of our spirit 00:00:47.590 --> 00:00:53.630 She believed in the words of her Lord and His books and was one of the obedient 00:00:53.630 --> 00:00:55.759 And God Almighty said 00:00:55.759 --> 00:01:00.439 And when the angels said, O Mary! 00:01:00.439 --> 00:01:04.040 God has chosen you and purified you 00:01:04.040 --> 00:01:10.870 And He chose you over the women of the worlds 00:01:10.870 --> 00:01:14.150 Ibn Jarir al-Tabari, may God have mercy on him, said 00:01:14.150 --> 00:01:18.269 What he means by saying: “I am protected, I am protected.” 00:01:18.269 --> 00:01:23.670 She prevented her private parts from what God had forbidden her to allow 00:01:23.670 --> 00:01:29.030 Meaning, it protected him from suspicion and prevented him from immorality 00:01:29.189 --> 00:01:31.829 Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said 00:01:31.829 --> 00:01:35.109 That is, she protected him and protected him from immorality 00:01:35.109 --> 00:01:39.469 For the perfection of her religion, chastity and integrity 00:01:39.469 --> 00:01:42.790 Al-Tahir bin Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said 00:01:42.790 --> 00:01:46.590 The horse makes something strong 00:01:46.590 --> 00:01:48.750 That is, he does not follow it 00:01:48.750 --> 00:01:53.310 What it means is that she withheld her private parts from men 00:01:53.310 --> 00:01:56.709 Chastity is one of the greatest morals for a girl 00:01:56.750 --> 00:01:58.950 It is to preserve the supply 00:01:58.950 --> 00:02:03.019 From being desecrated in any way 00:02:03.019 --> 00:02:05.739 And in the story of Mary, peace be upon him 00:02:05.739 --> 00:02:08.340 References to practical means 00:02:08.340 --> 00:02:13.280 Which helps every girl maintain her chastity 00:02:13.280 --> 00:02:15.719 The first of these means 00:02:15.719 --> 00:02:19.560 Preoccupation with worship during youth 00:02:19.560 --> 00:02:23.150 Whoever grows up with something will grow up with it 00:02:23.150 --> 00:02:25.229 And Mary, peace be upon him 00:02:25.270 --> 00:02:28.110 She occupied herself from the beginning of her youth 00:02:28.110 --> 00:02:30.229 With worship and obedience 00:02:30.229 --> 00:02:33.270 Which made her feel comfortable with God 00:02:33.270 --> 00:02:36.099 And the heart is preoccupied with remembrance of Him 00:02:36.099 --> 00:02:38.659 And whose heart is occupied with God 00:02:38.659 --> 00:02:41.180 You have risen above laziness in morals 00:02:41.180 --> 00:02:44.699 And actions that desecrate her honor 00:02:44.699 --> 00:02:49.419 I stayed away from places that arouse desires and instincts 00:02:49.419 --> 00:02:52.219 And who has tasted the pleasure of being intimate with God 00:02:52.219 --> 00:02:54.419 She did not look for comfort in anyone else 00:02:54.419 --> 00:02:58.389 Through social media 00:02:58.389 --> 00:03:00.550 The second method 00:03:00.550 --> 00:03:04.430 Avoid mixing with people a lot 00:03:04.430 --> 00:03:08.909 God Almighty says, praising the action of Mary, peace be upon him 00:03:08.909 --> 00:03:15.860 And mention in the book Maryam when she withdrew from her family to an eastern place 00:03:15.860 --> 00:03:19.219 Ibn Jarir al-Tabari, may God have mercy on him, said 00:03:19.219 --> 00:03:25.129 God Almighty says mentioning it to His Prophet Muhammad, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:03:25.129 --> 00:03:30.370 And remember, O Muhammad, in the Book of God which He revealed to you in truth 00:03:30.370 --> 00:03:32.449 Maryam, Imran’s daughter 00:03:32.449 --> 00:03:36.449 When she isolated herself from her family and separated from them 00:03:36.449 --> 00:03:39.330 Abu Zahra, may God have mercy on him, said 00:03:39.330 --> 00:03:43.370 The meaning is that she isolated herself from people and shunned them 00:03:43.370 --> 00:03:46.370 She was alone to worship God alone 00:03:46.370 --> 00:03:48.409 You can't be happy without Him 00:03:48.449 --> 00:03:52.360 Her heart does not live except with his remembrance 00:03:52.360 --> 00:03:57.800 Mary’s isolation, peace be upon her, from people gave her life in the heart 00:03:57.800 --> 00:04:00.439 Devote yourself to worshiping God 00:04:00.439 --> 00:04:05.360 Avoid excessive idle talk and useless talk 00:04:05.360 --> 00:04:11.319 Therefore, the Arabs in the past used to allocate a place for the girl when she reached puberty 00:04:11.319 --> 00:04:13.400 People isolate themselves there 00:04:13.400 --> 00:04:15.800 And her mixing with them decreases 00:04:15.800 --> 00:04:19.079 May life grow and increase 00:04:19.079 --> 00:04:22.279 So set an example in life 00:04:22.279 --> 00:04:26.000 He made her modesty a standard among people 00:04:26.000 --> 00:04:31.759 Even the Companions said in describing the modesty of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:04:31.759 --> 00:04:38.800 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was more shy than a virgin in her numbness 00:04:38.800 --> 00:04:41.180 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 00:04:41.180 --> 00:04:43.180 The chaste girl 00:04:43.180 --> 00:04:48.660 She maintains her chastity by maintaining the great wall surrounding chastity 00:04:48.660 --> 00:04:50.180 And it is life 00:04:50.180 --> 00:04:52.740 Which if part of it is demolished 00:04:52.740 --> 00:04:57.860 Chastity was affected by the extent to which he fell from the wall of life 00:04:57.860 --> 00:05:00.740 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:05:00.740 --> 00:05:05.500 It is from what people realized from the words of the first prophecy 00:05:05.500 --> 00:05:08.899 If you are not ashamed, do whatever you want 00:05:08.899 --> 00:05:11.089 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 00:05:11.129 --> 00:05:15.649 The life of girls today is in co-educational fields 00:05:15.649 --> 00:05:17.810 and mixed works 00:05:17.810 --> 00:05:21.009 And her audacity to compete with men 00:05:21.009 --> 00:05:25.519 It weakens the wall of modesty surrounding her chastity 00:05:25.519 --> 00:05:28.120 Who fears for her modesty? 00:05:28.120 --> 00:05:31.920 I did as the two good girls did 00:05:31.920 --> 00:05:33.720 God Almighty said 00:05:33.720 --> 00:05:38.319 And what was reported, what is owed 00:05:38.360 --> 00:05:46.120 He found a nation of people providing water 00:05:46.120 --> 00:05:51.839 And besides him, he found two women fleeing 00:05:51.839 --> 00:05:54.639 He said what's wrong with you 00:05:54.639 --> 00:06:01.959 God Almighty said: Give us water until the shepherds depart 00:06:01.959 --> 00:06:07.139 Our father is a great sheikh 00:06:07.180 --> 00:06:10.579 The first sign of the advantage of the two girls 00:06:10.579 --> 00:06:14.829 It is that they should not compete with men for watering 00:06:14.829 --> 00:06:17.629 Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said 00:06:17.629 --> 00:06:21.870 That is, when he reached Midian and received its waters 00:06:21.870 --> 00:06:25.750 It had a well supplied by Ra'a Al-Shaq 00:06:25.750 --> 00:06:30.269 He found a nation of people providing water 00:06:30.269 --> 00:06:32.750 Which group do they water? 00:06:32.750 --> 00:06:36.829 And besides him, he found two women fleeing 00:06:36.870 --> 00:06:41.910 That is, they are enough for their sheep to be returned with the sheep of those shepherds 00:06:41.910 --> 00:06:44.220 Because it doesn't hurt 00:06:44.220 --> 00:06:47.339 When Moses, peace be upon him, saw them 00:06:47.339 --> 00:06:50.139 Have mercy on them and have mercy on them 00:06:50.139 --> 00:06:52.339 He said what's wrong with you 00:06:52.339 --> 00:06:56.769 That is, what do you think, you will not be rejected with these people 00:06:56.769 --> 00:07:00.930 God Almighty said: Give us water until the shepherds depart 00:07:00.930 --> 00:07:06.009 That is, we do not get watering until after they have finished 00:07:06.009 --> 00:07:09.009 Our father is a great sheikh 00:07:09.009 --> 00:07:14.550 That is, this is the situation that gives us refuge in what you see 00:07:14.550 --> 00:07:19.149 Today, girls are involved in mixed communication groups 00:07:19.149 --> 00:07:23.550 And follow famous men on social media 00:07:23.550 --> 00:07:28.139 His fingerprints appear on her heart and her life 00:07:28.139 --> 00:07:30.220 The third method 00:07:30.220 --> 00:07:31.810 Cover up 00:07:31.810 --> 00:07:36.290 Maryam, peace be upon him, was keen to cover herself in her life 00:07:36.290 --> 00:07:40.610 So a special place was allocated for her to worship 00:07:40.610 --> 00:07:44.649 He covered him with a veil to protect him from people 00:07:44.649 --> 00:07:46.490 God Almighty said 00:07:46.490 --> 00:07:53.490 And mention in the Book Maryam when she withdrew from her family to an eastern place 00:07:53.490 --> 00:07:57.339 So she took a veil from them 00:07:57.339 --> 00:08:00.620 Ibn Jarir al-Tabari, may God have mercy on him, said 00:08:00.620 --> 00:08:02.019 He says 00:08:02.019 --> 00:08:07.819 So she took a cover from her family to protect her from them and from the people 00:08:07.819 --> 00:08:10.620 Ibn Attiya, may God have mercy on him, said 00:08:10.620 --> 00:08:15.850 She took it to hide it from people to worship her 00:08:15.850 --> 00:08:18.850 Ibn Katheer, may God have mercy on him, said 00:08:18.850 --> 00:08:22.079 That is, she hid from them and hid 00:08:22.079 --> 00:08:23.480 Cover up 00:08:23.480 --> 00:08:27.879 It is the greatest wall surrounding the wall of modesty and chastity 00:08:27.879 --> 00:08:29.680 Which if perforated 00:08:29.680 --> 00:08:32.879 Modesty broke through with him immediately 00:08:32.879 --> 00:08:38.669 It weakened to the extent that the wall of concealment affected the girl’s life 00:08:38.669 --> 00:08:44.669 And if Mary, peace be upon him, had hidden herself from the eyes of people in general 00:08:44.669 --> 00:08:48.070 In order to protect her heart from hypocrisy 00:08:48.070 --> 00:08:51.070 And people intended to worship her 00:08:51.070 --> 00:08:57.940 She has also hidden herself from every man who is not permitted to look at her 00:08:57.940 --> 00:09:02.940 Whoever covers herself with a veil that prevents her family from seeing her 00:09:02.940 --> 00:09:08.139 In her place, she prays, remembers God, and worships Him 00:09:08.139 --> 00:09:15.700 The freedom to cover her body if she leaves her niche for any reason 00:09:15.700 --> 00:09:17.700 The chaste girl 00:09:17.700 --> 00:09:24.100 The first steps of her chastity are known from her clothing, which indicates her level of modesty 00:09:24.100 --> 00:09:29.100 From the way she walks and her behavior on public roads 00:09:29.100 --> 00:09:30.899 God Almighty said 00:09:30.899 --> 00:09:35.220 Then one of them came to him, walking timidly 00:09:35.220 --> 00:09:38.419 Al-Tahir bin Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said 00:09:38.419 --> 00:09:43.220 The meaning is that she is shy when walking 00:09:43.220 --> 00:09:49.750 That is, she walks without strutting, bending over, or showing adornment 00:09:49.750 --> 00:09:53.549 The girl does not succeed in achieving this method 00:09:53.549 --> 00:09:57.549 Except by complying with two great hadiths 00:09:57.549 --> 00:09:59.649 The first 00:09:59.649 --> 00:10:02.649 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said 00:10:02.649 --> 00:10:06.649 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:10:06.649 --> 00:10:10.649 Two types of people in Hell that I have not seen 00:10:10.649 --> 00:10:16.649 People with whips like cow tails, with which they beat people 00:10:16.649 --> 00:10:19.649 And women who are clothed and naked 00:10:19.649 --> 00:10:21.649 Slanted slants 00:10:21.649 --> 00:10:25.649 Their heads are like the inclined humps of a camel 00:10:25.649 --> 00:10:27.649 They will not enter heaven 00:10:27.649 --> 00:10:29.649 And they cannot smell its scent 00:10:29.649 --> 00:10:34.649 Its scent can be smelled from such and such a distance 00:10:34.649 --> 00:10:36.870 Narrated by Muslim 00:10:36.870 --> 00:10:37.870 And the second 00:10:37.870 --> 00:10:42.870 On the authority of Osama bin Zaid, may God be pleased with him, he said 00:10:42.870 --> 00:10:45.870 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, clothed me 00:10:45.870 --> 00:10:47.870 Dense Coptic 00:10:47.870 --> 00:10:51.870 It was a gift given to her by Dahiya al-Kalbi 00:10:51.870 --> 00:10:53.870 So my woman clothed her 00:10:53.870 --> 00:10:57.870 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to me 00:10:57.870 --> 00:11:00.870 Why don't you wear Coptic? 00:11:00.870 --> 00:11:02.870 I said, O Messenger of God 00:11:02.870 --> 00:11:04.870 My woman covered it 00:11:04.870 --> 00:11:08.870 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to me 00:11:08.870 --> 00:11:12.870 Marry it and put a gulag underneath it 00:11:12.870 --> 00:11:16.870 I am afraid to describe the size of her bones 00:11:16.870 --> 00:11:18.970 Narrated by Ahmed 00:11:18.970 --> 00:11:24.970 I ask every girl to hope for what is with God and the Hereafter 00:11:24.970 --> 00:11:27.970 Think about these two hadiths 00:11:27.970 --> 00:11:30.970 Their meaning is clearly known 00:11:30.970 --> 00:11:33.970 Then she looks at her clothes and herself 00:11:33.970 --> 00:11:37.970 And extending her distance from what is mentioned in the two hadiths 00:11:37.970 --> 00:11:40.320 The fourth method 00:11:40.320 --> 00:11:44.450 Sensitivity to men approaching her 00:11:44.450 --> 00:11:49.610 Mary, peace be upon him, was in her prayer niche, worshiping 00:11:49.610 --> 00:11:52.610 When the king entered her in the form of a man 00:11:52.610 --> 00:11:54.610 So I was terrified 00:11:54.610 --> 00:11:59.669 Her reaction was evidence of her perfect chastity 00:11:59.669 --> 00:12:01.740 God Almighty said 00:12:01.740 --> 00:12:05.740 So we sent our spirit to her 00:12:05.740 --> 00:12:10.740 She represents a normal human being for her 00:12:10.740 --> 00:12:20.740 She said: I seek refuge in the Most Merciful from you if you are pious 00:12:20.740 --> 00:12:24.279 Ibn Jarir, may God have mercy on him, said 00:12:24.279 --> 00:12:26.279 God Almighty says mention him 00:12:26.279 --> 00:12:29.279 Then Maryam feared our Messenger 00:12:29.279 --> 00:12:32.279 It represents to her a normal human being 00:12:32.279 --> 00:12:36.279 She thought he was a man who wanted her for herself 00:12:36.279 --> 00:12:41.539 A chaste woman does not come physically close to men 00:12:41.539 --> 00:12:44.539 Even if a man approaches her physically 00:12:44.539 --> 00:12:49.539 She was motivated and gathered herself so that he would not touch her 00:12:49.539 --> 00:12:51.600 This feeling 00:12:51.600 --> 00:12:55.600 This sensitivity to men approaching women 00:12:55.600 --> 00:12:57.600 Evidence of her chastity 00:12:57.600 --> 00:13:02.730 This sensitivity is transmitted from being physically close to men 00:13:02.730 --> 00:13:05.730 To get closer morally 00:13:05.730 --> 00:13:13.730 When a chaste woman feels that a man who is not her mahram is communicating with her through social media 00:13:13.730 --> 00:13:16.730 Without necessity or need 00:13:16.730 --> 00:13:19.730 You must be sensitive to that 00:13:19.730 --> 00:13:22.730 As for opening the way for the girl 00:13:22.730 --> 00:13:28.730 To sit with men at the same table in public and private squares 00:13:28.730 --> 00:13:33.730 For whatever reason people are unable to do so today 00:13:33.730 --> 00:13:39.730 It is the beginning of deviation and the breaking of the walls of maintaining chastity 00:13:39.730 --> 00:13:41.730 The cover is falling apart 00:13:41.730 --> 00:13:43.730 And modesty is lacking 00:13:43.730 --> 00:13:45.730 And chastity gnaws 00:13:45.730 --> 00:13:47.730 And the heart gets corrupted 00:13:47.730 --> 00:13:51.889 Worship becomes a form without a soul 00:13:51.889 --> 00:13:54.889 Whoever follows Mary, peace be upon him 00:13:54.889 --> 00:14:00.049 Let her review these methods of chastity in her life 00:14:00.049 --> 00:14:03.049 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 00:14:03.049 --> 00:14:06.049 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds